Kyle Richards’ Burgundy Velvet Suit on Instagram

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The holidays may be over, but the fashion from it certainly isn’t. Because today we’re throwing it back to Sutton Stracke’s Christmas party where Kyle Richards wore a very chic burgundy velvet suit. Velvet is a great winter time fabric because it keeps ya warm and looking hot. And considering it’s still winter means a ‘fit like this could really suit us.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Wendy Osefo’s Orange Floral Maxi Dress in Mexico

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Wendy Osefo knows how to rock a vacay look. She always wears bright colors which I love for a beach-y vacation. This time she has on a gorg orange floral maxi dress with a sexy backless detail. It’s unfortunately sold out, but that’s okay we still have amazing Style Stealers below that you’ll want to shake your maracas for upon their arrival to your door.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Retirement takes a lot of us by surprise. After traveling a couple of years down the path of my own retirement – and having many conversations with other women – I’m more convinced than ever that retirement holds a lot of unknowns.

There’s no formula for a perfect retirement either.

However, there are some general tendencies that most of us lean into as we navigate life after our careers. These don’t come with tidy parameters and can blend together and overlap – but they’re easy to identify.

And since ‘retirement’ is not my favorite R-word to use for this life transition, I came up with four other Rs that describe how we embrace this time of life.

Most of Us Want to Relax

Everyone, who exits the life of demanding full-time work, dives into this R, Relaxing. Some of us do it with gusto, others with exhaustion.

We may stay in that relaxed mode for a month – or years. It’s been called the honeymoon phase of retirement.

Like all honeymoons, most of us want to maintain this blissful state forever. With fewer time constraints, we devote ourselves to travel, hobbies, friends and family. We excitedly check off the boxes of the things we’ve always wanted to do, the things we love to do and the people we love doing them with.

The upside of this R is that, if we can identify at least some of the things that make our life easier, Relaxing isn’t just about taking a break. We can learn to incorporate it into our retired lives on an ongoing basis.

Some of Us Choose to Retool

Retirement gurus are in a never-ending search for new ways to discuss this R, Retooling. It’s been called reinvention, redefining or re-emerging.

Whatever term we use, Retooling implies that we’re starting anew. We don’t want to quit working entirely – or we can’t afford to do so. We have gifts and talents still to share with the world. We just want to do that in new ways. There’s a greater purpose pulling at us, urging us to somehow give back.

When we Retool, we start fresh. We shape our lives differently, without the constraints of our former jobs. We give ourselves permission to think outside the box.

It Might Feel Right to Re-Engage

Some of us retire from a career only to discover that was a mistake. So, with this R we Re-engage in our former job.

We do this for various reasons. Our circumstances may have changed. We might miss the income we had or the camaraderie of our associates.

We may feel at loose ends and long for the structure our work life brought us.

Re-engaging after we retire doesn’t mean we’re regressing or that we’ve given up on having a happy retired life. It may just mean that our timing was wrong or that we miscalculated the benefits of leaving our careers behind.

We Feel the Pull to Reconnect

This R, Reconnecting, is one that we experience at many levels in retirement. It implies connecting more deeply with the important people in our lives, immersing ourselves in the activities that give our lives joy and meaning and developing into the person we’re becoming in this season of life.

With the demands of our work and a young family life behind us, we can delight in Me-Time without feeling like we’re borrowing it from somewhere (or someone) else.

We can awaken our creative selves and remember what makes us lose track of time.

We can devote our energy to the people we love most or to our community at large. We can forge new friendships.

Reconnecting with others wards off isolation. Reconnecting with those lost parts of ourselves – or discovering them for the first time – is life affirming.

Wherever we are with the concepts of Relaxing, Retooling, Re-engaging and Reconnecting, the retirement stage of life holds a lot of promise.

It’s comforting to know there’s no wrong way to do it. And no formula we have to follow.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What does retirement mean to you? How has the concept of retirement changed your life? What do you think you gain or lose with retirement? Please share your thoughts in the comment box below.

Ashley Darby’s White Cutout Maxi Dress in Mexico

Real Housewives of Potomac Season 7 Episode 13 Fashion

Ashley Darby looks amaaaazing in her birthday suit dress. She wore a white cutout dress looking like a B-day goddess. And even though it may not be most of our birthdays today (but if it is happy birthday!) I think we should still gift ourselves with a Style Stealer of this dress.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Wendy Osefo’s Yellow Cutout One Shoulder Dress in Mexico

Real Housewives of Potomac Season 7 Episode 13 Fashion

Like I’ve said in the previous Wendy post she knows how to dress for a vacation. And her yellow cutout one shoulder dress is just another example of that! I was so bummed to see that the yellow was pretty much sold out. But then was thrilled to see it was still fully stocked in white AND black! Though we wouldn’t leave ya hanging with out something similar either way. So let’s all raise a glass of Mezcal our credit cards to get one ASAP.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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