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Somewhere in the swirl of raising families, building careers, and showing up for everyone else, many women reach a point where they notice something unsettling: they feel invisible. It’s not that you’ve stopped existing; it’s that people, opportunities, and sometimes even conversations seem to pass right by you.

This “invisibility” isn’t your imagination. Society often places its spotlight on the young and overlooks the wisdom, style, and substance of women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to fade into the background. You can step back into your spotlight, confident, magnetic, and fully seen.

Here are some tips on how to ignite your sparkle!

1. Reconnect with Who You Are Now

You’ve changed. Your dreams, style, and energy are different from your 20-something self. Take time to rediscover what excites you today – whether that’s bold fashion, a new hobby, or a cause you care about. Books like Untamed by Glennon Doyle or The Confidence Code by Katty Kay & Claire Shipman can help you tune into your authentic self and own your power.

2. Own Your Presence

Posture, eye contact, and a warm smile are powerful non-verbal cues. Stand tall, keep your shoulders back, and look people in the eye when you speak. Joining a local speaking club or interest group can help you practice being in the spotlight again. These small shifts signal confidence before you even say a word.

3. Speak Up and Share Your Perspective

You’ve lived, learned, and earned your wisdom; don’t keep it hidden. Share your insights in meetings, social settings, or online communities. Listening to podcasts like Midlife Matters, Women in the Middle, or shows that feature stories of reinvention can inspire you to use your voice.

4. Infuse Your Days with High-Vibe Energy

Your “vibration” is the mood and energy you carry. Create a simple morning ritual. Perhaps a 5-minute gratitude journal prompt, a brisk walk outside, or an energizing playlist to start your day strong. Daily practices like movement, journaling, and connecting with uplifting people help you stay magnetic.

To boost your vibration even more, try these journaling prompts:

• Where in my life do I already feel confident and visible?
• What small action can I take today to show up more fully?
• How can I convey joy through my movements, speech, and interactions with others?
• What’s one thing I’d love to be known for in this season of my life?

5. Refresh Your Outer Look to Match Your Inner Glow

This isn’t about chasing trends; it’s about feeling current and expressing your personality. Try a fresh haircut, a bold accessory, or colors that make you feel alive. Even small changes can shift how others perceive and approach you. One of my favorite resources is Beth Garrett from Elevating Your Image! Beth takes the time to help you regain your confidence and MOJO!

6. Engage with Curiosity

Instead of waiting to be noticed, notice others. Ask genuine questions, listen deeply, and make people feel seen. When you show interest, you become interesting.

Remember, you don’t have to do this alone. Sometimes, a fresh perspective from a coach can help you see yourself in a new light and create a plan to be noticed for all the right reasons. I work with women navigating midlife transitions to boost clarity, confidence, and visibility in ways that feel authentic.

You’ve already walked through decades of challenges, victories, and lessons. You are more than worthy of taking up space and being fully visible.

Step forward.

Lift your head.

The world is ready for your light, so let it shine!

Challenge yourself this week by choosing one suggestion from above, and see how you feel about yourself and those around you.

I’d Love to Hear from You!

How have you managed this stage of your life? What’s worked for you, and what wisdom can you share with others? Please tell us in the comments.

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Recently, my partner and I made our first trip to Greece and we was lucky enough to get to visit two Greek islands. I was blown away. I will be writing a separate article for each island as they were such different experiences from each other. Each incredible in its own way.

Taking the Ferry

We took the Ibiscus Ferry from Fetiyhe, Turkey to the Greek island of Rhodes. It only took about an hour and 50 minutes and cost $43.00. The ferry is like a cruise ship, it had several decks of comfortable seating, air-conditioning, nice restrooms, and several cafes and snack bars. The ferry was pulling into the ancient port in the Old City of Rhodes Harbor before I knew it.

We stayed at a nice boutique hotel in the old town of Rhodes, which is contained within the ancient city walls. As it turned out, from the harbor, we were in walking distance to one of the historic city gates that led right to our hotel. Once you pass through the gate into the old town, it is pedestrian traffic only, except for the odd motorized cart making a delivery. These ancient cobbled streets were not built with cars in mind.

History, History, and More History

This place is a living museum containing centuries of history. History buff or not, you can’t help but appreciate its beauty and historical significance. I felt as if I was walking through time as I headed up the Street of the Knights of Rhodes. This 600-meter-long street begins at what was originally the hospital and ends at the Palace of the Grand Master. In between there are seven inns; one-time residences for each of the Knights of St. John Hospitaller.

Originally built in the seventh century as a Byzantine Citadel, 600 years later, in 1309, the Knights Hospitaller conquered and occupied Rhodes, taking it over as their administrative center and Palace of their Grand Master (head of the Order of Knights). The Order of Knights of St. John of Jerusalem were a military and religious order which fought in the crusades to defend the Holy Lands. This order still exists today helping the sick and the poor internationally. There is even an ancient hospice here that was for elderly knights and knights injured in battle.

The Palace in Rhodes

The palace is grand. I felt as if I had walked into a story book. This beautiful palace has 154 rooms, 24 of which are open to the public and showcase antiquities. Of special significance are some frescos by renowned artists along with great sections of the floors paved with ancient mosaics of Byzantine and Roman art.

There are many statues from the Greek and Roman era both inside and out in the gardens. The furniture and tapestries on the walls were outstanding. For 10 Euros a person you can get a combo ticket that includes the Palace and the Archeological Museum, which is not to be missed either. The artifacts there are amazing!

Going back as far as 305 BC, Rhodes was already enclosed by walls. Then the Greeks and Romans added more fortification when they took the city over. And again in 1309 when the Knights Hospitaller took over, they added even more – things like forts, towers, and an amazing moat that encircles the old city. Dry now, with a walking path through it, you can still see hundreds of enormous stone balls that were hurled by catapult at the city walls during countless battles that took place here.

The Rhodes Harbor Is a Busy Place

The harbor here, besides being a strategic Naval base for the Knights, is where the Colossus of Rhodes once stood – one of the seven wonders of the ancient world. Built of bronze in 280 BC, the statue stood 33 meters (108 feet) high. He only stood for 54 years, then a massive earthquake broke the statue off at the knees. The people took this as a bad omen and never tried to rebuild the Colossus. Over the next century, traders would come and haul pieces of the bronze away until it was all gone.

The harbor is still lined with ancient windmills that not only ground grain for export, but were also used as Naval lookout towers. Cruise ships do come into this harbor and it can get quite crowded and busy. But all day visitors see the sites, shop for souvenirs on the main street, eat, and then they are gone by late afternoon.

We found that when a ship was in, we could just stay a block or two back from the main street and enjoy picturesque alleyways and small local restaurants with no crowds. There is so much history inside these ancient city walls, way more than I can even begin to cover here. It really takes your breath away. It did mine anyway.

Please check out our video on Rhodes and Lindos.  

Exploring Lindos

After staying in Rhodes Old City for several days, we headed South, up the stunning rugged coastline to visit Lindos. Known for its beautiful beaches, the ancient acropolis, and picturesque cobblestone streets with whitewashed buildings. The streets of Lindos are continuous buildings, chiefly with interior courtyards.

Most of the houses have not been affected by time or changes in shape or use. They continue to be built from local quarried porous stones, or field stones, then plastered over and white washed. Its charming alleyways, expansive views, Mediterranean cuisine, and cosmopolitan atmosphere draw in everyone visiting the island of Rhodes.

Views Are Amazing

Lindos is a maze of narrow cobbled passages. As picturesque as it is, it can get very over crowded as bus loads of day trippers from the cruise ships flood the small town and small beach for the day. They are all gone by 3:00 in the afternoon to head back to the cruise ship. We stayed four nights in Lindos in a lovely little hotel that had a terrace with tremendous views. The Aegean Sea in front of us and the Acropolis on the hilltop behind.

The Acropolis of Ancient Times

The Lindos Acropolis, or fortified Ancient Greek city, stands at 116 meters above sea level. Blending in with the dramatic natural landscape, the Acropolis provides a breathtaking backdrop to the town below. This was the center of religious and socio-political life in ancient times.

Most of the important archeological monuments can be found at the Acropolis, these include the Hellenistic temple of the goddess Athena Lindia, which was built on the ruins of an already ancient temple. You can also find the Propyaea, an Ancient Greek portico. These both date back to the 3rd century BC. Although Athena remained the principal goddess of the temple, the cult of Zeus was introduced here by the Romans in 352 BC.

There is also the Stoa, another massive sheltered promenade built in 200 BC. A little out of place was the Byzantine chapel of St. John. As in Rhodes Old City, the Knights of St. John were here centuries later, from 1309 until 1522, when they were forced to hand the island of Rhodes over to the forces of the Sultan Suleiman the Magnificent. Other smaller ruins can be found scattered in and around Lindos.

There is not much flat walking in Lindos and we did have to climb a few flights of stairs to get up to our hotel. The only way to get to the Acropolis is to walk up the hill or ride a donkey. We walked up a couple of times and it was so worth it. We visited the Acropolis early in the morning and were some of the first in line. This was to avoid the heat and the crowds.

People were really lining up to get in by the time we were leaving so arriving early paid off. I think the island of Rhodes would be much more laid back during the shoulder season, but I am so glad we had the opportunity to visit when we did. Our next stop should be a more laid back and relaxing experience, the island of Karpathos.

You can also read more about our slow travels at farawaynowtravels.com.

Additional read, Which Are the Best Mediterranean Islands for a Walking Holiday?

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you visited any islands at all? Which ones and what was the experience like? Have you visited any of the Greek islands? Would you return if you had the chance?

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You may not have a chalkboard in your living room, but you’ve been teaching all your life. Think about it. You’ve shown little ones how to tie their shoes without tears, coached friends through “how on earth do I set up my new phone?” moments, and guided coworkers through challenges they thought were impossible. Whether you realized it or not, you’ve been in the business of sharing knowledge for decades.

And here’s the beautiful part: women over 60 are uniquely equipped to thrive as online teachers – often more so than younger folks with all their tech gadgets.

Life Experience Is Your Superpower

With 60+ years under your belt, you’ve gathered more than recipes, vacation memories, and old Christmas cards – you’ve built a library of wisdom. The internet is overflowing with “quick tips” and flashy how-to videos, but wisdom? That’s rare.

Take Carol, 62, who spent her career in office administration. When she retired, she created a simple online course showing small business owners how to organize their digital files so they could find things in seconds. It wasn’t glamorous, but it solved a real problem, and people gladly paid for her know-how.

Your experience – the problems you’ve solved, the skills you’ve refined – can help someone else take the fast lane instead of the long, frustrating route.

Patience in Spades

After raising children, working with every kind of boss imaginable, and surviving the screechy days of dial-up internet, you’ve developed patience that’s second to none.

Students thrive in a patient environment. Imagine learning to knit from someone who doesn’t mind explaining a step twice… or five times. That’s you.

Linda, 58, turned her love for baking into an online bread-making class. She often gets messages from students saying, “Thank you for not making me feel silly when I messed up the yeast step.” That patience is priceless – and it keeps students coming back.

Relatable, Warm, and Real

Online learners don’t just want information; they want connection. Your warmth, humor, and ability to tell a story make you instantly approachable. Once they know, like, and trust you, they will follow you wherever you want to take them.

As one student told her 65-year-old watercolor teacher, “I felt like I was learning from a friend, not just watching a video. I can’t wait to start the next one.” That’s the magic you bring – the kind that makes a student think, If she can do it, so can I.

“Your presence can feel like a warm cup of tea on a rainy day.” Corny, perhaps… but true.

You Don’t Need to Be ‘Techy’

Here’s a newsflash: you don’t need to be a tech wizard to create an online class. If you can send an email or make a video call, you’re already ahead of the game. Platforms today are designed so you can record lessons on your phone, upload them with a click, and start sharing without expensive gear or a complicated setup.

Judy, 70, films her online gardening tutorials with nothing but her smartphone propped up on a stack of books. Her students love it because it feels authentic – like she’s right there in the garden with them.

Your Next Step

Here’s how to dip your toe in:

• Jot down 5–10 things people often ask you for help with
• Pick one and outline the steps to teach it
• Try teaching it to a friend or family member – congratulations, you’ve already taken the first step toward becoming an online teacher!

The world is waiting for your unique mix of wisdom, warmth, and patience. You don’t need a classroom, a chalkboard, or perfect tech skills – just the willingness to share what you already know.

Put aside the doubts like, “I’m not good enough. I’m not smart enough. I’m not pretty enough.” I know those feelings because I had them when I started. But believe me when I say, someone out there is waiting for you, exactly like you are.

You owe it to them, and to yourself, to put your knowledge out there into the world. You could be helping someone right now. What are you waiting for?

If online digital course creation sounds like something you’d like to pursue, check out this free guide: https://www.wisdomtowealthafter50.com/handbook.

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What is one topic you can discuss with passion? Can you teach someone else about it? What skills have you gained that can be helpful to a teacher?

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Instagram Roundup: Last Week’s Looks We Loved

Another week + weekend has gone by and even though we’ve been busy with back to back Housewives shows that are on vacation (Bravo what are ya doing to us ?!) we still rounded up some of our fav looks we loved from Instagram. Because it’s always nice to have the current fashion happenings on hand, so be sure you take a minute to shop what we found below!

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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3 Cinq a Sept Lemonis Vest and Pants Seen on Stassi Schroeder

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Have you ever found yourself trying to visualize a more vibrant lifestyle, only to frustratingly stop because it feels untrue, impossible, and downright crazy?

If you can relate, you have unknowingly resisted the heart and soul of visualization.

What Is the Heart and Soul of Visualization?

Seeing yourself already living your dream lifestyle, feeling into it, and believing it is occurring before any tangible evidence of it exists.

This is far from lying to yourself or some “fake it until you make it” trick. It is, however, the key that can unlock a vibrant new way of living life after 60.

This article, and the accompanying video, is the beginning of a new, 12-part exclusive series for Sixty and Me readers titled “Visualize a Vibrant New Lifestyle After 60”. What I am going to be sharing with you in this series is how to embody the essence of your dreams and desires for the lifestyle you deserve.

Visualizing Is Not a One-Time Thing

To successfully visualize your desired lifestyle before you have any concrete proof of it in your physical life, you will want to go beyond just thinking good-feeling thoughts.

To embody the heart and soul of visualization, you will want to imagine the vivid details, bask in the euphoric emotions, and explore the immersive experiences associated with your new, vibrant lifestyle.

This is not a one-time thing. It is an ongoing practice.

Before we go any further, let’s take a moment to acknowledge three common questions I hear when talking publicly about this subject.

How Do I Do It?

Reconnect with your childhood imagination to access your natural ability to playfully create without limits. If you are like most people who are 60 and over, you may have forgotten how to create through your childhood imagination. In this new series for Sixty and Me readers, I’ll show you how.

Where Do I Start?

You begin where you are right now. Visualizing your ideal lifestyle needs to be grounded, but it does not need to be tethered to the reality of your current lifestyle. The key to this is visualizing where you want to be without allowing your present situation to define the terms of your desired lifestyle.

Will Others Think I’m Crazy?

When it comes to your life, it doesn’t matter what other people think; it matters what you think. What you think determines your reality. Remember, your ideal lifestyle is yours and not someone else’s.

The Power of Your Childhood Imagination

When it comes to visualizing your ideal lifestyle, you will want to see it, believe it, and then you can achieve it. The power of your childhood imagination helps with all three.

Your childhood imagination allows you to feel the excitement and fulfillment of your dreams before they materialize in the physical world.

There is infinite power within your childhood imagination to create anything you desire. It can reverse the negativity of limiting beliefs. It also realigns you with the joy you naturally and playfully accessed with ease and flow as a child.

#1 Obstacle to Visualizing Your Ideal Lifestyle

Many people who are 60 and over find it difficult to visualize their ideal lifestyle through the power of their childhood imagination.

The #1 obstacle to visualizing your dream life after 60 is a Fixed Mindset.

A Fixed Mindset is established early on in life through rigid beliefs and strict rules. These are often harsh and aimed at controlling behaviors that come naturally to children, such as curiosity, playfulness, and imagination. This can produce inner turmoil, self-doubt, and even emotional trauma that you will unknowingly carry into your 60s.

In whatever ways this may have shown up for you, a Fixed Mindset is likely where your inner child lost her connection to the power of imagination.

6 Powerful “I Am” Affirmations

To open yourself up to reconnecting with your childhood imagination, overwrite fixed beliefs, and embody the heart and soul of visualization, you will want to make positive changes to how you speak to yourself.

Here are six powerful “I am” affirmations to help you build an unshakable foundation for visualizing your new, vibrant lifestyle.

1. I am effortlessly attracting everything I need to make my dreams a reality.
2. I am committed to my dreams and trust the universe supports me at every step.
3. I am embodying the confidence, joy, and success of the person I aspire to be.
4. I am partnering with my childhood imagination to create my desired lifestyle.
5. I am grateful for the life I am creating and the infinite possibilities before me.
6. I am worthy of living a life that excites, inspires, and fulfills me.

Next Steps

There are additional steps necessary to replace a Fixed Mindset with a new, more empowering one that is supportive of your new lifestyle.

In our next article and video in this series, I will introduce you to a five-step inspired action plan to undo the effects of a Fixed Mindset and open you up to embracing change through your childhood imagination.

I invite you to join me in the video, where I will share with you five immediate benefits for reigniting the playful mindset of your childhood imagination. I will also guide you through five journal prompts to help you integrate what you are learning.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What do you visualize for yourself in the near future? How do you see your life developing a few years away from now?

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