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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Amanda Batula’s Brown Suede Pocket Front Jacket

Amanda Batula’s Brown Suede Pocket Front Jacket / Summer House Fashion Season 10 Finale

I’d be lying if I said that I wasn’t in tears quite a few times during tonight’s Summer House Season 10 finale. The last scene between Amanda Batula and Kyle Cooke being one of those times. Despite the faults they both have there’s a definite sadness to see what is ultimately the end of their marriage and likely Summer House as we currently know and love it. Kind of like some of the stock of Amanda’s brown suede pocket front leather jacket. But don’t worry, like the show, it looks like there’s still more (stock) to come…

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Amanda Batula’s Brown Suede Pocket Front Jacket

Amanda Batula’s Brown Suede Pocket Front Jacket / Summer House Fashion Season 10 Finale

I’d be lying if I said that I wasn’t in tears quite a few times during tonight’s Summer House Season 10 finale. The last scene between Amanda Batula and Kyle Cooke being one of those times. Despite the faults they both have there’s a definite sadness to see what is ultimately the end of their marriage and likely Summer House as we currently know and love it. Kind of like some of the stock of Amanda’s brown suede pocket front leather jacket. But don’t worry, like the show, it looks like there’s still more (stock) to come…

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Summer House Season 10 Makeup and Beauty Finds

The Summer House Season 10 finale is tonight and though it kind of feels like the end of an era, we of course can’t wait to see how things pan out…although we already unfortunately know more than we’d like! But as a positive, we had some amazing finds this season, like their beauty and makeup products we spotted. These ladies are doing their own glam at the house which means, from concealer to lip color to sunscreen, they’re only bringing what they love the most for the weekend. And as someone who owns a few of these products I can attest, they know what they’re doing. Because after all, there are some things at the house that should be cover(ed) up.

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Amanda Batula’s Black and Polka Dot Maxi Dress at the In The City Premiere Party

Amanda Batula’s Black and Polka Dot Maxi Dress at the In The City Premiere Party / In The City Fashion May 2026

Tonight is the beginning of the end of Summer House Season 10 finale and the premiere of the In The City. Which means a) it’s a BIG night for us Bravo fans and B) last night was the In The City premiere party. And based on the ITC previews, this cast is going to bring it in the wearable yet city chic style department.

While most of the buzz was about Amanda Batula and Kyle Cooke posing on the red carpet (which Kyle responded to via stories in their defense), we couldn’t help but focus on her $70 perfect-for-the-season polka dot dress. Which is ready for you to wear in the city or wherever else you want to look cute this summer.

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Amanda Batula's Black and Polka Dot Maxi Dress

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Angela Oakley’s Pink Embellished Cutout Confessional Dress

Angela Oakley’s Pink Embellished Cutout Confessional Dress / Real Housewives of Atlanta Season 17 Episode 7 Fashion

Angela Oakley continues to make on-screen statements with her on point confessional looks. Last night she handed us another standout look in a pink, scale-sequin embellished cutout dress that’s sleek and sexy. And this exact one may be gone for good, but we can still fish for our own Style Stealers below.

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Angela Oakley's Pink Embellished Cutout Confessional Dress

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Shamea Morton’s Peach Plunging Rosette Dress on WWHL

Shamea Morton’s Peach Plunging Rosette Dress on WWHL / Real Housewives of Atlanta Season 17 Episode 7 Fashion

Shamea Morton brought her Georgia roots to NYC in a pretty peach plunging rosette dress on #WWHL. She looks absolutely stunning in this color, with a neckline that has us wondering “how low can you go?!”. So if you want to drape yourself in a style that’s a 10/10, then pick up a sexy new dress below and watch what happens when you wear it live.

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Shamea Morton's Peach Plunging Rosette Dress on WWHL

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How to Talk with Adult Children About Inheritance Expectations

How to Talk with Adult Children About Inheritance Expectations

A woman once told me something that stopped me in my tracks. She said, “I don’t know what my children think I’m planning… and honestly, I’m afraid to ask.”

She wasn’t worried about conflict. She loved her children deeply, and they had a good relationship. But underneath it all sat a quiet uncertainty: Do they expect to inherit the house? Will they feel disappointed if there’s less than they imagined? Should we even be talking about this?

These conversations can feel uncomfortable; so uncomfortable, in fact many families avoid them altogether. And yet, when expectations remain unspoken, misunderstandings sometimes grow quietly in the background.

Not because anyone intended harm, but because assumptions filled the silence.

The Conversation Many Families Never Have

For many women, inheritance feels deeply personal. It’s not simply about money. It’s about love. Security. Responsibility. And often, a desire to continue caring for the people we love even after we’re gone.

At the same time, retirement often brings changing realities. Plans evolve. Priorities shift. Resources may need to be used differently than originally imagined.

Perhaps more money goes toward healthcare. Maybe the decision is made to travel, stay comfortably in the home longer, or create more flexibility financially.

None of those things are wrong, but they can change what is ultimately left behind. That’s why avoiding the conversation entirely can sometimes create confusion later.


“Clear conversations today often prevent hurt feelings tomorrow.”


Why These Conversations Feel So Hard

Many parents worry that bringing up inheritance will somehow feel uncomfortable or transactional. Some fear appearing selfish. Others worry, What if my children think I’m taking something away from them?

And sometimes, adult children avoid the topic too, not wanting to seem entitled or insensitive. So, everyone stays quiet. Meanwhile, assumptions quietly take shape.

The reality is this: Most families aren’t struggling because of what was discussed. They struggle because nothing was discussed.

A Gentle Shift in Perspective

What if this conversation wasn’t about money at all? What if it were really about clarity?

Many adult children simply want to understand:

  • What matters most to you.
  • What your wishes are.
  • Whether there are plans they should be aware of.
  • How best to support you later.

And many parents find tremendous peace in knowing they’ve shared their intentions openly. Not to explain every dollar. Not to justify decisions. But to remove uncertainty.

Starting the Conversation Without Making It Awkward

The good news is this doesn’t have to feel formal. It can start simply.

Sometimes the easiest openings sound like:

“I’ve been thinking more about planning ahead, and I wanted to share some thoughts with you.”

Or:

“I realized we’ve never talked about expectations around the future, and I thought it might be helpful.”

The goal isn’t perfection. The goal is openness. You don’t need every answer. You simply need to begin.

When the Family Home Is Part of the Story

For many women, the home carries emotional weight. Adult children may quietly assume: We’ll keep it. We’ll sell it. Mom plans to leave it to us.

But circumstances change. Sometimes the home becomes part of retirement planning. Sometimes it’s sold. Sometimes financial needs shift priorities. And sometimes, parents simply decide they want to prioritize their own comfort and security.

That doesn’t mean anyone has failed. It means life unfolded. Honest conversations help families understand this before emotions are heightened by crisis or grief.

What Adult Children Often Need Most

Interestingly, many adult children say something similar: “I just want my parents to be okay.”

They don’t want parents sacrificing comfort, healthcare, or peace of mind to preserve an inheritance. What often matters most isn’t the number. It’s understanding. Knowing the thought process. Feeling included in the conversation.

A Gentle Reflection

If this conversation feels difficult, ask yourself: Am I avoiding this because I’m protecting them… or because it feels uncomfortable for me?

Sometimes clarity is one of the most loving things we can offer.

Final Thoughts

Inheritance conversations are rarely easy, but they’re often easier than the misunderstandings silence can create.

You don’t have to explain every detail. You don’t need a perfect plan. And you certainly don’t need to have all the answers.

Sometimes, the greatest gift isn’t certainty. It’s clarity. Because when families understand one another’s intentions, everyone tends to breathe a little easier.

“The goal of inheritance conversations isn’t agreement it’s understanding.”

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What do you intend to leave your children? Do they know? Do they expect something similar – or way different? Have you had this conversation or have you been putting it off?

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