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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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In My Darkest Days: How Writing Gave Me a Way Through Grief

In My Darkest Days How Writing Gave Me a Way Through Grief

You don’t always know what will carry you through grief until you’re in it.

For me, it wasn’t advice or distractions or even time – at least not at first. It was writing. In the quiet moments, when the house felt too still and the weight of loss pressed in, I found myself reaching for a pen or my laptop. Not because I had anything profound to say, but because I needed somewhere for the pain to go.

Grief Doesn’t Follow Rules

Grief can be chaotic. It’s unpredictable and overwhelming. It messes with your mind, your nervous system, your body, and your life.

Even if you think you have your feelings under control, grief hits hard. I use a Feelings Wheel to help me acknowledge and name my feelings at any given moment. However, when dealing with grief it didn’t take me long to realize those feelings changed daily. Or sometimes hourly. It was hard to keep up with the feelings that came with grief.

Writing became a lifeline for understanding my feelings. Sometimes, it was also a way to walk away and let go for a while.

Why Writing Became My Safe Place

Writing gave me a private, judgment-free space where nothing was expected of me, and I didn’t need to fix anything. No one bothered me when I was in my bedroom writing. I didn’t even answer my phone.

I usually wrote in my journal but sometimes my fingers tapped out my thoughts on the laptop. Either way, I felt release. Once I had transferred everything from my mind to the paper or computer, I felt free of the burdens of the emotions and feelings that weighed me down. Even if only temporarily.

My body would calm down, my breathing slowed down, my mind got a reprieve from the heavy burdens of grief. Writing became my safe space.

Putting Pain into Words Helped Me Process It

I would often write about the emotions that I had identified from my Feelings Wheel. Initially, I felt abandonment, emptiness, and guilt. Writing about these emotions helped me make sense of them. Grief is a broad concept that needs to be broken down and reflected on.

Getting these emotions out of my head and onto paper gave me another reprieve from the grief.

Interestingly, I discovered by accident that writing about anything else but grief was also comforting. I guess it occupied my brain and gave me a reprieve from the complicated feelings of grief.

I wrote stories about my childhood and researched articles about a variety of topics. Just the process of writing seemed to put some distance between my feelings and my thoughts.

What I Actually Wrote (It Wasn’t Pretty or Perfect)

My thoughts weren’t perfect. It didn’t matter if I was on my laptop or writing with my pen. It was a mess. I can still see where tears landed on my journal pages.

I wrote messy thoughts about anger and confusion sometimes.

I wrote about my memories and how things would be different now. Honestly, I didn’t write about gratitude and feeling thankful for these memories because that wasn’t what I was genuinely feeling at the time.

I was too angry and confused to think about gratitude.

I had questions… mostly why? It didn’t feel fair.

How Writing Helped Me Begin to Heal

I’m not healed by any means. I still suffer from grief. But I don’t cry every day now. And I don’t need private time to “get myself together” every day now.

I don’t even use my Feelings Wheel every day anymore. My feelings have settled down. My nervous system has settled down. I can sleep most nights, and I can even smile again.

Writing has helped me move forward without grief controlling my life – without all the feelings that come with it. In a matter of weeks, I can look at the Feelings Wheel and see happy feelings for the first time in quite a while.

I know there is research about how writing helps grief, but I have now lived it personally and found it to have much more meaning.

If You’re Walking Through Grief Right Now

If you are walking through grief, I encourage you to try writing as a way to process your thoughts and feelings. See if it works for you like it worked for me.

Write about your feelings, your thoughts, your anger, your memories. Write your questions. And even the answers if you want to. Write all your theories. Get those crippling thoughts out of your head so you can move on with life.

You can even try some creative writing or research projects that distance your mind from grief.

Writing is not going to heal you or take away your grief completely. But writing helped me move past the crippling sadness, so I was able to see the light again.

Sometimes healing doesn’t come from having the right answers. Sometimes it comes from giving your heart a place to speak.

Writing became more than just a way to release my thoughts – it became a quiet companion in some of my hardest moments. It helped me sort through what felt impossible to understand and gave me a small sense of steadiness when everything else felt uncertain.

Healing didn’t happen all at once. But little by little, putting words on the page helped me move forward.

And maybe it can do the same for you.

Related Reading: Grief, Loss, and Loneliness After 60: How to Finally Heal.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you ever turned to writing during a difficult time? Or is this something you might be willing to try? I’d love to hear what has helped you through your hardest moments. Your story might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

In My Darkest Days: How Writing Gave Me a Way Through Grief

In My Darkest Days How Writing Gave Me a Way Through Grief

You don’t always know what will carry you through grief until you’re in it.

For me, it wasn’t advice or distractions or even time – at least not at first. It was writing. In the quiet moments, when the house felt too still and the weight of loss pressed in, I found myself reaching for a pen or my laptop. Not because I had anything profound to say, but because I needed somewhere for the pain to go.

Grief Doesn’t Follow Rules

Grief can be chaotic. It’s unpredictable and overwhelming. It messes with your mind, your nervous system, your body, and your life.

Even if you think you have your feelings under control, grief hits hard. I use a Feelings Wheel to help me acknowledge and name my feelings at any given moment. However, when dealing with grief it didn’t take me long to realize those feelings changed daily. Or sometimes hourly. It was hard to keep up with the feelings that came with grief.

Writing became a lifeline for understanding my feelings. Sometimes, it was also a way to walk away and let go for a while.

Why Writing Became My Safe Place

Writing gave me a private, judgment-free space where nothing was expected of me, and I didn’t need to fix anything. No one bothered me when I was in my bedroom writing. I didn’t even answer my phone.

I usually wrote in my journal but sometimes my fingers tapped out my thoughts on the laptop. Either way, I felt release. Once I had transferred everything from my mind to the paper or computer, I felt free of the burdens of the emotions and feelings that weighed me down. Even if only temporarily.

My body would calm down, my breathing slowed down, my mind got a reprieve from the heavy burdens of grief. Writing became my safe space.

Putting Pain into Words Helped Me Process It

I would often write about the emotions that I had identified from my Feelings Wheel. Initially, I felt abandonment, emptiness, and guilt. Writing about these emotions helped me make sense of them. Grief is a broad concept that needs to be broken down and reflected on.

Getting these emotions out of my head and onto paper gave me another reprieve from the grief.

Interestingly, I discovered by accident that writing about anything else but grief was also comforting. I guess it occupied my brain and gave me a reprieve from the complicated feelings of grief.

I wrote stories about my childhood and researched articles about a variety of topics. Just the process of writing seemed to put some distance between my feelings and my thoughts.

What I Actually Wrote (It Wasn’t Pretty or Perfect)

My thoughts weren’t perfect. It didn’t matter if I was on my laptop or writing with my pen. It was a mess. I can still see where tears landed on my journal pages.

I wrote messy thoughts about anger and confusion sometimes.

I wrote about my memories and how things would be different now. Honestly, I didn’t write about gratitude and feeling thankful for these memories because that wasn’t what I was genuinely feeling at the time.

I was too angry and confused to think about gratitude.

I had questions… mostly why? It didn’t feel fair.

How Writing Helped Me Begin to Heal

I’m not healed by any means. I still suffer from grief. But I don’t cry every day now. And I don’t need private time to “get myself together” every day now.

I don’t even use my Feelings Wheel every day anymore. My feelings have settled down. My nervous system has settled down. I can sleep most nights, and I can even smile again.

Writing has helped me move forward without grief controlling my life – without all the feelings that come with it. In a matter of weeks, I can look at the Feelings Wheel and see happy feelings for the first time in quite a while.

I know there is research about how writing helps grief, but I have now lived it personally and found it to have much more meaning.

If You’re Walking Through Grief Right Now

If you are walking through grief, I encourage you to try writing as a way to process your thoughts and feelings. See if it works for you like it worked for me.

Write about your feelings, your thoughts, your anger, your memories. Write your questions. And even the answers if you want to. Write all your theories. Get those crippling thoughts out of your head so you can move on with life.

You can even try some creative writing or research projects that distance your mind from grief.

Writing is not going to heal you or take away your grief completely. But writing helped me move past the crippling sadness, so I was able to see the light again.

Sometimes healing doesn’t come from having the right answers. Sometimes it comes from giving your heart a place to speak.

Writing became more than just a way to release my thoughts – it became a quiet companion in some of my hardest moments. It helped me sort through what felt impossible to understand and gave me a small sense of steadiness when everything else felt uncertain.

Healing didn’t happen all at once. But little by little, putting words on the page helped me move forward.

And maybe it can do the same for you.

Related Reading: Grief, Loss, and Loneliness After 60: How to Finally Heal.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you ever turned to writing during a difficult time? Or is this something you might be willing to try? I’d love to hear what has helped you through your hardest moments. Your story might be exactly what someone else needs to hear today.

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Living Your Legacy: The Gifts We Leave Without Even Knowing It

Living Your Legacy The Gifts We Leave Without Even Knowing It

Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about legacy – not the big, dramatic, “name on a building” kind, but the quiet kind. The kind that sneaks up on you in the middle of a Tuesday afternoon when you’re folding laundry and suddenly remember a joke your dad used to tell. The kind that shows up in the way you comfort your child, or the way you instinctively reach for kindness before anything else.

Losing my dad cracked something open in me. Not in a tragic way – in a clarifying way. Because when I think about him, I don’t think about accomplishments or possessions. I think about presence. I think about how he made me feel like I had the best, most supportive, most loving dad in the world. And I think about how he extended that same love to my daughter, giving her the gift of a papa who showed up with his whole heart.

He left me a legacy of laughter – stories, jokes, pranks, and the kind of humor that sticks to your ribs. He left me a legacy of steadiness. Of showing up. Of being the kind of person whose absence is felt because their presence was so deeply known.

But here’s the thing: legacy isn’t just about the people who have passed on. Some people leave your daily life because they move away, retire, or simply drift into a different season – and they leave legacies too. Mentors who shaped my career. Friends who shaped my heart. People whose influence still echoes even though they’re no longer in my everyday orbit.

And the more I think about it, the more I realize there are many kinds of legacies we carry and create:

1. The Legacy of Values

These are the things we pass down without even trying – morals, principles, faith, family traditions, the lessons we teach simply by living them. These are the legacies that show up in how we treat people, how we love, how we forgive, how we stand back up.

2. The Legacy of Story

Family history, journals, photo albums, digital archives – the breadcrumbs we leave behind so future generations know where they came from. These are the stories that keep us alive long after we’re gone.

3. The Legacy of Things

Heirlooms, jewelry, investments – the tangible pieces of a life. They matter, but they’re never the whole story. They’re the punctuation marks, not the paragraphs.

4. The Legacy of Community

Volunteering, donating, serving, showing up for others. The ways we make our corner of the world a little better than we found it.

5. The Legacy of Mentorship

Sharing what we know. Investing in others. Creating programs, offering guidance, opening doors. This is the legacy that multiplies – the one that keeps growing long after we’re done planting.

6. The Legacy of Intentional Living

This one might be my favorite. It’s the legacy of kindness. Of presence. Of choosing to live in a way that leaves people better than you found them.

It’s the legacy of time – the most precious thing we ever give.

And here’s something I’ve learned: The most indelible legacy is the way we live.

Not the things we leave behind, but the love we leave behind.

And if you’re a parent, there’s one more piece: letting your children know that when your time comes – hopefully many, many years from now – it’s okay for them to keep living. To keep laughing. To keep becoming. Tell them the kind of life you hope they’ll live, so your voice can echo in their hearts when they need it most.

As for Me?

When my day comes, I hope my daughter remembers me with a smile – not because I was perfect, but because I was present. I hope she stands strong in the never‑ending love and confidence I poured into her. I hope she feels me in her bones, cheering her on, reminding her that she is capable, worthy, and wildly loved.

That’s the legacy I want to leave. And the beautiful thing is… I’m living it right now.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What does legacy mean to you? How do you leave your legacy in your daily life?

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Weaving a New Tapestry After 60: The Bravery of Older Women

Weaving a New Tapestry After 60 The Bravery of Older Women

Since I turned 60, I have been constantly surprised at the amount of innovation, bravery, and inspiration I have seen in older women.

I guess I shouldn’t be surprised… we are the generation that has changed the world, probably more than any other. No longer just the home makers, many of us have worked full time, at the same time as raising a family and running a home. We may have studied, climbed the career ladder, renovated property, as well as being a loving partner, family member, and friend.

Closing Chapters

So as a chapter is closing for me, I am looking for new stories to weave into my tapestry. What to do?

In my quest to find an answer, I thought it would be fun to explore a few possibilities for us wise, talented, and extremely able ladies. 🙂

Downsizing

Downsizing is often the most considered but can sometimes be the scariest. If you have lived in a home for a long time, perhaps raised your family there, saying goodbye can be tough.

But your memories are with you always, they are not left behind in four walls. You could make a ‘Moving Book’ where you put photos of your old house, write memories and anecdotes of special times and events there. I once knew a lady who took her door architrave as it was where she had marked her children growing!

And think of the benefits of living in a smaller place! Less cleaning, easier to maintain, more practical, less clutter, more economical to run. Perhaps there will be financial gains, or the opportunity to live closer to family and loved ones. 

Take your time… every journey begins with the first step.

Moving Abroad

While moving abroad after 60 may sound terrifying for some, every year thousands do it and absolutely love the newfound excitement, change and freedom they gain. A total change of lifestyle!

Obviously, this is something that needs a considerable amount of thought, mountains of research, and a great deal of planning. Get an ‘Adventure Book’ and begin by listing possible destinations, including pros and cons. For example, cost of living, property, healthcare, temperature/seasons, transportation, ease of access, shops, language, proximity to places you would enjoy, etc.

Try to be honest with yourself, living in a place permanently is not the same as holidaying in it. How will things be when you are older? Can you manage the heat/cold? How will it feel being far from family/friends?

But the appeal and benefits are definitely worth considering. Warmer climate, blue skies, laid-back lifestyle, cost of living, better healthcare, new opportunities, adventure are just some of the reasons people decide to up sticks and move abroad.

A New Business

Starting a new business after 60 has many advantages. You have decades of life experience and all the skills it teaches you… financial, organisational, practical, decision making – along with a huge range of life skills. You are also likely to know what you enjoy doing and, most importantly, what you don’t. Research shows that doing something you love is more likely to be successful than something you don’t.

There is also the added bonus that you are less likely to be financially responsible for others, allowing you more freedom with your decisions. The opportunities for business startups are huge: consultant, therapist, tutor, beautician, Youtuber, dog groomer – the list really is endless. Of course, always do your research first. 

Finding Love

Many solo over 60s enjoy life on their own, but others would prefer to have someone to share it with. If you are thinking of relationships, take a few steps so that you are proactive. You may bump into Mr. Right anywhere, but there is no harm in increasing your chances. 🙂

There are hundreds of ways to meet others, especially nowadays. You may prefer to join an online dating agency, become a member of local clubs where you can meet people with similar interests, or let your friends know you are thinking of starting a new relationship.

I know it can be a little scary putting yourself out there, but as long as you are careful, don’t take risks, and let someone know if you are going on a date with someone for the first time, there is no reason you can’t have just as much fun as when you were younger. 🙂

Dream Big!

The wonderful thing is that anything is possible. Truly it is! You can go to university, learn to fly a plane, become an extra in films, learn a language, travel the world, learn to dance, start a business, become a writer, start a blog, explore opportunities that could never have been possible when you were younger.

The only thing holding you back is your imagination… so dream big! There is no reason that someone else deserves it more than you. Picasso, Shakespeare, Pavarotti, Marco Polo, Neil Armstrong, Leonardo Da Vinci, Albert Einstein all had dreams. Their dreams were no more valid than yours.

So explore that wonderful, experienced and very clever brain of yours and ask it, What shall we do next? 🙂

Let’s Chat:

Have you changed the way you live? If you could change one thing, what would it be?

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Ciara Miller’s Sheer Satin Bra Shirt

Ciara Miller’s Sheer Satin Bra Shirt / Summer House Instagram Fashion April 2026

The very exciting news broke that Ciara Miller is joining season 35 of Dancing with the Stars. She made her announcement in a sheer satin bra shirt, the perfect top for the moment. It’s giving bold energy while still feeling modern and cool. So let’s dance our way into Ciara’s sheer style with a chic new inspired look.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Lindsay Hubbard’s Cream Lace Cardigan and Pants

Lindsay Hubbard’s Cream Lace Cardigan and Pants / Summer House Instagram Fashion April 2026

I’ve been loving Lindsay Hubbard’s style lately. It’s giving boho chic, my absolute fave for warm weather. Her cream lace cardigan and pants she hit the city in recently are giving Hamptons vibes in the absolute best way. And as always, when Lindsay gets loveshackfancy, we’re here to serve the deets.

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Rachel Zoe’s Black Purse

Rachel Zoe’s Black Purse / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 15 Reunion Fashion

The #RHOBH ladies are arriving for the reunion so of course we have to share whatever we find. And right now that is Rachel Zoe’s black purse! I think this is the perfect bag to have because it would go with just about any outfit. Including a fun fur jacket (that we also have similar of) of course. 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


Rachel Zoe's Black Purse

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