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I Am My New Priority

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It has taken me over 60 years, but I have finally come to understand that you truly cannot take care of anyone else unless you take care of yourself first.

Just like the safety instructions on an airplane – Put Your Oxygen Mask on First!

I Wanted to Serve Others

My history is the same as it was for most women my age. I was the one who looked after, supported, loved, nurtured, and sacrificed for everyone in my life. Family, friends, husband, children, neighbors, people at work, you name it. Often to my own detriment.

For many years, I felt like I was the only one who could or would do it.

From the bottom of my heart, it made me happy to give everything I had to those that I loved. They didn’t even need to ask. If I saw what seemed to be a need, I did whatever I could to help.

It made me feel valuable as a human being to be of service to others.

What I didn’t realize was that I was not saving some of that compassion for myself. Anything I did that was just for me felt selfish and many of those I had helped were very quick to criticize me for it.

But I Also Needed to Take Care of Myself without Feeling Guilt

Now, looking back, I wonder if the real issue was what I was taking away from them by having something for myself. Those, of course, are the same people who somehow were not available when I needed something.

Slowly but surely, I have pulled away from those people and situations. Creating some distance has helped me to see what I really needed and that was to take care of myself first and then share what I could with others.

Remembering what brings me joy and giving myself permission to have it has been wonderful. I relish those beautiful moments when something new shows up, and I know I am free to explore it.

There are so many things that I love, and now I am taking the time to enjoy them. Something as simple as shutting off my phone while I take a nap, read a book, or write an article feels like a total indulgence. I am no longer available to everyone 24 hours a day. Do Not Disturb has become one of my favorite settings!

I Am Also Learning How to Say No

I do not need to give an explanation or apology when I say no. I want to say it kindly but with conviction, so I’m practicing different ways to politely decline. It is a work in progress after a lifetime of always saying yes. It helps if I just pause before giving an answer to a request. I try to remember that sometimes I need to say no to them to say yes to me.

Another change I am making is how I give. I love to walk into a grocery store and pay for someone’s food or donate to a worthy cause as a gift to my grandchildren. There are so many people in need and so many ways that any kindness I can show fills my heart with joy and appreciation.

The real beauty of making myself a priority is that I have so much more to give. I feel nourished and abundant in ways that I never imagined.

My sense of self-worth is no longer tied to what others need from me; it is simply what I deserve for myself.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you been the person everyone turns to for help? Are you able to say no to requests or do you say yes even when it depletes you? How do you take care of yourself? Share your stories and join the conversation!

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How an Unplanned Trip Can Boost Your Energy

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I am essentially a planner, but I love spontaneous events. There is something wild and wonderful about an unplanned experience in your life, such as a short trip that takes you away from your daily routine.

But I went to Italy about four weeks ago, and it gave me a real lift. A mixture of the inherent pleasure in being there and the brief interruption to my quotidian life (“a change is as good as a rest” and all that).

The Birthday Phone Call

It all happened as a result of a phone call on my birthday in mid-February. A very old friend, an Italian woman from Turin, phoned to wish me well. So far so normal.

But in the course of the conversation, she mentioned that she was feeling somewhat low for a series of reasons. I knew that both she and her husband had non-trivial medical problems and assumed this was part of the issue.

Discussing our conversation with my husband awhile later, he said unexpectedly, “Why don’t you go visit her for a few days? That might be good for both of you.” What a lovely idea.

The thought had never crossed my mind. But it is not that far. About an hour and a half by plane from London where we live. Yes, it was possible.

I love travelling but have been almost nowhere since before the pandemic, because said husband has not been too well, and I never wanted to be too distant in case of need. But he has been much better recently. Yes, I thought, it really was possible.

Of course, I had to check with my friend to see if a sudden visitor would be more of an imposition than a joy, but no, she was delighted at the idea. She suggested that they would both be free in about 10 days and so the trip began to take shape.

The Trip

So, in late February, two weeks after the phone call, I found myself on a plane to Turin and a subsequent train into the city. And there she was, with her husband, at the station to greet me.

We have known each other for over 40 years, spoken frequently over the telephone, but had not seen each other for close to a decade. How completely amazing.

And we passed a very enjoyable four days. We walked and walked around Turin. Although it never stopped raining (the one less-than-ideal aspect of the trip), it is a city of colonnades, so we could do that without becoming soaked.

We took in the occasional tourist attraction, like the famous cinema museum which sits within one of the strangest buildings I have ever been in, known as ‘le mole’ (which means ‘monumental building’).

We went out to eat and everything was delicious. When we didn’t, it transpired that her husband was a wonderful cook. I felt so well looked after. Indeed, I said I would rate him on Trip Advisor.

And, of course, we talked and talked. We always did. But it was usually on the phone. Now, we were arm in arm, looking at the shops and sights of Turin.

And, best of all, she wasn’t really low after all. Yes, she had had some immediate concerns at the time of our phone call, but they were both essentially doing well. I wondered if she had said she was fine at that time, whether the visit would ever have happened.

All so very unexpected. And delightful.

Coming Home

Of course, visits of four days are quickly over. I found myself all too soon on the train back to the airport.

But I came home very refreshed. I had experienced the pleasure of a warm friend and a complete change of scenery. My husband was doing fine.

And there was something special about the fact it had all been arranged and effected so quickly. It gave it an almost fairy-tale quality.

I highly recommend a brief change from your day-to-day life. It can do wonders.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you made any sudden visits recently? Where did you go and who did you see? What was the impact on your life?

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Gabby Prescod’s Tan Cargo Pants

Gabby Prescod’s Tan Cargo Pants / Summer House Season 8 Episode 4 Fashion

I have to give these girls major credit for their ‘fits for the ~3 hour drive from NYC to the Hamptons. They always look so chic, like Gabby Presod in her tan cargo pants on last night’s Summer House. If it were me I’d probably look like a total slob kabob. But now that I know where to get Gabby’s pants maybe next time I’m on a longer car ride I’ll have more of a drive to look cute.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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6 Real Housewives Approved Spring 2024 Trends

This post is a sponsored partnership between BigBlondeHair.com and Saks Fifth Avenue, although all thoughts and picks are our own. We receive a percentage of sales for items purchased from Saks Fifth Avenue through affiliate links in this post. The celebrity names mentioned are in no way affiliated with this post or endorsing any products mentioned.

Spring is only a week away, which means it’s time to shop. So once again I’ve partnered with Saks to curate looks based on six of Spring 2024’s top trends. And since the Housewives are always ahead of the curve when it comes to style, they’ve given me the perfect inspiration for the best pieces to pick. 

Whether you need a full wardrobe refresh or just a few new Spring staples, Saks has all of the it designers and pieces of the season. If you’ve seen the brand on Bravo, chances are they stock it. And if it’s good enough for our favorite Real Housewives to shop there, it’s definitely good enough for us. So don’t miss out on the fun of adding these stylish Spring trends to your wardrobe, all from Saks.

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🌷Transform Your Kitchen Into a Haven for Spring Entertaining🌷

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This article is sponsored by QVC.

Spring is in the air, and QVC is here to help you transform your kitchen into the ultimate hub for delightful gatherings. The “Now You’re Cooking Week” is when they bring you a curated selection of kitchen essentials and stylish dinnerware to boost your spring entertaining game. Let’s turn your kitchen into a haven of delightful gatherings filled with delicious aromas, elegant table settings, and memorable moments.

Let’s celebrate good food, great company, and unforgettable moments this season!

Boost Your Baking Experience

Imagine the sweet aroma of freshly baked treats wafting through your home as you whip up delightful confections with Carla Hall’s Sweet Heritage Bakeware Set. This 3-piece stoneware collection not only brings charm to your kitchen but also boosts your baking game.

Carla Hall's Sweet Heritage Bakeware Set

Set the Table in Style

Transform your Spring entertaining experience into a visual feast with the Temp-tations Floral Lace 12-Piece Essential Dinnerware Set. Honor the beauty of spring with this charming set that combines functionality and elegance. Whether hosting a dinner party or enjoying a casual meal with loved ones, these dinnerware pieces add a touch of sophistication to your table.

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Indulge in Elegant Dessert Displays

Dessert becomes an enchanting affair with Valerie’s Set of 2 Graduated Ruffle Edge Cake Plates. Show off your sweet creations on these beautiful cake plates, turning every treat into a centerpiece. The graduated ruffle design adds a touch of whimsy to your table, making dessert time a truly delightful experience.

Valerie's Set of 2 Graduated Ruffle Edge Cake Plates

Streamline Your Cooking

Simplify your kitchen and amplify your cooking capabilities with Our Place’s Set of 2 10-in-1 Ceramic Nonstick Always Pans 2.0. These versatile pans not only reduce clutter but also enhance your culinary creations. The ceramic nonstick surface ensures a seamless cooking experience, allowing you to focus on enjoying the process and connecting with your guests.

Our Place's Set of 2 10-in-1 Ceramic Nonstick Always Pans 2.0

Mix, Prep, and Serve

Add a dash of style to your kitchen with the Dash 5-piece Stainless Steel Mixing Bowl Set. They blend style and practicality, perfect for mixing, prepping, and serving.

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Brunch Like a Pro

Impress your brunch guests with Chefman’s 12″ Round Stainless Steel Crepe Maker. Create perfect crepes easily, thanks to the non-stick surface and adjustable temperature control. Bring your brunch game to another level and create a memorable experience with this sleek and versatile kitchen essential.

Chefman's 12" Round Stainless Steel Crepe Maker

Embrace the enchantment of spring entertaining by exploring these kitchen treasures and more on the Spring Entertaining Page. Make this season a celebration of good food, great company, and the joy of creating unforgettable moments in your kitchen.

Happy entertaining! 🌼🍽✨

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you ready for spring parties? Are there new kitchen tools that you’ve been looking forward to acquiring?

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🌷Transform Your Kitchen Into a Haven for Spring Entertaining🌷

transform your kitchen

This article is sponsored by QVC.

Spring is in the air, and QVC is here to help you transform your kitchen into the ultimate hub for delightful gatherings. The “Now You’re Cooking Week” is when they bring you a curated selection of kitchen essentials and stylish dinnerware to boost your spring entertaining game. Let’s turn your kitchen into a haven of delightful gatherings filled with delicious aromas, elegant table settings, and memorable moments.

Let’s celebrate good food, great company, and unforgettable moments this season!

Boost Your Baking Experience

Imagine the sweet aroma of freshly baked treats wafting through your home as you whip up delightful confections with Carla Hall’s Sweet Heritage Bakeware Set. This 3-piece stoneware collection not only brings charm to your kitchen but also boosts your baking game.

Carla Hall's Sweet Heritage Bakeware Set

Set the Table in Style

Transform your Spring entertaining experience into a visual feast with the Temp-tations Floral Lace 12-Piece Essential Dinnerware Set. Honor the beauty of spring with this charming set that combines functionality and elegance. Whether hosting a dinner party or enjoying a casual meal with loved ones, these dinnerware pieces add a touch of sophistication to your table.

emp-tations Floral Lace 12-Piece Essential Dinnerware Set

Indulge in Elegant Dessert Displays

Dessert becomes an enchanting affair with Valerie’s Set of 2 Graduated Ruffle Edge Cake Plates. Show off your sweet creations on these beautiful cake plates, turning every treat into a centerpiece. The graduated ruffle design adds a touch of whimsy to your table, making dessert time a truly delightful experience.

Valerie's Set of 2 Graduated Ruffle Edge Cake Plates

Streamline Your Cooking

Simplify your kitchen and amplify your cooking capabilities with Our Place’s Set of 2 10-in-1 Ceramic Nonstick Always Pans 2.0. These versatile pans not only reduce clutter but also enhance your culinary creations. The ceramic nonstick surface ensures a seamless cooking experience, allowing you to focus on enjoying the process and connecting with your guests.

Our Place's Set of 2 10-in-1 Ceramic Nonstick Always Pans 2.0

Mix, Prep, and Serve

Add a dash of style to your kitchen with the Dash 5-piece Stainless Steel Mixing Bowl Set. They blend style and practicality, perfect for mixing, prepping, and serving.

Dash 5-piece Stainless Steel Mixing Bowl Set

Brunch Like a Pro

Impress your brunch guests with Chefman’s 12″ Round Stainless Steel Crepe Maker. Create perfect crepes easily, thanks to the non-stick surface and adjustable temperature control. Bring your brunch game to another level and create a memorable experience with this sleek and versatile kitchen essential.

Chefman's 12" Round Stainless Steel Crepe Maker

Embrace the enchantment of spring entertaining by exploring these kitchen treasures and more on the Spring Entertaining Page. Make this season a celebration of good food, great company, and the joy of creating unforgettable moments in your kitchen.

Happy entertaining! 🌼🍽✨

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you ready for spring parties? Are there new kitchen tools that you’ve been looking forward to acquiring?

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How to Sow the Seeds of Patience with Your Grandchildren

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Like most three-year-olds, patience is something my little granddaughter (J) has very little of. When she comes round to see us, within minutes every toy is out. Within an hour she has painted, pummelled play dough, played shops and been outside on her bike!

This is quite normal, but as they say – patience is a virtue, and we all need to develop it at some point in our lives. Without making a big deal of it, I mention patience to J and how important it is. I know she has taken some notice as she talks about it to her mum.

Patience Is a Virtue

Over the past few decades, there has been a new kid on the block – Emotional Intelligence/ Emotional Quotient (EI/EQ). In essence, EI is the ability to identify and manage your own emotions and the emotions of others. It has been found that EI is as, if not more, important than IQ for predetermining how successful in life a child may become.

Emotional Intelligence is in part about delayed gratification and an understanding that some self-denial can provide dividends in the end. One example of this is staying in and revising versus going out and partying – a difficult choice for many 16-year-olds.

Unfortunately, there is very little we can do about IQ, but luckily, we can help children develop a stronger EQ. Patience is a key component of EQ, so the sooner we foster this in our grandbabes the better.

Sow Seeds of Patience with Your Grandchildren

Two of the most enjoyable things for me to do are gardening and playing with the grandchildren; if you can combine them, then so much the better. I love getting out in the fresh air, being surrounded by the soft relaxing aroma of freshly turned earth and greenery. J, on the other hand, enjoys the garden for other reasons!

A couple months ago we visited a garden centre. She really enjoyed it! While we were there, we bought a packet of cress seeds; a children’s pack where seeds are sown on cotton wool and grow as if cress is the lawn of a house.

As we were planting the seeds, we chatted about what seeds are and how they contain all the goodness the little plants would need to grow. I showed her the seeds inside apples and pears and the stone from an avocado, explaining that they would also grow if we planted them. Of course, she asked if we could do just that.

Children Are Naturally Inquisitive

I got caught up in J’s enthusiasm, and we set to work with her mini gardening set. She took it all very seriously insisting on “writing” on the labels.

I never cease to be thrilled by the capacity young children have to find fascination in absolutely anything.

As grandparents, we can harness our grandchildren’s innate curiosity, helping to foster a love of learning. We are often impatient for babies to talk – and then regret it in the wake of all the “whys” that incessantly follow us around!

I believe we should try to answer all those whys to the best of our ability. Experience as parent, teacher and grandparent has taught me that children process as much of your answer as they can and discard the rest. We have no way of knowing which bits they will retain, although often more than we think.

Learning Is Fun

Learning through play is something we hear a lot about and as grandparents we are especially well-placed to provide just that. Getting in touch with your inner child is a wonderful experience, opening up new horizons even after 60.

J and I thoroughly enjoyed our gardening. She took her cress seeds home with strict instructions to keep them moist and to look at them every day for signs of germination – yes, she loved that word! I was left with the avocado and fruit seeds after promising to look after them properly.

Within a week, the cress had fully grown so J and her mum had egg and cress sandwiches for tea.

Seeds Grow Slowly – Patience Is Required

Over the next six weeks, the avocado stone gradually opened until one day a half inch shoot had appeared. The apple and pear seeds stubbornly refused to show their heads so I put them outside. Monitoring the growth of the avocado kept J’s interest in the seeds alive.

Last week, a couple of tiny green shoots appeared. J’s interest and patience had been rewarded – one more step towards the development of a healthy EQ – and an even closer bond between Grandma and J.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How have you tried to teach lessons of patience to your grandchildren? Are there particular interests that you share? How do you see Emotional Intelligence play out in people’s success? Please share in the comments.

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Living with Digestive Issues and Still Having a Social Life

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It’s not easy living with digestive issues, food allergies, or intestinal conditions – waking up each morning wondering if what we ate yesterday will impact today; never knowing when and how our bodies will react to food, even food that is usually safe to enjoy.

It’s confusing, annoying, and sometimes depressing. It can often lead to isolation, or a reluctance to make plans, join others at restaurants or accept invitations to private homes for a meal.

Want to Know the Stats?

The statistics on how many women struggle with these conditions are staggering. According to the Center for Disease Control, 6.2% of women have food allergies and it’s estimated that more than 20% of the world’s population has some sort of food sensitivity.

Two-thirds of the patients diagnosed with Irritable Bowel Syndrome are women, and the exact number of those suffering without a diagnosis is nearly impossible to accurately estimate, but hovers somewhere around 20% of the American population, and according to the National Institute of Health less than 20% of those experiencing chronic symptoms seeks medical treatment.

Many women, like myself, have suffered for decades being treated for the symptoms, usually unsuccessfully, without ever knowing the cause – until finally being diagnosed with a condition with no cure. The only real relief on offer is a complicated restricted diet.

So, how do we live with chronic dietary issues and still enjoy an engaged, happy life? Here are a few adjustments I’ve made over the past few years that have helped.

Don’t Guard Your Condition as a Secret

Yes, it can be awkward to share the details, embarrassing even. But at least tell your closest friends and family so they can support you. Try to frame information in a positive dialogue about what foods are healthier for you and how to make enjoying a meal possible. Always try to answer questions as candidly as you can. I’ve found most of my friends and family are eager to help me and even seek out restaurants, recipes and products that fit into my diet.

Be Honest with Servers in Restaurants

I was thrilled the other day to be asked by a server if there were any dietary restrictions the kitchen should know about. Her question even came with the offer to make substitutions so that I could enjoy a dish without the dairy. They have made a lifelong customer!

If the server isn’t as forthcoming as this one, mention your restrictions and ask for assistance. Most hospitality professionals are aware of dietary requirements and are willing to accommodate their guests.

Let Your Host Know of Your Dietary Needs

When accepting an invitation to someone’s home, be honest about your dietary limitations. Explain that you can’t eat certain foods and let them know you are quite comfortable enjoying a portion of the menu, if they don’t mind.

I’ve also had guests with celiac disease bring their own dinner, so they could enjoy everyone’s company without concern, since my kitchen is not free of gluten.

Invite Others to Join You in Alternative Healthy Activities

We can enjoy common interests that aren’t centered around food. Make dates to work out, enjoy a hobby, go shopping or spend a day outdoors hiking, biking or sightseeing. There are so many ways to be together in which we can fully participate.

Be an Advocate – Help People Understand

There is so much misinformation and confusion around gastrointestinal disease, food allergies and the multitude of conditions that make up our population, we need to take every opportunity to educate and encourage others to be supportive. We don’t need to go into detail, but explaining our condition honestly helps dissipate the misconception that food sensitivity, allergies and stomach issues are just the latest fad.

Be Supportive of Others and Make the Connection

I’ve found there is a comforting connection that forms when two people within the same circumstance share their secrets, struggles and offer support. No one knows the life altering, time consuming and energy draining effects of living with these conditions like another who lives with them. Share information, your experience, creative recipes, products and resources and, perhaps most importantly of all, be a compassionate person who understands. You just might make a new friend in the process.

Life is still rewarding, social and enjoyable, we just need to be open to opportunities, be creative and always see what is possible.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are digestive issues part of your daily life? How do you handle them? Do they keep you from being social? What have you found helps you in social events or when visiting with friends/family?

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Dorit Kemsley’s Tan Cashmere Cardigan

Dorit Kemsley’s Tan Cashmere Cardigan / Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Instagram March 2024 Fashion

Dorit Kemsley is stunning in her recent Instagram story in a tan cashmere cardigan while standing next to her sister. She styled it effortlessly with a button-down and black leggings for a super chic business casual vibe. So give yourself a beautiful smile by Dr. Sam shopping a new cardigan below.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


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Nurturing Sisterhood After 60: Celebrating, Connecting, and Supporting Each Other

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In a world where relationships are often measured by digital connections, the strength of bonds formed by women after the age of 60 is nothing short of inspiring. Beyond the confines of societal expectations and stereotypes, women find solace, understanding, and empowerment in the sisterhood that flourishes in their golden years, yet we get busy within our world and oftentimes need to be reminded that a small gesture can make a significant difference in one of our “sisters” day!

I wanted to share and encourage you to consider ways that we can be mindful of supporting each other and contribute to our own well being on a consistent basis. Here are some ideas!

1. Cultivate Genuine Connections

Friendship takes center stage in the lives of women after 60. The friendships formed during this phase of life are often characterized by a deep connection that transcends superficialities. Women understand the importance of having a solid support system, and they actively contribute to building and sustaining these relationships.

Picture this: Mary and Susan, two artistic rebels in their 60s, met in a pottery class where their creations were more abstract than practical. Their bond formed over shared laughter at the expense of their lopsided clay masterpieces, evolving into a friendship that withstands the test of time.

2. Celebrate Individual Achievements

Another crucial aspect of women supporting each other is the celebration of individuality. By now, many women have overcome societal pressures and expectations, allowing them to embrace their true selves. Instead of competing or comparing, these women champion individual achievements and celebrate the diverse paths each has taken. Imagine Jane, the aspiring entrepreneur, launching her post-retirement business selling handmade dog sweaters.

Drawing inspiration from historical figures like Eleanor Roosevelt, who continued to champion humanitarian causes well into her 60s, Jane’s friends not only adorned their pets with these quirky creations but also turned Jane’s home into a runway for canine fashion shows – proving that embracing individuality can be as entertaining as it is empowering.

3. Create Inclusive Spaces

Establish environments that welcome diversity and inclusivity. Whether in physical social gatherings or online communities, ensure that all voices are heard and respected. Enter the online community Sixty and ME! A sanctuary where women over 60 share their experiences, wisdom, triumphs and, yes, the occasional mishap.

Channeling the spirit of Maya Angelou, who in her later years became an advocate for elder women, these women share wisdom with a touch of humor, creating a lighthearted atmosphere that brings laughter into the shared experiences of aging.

4. Offer Emotional Support

In the face of life’s challenges, women often find strength in unity and being there for one another in those times which can often be faced alone. A brief phone call, text or a basket left at the front door with your favorite goodie lets one know that you are there for them when they are ready to be heard.

5. Explore Shared Hobbies and Activities

Strengthen the bonds of sisterhood by engaging in shared hobbies and activities. Imagine the “Golden Girls Walking Club,” where the term “power walk” takes on a whole new meaning. With walking sticks doubling as dance partners and occasional impromptu aerobics sessions, these women redefine fitness in their 60s, proving that laughter and exercise can go hand in hand.

Drawing inspiration from historical trailblazers like Ruth Bader Ginsburg, who continued her workout routines well into her 80s, these women exemplify that staying active and connected is a key ingredient for a fulfilling life at any age.

The support system that women create for each other after 60 is a testament to the enduring power of sisterhood. These amusing anecdotes and historical inspirations highlight the real-life stories of women who have leaned on each other, demonstrating the importance of cultivating meaningful connections and celebrating the beauty of female camaraderie throughout the golden years.

After all, history shows us that women supporting women is not just a contemporary concept but a tradition that spans generations. Do you feel that you could use some support as you are entering a new season? I would love to connect with you, and there are various free resources on my website!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How are you showing up for other women in your life? Have you created a network that has enabled you to be present in your life and support others at the same time? Please share in the comments so we can all learn and grow together!

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