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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Ciara Miller’s Baggy Jeans

Ciara Miller’s Baggy Jeans / Summer House Season 10 Episode Finale

There were a lot of tears shed on last night’s season finale of Summer House by me and the cast. But one thing I was happy to see was Ciara Miller heading out to the bars in a black tank with baggy jeans. Ciara’s cool-girl denim collection always nails it. So like we wish someone had strongly warned her about re-kindling West, we want to warn you to scoop up these jeans ASAP because their stock won’t last long.

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Ciara Miller’s Baggy Jeans

Ciara Miller’s Baggy Jeans / Summer House Season 10 Episode Finale

There were a lot of tears shed on last night’s season finale of Summer House by me and the cast. But one thing I was happy to see was Ciara Miller heading out to the bars in a black tank with baggy jeans. Ciara’s cool-girl denim collection always nails it. So like we wish someone had strongly warned her about re-kindling West, we want to warn you to scoop up these jeans ASAP because their stock won’t last long.

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Amanda Batula’s Army Green “Raincoat” with Kyle

Amanda Batula’s Army Green “Raincoat” with Kyle / In The City Fashion Season 1 Episode 1 Fashion

I kinda live for a lil’ dig in a disagreement and when Kyle Cooke threw out the “You’re wearing a f*cking raincoat in Summer” at Amanda Batula on last night’s In The City premiere I had to crack a smile. One of few last night tbh. And though the product description of her army green trench coat says nothing about being water resistant, I decided to share the scoop for next time you’re in the trenches like Amanda.

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The Day I Stepped into My Son’s World

The Day I Stepped into My Son’s World

Recently, I took a trip to Idaho to visit my son.

He’ll be 56 this July. I adopted him when he was six weeks old, and from the moment he came into my life, he brought me more joy than I could ever explain in a sentence or two.

We’ve had a good life together. Not perfect. No life is. But real.

As parents, I think we sometimes freeze our children in time without realizing it. Somewhere in our minds, they remain connected to us through old memories, old routines, and old versions of ourselves. Even after they grow up, marry, move away, and build lives of their own, part of us still sees them through the lens of who they once were.

But This Trip Was Different for Me

For the first time in a very long time, I wasn’t seeing my son through memory. I was seeing the life he built for himself.

And what a world he created.

Not because of accomplishments, money, or status. None of that matters here. What mattered was that I could feel how completely he belonged in his own life. The mountains. The people around him. The routines. The comfort. The confidence. It all fit him naturally.

I was proud of him.

Truly proud.

But at the same time, I realized something that hit me harder than I expected.

I was stepping into his world as a visitor.

Not unwelcome.

Not unloved.

Just no longer the architect of that world.

And oddly enough, there was no real sadness in that realization. At least not the kind people usually think of. It was more like standing in front of a mirror you hadn’t expected to find.

Clear.

Honest.

Unavoidable.

Living Near the Edge

At one point, he took me high into the mountains to a place they call “The Turnaround.” We stood near the edge of a cliff looking down into a valley below, and something about that moment stayed with me.

Maybe because I’ve spent much of my life living near edges.

Some people build comfortable lives and stay safely inside them. I never seemed wired that way. I’ve always rolled the dice a little too willingly. Taken chances. Gambled comfort for possibility. Started over more times than I can count.

Even now, at my age, I realize I’m still trying to build whatever comes next.

That mountain overlook became more than scenery to me. It became a realization.

Children Are Not Meant to Live in Your World

There comes a point in life when you understand your children were never meant to remain inside your world forever. The entire purpose of raising them was so they could eventually build one of their own.

And when they do it well, you may discover something strange: they no longer need your advice every step of the way.

My son didn’t build his life by constantly calling me for direction. He became his own man. And sitting there in Idaho, I realized something simple but important:

That isn’t failure.

That’s completion.

I raised the man, and he became a man.

Another moment from the trip stayed with me too.

The Remodeling Project

Back around the year 2000, my son’s mother-in-law bought an old three-story Victorian house in town, called The Warren House. She wanted to turn it into an antique store, and they called me to come up and remodel it.

That meant something to me.

There were craftsmen in that town they could have hired, but they called me.

And I worked on that place like a man possessed.

I’d start around eight in the morning and work until nearly midnight most nights. One evening, I walked across the street to a gas station to grab something to eat, and the woman behind the counter looked at me and said, “Don’t you ever sleep? I see those lights on in that house all hours of the night.”

I laughed, but the truth was, I had poured myself into that place completely.

It wasn’t just construction to me.

I wanted to bring that old house back to life. I wanted to restore its dignity and character. I wanted the work to matter. And yes, if I’m being honest, part of me wanted my son and his family to look at it and feel proud that I had done it.

A Different Kind of Place

Years later, I learned the house had changed hands. At one point it became a restaurant, and somewhere in my imagination, I pictured this beautiful upscale little place with atmosphere and charm. White tablecloths. Soft lighting. Something that matched the spirit of the old Victorian house itself.

I even thought about bringing old remodel photos to the owner someday.

But when I finally walked inside, it was a pizza place.

Not bad.

Not wrong.

Just completely different from the world I had imagined.

And standing there, I realized how often fantasy and reality quietly part ways while we aren’t looking.

The house moved on.

My son moved on.

Life moved on.

And none of it was personal.

Life Keeps Moving – for Everyone

That may be one of the hardest things to understand as we get older. Not rejection – just recognition. People continue building lives in directions that make sense to them, not necessarily in directions that include us at the center anymore.

That doesn’t mean we failed them.

And it doesn’t mean they failed us.

It simply means life kept moving.

Oddly enough, I realized this same thing applies to music, too.

I put my thoughts, heart, and soul into songs the same way I put myself into that old house. Once they’re finished, they leave my hands and enter someone else’s world.

Some people connect deeply to them.

Some don’t.

My son loves country music. I’ll send him one of my blues songs, and there may not be much reaction at all. But that doesn’t take anything away from the song or from what I put into creating it. It simply means his tastes and mine are different.

And maybe that’s the lesson underneath all of this.

The Real Lesson in This Story

We don’t really control what happens to the things we create once they leave us.

Not children.

Not houses.

Not songs.

Not dreams.

We can pour our love, work, pride, talent, and identity into them. We can do the very best we know how to do. But, eventually, we have to let them belong to the world instead of belonging only to us.

The strange thing is, I left Idaho feeling both proud and responsible at the same time. Proud of the life my son built. Responsible for continuing to build one of my own.

Because maybe the edge isn’t where life ends.

Maybe the edge is where we finally realize we still have more life to create for ourselves.

Let’s Reflect Together:

Did any of your dreams for your children came to be? How do you feel about that? Do you keep living your own life – and do you respect their own life choices? What does life look like for you today, and do you feel responsible to continue building it?

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Georgina Ferzli’s Light Pink Sweater in Confessionals

Georgina Ferzli’s Light Pink Sweater in Confessionals / In The City Fashion Season 1 Episode 1 Fashion

I can tell Georgina Ferzli is my kind of girl based on a couple of things we saw on last night’s In The City premiere. Anyone who is honest enough to say “my life is a disaster” and not sugarcoat is definitely my kind of person. She’s also successful and driven. And then, of course, her clothes! Between her gorgeous light pink confessional sweater, her sheer tie neck dress (which I may or may not have splurged on) and her other looks from last night I can tell she’s going to result in some retail therapy on my end. Which will certainly result in me not ending up on Snapped.

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Where Is That Young Girl Who Danced All Night, Dared to Dream, Embraced Adventure?

Where Is That Young Girl Who Danced All Night, Who Dared to Dream, Who Embraced Adventure

Sometimes I catch a glimpse of myself in the mirror and think, Who on earth is that? It seems as though life has moved on with the exterior me, but forgot to tell my brain and my heart! 🙂

To be honest, I don’t mind at all. I have lost far too many people younger than me to worry about things like wrinkles or grey hairs. And, I do enjoy the age I am at. But that doesn’t mean I have to give up on dancing, dreaming or adventuring!

A Dance a Day Keeps the Doctor Away 🙂

When I was young, I used to dance every day. It was my passion and always made me happy. But there are many other benefits to dancing, such as keeping fit, being flexible and supple. I could eat whatever I liked and never put on weight, whereas now, if I look at a cream cake…. 🙂

There is also the music. For most of us music is evocative of so many of our memories. If I just hear one or two bars of a song, I can often remember where I was, when I last heard it, who I was with, how I felt. Music can be joyful, nostalgic, moving, fun, emotional, empowering, uplifting. 

Maybe we can’t quite rock around the clock like we used to, but ramping up the music and doing a little twist now and again is good for our soul, our body and our heart. 🙂 

Dare to Dream

Remember the thrill of day dreaming? Falling in love with your idol, travelling round the world, becoming a model, writing a best seller! It does not matter at all if your dreams are completely unrealistic, or even if they never come true. Dreaming does not have an age limit… or any limits. 🙂

As well as being fun, day dreaming has many benefits, including allowing your brain down time, being creative, finding answers, reducing stress, solving problems, and improving your mood. It is especially important as we age, as some people may become focused on how little time they have left, rather than how much. Day dreaming provides us with hope and belief that there is a future for us. 

Don’t Be Afraid to Take Risks

When I was young, I loved a challenge. There was no such thing as failure – only learning. Somewhere along the way I became cautious. Perhaps even a little too cautious. I guess when you have accidents and mishaps, you learn not to repeat them.

In many ways that is a good thing, but taking a little risk now and again makes me feel alive. 🙂 I like to take myself on magical mystery trips with no plan, no end destination. Just stop off whenever I want. Occasionally, I drive to the beach and sleep in my car, so I can watch the evening sunset and then the morning sunrise. 🙂

I like to try new food I haven’t tasted, listen to music I have never heard before, read books whose authors have not crossed my path. Every once in a while, I book a trip to somewhere I have never been – Norway, The Arctic Circle – or tick off something from my bucket list: swimming with turtles, sailing on a schooner.

Keeping That Young Girl Close By

So, for as long as possible, I like to keep that young girl close by. Dance, sing at the top of my voice, dream the impossible dream, have a few adventures, and take a little risk. I hope to learn a bit more, be a bit braver, and always, always, stay curious. My inner child is not going anywhere soon. 🙂

Let’s Chat:

Have you still got your young self inside? Do you find music and dancing good for you? Have you still got dreams for the future?

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Ciara Miller’s Grey “Official Boyfriend” Sweatshirt

Ciara Miller’s Grey “Official Boyfriend” Sweatshirt / Summer House Season 10 Finale

Ciara Miller’s “official boyfriend” sweatshirt on last night’s finale definitely made a statement. I love borrowed-from-the-boys looks, and this sweatshirt is one your man may just want to steal from you. Unless his name just happens to be West Wilson and you happen to be one of the coolest girls on the planet.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Ciara Miller's Grey "Official Boyfriend Sweatshirt"

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