Paige DeSorbo’s Khaki Trench Set on Instastories

Summer House Instagram Fashion 2021

Game, set, match! In case you missed it, Paige DeSorbo was debating on Instastories the other day whether or not to style her khaki trench skirt with the matching cropped jacket for the US Open. And we’re just glad that her mom apparently texted her convincing her to bring it along, because the pieces are totally a match made in heaven. 

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Faryn

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Photos & Info: @Paige_DeSorbo

Originally posted at: Paige DeSorbo’s Khaki Trench Set

Melissa Gorga’s Black Hexagon Sunglasses on Instastories

Real Housewives of New Jersey Instagram Fashion 2021

If Melissa Gorga’s black sunglasses on Instastories look familiar to you, that may be because we previously reported on a very similar pair being worn by Sutton Stracke. However as it turns out Melissa’s are much more affordable, so scroll on down below to get them before they’re officially hexa-gone.

Fashionably,

Faryn

P.S. Even though they’re called “Virgo Sunglasses,” as BBH’s resident astrologist it’s my opinion that they would work for any sign (Melissa is an Aries). 

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Originally posted at: Melissa Gorga’s Black Hexagon Sunglasses

I’m not trying to brag too much here, but I’m pretty certain that I have one of the coolest, most enviable jobs around. Reason being? I scour the internet for the best shopping deals and coolest trends every day, and get to test out so many amazing new clothing pieces, beauty products, and home goods. I’ve been a shopping writer and editor for a few years now, and have developed a knack for determining which products are worth every penny, and which ones are better left in the virtual cart. 

This month is all about stepping into the fall comfortably. Stores like Target are beginning to roll out their fall home lines and sites are seeing increased search interest in moisturizing and clarifying products (makes sense, given that temps are sadly going to plummet and the air is about to dry). Amazon’s Movers & Shakers page—a section that shows what items are rising in popularity—is filled to the brim with soothing lotions and oils. Google is being inundated with “fall fashion” inquiries and people on Pinterest are starting to search for pumpkin recipes and candles once more. 

My shopping carts fit the bill for these fall trends perfectly. I’m shopping for nourishing face masks, sleek platform loafers, and cozy throw blankets to start my cold weather months off the right way. Check out the eight essentials I’ll be buying this September below: 

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Courtesy: Neutrogena.

Neutrogena Anti-Residue Clarifying Shampoo

I don’t know what it is about spending so much time indoors, but ever since the pandemic began, my scalp has been a mess. I’ve experienced more dandruff and dryness these past two years than I have collectively my entire life. My one saving grace? This simple clarifying shampoo. It removes icky product build-up from dry shampoos and conditioners without stripping my hair of its natural oils. For best results, I swap this product with my typical purple shampoo once or twice a week. 

Courtesy: Sam Edelman.

Sam Edelman Laurs Platform Loafer 

I’m of the belief that if you have a good pair of loafers, you can wear them across every season. I love the androgynous vibe of the shoes. They’re punk and sexy at the same time. Unfortunately, most quality pairs are a few hundred dollars. That’s why, when I found these Sam Edelman ones, I squealed out loud with glee. The Olivia Rodrigo-esque shoes platforms come in black, tan, or green and pair them with practically every dress or pair of pants you’ve got hanging in your closet. 

Courtesy: Target.

Cable Knit Chenille Throw Blanket

There is no problem that curling into a cozy throw blanket can’t solve. This is why at the beginning of every fall season, I gift myself a new one. I love the look of all things cable knit. The sophisticated design makes tops and accessories like this blanket, which is just $25, look so much more expensive than they are. 

Courtesy: Nest New York.

Nest Pumpkin Chai Candle

It’s time for society to pass the point of calling everything pumpkin scented or flavored basic. Let’s all just agree that pumpkin anything is delicious and should be celebrated, not mocked. This September, I’m going all in on candles. Nest’s Pumpkin Chai candle is everything I want to cover my space. The spice scent is decadent without being overwhelming. Plus, the candle itself is a warm orange. You can’t find a better fall candle than this. 

Courtesy: Mr. Coffee.

Mr. Coffee Mug Warmer

I’m fairly certain that this clever coffee invention was made for me. It ensures that slow sippers (moi) won’t ever have to deal with lukewarm drinks ever again. To use it, all you have to do is flip the switch on, and the base will warm your cup’s bottom and keep the liquids inside nice and hot. I’ll be keeping this accessory on my WFH desk at all times. 

Courtesy: Free People.

Free People Picnic Sweater Romper

This fall, I don’t want to wear anything that requires more than a little effort to put on. Jeans? Absolutely not. A button-up shirt? You’ve got to be kidding. Heels? Please, don’t make me laugh. But this sweater romper? Sign me tf up. It’s like wearing a stylish and socially acceptable set of onesie pajamas. I plan to keep it on at home during work and lounge time, then dress it up when I go out with tights and combat boots. It’s such a simple look, but those are the best ones to style again and again.  

Courtesy: PÜR.

PÜR 4-in-1 Sculpting Concealer 

There are very few people I trust with makeup advice. One of them is Rachel Nussbaum, InStyle’s beauty writer. She knows everything there is to know about the ingredients that comprise popular foundations, hairsprays, etc. Her vast knowledge comes with a lot of heartbreak. She often tells me (and her readers) of the harmful irritants that are too-often included in name brand products, so when there’s a brand she approves of, I take note. Rachel told me that Pur is on her list of A-Okay concealers, so I’m hopping on this 4-in-1 color corrector faster than a kid on a trampoline. It comes in 16 shades, costs under $25, and is free from the nastiness of phthalates, aluminum, and talc.

Courtesy: Summer Fridays.

Summer Fridays Jet Lag Mask

I’m a writer living in New York. Translation: I don’t have an income that gives me the means to spend hefty amounts of cash on skincare (nor do I want to). Spending close to $50 on a face mask would physically and emotionally pain me if I didn’t already know and love this one so much. I’ve been using Summer Fridays’ Jet Lag Mask for years. It saved my skin when I was on Accutane, and continues to be my secret to non-greasy hydration. I’d say I have to stock up on it about every five months, and this September is one of them. I’ll be using it to prevent cracked winter skin, and before date nights or brunches to give me a Hailey Bieber-esque glow.

After being single for several months, I felt it was time to get back up on the dating horse – but I was too afraid of online dating after 50.

Well, online dating is pretty much the way of the world nowadays, and if you want to meet someone single of the opposite sex, or same sex, your best chance for success is the internet.

But, let me tell you, it is not for the faint of heart, so put on your big girl pants and make the decision to dive in head first – or just stay stranded on dry land.

The First Step to Online Dating: Set Up Your Profile

I have found that you don’t need to write a book about yourself when setting up a profile. Just upload a few good photos that depict you as you really are and share the vitals: number of children and what you like to do. That’s really all you need.

But here’s an important tidbit: Do not post photos of your cat!

More than one man has told me not to do that. And for the record, men, don’t post photos of your motorcycle! Also, don’t use photos that were taken when you were 30 pounds lighter. Sooner or later the truth comes out.

Don’t Linger on Texting

I had to learn that maintaining a texting relationship on a dating site for too long just gets you nowhere. I used to spend quite a bit of time doing that, but it doesn’t really help in getting to know the other person, and it just eats time.

After a few exchanges, make a plan to have coffee or lunch or a drink, obviously in a public place. Yes, you are taking a little bit of a risk, but all you have to lose is a little time. If the experience is unsatisfactory, you can always say that you have another engagement afterward.

That’s how I do it.

I have also worked out a strategy that seems to work well. If I feel like the person and I just don’t fit at all, I take the check for our two drinks, pay it quickly and get on my way.

Another strategy that is quite helpful is that I often take Uber. That way there is no awkward moment of getting into my car. I can just say, “Oh, my Uber is here. Thank you for meeting me.” Done.

It’s easy and no one gets hurt.

You Have to Put Yourself Out There

Let me say that I have met some great guys online, but that would have never happened without putting myself out there. Without being proactive, I would still be sitting in my one-room loft, petting my dog and knitting something out of his hair (just kidding)!

I have dated some men who turned out not to be a fit, but we went out a couple of times because we enjoyed the same music, movies, etc. It was fun.

You might think you are too good for online dating. You and your imaginary boyfriend will live happily ever after with that attitude.

One thing I have learned from being single after more than 30 years of marriage is that the only person who is going to help me create a life that I want to live is me. And, I think that I would like to have a man in my life. He might not be my main focus, but it’s nice to have someone with whom to go to the movies.

Don’t wait for Prince Charming to find you. Don’t think that your dentist’s sister’s cousin’s neighbor is just going to show up at your door. Take control of your love life and make it go in the positive direction you want.

What is your funniest dating story? Do you want/need a man/woman by your side? What would it take for you to try online dating? Let’s get the conversation going!

We all know that as our bodies age, numerous changes take place. Some of these changes are good, some not-so-good, some we know about – some we do not.

For instance, you may not know that nutritional needs are among the top items that can change the most with age. However, some common misconceptions and fallacies surrounding these changes can have severe consequences if not properly managed.

Today I would like to take the opportunity to provide some clarity, guidance, and helpful information which will empower you to make choices that improve daily performance while diminishing the risk of preventable medical issues. 

Myths and Facts About Nutrition

Below are some of the more common myths and the scientifically supported facts which help to set the story straight: 

Myth #1

Those 65 and older have slower metabolisms with lower activity levels and do not need as many nutrients daily. 

Fact

Though overall energy needs may indeed change, the number of nutrients needed to remain healthy increases as we age, making eating nutrient-dense foods more important as portion sizes often need to be substantially smaller to maintain a healthy body weight.

Myth #2

Healthy weight management is not essential for those of retirement age. 

Fact

Maintaining a healthy body weight not only makes it easier for your body to function as it should while reducing health issues, but it also makes getting around much easier and less exhausting. Overweight elders who become sedentary lose mobility much faster and overall require substantially more care going into advanced age.(This extra care can cost thousands of dollars per month.)

Myth #3 

It’s ok to skip meals if you don’t feel hungry.

Fact

Skipping meals regularly can be detrimental, leading to irregular blood sugar levels, increased fatigue levels, diminished cognitive function, digestive system issues, disease brought on by nutrient deficiencies, and significantly lowered immune function.

Myth #4

In general, overall good health has very little to do with nutrition, and as you age, it is more important to eat only the things you like. 

Fact

Arguably, clean/healthy nutrition is more critical for achieving/maintaining good health than just doing regular exercise. As you age, the body becomes less forgiving with the things you choose to put into it, and the quality of what you consume becomes more crucial.

Good to Know 

The everyday items listed below are among the worst for sound weight management, keeping your body healthy, and promoting a positive energy balance.

Simple Carbohydrates

These are the sugars and starches that cause you the most problems as far as weight and blood sugar control. When consumed, these immediately begin to impact insulin levels which also aids in facilitating fat storage. 

Examples would be: All items sweetened with sugar, white bread, white rice, bakery goods, candy bars, sugar-sweetened sodas, granola bars, yogurt, etc. 

When it comes to carbohydrates, your body needs and HAS to have them, however not in the fashion that we’ve become accustomed to as a society. Natural and complex (un-processed/high-fiber) carbohydrates are the best rule of thumb for controlling blood sugar and body weight. 

Gluten

This is a protein found in wheat that does not break down into essential amino acids (which are building blocks for cell structures). Instead, these proteins attach themselves to the internal lining of the intestines, causing permeability of the intestinal wall and allowing waste and bacteria to enter the bloodstream.

This issue could lead to elevated blood toxicity, irritation in the gut, and autoimmune disease. Conversely, a daily diet with low or eliminated exposure to glutens poses no risks or side effects and will promote increased digestive health. 

Artificial Sweeteners

Aspartame (Equal), sodium saccharin (Sweet’n Low), sugar alcohol (sorbitol, glycol, xylitol, etc.), sucralose(Splenda). *ALL NATURAL Stevia is an excellent substitute! 

Though these products intend to reduce calories, lower sugar content in foods, and create “healthier alternatives,” most do just the opposite and can be quite toxic (for example, aspartame is synthesized into formaldehyde as it is digested).

Food Additives/Processed Foods

These chemicals are added to our commercially produced foods. Most are utilized as flavor enhancers,
color enhancers, shelf stabilizers, and preservatives.

Examples would be sodium nitrate, saccharine, caffeine, olestra, food dyes, agene, Ethelene glycol, dulcin, and a HUGE list of insanely long words that we do not have space for. Not only can these have ill effects on their own, but cumulatively can inhibit efficient metabolic function, distort nutrient absorption, and foster weight gain. 

Alcohol 

Alcohol is known for – and consumed for – its inebriating properties, but also has the undesired effects of being linked to heart disease, liver disease, kidney disease, compromised metabolism, and enhances the side effects of multitudes of other substances through interaction leading to severe organ damage and, like cigarettes, even death (with regular portion sizes exceeding 5oz).

Extreme caution must also be given when taking prescription medications as alcohol consumption can cause adverse reactions or negatively impact the efficacy.

All of the above are very easy to limit, replace, or remove altogether and still enjoy an expansive palate of foods, beverages, and treats that make life fun and keep your body healthy!

What food habit myths have you heard? Why do you think they are myths? Do you think this kind of information is helpful for everyday living?