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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Jo-Ellen Tiberi’s Black Lace Ruffle Dress

Jo-Ellen Tiberi’s Black Lace Ruffle Dress / Real Housewives of Rhode Island Season 1 Episode 6 Fashion

Jo-Ellen Tiberi never fails with her ‘fits and that goes for this black lace ruffle dress that she wears tonight on #RHORI. I think it’s the perfect mix of classy and sexy which is great choice for this themed dinner, but also for any event. So don’t even try to mask the fact that you wanna shop something similar. 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Jo-Ellen Tiberi’s Black Lace Ruffle Dress

Jo-Ellen Tiberi’s Black Lace Ruffle Dress / Real Housewives of Rhode Island Season 1 Episode 6 Fashion

Jo-Ellen Tiberi never fails with her ‘fits and that goes for this black lace ruffle dress that she wears tonight on #RHORI. I think it’s the perfect mix of classy and sexy which is great choice for this themed dinner, but also for any event. So don’t even try to mask the fact that you wanna shop something similar. 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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Jo-Ellen Tiberi’s Peach Knit Pleated Dress

Jo-Ellen Tiberi’s Peach Knit Pleated Dress / Real Housewives of Rhode Island Season 1 Episode 6 Fashion

The way Alicia Carmody loves dolls and Jo-Ellen Tiberi loves botox, is the way we love fashion. And we loooove Jo-Ellen’s knit pleated mini dress that she wears on tonight’s #RHORI. So much so that we tracked it down for you (along with her embellished flower bag) which I know has you feelin’ peach-y keen.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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When Self-Help Becomes Self-Sabotage

When Self-Help Becomes Self-Sabotage

Self-improvement has never been easier with a wealth of knowledge at your fingertips. Everywhere you look there is advice on faith, diet, relationships, travel, finances and career from a wide range of sources.

For anyone on a self-improvement journey, it doesn’t take long to realize that delving too deeply into the self-help culture can have a detrimental long-term effect on your psyche and damage the very confidence you are trying to build.

Let Me Explain:

Just as there is a phenomenon called Facebook envy, a situation where prolonged exposure to the supposed happiness and excitement of other people’s life can lead to discontent with your own. There is also a type of dissatisfaction caused by prolonged attempts at self-help and self-improvement especially when you feel you are constantly coming up short.

It is similar to the principle of making a New Year’s resolution. On the whole, making a New Year’s Resolution is a positive start to the New Year. Problem starts when your goals require drastic life changes that you quit “cold turkey.” These overnight shifts are unrealistic, unsustainable and ultimately set people up to fail. This failure gives their self-confidence a massive hit and reinforces the belief that they cannot do anything right.

No Two People Are the Same

Also, a self-help journey can be confusing. For instance, one source may describe how many tasks they complete before 9:00 a.m. while you may feel lucky to have stumbled out of bed by then. In this instance, early rising does not necessarily lead to a productive day for everyone. However, you have convinced yourself that in order to be successful, you will need to get up at 6:00 a.m. and it doesn’t sit well with your system.

The truth is, while many successful people do get up at the crack of dawn, many others do not and early rising is not a guarantee of success. It’s important to cherry pick the habits of people you want to emulate and use their advice as a general guide not a rule.

Social media, including platforms like Instagram, Facebook, Youtube, etc. love creating a feeling of deficit in our lives. A deficit it seeks to fill. It makes us feel inadequate and the only way to conquer this inadequacy is to consume more social media. It’s a vicious circle.

Take, for instance, your everyday celebrity. They always look stunning. You look at a photograph and marvel at how great they look just walking in the park. You don’t realize that there is a team of people tasked to making them look like that. Looking good is their job and it takes considerable time, effort and resources to maintain. They put the same amount of time and effort into their appearance as you do working 8 hours a day.

It’s the Same Lesson

The same lesson can be learned from self-help. I find self-help books inspirational and motivating. I have learned a great deal and picked up so many amazing tips. However, these books and videos are not crutches, they are merely loosely aligned goals to steer you in the right direction, not rules to live by.

Psychology research on self-concept suggests that constantly comparing your current self to an idealized version of yourself can increase feelings of inadequacy. Self-help content often emphasizes “ideal behaviors,” which can unintentionally widen the gap between where you are and where you think you should be. Too much emphasis on narrowing the gap can lead to anxiety and insecurity. Rather than seeing self-improvement as a journey, it is easy to fixate on how far you have to go.

In many instances, constant self-improvement can become a form of procrastination that feels productive. This is sometimes called ‘productive avoidance,” and it is when people think they can improve just by reading about improvement without putting in the actual effort to improve.

Often, people that are constantly attempting to improve have higher rate of anxiety, emotional exhaustion and depression stemming from a feeling of never being good enough. This happens when extremely high internal standards create constant self-criticism and dissatisfaction. Rather than feeling they are achieving some progress, they fixate on how far they have to go.

Comparison Brings No Results

It is unwise to compare yourself to something or someone that doesn’t exist or is merely two dimensional. You can read celebrity books but they, just like you, have insecurities and anxieties that their fans have no idea about. Portions of their lives are not going according to plan, and you only ever hear about that when their walls come crashing down.

Real and lasting change is best achieved slowly over a period of time not huge trajectory changes. Extreme changes will make you not only miserable and are not designed for long-term benefits.

Let’s Talk:

What changes have you been able to implement in your life? How did you accomplish them? Did you choose the slow, consistent route? Which self-help materials have you been able to tailor to your own life and priorities?

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Salley Carson’s Mint Mini Dress

Salley Carson’s Mint Mini Dress / Southern Charm Instagram Fashion April 2026

A Salley Carson ‘fit never fails to make me want to stop what I’m doing and shop. And that goes for this mini dress that she wore on IG. She looked adorable and there’s not much else to say besides us and this dress are mint to be— so you know the drill!

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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Why Do We Remember Our Mistakes More Than Our Lives?

Why Do We Remember Our Mistakes More Than Our Lives

There’s something I’ve come to notice as I’ve gotten older, and once I saw it, I couldn’t unsee it. It is this basic truth:

We don’t give ourselves much credit.

When I look back on my life, the facts are there. I built and ran businesses. I bought, remodeled, and sold twenty-six homes. I earned a pilot’s license. I played in bands. I raised two children and did my best to provide for them. I’ve written songs I’m proud of.

It’s a full life by any reasonable measure.

But that’s not what comes to mind first.

Accomplishments Give Way to Regrets

What shows up instead are the mistakes.

The wrong turns. The decisions I wish I had made differently. The moments I would change if I had the chance. Somehow, those carry more weight than everything that went right.

And I don’t believe this is just me.

Talk to almost anyone over 60, and you’ll hear a similar story. A lifetime filled with effort, work, love, and responsibility… followed by a quiet tendency to focus on what didn’t go perfectly.

Not in a dramatic way. Not in a way that stops us from living.

Just there.

Always there.

It makes me wonder why that is.

What Is It About Mistakes?

Maybe it’s because mistakes feel unfinished. The things we did right settle into place. They become part of who we are, part of the structure of our lives. We don’t question them. We don’t revisit them often.

But mistakes don’t settle the same way.

They stay active. They carry a kind of open-ended quality, as if they’re still waiting for correction, even though the moment has long passed. There’s no clean ending to them, so the mind keeps returning, as if there’s still something to figure out.

Or maybe it’s something else.

Maybe It’s the Standard We Held Ourselves to

Most of us didn’t go through life aiming to get by. We tried to do things right. We tried to be responsible, to make good decisions, to provide, to build something that mattered. And when we fell short of that – when we made a bad call or hurt someone or missed an opportunity – it didn’t just register as a mistake.

It registered as a failure to meet our own expectations.

And those are the kinds of things that stay with you.

There’s also a strange imbalance in how we remember things.

The good we’ve done often feels expected. It becomes normal. Of course we worked hard. Of course we showed up. Of course we did what needed to be done. Over time, those things lose their sense of significance, not because they weren’t important, but because they became part of the routine of living.

Mistakes Don’t Blend in That Way

Mistakes tend to stand apart.

They interrupt the story we thought we were writing. They become markers – moments we can point to and say, “That’s where I would have done it differently.”

And so we return to them.

Not always intentionally.

Sometimes it happens in quiet moments. Driving somewhere. Sitting alone. Watching a day go by. A memory surfaces, and it’s rarely the smooth, successful parts of life that come forward first.

It’s the rough edges.

The part of this that I find most interesting is how different it would look from the outside.

If someone else told my life story – if they laid it out without my internal commentary – I doubt they would focus on the same things I do. They would see the effort, the risks taken, the willingness to try, to build, to keep going.

They might even say, “That’s a life well lived.”

But that’s not the voice we carry inside.

Inside, the Focus Shifts

We remember the deal that didn’t work out the way it should have. The decision that cost us time or money. The moment we handled something poorly. The opportunity we didn’t take.

It’s not that we forget everything else.

It’s that we don’t give it the same attention.

And over time, that imbalance starts to shape how we see ourselves.

Not in an obvious way. Not in a way that anyone else would necessarily notice.

But quietly.

Subtly.

It becomes the lens we look through when we reflect.

I don’t have an answer for this.

I’m not offering a solution, and I’m not suggesting that we can simply decide to think differently. If it were that easy, we probably would have done it by now.

What I’ve come to believe is that the value may not be in fixing it.

The value may be in recognizing it.

Because once you see the pattern, something shifts.

The Beginning of a Change

You start to notice that your mind is doing what it has always done – returning to the same moments, giving them more weight than everything else. And in that notice, there’s a small bit of distance.

Not enough to erase the thoughts.

But enough to question them.

Enough to say, “That’s not the whole story.”

Because it isn’t.

If we can remember every mistake we’ve made, then everything else we’ve done is still there too. Every success, every effort, every time we got it right, every time we showed up when it mattered.

Those things didn’t disappear.

They just don’t ask for attention in the same way.

The Quiet Truth

Maybe that’s the quiet truth behind all of this.

Our lives are not defined by the moments we revisit the most.

They’re defined by the total of what we lived.

And when you look at it that way – even briefly – it becomes a little harder to ignore everything that went right.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How often do you ruminate on mistakes you’ve made in the past? Do you think of your successes as often? Why do you think that is? Do my reflections sound similar to yours? Either way, please contribute to the conversation!

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Madison LeCroy’s White Barrel Leg Overalls

Madison LeCroy’s White Barrel Leg Overalls / Southern Charm Instagram Fashion April 2026

Madison LeCroy posted a video promoting Cracker Barrel at home with a pair of white barrel leg overalls under her apron. I love this look because it goes well with breakfast, lunch, or dinner. So while she stays serving the best style, we can dress like this country cutie and pick up a new pair of overalls.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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