Month: January 2021

7 Fiction Books to Curl Up With This Winter

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Life is too short to read books we don’t love! I used to feel committed. If I started a book, either because of loyalty to the author or the good money I paid for it, I slogged through until the end. Nowadays, I only give a book three chapters. If I’m not hooked, I go to another. We have too many wonderful options!

Here’s an assortment of books that did captivate me. Stories from all around the globe. From death and suspense in India to mystery and romance in Russia. A timeless romance on the beaches of Hawaii. Literary fiction in Paris and a small-town thriller. 

Whatever your reading preferences, I hope you find a book on this list to enjoy!

Her Last Flight by Beatriz Williams

How did the first female pilots find the courage to strap themselves in an airplane seat and head off over the ocean? 

Do we ever know the complete story of those we’ve loved and lost? 

For fans of historical fiction and aviation pioneers – male and female – Beatriz Williams delivers a compelling tale. Once I settled into the rhythm of bouncing between alternating time periods and dual narrations, I fell in love with the characters and the story. 

Readers will meet Janey, a photographer and war correspondent, as she searches 1940s remote Hawaii for two missing pilots. What happened to Sam Mallory? And is the Irene she encounters at all connected to the famous missing aviator?

With hints of the Amelia Earhart mystery threaded through the storyline, this novel paints an interesting picture of what might have been.

The Last Tiara by M.J. Rose

In 1915, Sofiya was a nurse in a Russian war hospital. The makeshift hospital was the former winter home of her dear friends, the Romanovs. For Sofiya, the past is meant to be closed, sealed, and not brought up again.

In 1948, Isobelle, a New York City architect, discovers a mysterious tiara while renovating her deceased mother’s apartment. What is the background of the tiara, stripped of its jewels and concealed inside the wall? What secrets did her mom’s life contain – the life she never wanted to discuss?

Written in alternating points of view – and based on an actual treasure still missing today – this novel is a beautiful blend of historical fiction, romance, and mystery.

Murder in Old Bombay by Nev March

Applause for Nev March’s debut novel based loosely on true events.

A native of Mumbai, the author grew up hearing a tale of two teenagers’ untimely deaths. A legend passed down to warn young women of the dangers of traveling alone.

While recuperating from military injuries, Captain Jim peruses the Bombay newspaper and reads about the “crime of the century.” Two well-to-do young women fell to their deaths from a university clock tower. Sloppy investigators rule suicide, the wealthy Parsee family suspects otherwise, and Jim is hired to look into the case. 

Nev March transports readers to the sights and sounds and smells of Bombay in the late 1800s, when India was under British rule. Despite their socio-economic differences – and society’s decree to stick to one’s own class – Jim and the victims’ family develop deep and respectful friendships. 

After the first few chapters, this charming page-turner picked up steam, and I couldn’t put it down. It contains pieces of all we want in a story. Mystery, crime, drama, history, and a touch of romance.

The Age of Light by Whitney Scharer

Hailed as one of the best books of 2019, this novel is the fictionalized account of the relationship between aspiring photographer Lee Miller and famed photographer Man Ray. And – true confession – before I read The Age of Light, I wasn’t familiar with either of them.

In 1930s Paris, amid the glamorous fashion world, Lee is determined to switch gears. Instead of serving as the subject of the lens, the former Vogue model plans to step to the other side of the camera. As an assistant – and lover – to Surrealist Ray, she tumbles into a murky and complicated partnership.

Oh, I didn’t agree with many of the characters’ choices or actions. Not everyone is like us, nor do we want them to be. And isn’t this the beauty of books? They expand our realm and introduce us to thoughts different from our own.

Don’t Look for Me by Wendy Walker 

When Fiona Davis recommended I read this psychological thriller, I raced to the bookstore to grab a copy. 

International bestselling author Wendy Walker is a former family law attorney. Her suspenseful novels’ characters and plots are borrowed from her training in trauma, psychology, and child advocacy.

Molly and her family suffered an unspeakable tragedy. It’s been years, and Molly cannot forgive herself for the accident. “I’m finally being punished for what I have done,” she says. 

When she disappears, on a stormy night after her son’s football game, the questions mount. Did Molly want to start over and leave her past behind? Would her grieving family be better off without her? Did she write the note the investigators found?

A suspenseful page-turner with plenty of twists and turns!

Minus Me by Mameve Medwed

From the reviews I’d read, I was skeptical of this book. But I’m glad I gave it a chance!

Who hasn’t enabled a family member at some point? Like Annie, we discover “we want them to need us, but it’s we who need them.” 

When she learns her cancer diagnosis, Annie writes a manual to leave behind for her beloved husband, Sam. Since she’s taken care of him over the years, she assumes Sam won’t function on his own. Although he helps run their sandwich shop in small-town Maine, he won’t know how to defrost a chicken or sort the laundry or maintain a social life when she’s gone. 

I enjoyed this light, escapist, happy – yes, happy – read. Of course, I didn’t agree with the way the characters handled their issues, but I don’t want books to always mirror real life. Sometimes, I want a departure from what we “should” do or say.

An American Marriage by Tayari Jones

Oprah Winfrey and Barack Obama praised Tayari Jones’ fourth novel, published in early 2018.

Celestial and Roy, young black newlyweds in the South, looked forward to a prosperous and loving life together. Until Roy turns up in the wrong place at the wrong time, and the trajectory of their marriage changes. 

As Roy endures a lengthy prison sentence for a crime he didn’t commit, Celestial manages her own lonely and desperate feelings. And moves on with her life. 

In a raw exchange of letters between husband and wife, Jones urges us to ponder the what-ifs. How does one leave prison and return to society? Come back to love and marriage? Re-establish torn relationships?

What are you currently reading? (Me? The Guest List by Lucy Foley) How long do you stick with a book you don’t love? What is your favorite reading spot? Please take a moment to share!

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Whitney Rose’s Black Combat Boots

Whitney Rose’s Black Combat Boots in Las Vegas

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Whitney Rose’s black combat boots in Las Vegas reminded me that I have a super cute pair of pearl embellished combat boots in my closet that I haven’t worn yet this season. I love them but they seem a bit hot for Austin and with my size 42’s a heavy, chunky shoe is like a major calf workout and leaves me out of breath (kid you not if I walk a long way in them my calves burn, lol).

And I digress. While Whit’s black boots are designer and a splurge, I found some Style Stealers below if you just want to try the trend. If you’d like them to look even more like hers I also linked some chunky white laces and you can swap them with the ones that come with the SS’s for an extra edge. I love a good lace swap, I do it to change up the look of a shoe. I like to add a different color or leopard print lace to my Golden Geese (?) and with my old Adidas Superstars I add a chunky, flat lace like this one to update the look.

 

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Meredith Marks’ Butterfly Sunglasses

Meredith Marks’ Butterfly Sunglasses at the Racetrack

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Meredith Marks’ butterfly sunglasses at the racetrack totally had me drooling. An oversized, ombre, 70’s chic pair of shades are my JAM.

They also had me thinking that it’s been a minute since I bought my last pair of seen-on Real Housewives sunglasses (click here for my last purchase).  So make no mistake, her and Lisa Barlow’s sunnies last night definitely had the wheels turning, and the credit card emerging.

 

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Top 2020 Makeup Finds for Women 50+

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As a professional working makeup artist who specializes in helping those of us over 50, one of the ways I hope I can help you is to test both high end and drugstore makeup to see how these products perform on mature skin.

Today I’d like to share with you the products that I tried in 2020 that are my top picks for products that can work especially well for us now.

Drugstore Favorites from Elf

First on the list are five products from the drugstore brand Elf.

Camo Concealer

In 2020 they introduced a more hydrating version of their Camo Concealer – called Elf Hydrating Concealer – which works much better for most of us with mature skin.

As we all know, it’s really difficult to pick the correct concealer and foundation color from photos on a website. But Elf has created a great system that enables you to either look at all of the shades or go through a two-step system to help you zero in on your best color choice.

Cream Contour

The next product is a cream contour kit. The shades are incredibly creamy and blendable. They have a nice range of color and truly rival higher end products. There’s also a darker contour kit, and it’s only $8.00 – a really good value.

Eye Pencil

Elf’s $2.00 Instant Lift Eye Pencil comes in six colors. But what I most love about this eyebrow pencil is the formula. It glides on so easily. Although Elf has another eye pencil with a smaller tip, this one is a little bit wider, so it really does the job of filling in the brows quickly.

Considering the cost of eyebrow pencils from other brands – including drugstore ones – this is an amazing price point as well as an amazing product.

Eye Shadows

Elf also debuted eight four-shade “bite size” eye shadow palettes. Now, is this the best eye shadow formula out there? No, it’s not. But it is amazingly good and a great bargain each of these little eye shadow palettes costs $3.00. And once we can travel again, these are wonderfully small and packable.

Retro Eye Shadow Palette

Finally, my favorite Elf product is the Retro Paradise Eye Shadow Palette. I find this palette appealing for several different reasons. First, it’s a great value. There are 18 eye shadow pans, and it costs $14.00. Second, eleven of the 18 colors are mattes which I think makes this palette especially versatile.

Third, there are light, medium, and dark colors as well as some brights, so whether you’re going for a neutral day look or want to glam it up with darker shades for evening, this palette really does it all. And the pigmentation of the shadows and the quality of the shimmers is really quite amazing.

Excellent Lip Products from L’Oreal

If you have issues with lipstick feathering, L’Oreal created a wonderful product for that problem when they debuted their Age Perfect makeup line for women over 50 last February.

Lip Liners

The lip liners not only come in eight beautiful shades – from a light pink to mocha to deep burgundy – but they have ingredients in them that help prevent lipstick from feathering or migrating. The only unfortunate thing is that these lipliners do have to be sharpened.

Lipsticks

They also released two different lipstick formulas from this line: one is called Satin Lipstick with Precious Oils, and the other is Luminous Hydrating Lipstick with Nourishing Serums. Both come in 10 colors. The formulas glide on beautifully, and they have a lovely luminous finish.

I really do think L’Oreal hit the mark in creating lip liners and lipstick formulas that work especially well for those of us over 50.

Be sure to check out Elise’s YouTube channel which specifically focuses on makeup tips, techniques, and product reviews for those of us 50+. Don’t forget to subscribe!

Medium and Higher-Priced Products

Juvia’s Place came out with a number of new eye shadow palettes in 2020. However, I really love their older palette called “The Warrior.” It’s a wonderful complement to my very favorite “Warrior II” eyeshadow palette which is all matte.

“The Warrior” palette includes shades of gold, bronze, and brown in mattes, shimmers, and metallics. Here’s a video I recorded on this brand:

Three other really gorgeous palettes which have excellent formulas for those of us over 50 are from Sydney Grace, an independent California brand owned by two sisters, and from Natasha Denona.

The Sydney Grace “Enduring Love” palette is a cool toned palette that can provide an easy, everyday look, but also has three brighter colors which make the palette more versatile. These eye shadows spread like butter and blend beautifully together.

The Natasha Denona palettes I tried and loved in 2020 include one of her smaller five-pan palettes – the “Mini Lila Palette” – and one of her 15-pan palettes called the “Sunrise Palette.” For me, it’s all about the amazing color story and the amazing formula of these buttery shadows. They glide on effortlessly.

Excellent Face Products

Next on the list are the liquid blush and the liquid highlighter from Selena Gomez’s Rare Beauty brand. The Soft Pinch Liquid blushes are highly pigmented and come in eight light to deeper colors ranging from corals to reds to pinks and violet/purples. They absolutely melt into the skin for a gorgeous, soft look. And since they are so highly pigmented, you only need one or two drops.

The Positive Light Liquid Luminizers also come in eight shades – from pearl to pink, gold, peach, and bronze. They’re stunning and buildable. These liquid products are especially wonderful for those of us over 50 because as our skin gets drier, powder blushes and highlighters can sometimes look splotchy and uneven. These absolutely give a lit-from-within natural glow.

Two Highly Recommended Products

In 2020, I discovered my absolute favorite products. The first is Colorescience’s Total Eye 3-in-1 renewal therapy product. It not only brightens the eye area but also reduces the appearance of dark circles and puffiness.

It has a chemical free, 100% mineral SPF of 35 and provides excellent hydration to help reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. This is pricey, but the good news is that a little goes a very long way, so it lasts for quite some time.

Finally, here’s something that exceeded my already-high expectations: the Hourglass Ambient Lighting Ghost Edit palette that has two setting powders, a strobe highlight powder, two blushes, and a bronzer. Hourglass comes out with a new palette each year around December so there was a 2020 version of this palette with different colors.

Let me say it’s quite expensive, but it lasts an incredibly long time. I use it often and haven’t even made a dent in it. Also, each of the blushes, bronzers, finishing powders and highlighters in this palette comes in quite a few different colors and can be purchased individually in a regular size and in a less expensive mini size.

There is something almost magical about this formula. It simply melds together every product on the face and makes the entire face appear perfectly blended and seamless while also creating a gorgeous, soft glow.

So, these are my finds for 2020. What are yours?

Did you find some new makeup products in 2020? Which ones have turned into favorites? What do you like about them? Please share with us makeup loving women!

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Lisa Barlow’s Leather Jacket, Striped Top, Black Bag and Purple Pants

Lisa Barlow’s Leather Jacket, Striped Top, Black Bag and Purple Pants

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Lisa Barlow’s leather jacket, striped top, black bag, purple pants and sunglasses in Vegas was a lewwwkkkk. And while I loved the general bones of it all, you probably won’t catch me in purple pants anytime soon, Vegas or not. So I had a totally fun time recreating the look in colors that are more my mood, below. In addition to pieces that will allow you to steal her style with enough money left over for Blackjack.

 

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Lisa Barlow's Leather Jacket, Striped Top, Black Bag and Purple Pants

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