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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

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Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Kyle Richards’ Season 15 Reunion Look

Kyle Richards’ Season 15 Reunion Look / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Reunion Fashion

Kyle Richards’ said her #RHOBH season 15 reunion look was a last minute decision, but I don’t think you would know that at all! Because it really is clean, sleek, and sophisticated, just like Kyle. And it’s also in stock as well as on sale which can be rare for reunion looks so be sure you shop it while you can! 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Kyle Richards’ Season 15 Reunion Look

Kyle Richards’ Season 15 Reunion Look / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Reunion Fashion

Kyle Richards’ said her #RHOBH season 15 reunion look was a last minute decision, but I don’t think you would know that at all! Because it really is clean, sleek, and sophisticated, just like Kyle. And it’s also in stock as well as on sale which can be rare for reunion looks so be sure you shop it while you can! 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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Mia Calabrese’s White Pleated Tennis Dress

Mia Calabrese’s White Pleated Tennis Dress / Summer House Season 10 Episode 10 Fashion

Mia Calabrese out-putted everyone on last night’s episode of Summer House in her white pleated tennis dress. This is the type of look I would go for if I were picking up a golf club or even running errands, for that matter. And with warm weather about to be in full swing, it’s time to be on par with this fully stocked under $35 picece.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Ciara Miller’s Black Tank Top

Ciara Miller’s Black Tank Top / Summer House Season 10 Episode 10 Fashion

Mia Calabrese was right when she said that Ciara Miller looked like she was heading to Tulum or Ibiza in her black tank top and zebra print skirt on last night’s episode of Summer House. But she was just going golfing and showed how versatile this vibe is for summertime. So while she proved to us she can golf in platforms, we can go low and snag her pieces for wherever we want to turn heads.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Tired of Doomscrolling? Try This Simple Habit Instead

Tired of Doomscrolling? Try This Simple Habit Instead

Look around the next time you’re in a waiting room or airport gate. Nearly everyone is hunched over a phone, scrolling in silence.

I used to be one of them.

A popular adage is “The only two sure things in life are death and taxes.” I’d add waiting to the list.

Waiting to check out.

Waiting to board a plane.

Waiting to see the doctor.

How Do You Pass the Time?

Most of us pull out our phones, plug in our buds and watch videos, listen to podcasts or scroll mindlessly through Instagram or TikTok.

I’m not basing this on verified data, just casual observation. Next time you’re waiting, scan the room. I guarantee the number of people lost in their phones will be near 100%.

If this makes you happy, by all means, go for it.

A Simple Way to Reduce Screen Time

But I’ve committed to reducing my passive screen minutes, opting to spend my time engaged and active instead. And I’ve found a trick to help me avoid reaching for my phone while I’m waiting for my name to be called.

I keep a paperback with me.

I’m an avid reader and have my parents to thank. My dad had a 3-hour daily roundtrip bus commute, and needed fresh material for the week. So we’d load into the family station wagon on Saturday mornings and head to our local library. I worked my way around the children’s room shelves, graduating to the adult section in middle school.

Back then, reading wasn’t something we had to remind ourselves to do – it was simply how we filled quiet moments. I’d fallen out of the habit. But I found that carrying a paperback has become my quiet act of resistance. It’s a super easy way to reclaim those in-between moments.

You Are What You Read

Mind you, I’m not carrying deep-thinking reads with me. My books for waiting are light reads, both in content and size. I’m not pulling out a 1500-page biography of Teddy Roosevelt at the dentist.

And I’m not bringing along a weeper. O’Hare and Atlanta Hartsfield airports make me cry normally. I don’t need literary inspiration to induce the tears.

I’ve found contemporary mysteries like the Thursday Murder Club series make excellent waiting room reads. So do celebrity book club recommendations. I’m particularly fond of Reese Witherspoon’s recommendations. One of my favorite recent reads came from her list, Ann Patchett’s Tom Lake.

Borrow, Don’t Buy

I don’t buy my bag books. I borrow them – from my dad’s assisted living library, from the “take me” table at our local library, from friends’ coffee tables (with permission)! When borrowing a book, I make sure the owner knows: 1. I dogear pages and break spines and 2. I might lose it. Most are okay with it. But some are horrified about my book abuse.

My current bag book is one I lifted, with permission, from the library of our Florida beach rental. It’s not only an entertaining read, but a reminder of a recent, wonderful vacation.

I carry books that fit easily in my crossbody bag. And I pack a few extras to make my reading experience pleasant, whatever the environment.

What I Keep in My Bag for Screen-Free Moments

  • Drugstore reading glasses – because eyes get tired by late afternoon.
  • Small notebook and pen – for favorite lines or ideas to revisit.
  • Neck light – a game-changer for dim planes and waiting rooms.

If you’re not a reader, there are other things you can pack in your day bag to occupy your time without resorting to a screen.

Many of my friends can concentrate on knitting while they’re waiting in public.

Another great way to pass waiting time is to carry a few notecards with you with stamped envelopes. Write a short letter to a dear friend and mail it on your way home. There are few things in life as wonderful as receiving a handwritten “thinking of you” card.

The next time you’re waiting, before reaching for your phone, pull out your paperback instead. Changing this simple habit has made me calmer and more present.

Let’s Chat:

Do you immediately grab your phone when waiting? Does scrolling through social media make you feel happy? Anxious? Jealous? Is reducing your phone screen time a personal goal?

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Mia Calabrese’s Tan Cutout Halter Confessional Top

Mia Calabrese’s Tan Cutout Halter Confessional Top / Summer House Season 10 Episode 10 Fashion

We got not one, but TWO new confessionals from Mia Calabrese last night on Summer House. Which I was so excited for because-

A. We got to hear a little more about her in them 

B. The two new looks, obvi. 

And right now we’re talking about the tan cutout halter top because summer is coming and this is a perfect piece for it. So even though her exact one is sold out it’s NBD because you can still shop the similar styles below.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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Why Reinvention After 60 Is Not a One-Time Event

Why Reinvention After 60 Is Not a One-Time Event

For much of our lives, we are taught to think of reinvention as something dramatic: a bold pivot, a fresh start, a single defining moment when everything changes.

But in my experience, that is rarely how life really works.

More often, change comes in seasons. We reassess, adapt, let go of what no longer fits, and step into something new, even if we do not yet have all the answers. Then, before long, life asks us to do it again.

That is what I call repetitive reinvention. It is not a crisis, and it is not a failure. It is a lifelong practice of reassessing, realigning, and renewing as life evolves. Now, in my 80th year, I can see this pattern more clearly than ever.

Looking Back, I See the Steps

When I look at my life, I do not see a straight line. I see a staircase.

I began as a farmgirl and student. Then I became a public school teacher, a university professor, a nonprofit development executive, and later a financial advisor. After that came an encore career focused on speaking, writing, research, and mentoring.

And now? I describe this season of life as reFirement.

That is different from retirement as many people imagine it. Retirement is often pictured as stepping away from work, slowing down, or living more quietly. ReFirement, at least for me, means something else. It means staying engaged with purpose while reshaping how that purpose is expressed. It means continuing, but differently. Not vintage retirement. New fire.

Each chapter of my life required change, but none of those transitions happened all at once. Each one asked something of me: honesty, courage, reflection, practical planning, faith, and a willingness to release an old identity before the next one was fully formed. That is why I do not think of reinvention as a single grand event. I think of it as a repeating rhythm.

Reinvention Does Not Mean Erasing Yourself

One of the biggest misunderstandings about reinvention is the idea that we must become a completely different person. I do not believe that.

True reinvention is not about throwing away who you are. It is about carrying your wisdom forward into a new form.

The skills I used as a teacher stayed with me when I became a professor. My listening skills and heart for service mattered in nonprofit work. My capacity to guide, educate, and encourage became essential in financial planning and later in my writing and speaking. The outer roles changed, but the inner threads remained.

That is important for women over 60 to remember.

At this stage of life, many of us are navigating loss, caregiving, changing health, retirement, relocation, widowhood, or the quiet realization that the life we built is shifting under our feet. That can feel disorienting. But reinvention does not ask us to discard our past. It invites us to reinterpret it.

We are not starting from scratch. We are starting from experience.

Why This Matters More as We Age

When we are younger, change often comes with built-in structure. School leads to work. Family responsibilities define many of our choices. Society tends to hand us a script.

Later in life, the script grows less clear. That can feel unsettling, but it can also be freeing. As we age, we gain something powerful: permission to ask deeper questions.

What matters now? What still fits? What have I outgrown? What wants to emerge next?

These are not selfish questions. They are wise ones.

Repetitive reinvention gives us a compassionate way to answer them. It reminds us that pausing to reevaluate is not falling behind. It is paying attention. It helps us stay present to our own lives.

And sometimes, the next chapter begins not because we chose it, but because life chose it for us. A loss, a diagnosis, a move, a strained relationship, an unexpected opportunity, or a growing restlessness we can no longer ignore may push us toward change. Even then, we still have agency. We may not control every circumstance, but we can choose how we respond.

The Quiet Power of Reassessment

In my own life, every meaningful reinvention began with reassessment. Before any outer change came an inner pause.

I had to ask myself what was true emotionally, financially, physically, and spiritually. I had to reconsider assumptions I had been carrying for years. I had to rebalance commitments, redesign routines, and realign with what mattered most. Only then could renewal follow.

That process is not flashy. It rarely looks impressive from the outside. But it is where real change begins.

Many women think they need a perfect plan before they can move forward. I would suggest something gentler: begin with honest questions. What is draining me? What is calling to me? What do I need more of? What am I ready to release? What strengths have I not fully used yet?

Those questions can open doors.

You Do Not Need One Big Reinvention

Perhaps the most comforting part of repetitive reinvention is this: it does not require one giant leap.

Sometimes a new chapter begins with something very small: a class, a volunteer role, a conversation, a fresh routine, a creative project, a change in how you spend your mornings, a decision to stop saying yes when you mean no, or a decision to try even before you feel fully ready.

Over time, these small shifts accumulate. They create momentum, restore energy, and help us remember that life is still asking something of us. Not in a burdensome way, but in an invitational way.

Beginning Again, with Compassion

If there is one thing I have learned, it is this: reinvention is not about perfection. It is about presence.

It is about staying engaged with life, curious about possibility, grounded in purpose, and willing to begin again, not because we failed before, but because life keeps unfolding.

In our later years, that may be one of our greatest freedoms. We do not have to stay frozen in old roles that no longer fit. We do not have to apologize for changing. We do not have to become smaller with age.

We can continue to grow, to contribute, to realign, and to renew, again and again. That is the beauty of repetitive reinvention. Not a single transformation, but a lifelong practice.

And perhaps that is what aging well really looks like: not clinging to who we once were, but courageously becoming who we are now.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What part of your life may be asking for reinvention now? How many reinventions can you count in your life? Which skills or passions transferred from one reinvention to the next?

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