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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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Dorit Kemsley’s Red Floral Print Robe

Dorit Kemsley’s Red Floral Print Robe / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 9 Fashion

Dorit Kemsley answered Rachel Zoe’s FaceTime wearing a pretty red floral-print robe on last night’s episode of #RHOBH. This is the type of robe that makes you smile the second you put it on. And while an invite to the Hamptons sounds amazing, a trip to the Style Stealers is exactly how we get on board with a satin piece to chill at home and help our wardrobes blossom.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Dorit Kemsley's Red Floral Print Robe

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Dorit Kemsley’s Red Floral Print Robe

Dorit Kemsley’s Red Floral Print Robe / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 9 Fashion

Dorit Kemsley answered Rachel Zoe’s FaceTime wearing a pretty red floral-print robe on last night’s episode of #RHOBH. This is the type of robe that makes you smile the second you put it on. And while an invite to the Hamptons sounds amazing, a trip to the Style Stealers is exactly how we get on board with a satin piece to chill at home and help our wardrobes blossom.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Dorit Kemsley's Red Floral Print Robe

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Sutton Stracke’s Burgundy Embellished Chain Confessional Look

Sutton Stracke’s Burgundy Embellished Chain Confessional Look / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 9 Fashion

Sutton Stracke’s newest confessional in a burgundy embellished chain mini dress was (cue Amanda Frances voice) a moment on the last episode of #RHOBH. The color is stunning on Sutton, and the cutout and bow details on the sides give a playful yet polished vibe. So if you want to be chained to a new dress this season, now is the moment to snag one that deserves a dramatic entrance into your wardrobe.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Sutton Stracke's Burgundy Embellished Chain Confessional Look

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Amanda Frances’ White and Blue Floral Dress

Amanda Frances’ White and Blue Floral Dress / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 9 Fashion

Amanda Frances invited the girls on FaceTime to her manifesting moment dinner party wearing a white and blue floral dress paired with a hat on last night’s episode of #RHOBH. Though opinions on her may be a bit mixed, she shows us something we love every time with her style. And since we’re manifesting warm weather, it’s time we all have a moment with a Style Stealer and make it a spring and summer to remember.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Amanda Frances' White and Blue Floral Dress

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Why Outgrowing Your Old Life Is a Sign of Health, Not Ingratitude

Why Outgrowing Your Old Life Is a Sign of Health, Not Ingratitude

You did everything right – and still feel like something is missing. Does that thought make you ache a little bit? That quiet ache doesn’t mean something went wrong. It often means something finished.

For many women over 60, life finally slows down enough for clarity to arrive. The children need you differently. The daily urgency eases. Survival mode loosens its grip. And in that quiet, something unexpected happens – you hear yourself again.

And what you hear can feel unsettling. Because you followed the rules.

You showed up.

You endured.

You gave.

So why the restlessness now?

The Myth That Wanting More Means You’re Unhappy

We are taught – especially as women – that wanting more means we’re dissatisfied with what we have. That desire is a sign of ingratitude. That contentment looks like acceptance without questions.

But that isn’t emotional maturity. That’s emotional suppression. Wanting more doesn’t mean you’re unhappy. It means you’re awake.

Healthy adults reassess their lives as they grow. Emotionally mature women notice when something no longer fits – and instead of numbing that awareness, they listen to it.

Longing is not ingratitude. It’s information.

It tells you that the version of life you’re living was built for a version of you that no longer exists. And honoring that truth is not a betrayal of the past – it’s respect for the present.

Why Midlife Clarity Can Feel Like Disruption

Midlife doesn’t create confusion. It removes distraction.

For years, your attention was pulled outward – toward children, partners, work, caregiving, survival. There was always something urgent demanding your energy. Something louder than your own inner voice.

But when that noise quiets, clarity arrives. And clarity can feel disruptive. Not because your life is wrong – but because it’s incomplete.

This stage of life asks different questions:

  • Who am I when I’m no longer needed in the same way?
  • What matters now that I’m not constantly reacting?
  • What do I want my energy to serve next?

That renegotiation of identity can feel like a crisis. But it isn’t.

It’s growth.

The Nervous System and Change After 60

Here’s what rarely gets said out loud:

Change feels scarier after 60 because your nervous system remembers loss.

You’ve lived long enough to know what endings cost. You’ve survived disappointments, grief, and transitions that reshaped you. So, when something inside you starts leaning toward change – even good change – your body responds with hesitation.

This doesn’t mean you’re incapable of reinvention. It means you’re wise. Your system isn’t resisting growth; it’s asking for safety. This is why reinvention in midlife requires gentler pacing. Curiosity before commitment. Exploration before overhaul.

You don’t need to bulldoze your life to move forward. You need permission to move thoughtfully.

Permission to Redefine Success, Joy, and Purpose

Many women are still living by definitions they inherited – not ones they chose:

  • Success defined as constant productivity.
  • Purpose defined as self-sacrifice.
  • Joy defined as something that comes later, after everyone else is cared for.

But those definitions were built for survival seasons.

Not for this one.

You get to redefine what matters now – based on who you are, not who you were required to be.

  • Success might mean peace.
  • Purpose might mean presence.
  • Joy might mean choosing yourself without apology.

This isn’t selfishness. It’s integration.

Small, Safe Ways to Experiment with “What’s Next”

Reinvention doesn’t begin with a grand plan. It begins with small, honest experiments. Try one new habit that supports who you are becoming. Follow one quiet curiosity without needing it to make sense yet. Say yes to one thing that feels like you – not the version others expect.

Reinvention happens in inches, not leaps. And each inch matters. If you feel the ache, the restlessness, the quiet sense that there’s more – it isn’t a failure of gratitude.

It’s a sign of health.

You are not starting over.

You are starting truer.

If this message resonates, you’ll find more encouragement, reflections, and support at RealMomLife.com. You don’t have to navigate this chapter alone.

Let’s Discuss:

What is one small, low-risk way you could explore what’s next – without pressure to commit or overhaul your life?

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Rachel Zoe’s Contrast Collar Jacket

Rachel Zoe’s Contrast Collar Jacket / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 9 Fashion

Rachel Zoe is planning a trip to the Hamptons so she can have a “Hot Girl Summer”, but let’s be honest, she’s a hot girl anytime of year. Even in the cooler temps when she can rock jackets like this contrast collar one we see on #RHOBH tonight. But it is Rachel we’re talking about here so of course this particular one is vintage, but don’t worry we rounded up some similar styles that are just as chic.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


Rachel Zoe's Contrast Collar Jacket

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Dorit Kemsley’s Grey Long Sleeve Tee

Dorit Kemsley’s Grey Long Sleeve Tee / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Episode 9 Fashion

Dorit Kemsley continues to nail the comfy vibe this season of #RHOBH. And on tonight’s episode we get a quick glimpse of this grey long sleeve tee that she wears while packing for the Hamptons. And I am SO happy to see that it’s something that is fully stocked and under $100 because that means it can be added to our travel shopping bag. 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


Dorit Kemsley's Grey Long Sleeve Tee

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