I think someone must have replaced my mirror with one of those funhouse mirrors. You know, the ones that distort your reflection into all sorts of odd configurations? The only problem is that it’s not that funny! Some days I find myself struggling to recognize the lady with the aging face and body staring back at me. Who is she? Why did she kidnap my youth and how much is the ransom for her return?

As Bette Davis Once Said, “Old Age Is Not for Sissies”

Turns out not only is it not for sissies, it is also not easy for many of the rest of us. I’d like to believe I’ve done enough inner work to slay my little vanity dragon and embrace “aging gracefully” as it were. The truth is that dragon is still breathing some fire.

I’m becoming more and more aware of those not so fine lines coupled with the increase in skin laxity (and crepiness) that accompany aging. Not to mention all the little aches and pains. And while some of us are luckier than others, most of us in the 60+ camp are dealing with one or more physical aspects of aging. Well, that is with the exception of Cher!

The Bar

Is it just me or does anyone else feel like the bar on maintaining one’s youth continues to rise? Do we ever have permission to relax and accept the natural aging process? The truth is, there’s a lot of money to be made by convincing us we need to fight the natural aging process and strive for the images presented to us by marketers and the media.

The global beauty industry is a multi-billion-dollar one. Beauty products like Botox, fillers, and plastic surgery are mainstream. Conveniently, our egos and hard-wired instinct to conform make us easy targets in a culture where the standard of beauty is becoming more and more unattainable for young and older alike.

How Do We Better Navigate?

Luckily, some prominent individuals and businesses are slowly changing the definition of what beauty looks like at all ages, including many campaigns that feature older women and also embrace broader ideals of beauty. Hopefully, that trend will continue, and more and more women will adopt a kinder, more realistic attitude towards aging and the image staring back at them in the mirror.

For those that opt to visit the plastic surgeon or use other means to slow down or alter the aging process, no shame or judgment here, that is a personal choice. That said, I think we would all benefit from being mindful of the reasons behind the choices we are making to ensure they are in alignment with our personal values and not because we feel pressure to keep up our looks.

The Foundation Upon Which We Build

As I transition into my 60s, I’m finding that the little aches and pains I’m experiencing, together with the cumulative impact of stress and burnout on my body, now serve as my motivators in adopting a healthier lifestyle.

It is one that includes the positive habits of eating healthy, maintaining hydration, getting plenty of exercise and sleep, and embracing a spiritual practice that aligns with my personal values and beliefs. These are truly the pillars of good health that serve as the foundation for looking our best at any age.

The Pledge

While I know I will continue to purchase beauty products and services that support my personal beauty goals as I age, I also pledge to do my best to shift the focus to a healthier, kinder and more realistic attitude towards aging.

To that end, the following is an offering of mindset and practice that may assist all of us in the Sixty and Me family as we navigate the intersection of health, beauty and aging:

The Inside Job

• Gratitude. Practicing gratitude helps shed perspective on all things, including aging.
• Wisdom. This is a cornerstone of the value we add, not just a consolation prize.
• Humility. Time has a way of smoothing out our rough edges.
• Engagement. We are freer to fully engage in life without caring what others think.
• Time/Opportunity. We now have more time to focus on the things of interest to us.
• Intention/Positive Attitude: Thoughts matter. Be mindful of them.

The Physical Aspects

• Simplify your beauty routine following some great tips.
• Adopt healthy eating habits, reducing or eliminating processed foods from you diet.
• Practice your favorite form of exercise on a regular basis.
• While getting a good night’s sleep becomes more challenging as we age, do your best to increase your odds.
• Stay connected. As we enter into the post-COVID landscape, rekindle your social connections in a safe manner.

What beauty products do you swear by? What would you say are your top three practices that contribute to a positive aging experience? Please join in the conversation and share your thoughts and attitudes on beauty and aging.

Tracy Tutor’s White Woven Bag on MDLLA

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In case you needed further proof that the chain strap woven cassette bag is the “It Bag” of the moment (we just reported on it being used by RHOSLC’s Whitney Rose and Meredith Marks!), up pops Tracy Tutor using it on last night’s MDLLA. And while we’re going to assume that she has every colour of the rainbow in her closet, right now we definitely have our hearts set right on white.

Fashionably,

Faryn

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Originally posted at: Tracy Tutor’s White Woven Bag

After getting home from a long day of work, the last thing you want to do is remove your makeup and wash your face. It can sometimes become a monotonous task that almost feels like a burden. But it doesn’t have to feel that way, especially when you can skip a few steps and use just one item to scrub off your makeup and double cleanse. Let us bring you in on a secret to saving time, energy, and money when you’re tired AF and can’t be bothered to walk through your entire skincare routine: Youth To The People’s new Superberry Dream Cleansing Balm.

This multifunctional formula quickly removes layers of makeup and sunscreen from your skin, without stripping it dry. Because while it is an effective makeup remover, it also functions as a cleansing balm and can remove excess oils and impurities. This is probably why shoppers call it a “game changer.”

“My skin has felt more vibrant, soft, and youthful in the mornings, and I cannot recommend this product enough!” wrote one reviewer.

RELATED: This Cleansing Balm Literally ‘Melts’ Makeup Off Your Face—& TikTok Can’t Get Enough Of It

We’ll explain how it wields such powers, but just know that this velvety, whipped balm is here to help your skin in more than one way. It consists of only the best ingredients, as well as the most divine fruity aroma.

If you’ve ever wondered about what a cleansing balm might feel like and do for your complexion, the Superberry Dream Cleansing Balm is a great place to start (and stay). Keep reading for a breakdown of its ingredients and how to use it. 

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Courtesy of Youth To The People.

This cleansing balm works like magic by gently taking off all your makeup while still providing a bunch of skin benefits. A blend of moringa, jojoba, and sunflower seed oils melts away your makeup and sunscreen, but they’re also packed with omegas, antioxidants, and vitamins, so they won’t strip your skin of moisture. They also level your oil production and smooth your complexion. 

Another group of ingredients, superberry extracts, are enriched with lots of antioxidants to protect your skin from damage. These magical maqui, acai, and goji berries join forces with oil-soluble hyaluronic acid to deliver hydration deep into your skin. 

The formula has a ton of natural ingredients that cleanse and moisturize your complexion, without leaving it feeling greasy. It’s also gentle enough for those with sensitive skin and is safe to use around the eyes.

Using it is simple, too. With dry hands, rub the balm onto your dry skin. You’ll notice the texture will feel more like an oil. Then, splash some water onto your hands and keep massaging the product into your skin as it transforms into a milky cleanser. You can use this balm on its own or as part of your double cleanse.

Several reviewers, like this one, had never used a cleansing balm before, but said that this formula turned them into believers. “This is going to save me so much money on face wash, as I was double or triple cleansing to get all my makeup off,” they wrote. “I highly recommend, and will be purchasing again!” 

You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain from this multifunctional cleansing balm. So, why not give it a chance?

Garcelle Beauvais’ Green Satin Blazer on Her Instastories

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Garcelle Beauvais’ looks gorgeous in her green satin blazer on her Instastories. She went to support fellow RHOBH friend Stutton Stracke and her store The Sutton Concept. And we all know how much of a stickler Sutton is when it comes to fashion. So the fact that this green blazer was “Sutton approved” makes it even better. Though we totally would have loved it either way

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Originally posted at: Garcelle Beauvais’ Green Satin Blazer

After getting home from a long day of work, the last thing you want to do is remove your makeup and wash your face. It can sometimes become a monotonous task that almost feels like a burden. But it doesn’t have to feel that way, especially when you can skip a few steps and use just one item to scrub off your makeup and double cleanse. Let us bring you in on a secret to saving time, energy, and money when you’re tired AF and can’t be bothered to walk through your entire skincare routine: Youth To The People’s new Superberry Dream Cleansing Balm.

This multifunctional formula quickly removes layers of makeup and sunscreen from your skin, without stripping it dry. Because while it is an effective makeup remover, it also functions as a cleansing balm and can remove excess oils and impurities. This is probably why shoppers call it a “game changer.”

“My skin has felt more vibrant, soft, and youthful in the mornings, and I cannot recommend this product enough!” wrote one reviewer.

RELATED: This Cleansing Balm Literally ‘Melts’ Makeup Off Your Face—& TikTok Can’t Get Enough Of It

We’ll explain how it wields such powers, but just know that this velvety, whipped balm is here to help your skin in more than one way. It consists of only the best ingredients, as well as the most divine fruity aroma.

If you’ve ever wondered about what a cleansing balm might feel like and do for your complexion, the Superberry Dream Cleansing Balm is a great place to start (and stay). Keep reading for a breakdown of its ingredients and how to use it. 

Our mission at STYLECASTER is to bring style to the people, and we only feature products we think you’ll love as much as we do. Please note that if you purchase something by clicking on a link within this story, we may receive a small commission of the sale.

Courtesy of Youth To The People.

This cleansing balm works like magic by gently taking off all your makeup while still providing a bunch of skin benefits. A blend of moringa, jojoba, and sunflower seed oils melts away your makeup and sunscreen, but they’re also packed with omegas, antioxidants, and vitamins, so they won’t strip your skin of moisture. They also level your oil production and smooth your complexion. 

Another group of ingredients, superberry extracts, are enriched with lots of antioxidants to protect your skin from damage. These magical maqui, acai, and goji berries join forces with oil-soluble hyaluronic acid to deliver hydration deep into your skin. 

The formula has a ton of natural ingredients that cleanse and moisturize your complexion, without leaving it feeling greasy. It’s also gentle enough for those with sensitive skin and is safe to use around the eyes.

Using it is simple, too. With dry hands, rub the balm onto your dry skin. You’ll notice the texture will feel more like an oil. Then, splash some water onto your hands and keep massaging the product into your skin as it transforms into a milky cleanser. You can use this balm on its own or as part of your double cleanse.

Several reviewers, like this one, had never used a cleansing balm before, but said that this formula turned them into believers. “This is going to save me so much money on face wash, as I was double or triple cleansing to get all my makeup off,” they wrote. “I highly recommend, and will be purchasing again!” 

You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain from this multifunctional cleansing balm. So, why not give it a chance?