Month: May 2023

What’s All the Fuss About AI (Artificial Intelligence)? And Why Should You and I Care?

artificial intelligence

The abbreviated answer to the above question is that most of us are already deeply involved with at least some aspects of AI, from our smartphones, security cameras and the heated seats of our cars, to the questions you ask of Siri or Alexa about weather, flowers or restaurants.

But new, more powerful versions of AI are pouring into our culture at a dizzying pace. And that is why it is important to learn even more about it. There may be many “pros” to some of these advances. Especially for those of us who are in our 60s and beyond. But there are also many cons. And the changes are coming fast. 

How Can We Keep Up with This?

Writing about AI is a bigger challenge than I imagined when I suggested the subject to Sixty & Me about two months ago. My attempt to grasp the sense of it has felt at times like trying to zoom in on a fast-moving target with cloudy-lensed glasses. 

I have read numerous articles and watched long interviews with several of the founders of AI. I’ve listened to radio clips and perused helpful “guides” about how we older humans will benefit from this technology as it relates to health issues, mental health challenges, daily tasks assistance and even creative ventures. The exploration has been intriguing – even jaw-dropping – but, a bit scary. 

Have Fun with ChatGPT!

The most interesting part of these two months of research has been working daily and personally with what has become the most famous “AI bot” called, ChatGPT. (By the way, “bot” is short for robot.) I think that this is where YOU also can begin to have some fun with AI. Your efforts will put you more in the flow with these momentous cultural changes. And since this is the world your grandchildren will inherit, why not learn what you can?

Just so you understand better what this tool can do for you, here’s a nutshell description of AI from ChatGPT itself:

Artificial Intelligence (AI) is a branch of computer science focused on creating machines and software that mimic human intelligence, learning, problem-solving, and decision-making. It can assist seniors with healthcare management, daily tasks, social connectivity, mobility, cognitive stimulation, and provide companionship, enhancing independence and quality of life.

Make Music or Write a Poem in Minutes!

Other ways of accessing AI are fast becoming available. For example, Google’s new “Bard” and Microsoft’s “Bing” are the newest go-to search tools. But ChatGPT was the most talked-about tool as I began my journey a mere two months ago. And after using the free version for awhile, which is where you could start, I signed up for the paid version of it called, ChatGPT4 (at about $20 US a month).

As a singer and vocal coach, my greatest interest was to learn what the new technology could offer musical artists and other creative folk. I began by asking ChatGPT4 to walk me through various AI tools that were available to easily create music.

It was close to Valentine’s Day. I thought it would be a lark to offer a newly composed AI song to my husband, John. In about 30 minutes, I had that new song. (You can, too!) The words of the song are a little too personal to share here. So I created a new song for this article using the easy-to-negotiate tool called, SoundRaw. Here’s my new tune about my playful black cat named, DD.

You may not be interested in making a song. But the variety of creative things you can do with AI tools is mind boggling. Ask ChatGPT about your area of interest. Do you need help wording a letter to a grandchild? Or would you like to write a personal poem to a loved one? Just ask! You can even get specific: “Write a birthday poem, in the style of Shakespeare, for my 43 year old daughter who is a dentist.” The possibilities are endless. 

Try ChatGPT here.  

But There Is a Big “BUT” with AI

Keep in mind that these are early days for AI. The tools are being test-driven by those of us who explore them. People are using it to save time in their writing ventures and in creating code for the internet, among many other uses. But if you are doing serious research, ChatGPT can take you down a faulty path. Don’t rely on the bot’s answers for things that could affect your health, for example.

I asked ChatGPT4 how it would caution users of this young technology. This is a much-shortened version of what it told me:

AI is trained on data, and if this data is biased, the AI can make biased decisions or recommendations. It’s important to be aware of this and question the AI if its suggestions seem off. In general, as with any technology, the key is to approach AI with a healthy amount of skepticism and caution. It’s a powerful tool that can greatly enhance quality of life, but it should be used wisely and safely.

That’s putting it mildly. 

There are many concerns about how AI will affect humankind. A group of well known, AI-savvy people including Twitter’s Elon Musk and Apple co-founder Steve Wozniak, have signed a public letter that asks that we step back from “the dangerous race to ever-larger, unpredictable black-box models with emergent capabilities.”

But the cat is out of the bag, so to speak. My gut feeling is that AI will continue to spread fast and furious whether we like it or not. I think it behooves us all to learn more about both its benefits and its dangers. 

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you tried ChatGPT? What have you asked it about? Have you been intrigued by it? Did it give you satisfactory responses? Do you think there is future for this kind of artificial intelligence?

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What Gets in the Way of Moving Forward and What We Can Do About It

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Our desire to expand and become more than we are now is a built-in aspect of our nature.

It’s there to stimulate us to move beyond our pre-conceived notions of ourselves, and for some of us, the self-imposed limits that emerge when we try to do so.

Some would say to evolve our soul is our purpose for being on our planet.

Whether this is in fact the case isn’t as compelling to me as this:  

“Are we listening?”

Are we listening to that part of ourselves that longs to become more than what we are now?

Do we take it seriously, yield to it, give it some love in the form of our time and attention? As the ancients revealed so long ago, “What we give our attention to, grows.”

Or do we ignore it in favor of anything else that seduces our attention? TV comes to mind, so does YouTube watching, gossiping with friends, drinking wine, spending money, eating when we’re not hungry, or any of the other distractions we’ve crafted that do such a good job of diverting our attention from ourselves.

Why the Distractions?

Here’s a little secret when it comes to our innate desire to grow.

It stimulates internal resistance too. An energy that pushes back against our well-intentioned efforts to move toward that something we desire.

Resistance is a beast that demands our submission to a distraction when we don’t see it for what it really is: fear.

Whether it’s the fear of not reaching a special goal, or the fear of realizing it, resistance gets in the way of getting to where we want to go.

What Can We Do About It?

The answer to this life-changing query is stated beautifully in the title of the famed book by the American writer Susan Jeffers, Feel the Fear… and Do It Anyway.

Sounds simple.

However… what if we’re really stuck in our resistance? What if our resistance is entangled in the effects of psychological wounding from our past? What if the fear is so overwhelming, so debilitating, we just can’t “do it anyway,” as the book title suggests?

A Way Through

I remember learning in a philosophy class many moons ago about a beautiful metaphor on therapy: It’s like two people sharing a canoe together while travelling across a lake. One person paddles, while the other navigates. Once they arrive at the opposite shore, the one who paddled gets out of the canoe, says their good-byes, and with a renewed confidence in their heart, turns toward their new vista and carries on.

I love this metaphor because as we know, there are a few things in life we can’t do alone. Healing our pain is one of them.

Sometimes we need a little help getting to the other side of our proverbial lake, whatever that may mean to us. There’s no shame in having someone to travel with for a while. I know having someone in my “canoe” for a while has made all the difference at critical times in my life. It’s allowed me to do what I needed to do on the inside, in order to get to my desired destination, even if that destination simply meant out of the pain.

Moving Forward

So, what gets in the way of moving forward for you? Is it about not listening to yourself?

Or is it about letting yourself be distracted by the countless things that can zap your attention, and be pulled away from your path to your heart’s desire?

Frankly, there are times in life when stepping over the resistance and doing the thing we fear anyway, simply doesn’t work. We need to “put some love on it” in the form of our precious time and attention, get into the fear in order to get out of it, and then, get back on our path and carry on.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What gets in your way of moving forward? How open are you to listening to your inner promptings to grow? What form of distraction do you get caught in?

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Dolores Catania’s Lime Embellished Bow Dress

Dolores Catania’s Lime Embellished Bow Dress on Her Instastories

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I feel like neon might be the trend of the summer, if you don’t believe me you can see the many Bravolebs rocking it here. And now we can add Dolores Catania to the on-going list with her lime embellished bow dress! This is a gorgeous little number and you’d be sure to brighten up any room with it. Starting with your closet, obvi. 😉💡

 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

 

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Reviewers Say This Concealer Is ‘Like Magic’ For Hiding Blemishes & Fine Lines—& It’s Down to $8


If you purchase an independently reviewed product or service through a link on our website, STYLECASTER may receive an affiliate commission.

When it comes to finding a concealer that will pack a punch, camouflaging options are the best route to take. These offer a higher coverage that can temporarily mask the peskiest of concerns, such as acne flare-ups, fine lines and dark circles, better than lighter coverage, dewier formulas. All it takes is a little tab of product over bumps and smaller areas to see an instant difference in the appearance of your skin.

If you’re on the hunt for an affordable formula that will last through summer’s impending sweaty days, PÜR’s Disappearing Act Concealer can do no wrong. The correcting concealer is packed with age-defying ingredients that correct skin concerns while hiding their presence—and reviewers say it works better than other popular brand name camouflaging concealers they’ve tried previously.

PUR Disappearing Act Concealer

PUR

Disappearing Act Concealer

“I have oily, acne-prone skin and this is my favorite concealer ever. Doesn’t make me breakout but gives enough coverage without looking like I have a ton of makeup on,” raved one customer.

“This stuff is like magic,” wrote another reviewer. “I’m one of those people that can’t resist popping a pimple, and I sponge this on and it’s the best concealer I’ve tried. My friend watched me use it and she was like ‘wow you can’t even tell.’ I’m not sure if they’re discontinuing this or not, I hope not!”

Unfortunately for fans, the brand is stopping all future product creations—which is why now’s the time to stock up while the Disappearing Act Concealer is on sale for just $8. Don’t see your shade? You might find the correct one at Amazon instead. 

PÜR also carries additional concealer options that aren’t going anywhere soon, including my favorite 4-in-1 Sculpting Concealer that blends like a dream and contains skin-assisting ingredients that reduce the appearance of blemishes, redness, fine lines and wrinkles, uneven skin tone, and hyperpigmentation. Scoop one up alongside the Disappearing Act Concealer for the ultimate duo.

4-in-1 Sculpting Concealer

Courtesy of PUR.

4-in-1 Sculpting Concealer

You can shop other soon-to-be discounted (and shopper-loved) products from PÜR’s sale section, like Shake & Bake Powder-to-Cream Under Eye Concealer and the Cameo Contour & Highlight Stick.

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Reviewers Say This Concealer Is ‘Like Magic’ For Hiding Blemishes & Fine Lines—& It’s Down to $8


If you purchase an independently reviewed product or service through a link on our website, STYLECASTER may receive an affiliate commission.

When it comes to finding a concealer that will pack a punch, camouflaging options are the best route to take. These offer a higher coverage that can temporarily mask the peskiest of concerns, such as acne flare-ups, fine lines and dark circles, better than lighter coverage, dewier formulas. All it takes is a little tab of product over bumps and smaller areas to see an instant difference in the appearance of your skin.

If you’re on the hunt for an affordable formula that will last through summer’s impending sweaty days, PÜR’s Disappearing Act Concealer can do no wrong. The correcting concealer is packed with age-defying ingredients that correct skin concerns while hiding their presence—and reviewers say it works better than other popular brand name camouflaging concealers they’ve tried previously.

PUR Disappearing Act Concealer

PUR

Disappearing Act Concealer

“I have oily, acne-prone skin and this is my favorite concealer ever. Doesn’t make me breakout but gives enough coverage without looking like I have a ton of makeup on,” raved one customer.

“This stuff is like magic,” wrote another reviewer. “I’m one of those people that can’t resist popping a pimple, and I sponge this on and it’s the best concealer I’ve tried. My friend watched me use it and she was like ‘wow you can’t even tell.’ I’m not sure if they’re discontinuing this or not, I hope not!”

Unfortunately for fans, the brand is stopping all future product creations—which is why now’s the time to stock up while the Disappearing Act Concealer is on sale for just $8. Don’t see your shade? You might find the correct one at Amazon instead. 

PÜR also carries additional concealer options that aren’t going anywhere soon, including my favorite 4-in-1 Sculpting Concealer that blends like a dream and contains skin-assisting ingredients that reduce the appearance of blemishes, redness, fine lines and wrinkles, uneven skin tone, and hyperpigmentation. Scoop one up alongside the Disappearing Act Concealer for the ultimate duo.

4-in-1 Sculpting Concealer

Courtesy of PUR.

4-in-1 Sculpting Concealer

You can shop other soon-to-be discounted (and shopper-loved) products from PÜR’s sale section, like Shake & Bake Powder-to-Cream Under Eye Concealer and the Cameo Contour & Highlight Stick.

StyleCaster Shopping Newsletter Sign Up

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