Right now, I’m sitting in my apartment and working from the couch. The ceiling fan is spinning at top speed. The box fan is just a few feet away. I’m doing okay…for now. Those weeks before the official start of summer are particularly agonizing because one day could feel like a literal furnace while the next is rainy and cold. When do I set up the air conditioners? At this point, who knows?! Normally, my skincare routine gets stuck in a rut when this happens too. I know sunscreen is always a must, but what about my face oil and the rare makeup moment? Right now, the thought of putting anything on my face feels like disaster and a literal meltdown. But since moisturizing is a non-negotiable, I’ve gotten familiar with some of the best summer face oil that keeps me glowy without going into greasy territory.

Like retinol, foundation, and countless other skin products, there isn’t just one solution for everyone. Finding a product (like face oil) or crafting an effective routine depends on your lifestyle, budget, and skin type, which doesn’t necessarily have to fit into one category. For instance, my skin is oilier in the winter while I tend to be on the drier side come summer. With that being said, this is just a starter list of formulas made with oils renowned for their lightweight texture and overall effectiveness. Whether you wear them alone or mix a couple drops into your foundation or BB cream, these skin nourishers go beneath the surface to moisturize, repair, and brighten with consistent use. Keep scrolling and take your pick.

nyakio.

nyakio Maracuja & Yangu Rescue Oil

This Black-owned skin soother is made with lightweight ingredients directly sourced from two countries: cold-pressed maracuja oil from Brazil and cold-pressed yangu from South Africa. Combined with other effective properties, this certified clean oil nourishes all skin types, minus a heavy, greasy finish.

Aspen Kay Naturals.

Aspen Kay Naturals Glow Face Oil

Here’s a natural and organic face oil that’s not only affordably priced, but infused with five different oils (camellia seed, olive, helichrysum, rosehip, sea buckthorn) that provide antioxidant protection, reparative properties, protection from sun damage, moisture, and so much more.

Buy: Aspen Kay Naturals Glow Face Oil $19.99

Bio-Oil.

Bio-Oil

An oldie, but goodie you can find in just about any drugstore and use from head to toe for effortlessly glowy hair, face and body. Some also attest to its ability to fade stretchmarks with longterm consistent use.

Buy: Bio-Oil $16.48

The Ordinary.

The Ordinary 100% Organic Cold-Pressed Rose Hip Seed Oil

Rosehip oil has long been renowned for its neutral scent and vitamin-rich properties that is especially beneficial to drier skin, but is quick-absorbing enough for those with oilier skin, too.

Biossance.

Biossance Squalane + Vitamin C Rose Oil

You’re getting the best of many worlds with this best-selling oil that combines the brightening effects of an oil-soluble, stable form of vitamin C; the moisturizing effects of squalane; and the firming effects of Chlos Crystal oil.

Youth to the People.

Youth to the People Superberry Hydrate + Glow Oil

For those navigating especially humid weather, you’ll be obsessed with the fast-absorbing power of this lightweight oil, made with a trio of fruit extracts and plant oils to boost collagen production, reduce dark spots, and provide antioxidant protection.

Kora Organics.

Kora Organics Noni Glow Face Oil

Brand founder Miranda Kerr says this nourishing oil is her longtime favorite of all the Kora Organics products. It’s suitable for any skin type, absorbs in record time, and is rich in Noni fruit extract, which contains over 100 vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants.

First Aid Beauty.

First Aid Beauty Ultra Repair® Oat & Hemp Seed Dry Oil

Ask anyone with sensitive skin which brand they swear by and at least one is bound to name-drop First Aid Beauty. Its star face oil is this botanical-based formula infused with calming colloidal oatmeal and Cannabis Sativa Seed Oil to soothe and moisturize distressed skin, whether you’re dealing with a breakout or sun damage.

RMS Beauty.

RMS Beauty Oil

Though it feels lightweight to the touch, this potent formula contains absolutely no water and three organic oils (rosehip, tamanu, buriti) to hydrate, calm redness and deliver fatty acids to the skin for a plumper, healthier complexion.

Mad Hippie.

Mad Hippie Antioxidant Face Oil

Consider this eco-friendly and preservative-free face oil a literal shield against damaging free radicals and UV damage, thanks to hemp seed extract.

Buy: Mad Hippie Antioxidant Face Oil $19.99

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In a previous article, I argued that announcing your retirement at work is one of the biggest financial mistakes that you can make. Not only can talking about your retirement result in lower compensation towards the end of your career, but, it can also limit your ability to work as a consultant, either for your ex-employer or one of the companies that you worked with in the past.

Today, I’d like to go a little deeper and talk about exactly how to go about getting your ex-employer to take you on as a consultant after you leave your full-time job. Along the way, I will share some advice from other pre-retirees that I have interviewed over the years.

I’m not exaggerating when I say that these techniques changed my life. Continuing to work as a consultant in the first years of “retirement” gave me the confidence and financial resources to start my own company. Had I been in a more defensive frame of mind, I probably would have never started Sixty and Me or any of my other businesses.

Here are 4 tips for getting your ex-employer to hire you in retirement.

Don’t Tell Anyone that You Are Retiring

We live in a world that celebrates retirement as a destination. Every day, we are bombarded by images of happy seniors, relaxing on the beach or playing golf.

It also doesn’t help that, financially speaking, Social Security and Medicare force us to think about 65 as “retirement age.” It doesn’t matter that “full retirement age” for Social Security may actually be 66. Most of us have age 65 stuck in our heads anyway.

The truth is that reaching “full retirement age” is not the same as “retiring.” This is an important distinction because, as soon as we tell people at work that we are retiring, they subconsciously (and sometimes consciously) start to discount our value, contribution and even intelligence.

Having talked with hundreds of soon-to-be and recent retirees, I can tell you that a much better approach is to talk about transitioning to life as a consultant or small business owner. It doesn’t matter whether you follow through on this plan. Just think of it as insurance.

When I left my last full-time job at a large technology company, my manager asked me if I wanted his assistant to organize a retirement party for me. I smiled and told him that I planned on working forever and that I would prefer to explain my plans to my colleagues and business partners personally. He was super-supportive once he understood my thinking.

Over the next 6 years, while I grew Sixty and Me, I took on projects with multiple teams from my ex-employer. I am convinced that none of these opportunities would have presented themselves had I told everyone that I was “retiring,” in a traditional sense.

Plan Your Consulting Business *Before* You Leave

Don’t wait until you are officially retired to start your consulting business. Even if your current contract prevents you from taking on side work or partnering with people in your industry, there is nothing stopping you from planning your future business.

For example, I wish that I had taken the time to build a simple website before I left my last job. Not only would I have had a place to point my colleagues and business partners in the final days of my career, but, going through this process would have helped me to decide exactly what kind of work I was interested in taking on.

There are so many small ways to prepare for a post-career business. One recent retiree, David, told me, “When I was getting ready to leave my job at an advertising agency, I actually handed out business cards for my new consulting business. I think that taking this step really helped to make the whole process of becoming a consultant much more ‘real.’ 10 years later, I still work with many people at my old company. I don’t make as much, but, I also don’t work nearly as many hours!”

Keep Your Eyes and Ears Open for Opportunities

Like many people who have started successful consulting businesses in retirement, I actually found my first project before I left my career behind.

Despite the fact that I gave several months’ notice, in the days leading up to my departure, my employer was still having difficulty finding someone to take over the management of one of its community websites. I jumped on the opportunity and offered to take over management of the website for a fraction of the cost that it would take them to hire a full-time employee.

Trust me when I say that you will never be in a better position to look for consulting opportunities than when you are still working for your current employer. You know their strengths and weaknesses. You may even know how much it costs them to hire new employees. So, don’t wait until you are an outsider! Start planning your first projects while you are still sitting at the table!

If I had it all to do over again, I would have also taken advantage of any opportunity to visit industry events and take part in partner meetings in the final days of my career. Like many older adults, I was pretty much “done with travel” by the time I left. I should have taken more time to strengthen my business relationships, outside of my employer, before going it alone.

Be Honest with Your Manager and Other Execs About Your Desire to Work

“Retirement” is such a powerful concept that your coworkers and manager may assume that you have no desire to work in the future. Truth be told, they are probably a little bit jealous of what they see as an opportunity for traveling, playing tennis, joining yoga retreats in Bali and drinking cocktails on the beach. Ha!

There is a simple antidote to this kind of thinking… honesty. Before you leave, take the time to communicate your desire to continue working to your coworkers, manager and any other key executives. The specifics are up to you, but, I would advise avoiding discussions of “needing the work.” Instead, focus on your passion for the business, desire to contribute to projects that you believe in, love for the team, etc.

Here’s what one recent retiree, Steve, told me, “Before I left my last job at a multinational pharmaceutical company, I scheduled 1:1s with over 30 people. I brought Starbucks to each of these meetings and split my time between sharing memories about the past and planning for the future. The result was that I had 3 projects lined up before I left. I didn’t want to go ‘quietly into the night.’ And, I didn’t!”

I hope that these tips help you to get your post-retirement consulting business off to a great start! If you have any of your own tips to share, please add them in the comments section below.

Do you plan on continuing to work after you “retire?” How do you plan on preparing for life as a consultant or business owner? Let’s have a conversation!

How do you picture your retirement party at work? Do you imagine a room filled with champagne, laughter and plenty of stories celebrating your greatness? Or, do you picture half-a-dozen distracted co-workers standing in the break-room drinking $5 prosecco from plastic cups, glancing periodically at their watches as they try to determine whether they have spent enough time to be able to make a polite excuse so that they can get back to watching cat videos or writing emails?

Well, today, I want to argue that social awkwardness is not the biggest reason to avoid making a big deal about your retirement at work. On the contrary, drawing a hard line between your “work life” and your “retirement life” could have serious practical consequences for your future.

By the way, this is not just my opinion. Over the last 7 years, I have talked with 100s (actually probably 1,000s) of retirees. One of their biggest regrets was seeing retirement as a destination and, as a result, closing doors on their way out of the office.

Here are a few reasons not to make a big deal about your retirement at work.

Don’t Kill Future Work Opportunities

As you approach retirement age, it is so tempting to start dreaming about (and talking about!) all of the relaxing, inspiring and jealousy-inducing things that you are going to do when you are finally free. There is nothing wrong with having dreams, but, I can tell you from experience that the reality of retirement is often different than the dream.

For starters, after the initial sugar-high wears off, many retirees find themselves wanting to (or needing to) work part-time or as consultants. Unfortunately, by the time this realization sinks in, they have usually been away from the office for months or years and find it difficult to reconnect with their professional networks.

To make matters worse, since they made such a big deal about their retirement, they often find that their ex-colleagues and business partners see them in a new light. “Money Making Margarita” has become just plain old “Retired Rita”… and who wants to work with someone who just spent the last 2 years brushing her cats and traveling across the U.S. in her RV?

To be clear, I’m not saying that these stereotypes are true. I’m just saying that, fair or not, the word “retirement” has strong associations that few people can shake without conscious effort.

Unless you are independently wealthy and are 100% confident that you will never need to work again, I strongly suggest making a soft exit from work. Instead of shouting “Yippee! I’m out of here!” why not simply tell your colleagues that you are leaving to start your own consulting business? It may take you a few months to get everything up and running, but, you’ll be back in touch!

Avoid the “Retirement is a Destination” Mentality

If there is one thing that I have learned by talking with retirees it is that the way that we talk about the third stage of our life matters. Our attitudes towards retirement shape everything from how likely we are to stay in shape to whether we are able to find work. Words matter – especially when we say them to ourselves!

For our grandparents, retirement was a short stop on the train to eternity. And, since they were only at the station for a few minutes, why not grab the newspaper, sit down in front of the TV with a beer and relax? Yes, in the good old days, retirement was a destination and there was nothing wrong with that!

Our situation is entirely different. As I wrote in another article, there is a very good chance that the majority of the people reading this article will live to 120.

Think about that for a second. If you are 60 years old now, you may only be halfway through your life. Do you really think that you will be able to stay sane playing golf for 60 years? Of course not! You are a dynamic, energetic, fun-loving, money-making machine!

So, as you approach the next phase of your life, do your best not to deflate like the leftover balloons from your retirement party. Instead, see “retirement” as a continuation of everything that you do best –and so much more!

When you look at retirement as just another phase of adding value to the world, exploring, growing and learning, there is no need to make a big deal about the transition at work… it’s just that, a transition.

If someone asks you about your retirement, why not smile and say, “Oh, I don’t plan on retiring. I’m just getting started!” It doesn’t matter if you follow through on this statement (although you will be more likely to do so if you say it enough!) What matters is that you won’t let yourself fall into the “retirement is a destination” mentality that holds so many people back.

Don’t Lose Any Last-Minute Work Benefits or Compensation Increases

The Age Discrimination in Employment Act of 1967 provides many protections for older workers in the U.S. According to this summary of the act:

“The ADEA makes it unlawful for an employer to discharge any individual or otherwise discriminate against any individual with respect to compensation, terms, conditions, or privileges of employment, because of age.”

Unfortunately, as we all know, there is a difference between the kind of blatant discrimination that can get you sued and the kind of subtle discrimination that some women, minorities and, yes, age groups experience on a daily basis.

Now, I’m not blaming the victim here, but, I do have to say that, as older workers, we don’t make things any easier on ourselves when it comes to age discrimination. Every time you talk about your retirement, you remind your coworkers, manager and business partners that you are “on your way out.”

Frankly, unless you tell your coworkers, it’s not anyone’s business how old you are. Of course, they may have an idea that you have fewer corporate work years ahead of you than behind, but, they won’t know the actual situation unless you tell them.

Several studies have shown that older workers are less likely to receive job training, compensation increases and fair bonuses. Why on Earth would we make it MORE LIKELY that the people we work with would discriminate against us by signaling to them that we only have a few more years to go anyway?

At the end of the day, it is completely up to you whether you want to talk about retirement as a destination or a journey. Heck, the best approach may not be to talk about it at all! All I’m saying is that, according to my own research, there are plenty of reasons to keep your retirement under-wraps and, unless you really like cheap Champaign, no reasons to make a big deal about it!

Do you plan on talking about your upcoming retirement at work? Why or why not? Let’s have a conversation!

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