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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Dara Levitan’s Concealer and Blush Balm

Dara Levitan’s Concealer and Blush Balm / Summer House Season 10 Episode 13 Fashion

On last night’s Summer House BBH’s Amanda (not that Amanda) spotted Dara Levitan using a familiar looking concealer and blush stick. I recently switched to the concealer after a long stint with Tarte so I couldn’t resist hopping in to sing it’s praises. I have some serious under eye circles and this covers them without being cake-y and leaves me looking fresh.

Though I admittedly haven’t tried her blush stick, we also spotted Bailey Taylor using the brands concealer and it’s a brand our Amanda uses. And since these products are both BBH and Summer House approved I can confidently say you’ll all go Gaga over when they arrive at your doorstep.

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Dara Levitan’s Concealer and Blush Balm

Dara Levitan’s Concealer and Blush Balm / Summer House Season 10 Episode 13 Fashion

On last night’s Summer House BBH’s Amanda (not that Amanda) spotted Dara Levitan using a familiar looking concealer and blush stick. I recently switched to the concealer after a long stint with Tarte so I couldn’t resist hopping in to sing it’s praises. I have some serious under eye circles and this covers them without being cake-y and leaves me looking fresh.

Though I admittedly haven’t tried her blush stick, we also spotted Bailey Taylor using the brands concealer and it’s a brand our Amanda uses. And since these products are both BBH and Summer House approved I can confidently say you’ll all go Gaga over when they arrive at your doorstep.

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Lindsay Hubbard’s Pleated Jeans / Summer House Season 10 Episode 13 Fashion

Lindsay Hubbard paired her lovely lace top with a pretty pair of pleated jeans for her ex-fiancé’s launch party on last night’s episode of Summer House. I think Lindsay and Carl’s friendship has reached new heights because they both gave thoughtful (we think?) gifts to each other this season. And since we’re in the spirit of gift-giving, you should treat yourself to a pair of pants that deserve your full attention.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Reclaiming Yourself After a Lifetime of Being Everything for Everyone Else

Reclaiming Yourself After a Lifetime of Being Everything for Everyone Else

If you haven’t had this moment yet, you likely will. You look around at a life you built with care, effort, and sacrifice. And instead of clarity, you feel a quiet question underneath it all.

Who am I now?

You Did Not Lose Yourself – You Prioritized Others

It is easy to say you “lost yourself.” But that is not entirely true. You made choices. You showed up where you were needed.

You focused on raising children, supporting a family, holding things together.

That was not failure. That was commitment. But now, the focus shifts. And what once defined your days no longer fills them in the same way.

Why This Stage Feels So Unsettling

This transition is not just logistical. It is emotional. You are no longer measured by how much you give. You are no longer constantly needed in the same way. And without that structure, identity can feel uncertain.

This is where many women hesitate.

Not because they lack ability but because they are not used to putting themselves at the center of their own lives.

Reclaiming Your Life Starts with Permission

You do not need a full plan. You need permission.

Permission to explore. Permission to change your mind. Permission to want something different now.

This is not indulgence. It is growth.

What Reinvention Really Looks Like

Reinvention does not have to be dramatic. It often looks like small, consistent choices. Trying something new. Letting go of something that no longer fits. Reconnecting with interests that once mattered.

The goal is not to impress anyone. It is to build a life that feels honest.

Protecting This New Season

As you begin to shift, one thing becomes clear. Not everyone will understand. Some people will expect you to stay the same. To remain available in the same ways.

This is where boundaries become essential. They allow you to grow without constantly being pulled back.

Crisis Proof Boundaries is designed for this exact moment – when you want to move forward without damaging the relationships that matter.

This Is Not the End of Your Story

If anything, this is where things begin to open. You have experience. You have perspective. You have a deeper understanding of what matters.

That is not something to overlook. It is something to build from.

Let’s Discuss:

What is one small step you can take this week toward something that feels like yours?

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How a Wellness Resort Can Teach Women Lasting Wellness Habits

Why TIA Wellness Resort Is Ideal for Women Seeking Lasting Wellness Habits

The Uber speeds past big-brand hotels lining the main highway on Vietnam’s white-sand central Coast. My partner and I arrive at the five-star TIA Wellness Resort. The over-80 villa Resort started as Fusion Maia in 2008, pioneering a model in which all spa treatments are included in the nightly rate.

TIA takes wellness further by giving guests tools to restore balance, enhance vitality, and make healthy food choices long after they return home. It’s easy to see why TIA Wellness Resort was ranked among the top 10 Destination Spa Resorts in the world in Condé Nast Traveler’s 2025 Readers’ Choice Awards.

As Alyson Simms, Executive Assistant Manager – Wellness, says, “TIA has been a pioneer and original adopter of the fully Wellness Inclusive and Retreat Inclusive resort concept, embedding wellness into the core business model long before this approach became a global trend. While many luxury resorts offer wellness as an optional extra, TIA was intentionally designed from the outset to integrate wellness into architecture, operations, dining, movement, and daily rituals.”

Architecture for Balance and Relaxation

TIA sits along Vietnam’s Bac My An beachfront in Da Nang. The setting goes beyond relaxation to wellness immersion. A long, elegant infinity pool serves as a focal point for the property, stretching out to the East Sea. The white lobby, with dark wooden accents, includes pops of pastel color. The mostly neutral theme carries through into each villa.

Guests start their stay in the TIA Wellness Resort lobby with a mindful tea ceremony. Photo by: Merle Rosenstein.

In my villa, the canopied king-size bed is fitted with crisp, white linens, accented with circle-patterned pillowcases. Floor-to-ceiling sliding doors frame the outdoor garden and private pool, extending the space outward. After a dunk in the pool, guests can make their way to the 22-treatment-room wellness center.

The neutral tones of the beautiful private-pool villa create calm. Photo by: Merle Rosenstein.
The private pool was perfect for relaxing. Photo by: Merle Rosenstein.

Wellness Center

The Wellness Center offers an extensive list of personalized treatments, education, and activities, such as yoga and breathwork. Guests can add exclusive therapies (e.g., aerial flow therapy), get a plant-based meal plan, and support from a Wellness Guide. Four and seven-night private retreats are fully guided with daily one-to-one coaching.

I pick the bamboo rollout as one of my treatments. My masseuse, Truyen, gently presses a warm bamboo rod against my body, releasing tension and allowing me to sink deeper into the massage table. After my treatment, I look forward to a healthy meal with plant-based options.

A treatment room at the Wellness Center for a couple’s massage. Photo by: Merle Rosenstein.

Nutrition for Wellness Habits

TIA’s Wellness Kitchen demonstrates that plant-based dishes can taste good. Guests choose from two restaurants, the Dining Room, the poolside Ocean Bistro, or in-villa dining. An all-day breakfast removes the pressure to eat early. Lunch and dinner are à la carte and follow an “Eat Light, Feel Bright” points system. Meals scoring five points or below are considered lighter options.

I use the points system to make more informed choices about what I order. I pick lighter options to boost energy and sense of well-being. For breakfast, I picked up the pomelo salad, pumpkin loaf, and a mango tartlet, all delicious. For dinner, I opt for lighter dishes that support energy and digestion.

The plant-based dumplings were delicious. Photo by: Merle Rosenstein.

TIA Wellness Resort Fosters New Behaviors

My experience shows that I have a lot to take home from TIA. This is a resort that teaches their guests to go beyond wellness by supporting learning new behaviors. I feel pampered well beyond my expectations and empowered to keep what I’d learned through a combination of environment, wellness-embedded care, and practical tools.I make a pact with my partner to try more plant-based meals at home.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What makes you feel pampered when you go to a resort? What good habits do you take home?

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Amanda Batula’s Brown Suede Jacket

Amanda Batula’s Brown Suede Jacket / Summer House Fashion Season 10 Episode 12

Amanda Batula sits down with Ciara Miller in the city on tonight’s episode of Summer House in a brown suede jacket. It’s not the most settling scene based on what we know now, but for our purposes I’ll focus on the jacket. Which most of us can probably agree Amanda makes a pretty good looking couple with.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Condo vs. HOA: What Pet Owners Need to Know

Condo vs. HOA What Pet Owners Need to Know

If you’re moving with a dog (or two… or a cat), choosing between a condominium and an HOA community isn’t just about price or location.

It can determine whether your pet is even allowed, how big they can be and how easy your daily life will be.

Here’s the simple breakdown every pet owner should understand before buying.

Condos: More Rules, Less Flexibility

In a condo, you only own the inside of your unit – and the association controls the rest. Your monthly fees are determined and voted on by the condo board. You can choose your interior insurance but not your exterior.

That includes pet rules, if allowed, and they can be strict.

Common pet restrictions may include weight limits, breed restrictions, limit on number of pets, approval required before move in and no aggressive breeds (varies by building.)

You may also run into things like no pets for renters (only owners), long approval process, emotional support/service animal documentation.

And yes – rules can change over time.

HOA Communities: More Freedom (Usually)

In a homeowner’s association or community (HOA), you own your home and your land – which usually means more flexibility for pets. Again, this can vary by community.

What pet owners like about HOAs is larger dogs are more often allowed, more than 2 pets may be permitted, private yards, walking paths, sometimes even a dog park (huge plus) and fewer approval hurdles (although they may still have an application.)

That said – there are still rules such as leash requirements, noise complaints if pets are left outside barking, no guarantee exotic animals or “aggressive breeds” will be accepted and approval required before move-in.

But overall, it’s typically much easier living in an HOA than a condo with pets. However, it’s a choice only you can make.

The Real-Life Difference

Here’s what it looks like day-to-day:

Condo Life with Pets

  • Elevator rides for every walk unless you live on the first floor.
  • Designated pet areas.
  • Watching neighbors (and rules) closely especially if you have an emotional support dog and pets are not allowed.
  • Less space for your pet to roam.

HOA Home Life with Pets

  • Walk out your door with access to instant grass.
  • Backyard playtime depending on the community.
  • More privacy.
  • Less stress for both you and your pet.

A Florida Reality Check (Especially for Condos)

After the Surfside condo collapse, condo associations across Florida have become stricter overall – not just financially, but with enforcement of rules. Your monthly fees are determined and voted on by a condo board, whether you agree with them or not. You can always apply to be on the board to have a say. You can choose your interior insurance but not your exterior. Again, that is the board.

That includes pet policies being enforced more carefully, documentation requirements and board approvals taking longer. Not only do they have to make necessary repairs but they must be funded with reserves.

 So… Which One Is Better for Pet Owners?

A condo might work if the building is known to be pet friendly and you’re okay with their rules and limited space.

An HOA home is usually better if you want a yard (again check because not all homes come with yards that can be fenced) and you want flexibility as your life (and pets) change. You also have flexibility with your homeowner’s insurance. You can decide to change companies, raise or lower your deductibles and how much coverage you want.

Final Thoughts

When you’re buying a home with pets, this isn’t a small detail – it’s a deal-breaker issue for many people, especially women over 60. Our pets are such wonderful companions!

At the end of the day, it’s your decision. There is no right or wrong – just understand what you’re buying and enjoy!

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Are you a woman over 60 with pets deciding to make a move? What’s confusing you the most about the moving process? Have you considered your pets’ needs and any possible requirements? Let’s have a conversation!

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