Retirement is
one of the most important milestones of a person’s life. So, for those of us hard-working
(and lucky) enough to actually be able to retire, it is only natural that we
would want to scream about our success from the rooftops.

There’s just
one problem… talking about your retirement too early could be one of the worst
financial decisions that you ever make. Not only could it cost you bonuses and opportunities
in the short term, but, it could severely limit your future earning potential.
And, trust me, even if you think that you won’t need any additional money in
retirement, chances are, you will!

So, here are 3 reasons that you may want to keep your retirement plans to yourself, even if you never plan on working again in the future.

Don’t Be a Lame Duck Employee

No matter
which kind of company you work for, chances are you are pretty used to dealing
with workplace politics. By now, you have encountered pushy co-workers who seem
to rise through the ranks despite their lack of tangible skills. And, you have
spent plenty of time around managers who have their favorite employees despite
their claims of neutrality.

Even at the
best run companies, the performance review process is messy, political and ruthless.
The last thing you want to do is give your boss one more reason to “push you
off the boat” in favor of a younger employee with years ahead of them. This is
especially true in companies that grade employees based on a curve.

But, if you
think about it, this is exactly what you do when you start talking about your
retirement plans too early; you are signaling to your manager (and his boss)
that you are no longer a long-term bet for the company. Why would they go the
extra mile for you if you are already sitting in the dugout, drinking the
retirement Kool-Aid.

So, my advice
is this… if you care about your bonus, performance review and potential salary
increase, don’t be in a hurry to talk about your upcoming retirement. Trust me!
Any small ego boost that you receive will be crushed under the weight of missed
financial opportunities.

Keep Your Options Open for the Future

Over the last
few years, I have talked to hundreds of men and women who have successfully
launched a consulting business in retirement. And, do you know where 90% of
them got their first customers? That’s right! From their previous employer or other
businesses that they had worked with in the past.

“Retirement” is a powerful word that conjures strong emotions. When you tell others that you are retiring, they immediately start to put you in the “Relaxing on the beach and playing golf” category. They just can’t help it. It’s human nature to categorize others based on their life stage.

So, even if
you do plan on relaxing for some (or all) of your retirement years, if there is
even the smallest possibility that you will want to work again in the future,
you may be better off telling your co-workers and business partners that you
are leaving to start your own business.

Who cares if
you actually do this or not? At least you will give yourself more options!

Then, as you
transition away from your day job, make sure that you stay in touch with everyone
on LinkedIn. Congratulate them on their career moves and pay attention to when
they are mentioned in the press. There is no downside (and plenty of upside) to
staying engaged!

Don’t Trick Yourself into Black and White Thinking About
Retirement

The last
reason to keep your retirement a secret has to do with your own psychology. Our
perceptions of retirement are formed over the decades by what we see on TV,
movies and on the Internet. The truth is that “retirement” is not as simple a
concept as society would like us to believe.

When you start to talk about your future retirement plans, you make it less likely that you will be willing to change course if your situation changes. For example, if you think that retirement means playing golf 3 times a week, traveling and playing with the grandkids, you will feel like a failure if you end up needing to work part-time to make ends meet. And, this may make you less likely to do what it takes to build a comfortable life in retirement.

The truth is
that no-one knows what retirement will be like until it arrives. Even then, it
sometimes takes years for the reality of your new situation to sink in.

Maybe you will find that you don’t actually hate working after all… just working at that company. Perhaps you will hang up your beach towel in favor of new psychology textbooks… or sell your house to volunteer in Africa. Who knows? Not me! And, probably not you either!

At the end of
the day, what you do in retirement (or if you even choose to retire) is nobody’s
business but your own. So, don’t trade a few half-hearted pats on the back for
a less secure retirement. Stay engaged, keep your options open and embrace the
final third or your life with passion and purpose.

Do you plan
on talking about your retirement plans? Why or why not? Let’s have a
conversation!

Kristin Cavallari’s White Cut Out Dress in Italy Meeting her Family

Very Cavallari Season 3 Instagram Fashion

Kristin Cavallari’s white cut out dress in Italy has to be one of my favorite looks of she has worn. I absolutely love everything about it. The lace sleeve, the cut outs, and the hi-low skirt that gives it a feminine and flowy look. It’s the perfect dress to wear for finding yourself and meeting your famiglia.

Kristin took the DNA test to get more information about her family and where she comes from, much like I did awhile back and found out I’m 70% Northwest European and had no clue! As she makes the trek to Italy to learn more about the Very Cavallari’s, it really inspired me.  It makes me 100% want be like Kristin and make a trip to find more about myself, wearing a white lace detail cutout dress exactly like Kristin’s, of course.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

Click Here To See Her Sold Out Marissa Webb White Benson Dress

Photo Credit: @verycavallari

Originally posted at: Kristin Cavallari’s White Cut Out Dress

While winged liner, a cat-eye, will be a classic forever, there’s a new eyeliner trend in town that’s gaining speed: floating liner. And if you’re going to try the trend, you’ll need to shop some of the best eyeliners of 2020—so far. We saw the trend on celebrities including Dove Cameron, Yara Shahidi and Jodie Turner-Smith all in different iterations. Each rocked silver, black and blue respectively in totally fresh and new ways.

The best way to describe floating eyeliner is basically any line around the eyes that’s not anchored to anything else. It’s at least mostly not on the lash line. Instead, the line is more in the eyelid crease or to the sides where a cat-eye would be. Floating eyeliner is all about creativity so you can go a little crazy with it and it still looks trendy. You can get wild with colors and textures, too. Black is always chic when it comes to eyeliner but colorful hues of blue and pink feel new. Feeling even more daring? Go for a glitter line or a bold metallic swipe.

Eyeliner trends are especially easy to recreate because you can find fun shades at affordable prices. To be honest, drugstore eyeliner is often just as good as those from luxe brands. Just make sure you use some kind of eyeshadow primer and it’ll stay put. Shop some of our favorite picks below that have launched this year starting at less than $5. Experiment with purple and green for an especially spring-ready look.

COVERGIRL.

CoverGirl Get In Line Active Eyeliner

A perfect black that’s not going to budge.

Buy: Get In Line Active Eyeliner $5.69

Dose of Colors.

Dose of Colors Minnie Glitter Eyeliner

Give gold glitter a try for a night out.

Fenty Beauty.

Fenty Beauty Flyliner Longwear Liquid Eyeliner

Channel spring’s runways with bold pink.

Huda Beauty.

Huda Beauty Life Liner Double-Ended Eyeliner

This dual-sided eyeliner helps you creates all kinds of creative looks

Ilia.

Ilia Clean Line Liquid Eyeliner

Another black line but this one is has a totally “clean” formula.

Marc Jacobs Beauty.

Marc Jacobs Beauty Highliner Liquid Gel Eyeliner

Take it from me—this blue liner stands out and stays put.

Maybelline.

Maybelline Lasting Drama Light Liner

White is surprisingly chic and unexpected.

Buy: Lasting Drama Light Liner $4.49

Tom Ford.

Tom Ford Emotionproof Eyeliner

Hunter green is an update on the classic black.

Urban Decay.

Urban Decay Limited-Edition Wired 24/7 Glide-On Eye Pencil

Mix this bright purple with another black line for a seriously trendy vibe.

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Kristin Cavallari’s Sunglasses in Italy

Season 3 Episode 9 Very Cavallari Fashion

Kristin Cavallari’s sunglasses in Italy are an awesome find. Sometimes looking for celebrity sunglasses is tough for me because they are so different, but yet so similar! With many colors, shapes, and sizes it can be hard to find the exact pair I’m looking for. And as if finding sunglasses wasn’t hard enough for me, keeping them seems to be difficult too. I was recently in Austin, TX and my sunglasses didn’t end up making it back home with me. So I’m actually in the market for a new pair myself. Fortunately, Kristin did us all a solid and said where they were from. Thank goodness too because they are so cute AND on sale!

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

Click Here To Shop Her Saint Laurent Black Sunglasses

Photo Credit: @kristincavallari

Originally posted at: Kristin Cavallari’s Sunglasses in Italy