Month: January 2024

Originally posted at: Kyle Richards’ Pink Logo Sweater

Sometimes I have to ask myself, how lazy can one woman be? It all started when Alexa became affordable. I placed a unit in every room of my two-story, three-bedroom home. No matter where I stood, sat, or lay down, Alexa was within reach. That’s when I stopped googling. If I had to type in the question I wanted answered, that was too much effort when instead I could casually ask: “Alexa, what time is it?” “Alexa, tell me about…” or “Alexa, please find the best recipe with these ingredients.”

I got comfortable with that level of laziness. To keep it interesting, I strategically chose the call name “Echo” for some devices and “Alexa” for others; postulating this would boost my mental acuity by having to remember which room had what named device. I often got it wrong. No worries, it was a one-word mistake. “Echo, tell me the temperature today.” No answer. “Alexa, tell me the temperature today.” Mischief managed. I was back on track with only a slight course correction.

Is It Comfort or Is It Laziness?

Alexa wasn’t the only thing I got lazy over. My clothing choices are the same-ish every day, black yoga leggings with a black top, though I changed up the neckline and the fabric. Now that the debate over whether gym clothes can be worn all day long has been solved with the explosion of the active and leisure wear market – not to mention the mushrooming of virtual meetings – there was no need to worry about that.

My cooking routine was summarily boring. Almost the same day in and day out. After a visit to my daughter’s house, there was no doubt that pizza heated on air fry, which came out the perfect ready-to-bite-in temperature, moist and chewy with a bit of crunch in the crust was something I could not live without. Now it was time to get an air fryer.

I must disclose, I do not, repeat, do not, have a microwave. Several reasons for that: my Italian Aunt Dora would rise and beat me down; My kitchen counter space is limited; I am short and hanging it over the stove doesn’t work for me. Finally, I am a cancer survivor and although I do make some risky moves, no microwave is an easy one to accomplish.

Besides, how much unplanning and hungry can I be that I need it NOW? Well, truth be told, I am always trying to eat more mindfully, hence I am sans microwave. My appliances are great and very new albeit, I am one person and don’t need all that cooking real estate on a given day.

If you haven’t tried an air fryer; I am not sure what you are waiting for. I bought an extremely reputable machine for under 50 USD. Almost the price of one dinner out, for a machine that will likely last several years. The crispy factor on veggies is outstanding and there is no oil! Knowing that an air fryer is a good decision it all comes down to how lazy can one woman be.

Shortcut versus Workaround

I decided the workaround is an air fryer combo thing. This is not a shortcut because I believe shortcuts do cut us short. A workaround is a way of achieving an almost impossible end goal, how to reheat food without engaging my full-size oven or a microwave, as opposed to a short cut which is trying to get there faster or in an easier route.

Now the real conundrum begins, which one do I buy? A quick Google search on air fryers yields about 1,290,000,000 (that’s over a billion) results in 0.43 seconds. That’s quicker than a microwave works.

So many choices! Capacity, functions, door style, color, size, and price.

The One Touch Conundrum

Apparently, all 10-function Air Fryers are not created equal. For one-touch options, some go by mode, such as air fry, roast, toast, bake, and dehydrate. Others go by food products: bagel, pizza, chicken, beef, veggie, pasta. And still others, have some combo of the two. This means that first I had to classify my cooking habits and food intake.

There was no guide, or experts to provide advice. No app or AI tool to tell me which I would use more based on my cooking preferences. The reheat button seems to be the only thing they may all have. I had to decide which one-touch buttons I wanted. And while I love pizza, it’s not a common food group in my repertoire. Seeing the word on my machine every day may be too triggering of needing a pizza. I decided function was the way to go for me.

Rotisserie or Toast

Whew, one decision made, and, on its heels, another comes at me fast. To toast or not. I love toast. And I love to toast, proposing a few words to honor someone with a beverage. Toast is not a regular function. Now I don’t know about where you live, but for me, kitchen counter space is at an all-time premium. I cannot have the coffee maker, blender, toaster oven, teapot, and knife holder all out on the counter, I just don’t have that kind of space.

The 10-function air-fryer thing was supposed to be the workaround so when it didn’t offer toast as a function I was perplexed. How could I streamline when one of my used functions was not a one-touch? And then I saw it. Only on a few models. Rotisserie. Game over. My fondest childhood memories include rotisserie turkey wings, ribs, and kabobs. I love Rotisserie anything.

After extensive research, calls to the customer service line, and deep web searches to find the exact temperature a one-touch toast button commands, I decided I could survive a three-touch process to toast, it was a necessary trade-off to get the coveted rotisserie function.

Where Else Does Lazy Show Up in My Life?

We know I am okay with putting on comfy yoga clothes and never going to yoga. I would rather ask Siri or Alexa than stop to text or type a question to find an answer. I can live with three touches to toast my gluten-free bagel or bread if it means not sacrificing the rotisserie function.

How far does this laziness go? Do I buy new underwear instead of walking downstairs to the basement and doing the laundry? Do I settle for a bad cup of coffee because it is too much effort to rebrew and make it right? Do I sacrifice what I truly want because there is a shortcut or a one-touch solution that is easier? Is close enough enough for me?

What’s Next

If you haven’t made the plunge to a 10-function, air fryer thing, I suggest you do. Just decide how many buttons you want to press on any given day.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you consider yourself lazy? About what things? Have you stopped to consider why that is and what you gain or lose because of laziness? Or do you look for workarounds that make your life easier?

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It is not unusual for folks of retirement age to complete a bucket list visit to one’s ancestral home. My husband initiated this practice even before he knew me. In those days before the internet, on a trip to Scotland, he relied on the common phonebook to connect with folks who shared his last name.

Even after we married, I accompanied him to the Dublin neighborhood where his great grandfather worked as a barrel maker at the Guinness Factory. We also explored his Scottish roots in Argyle, delighted to see there was a pub called The Langmuir Tavern.

Benefits of Studying One’s Ancestry

There are many valuable reasons why pursuing one’s family history is so popular today. Our generation was introduced to the idea in 1977 with Alex Haley’s popular program, Roots. As the captivated American audience watched, popular ideas about the origin of African Americans in our country were overturned with each weekly episode, replaced by the shocking reality. In fact, all of us probably share disturbing events with our ancestors, we just don’t always know about them.

There are 22 million people who have tested their DNA and pursue their own stories through sites like Ancestry.com. It is a common retirement pastime. Benefits include finding new family members, clarifying health issues, personalizing history, developing richer and deeper cultural understandings, and gaining government benefits such as obtaining a passport from their country of origin. More importantly, genealogy seekers develop compassion and appreciation for the struggles of ancestors who paved the way for a better life. Undoubtedly, everyone’s relatives sacrificed for our easier lifestyles.

What Were My Family Origins?

My own DNA test from Ancestry.com revealed my heritage was 100% linked to the Ashkenazi Jews in Central and Eastern Europe. No surprise there. Being of a certain age, it was time to travel to Prague, Budapest and Krakow. A visit to the specific city of Zamosch, Poland, my grandparents’ city of origin, was vetoed because of its proximity to Ukraine.

Migrationpolicy.org tells us that it took approximately 3-4 generations for Europeans arriving in America in the 1920s to assimilate. I am a member of Generation 3, and before this journey, I considered myself fully assimilated. Writing in the New York Times Magazine, Laila Lalami defines assimilation as becoming like other Americans, gaining fluency in the dominant language, attaining some degree of educational or economic success, and having a familiarity with the history and culture of the country.

I checked all these boxes and furthered the assimilation process by marrying outside my religion. I also consciously chose a new spiritual practice for myself which did not involve keeping Kosher or weekly synagogue attendance. I am in good company with the large number of lapsed Christians and Jews in the US.

Bearing Witness

Our travels took us to Auschwitz and the Jewish Quarters, as they are known, in all three cities. I learned that King Casimir the Great invited the persecuted Jews of Western Europe to Poland and the surrounding areas in 1343. The Jews thrived for almost 600 years, until the Holocaust.

I was no stranger to Jewish history. I grew up in an ethnic neighborhood which was almost entirely Jewish. Merchants in my neighborhood had tattoos on their arms from the camps. I was forever feeling left out of all conversations between my mother and grandmother, because they were conducted in Yiddish. I remember meeting my grandmother’s sister at the docks in New York when she arrived in the US in 1960, after emigrating from Israel. I went to Hebrew School until I graduated from High School.

I was not prepared to be shocked, in any way, with what I experienced in Eastern Europe. That was not the case. In every Jewish Quarter, synagogues from the Middle Ages remained, along with eerie, crooked, ancient tombstones. Magnificent new synagogues were built in Prague and Budapest in the 19^th century, but just a very few families are current members. In perfect condition, one even seats 3000!

The infrastructure of homes, book and Judaica stores, restaurants, and even Schindler’s factory remain, but chillingly, the places are completely devoid of their original residents. The emptiness is what still resonates with me.

The story is the same in all the cities. Property was systematically confiscated, ghettoes and walls were erected, and the Jews were sent to the 23 main camps or 1000 satellite camps for work or extermination.

When Trauma Is a Component of One’s Ancestry

This legacy trip was obviously so different than my travels to Ireland and Scotland with my husband. Curiosity about one’s past is a healthy activity. It can’t be minimized, as it seems to be an essential missing ingredient from adoptees’ lives. Knowing where we come from, our cultural traditions and history seem to be a basic human right.

However, when trauma is involved, the healthy curiosity takes an unexpected turn. This type of travel becomes quite visceral. Surprisingly, it is possible that there is a genetic component to one’s past. Dr. Rachel Yehuda of New York’s Mt. Sinai Hospital has discovered an “epigenetic inheritance” in a study of 32 Holocaust survivors.

Epigenetics is the study of how one’s environment can affect the genes of future generations. Her groundbreaking work discovered that the trauma of ancestors can be passed to future generations. Her work has great implications for any sufferers of trauma, and for all of us whose ancestors suffered in their homelands.

By being physically present at Auschwitz and the Jewish communities in Eastern Europe, I developed a crisper focus of my family history. At Auschwitz, a large photo depicted the residents from my grandparents’ town being exiled by the Germans. Among the hundreds of suitcases which were marked for expected reunification with their owners at the camps, I saw one marked “Sara,” the same unusual spelling of my mother’s name.

The study of genealogy and heritage travel can be sobering experiences. Although we are not privileged to all the stories in our past, undoubtedly, they quietly exert their influence on us today.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you studied your ancestry? What was your motivation? Did you uncover any surprises? Have you visited your ancestral land, town or home? What was the feeling?

Winter is has certainly arrived, and, if you haven’t already, it’s time to switch to clothes that keep you warm and stylish. Say goodbye to lighter styles and fabrics and hello to winter dresses – your perfect blend of comfort and chic. Imagine strolling through snow-covered streets or enjoying a cozy evening by the fire, in a dress that is both charming and practical.

1. Zara Long Knit Dress – A cozy knit round neck long-sleeved winter dress that blends comfort and style seamlessly with its soft fabric and versatile design – perfect for chilly days and evenings.
2. Chico’s Abstract Flare Sleeve Maxi Dress – This Maxi Dress seamlessly merges comfort and style in an easy-to-wear design, featuring a classic fit, jewel neck, 3/4 flare sleeves, and a flowing maxi length in soft, lightweight stretch fabric. The abstract floral print adds a contemporary touch, making it perfect for festive occasions and versatile enough to pair with boots and cropped jackets for a chic day-to-night transition.
3. Macy’s I.N.C. INTERNATIONAL CONCEPTS Turtleneck Sweater Dress – Wrap up in style with this sweater dress – crafted for both comfort and flair with a chic turtleneck collar and cozy ribbed knit. Easy pullover styling makes it great for any occasion.
4. Ann Taylor Ribbed Button Cuff Sweater Dress – Experience timeless sophistication in this beautiful blue sweater dress, combining classic polish with modern comfort through a flattering ribbed stitch, long sleeves featuring slit button cuffs, and a chic mock neck for extra warmth and style – perfect for various occasions in your winter wardrobe.
5. LOFT Ribbed Turtleneck Midi Sweater Dress – Effortlessly embodying modern-minimalist style, this cozy midi sweater dress combines elegance and comfort with a turtleneck, dropped shoulders, and long sleeves – a great option for both casual and formal winter occasions.
6. JCPenny Perceptions 3/4 Sleeve Leaf Puff Print Midi Fit + Flare Dress – A charming printed midi dress with a round neck exudes timeless simplicity, complemented by 3/4 ruffled sleeves for playful elegance and a perfectly balanced midi length, ensuring both sophistication and versatility in a comfortable polyester and spandex blend.
7.  Lord & Taylor Bead Embellished Cold Shoulder Blouson Dress – Captivate attention at dinner outings or holiday events in this bead-embellished, cold shoulder dress, designed with a fashion-forward blouson silhouette and ultra-feminine charm. The bead embellishments, mesh sleeves, and lace trim skirt add elegance and sophistication.

From soft knits to heavier materials, each piece in your winter wardrobe adds a touch of style to combat the cold. Winter dresses for women over 50 can be both fashionable and warm in the coldest of seasons.

What Are the Best Fabrics for Winter Dresses

When it comes to winter dresses, the choice of fabric plays a crucial role in keeping you both stylish and warm. Opting for materials that provide insulation and comfort is key.

Wool

A classic choice, wool is known for its excellent insulation properties. It retains heat, keeping you warm in colder temperatures. Wool dresses come in various weights, from lightweight merino for milder days to heavier options for extreme cold.

Cashmere

Luxuriously soft and lightweight, cashmere dresses offer superior warmth without the bulk. They are ideal for creating sophisticated and cozy winter looks.

Knits

Sweater dresses made from knit fabrics, such as cotton or wool blends, are a comfortable and stylish choice for winter. They provide warmth and flexibility while allowing for breathability.

Velvet

Velvet dresses add a touch of glamor to winter wardrobes. The plush texture not only looks elegant but also provides some insulation, making it suitable for colder days and evenings.

Fleece

Fleece dresses are perfect for casual winter wear. It is soft, lightweight, and effectively traps heat, making it a great option for staying warm during outdoor activities.

Remember to consider the climate and your personal style preferences when selecting winter dress fabrics. Mixing and matching these materials can also add versatility to your winter wardrobe, allowing you to stay fashionable and comfortable throughout the season.

Wonderful Winter Dresses for Women

Zara Long Knit Dress

This knit dress epitomizes winter chic with its cozy allure. Made from a soft and stretchy knit fabric, it seamlessly combines comfort and style. The round neckline adds a touch of simplicity, while the long sleeves provide warmth for chilly days. The knit texture enhances the dress’s visual appeal, creating a versatile piece that effortlessly transitions from casual outings to more polished occasions.

Chico’s Abstract Flare Sleeve Maxi Dress

The Abstract Flare Sleeve Maxi Dress effortlessly combines comfort and style, presenting an easy-to-wear, easy-to-style look. Made from a soft and lightweight stretch fabric, this dress embraces a classic fit with a jewel neck, 3/4 flare sleeves, and a gracefully flowing maxi length.

The standout feature is its playful abstract floral print, adding a touch of contemporary flair to the overall design. Ideal for festive occasions and parties, this maxi dress pairs seamlessly with boots and cropped jackets, offering a versatile and chic look that transitions effortlessly from day to night.

Macy’s I.N.C. INTERNATIONAL CONCEPTS Turtleneck Sweater Dress

Wrap yourself in the warmth of fashion with the I.N.C. International Concepts® stylish sweater dress, thoughtfully crafted for both comfort and flair. This dress boasts a turtleneck collar, adding a touch of sophistication, while the ribbed knit ensures coziness without compromising on style.

The pullover styling enhances the dress’s ease of wear, making it a versatile choice for various occasions. Exclusively created for Macy’s, this sweater dress is a testament to the brand’s commitment to blending chic design with everyday comfort, offering a fashionable solution for staying snug and stylish throughout the colder seasons.

Ann Taylor Ribbed Button Cuff Sweater Dress

Discover timeless sophistication in this beautiful blue sweater dress, seamlessly blending classic polish with modern comfort. The flattering ribbed stitch enhances the dress’s appeal, while the long sleeves with slit button cuffs add a touch of timeless charm.

With a chic mock neck for extra warmth and style, this dress is versatile for various occasions, effortlessly combining fashion and functionality for your winter wardrobe.

LOFT Ribbed Turtleneck Midi Sweater Dress

Embrace modern-minimalist perfection with this effortlessly chic midi sweater dress – a timeless addition to your wardrobe that seamlessly combines comfort and style.

The dress features a cozy turtleneck, exuding warmth and elegance. Dropped shoulders add a contemporary touch, while the long sleeves contribute to the overall flattering silhouette. This piece is a versatile choice, whether you’re attending a casual gathering or seeking a sophisticated look for a more formal occasion, making it a must-have for your fashion-forward winter collection.

JCPenny Perceptions 3/4 Sleeve Leaf Puff Print Midi Fit + Flare Dress

This charming, printed midi dress is complemented by a round neck for timeless simplicity. The 3/4 ruffled sleeves add a touch of playful elegance to the silhouette, while the dress’s midi length strikes a perfect balance between sophistication and versatility. Made from a blend of polyester and spandex, this dress ensures both style and comfort.

Lord & Taylor Bead Embellished Cold Shoulder Blouson Dress

Dazzle at dinner outings or holiday events in this bead-embellished, cold shoulder dress, designed to captivate attention. The cold shoulder style and blouson silhouette offer ultra-feminine charm, creating a fashion-forward statement.

The bead embellishments give elegance to the dress, while the mesh sleeves and lace trim skirt add an additional layer of sophistication. To complete the look, pair it with a sleek clutch and stilettos, ensuring a striking look that effortlessly combines glamor and style for your special evening affair.

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Let’s Have a Conversation:

Where do you like to shop for your winter dresses? What are your favorite fabrics and styles? Tell us about it in the comments below.