Month: July 2025

Nordstrom Anniversary Sale 2025 Picks

Nordstrom Anniversary Sale 2025 Picks

The 2025 Nordstrom Anniversary Sale is LIVE for those of you with Influencer, Icon and Ambassador access. And I’ve rounded up my tops picks for the sale. This year there are even better deals on beauty, designer sunglasses, top denim brands like Housewives favorite Mother, and so much more. Shop now while items are still in stock, because we all know they go fast. And don’t forget to check out the best seen on Bravoleb beauty finds at the end of this post, you don’t want to miss out!

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Stock up on Bravoleb-loved Mother jeans … on sale! The brand spotted on Kyle Richards and Sutton Stracke on repeat, Kristin Cavallari, Madison LeCroy, Michelle Lally, Lisa Hochstein, Angie Katsanevas and more:

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Save on designer sunglasses during #NSale! The selection this year is next level and you can scoop up Celine, Tom Ford, Versace, Fendi, Prada, Dior and more on sale!

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Activewear Trends for Women Over 50 in 2025

activewear trends for women

Do you love to work out? Is physical fitness important to you? If you replied yes, then you know how important the clothing you wear while doing any physical exercise is. Comfort is key and style is a fun addition.

What to Look for in Activewear

Activewear, also called athleisure, is designed to be both functional and stylish. Here are some features to look for in active wear or workout clothing for women over 50.

Comfort

Look for comfortable, breathable fabrics that allow for ease of movement and don’t cause chafing or irritation.

Support

Consider workout clothes that provide adequate support, such as sports bras with adjustable straps.

Coverage

Many older women prefer workout clothes that provide more coverage, such as longer tops with long sleeves and leggings with a higher waistband.

Style

Activewear for women over 50 can be both practical and stylish. Look for pieces that are on-trend but also classic and timeless.

Functionality

Choose workout clothes that are versatile and can be worn for different types of exercise, such as yoga, Pilates, or cardio.

Overall, the best activewear for women over 50 are those that make us feel confident, comfortable, and supported during our workouts.

What Are Activewear Trends

Women’s workout clothing trends have evolved over time, with different styles and features gaining popularity at different times.

Remember the 1980s? Workout clothing for women was all about bold colors, tight-fitting leotards, and leg warmers. Sweatbands, headbands, and scrunchies were also popular accessories.

The 1990s saw the rise of the “aerobics” trend, with brightly colored bodysuits, leggings, and high-waisted shorts. Oversized T-shirts and cropped tops also became popular for workouts.

In the 2000s, low-rise pants, halter tops, and tight-fitting camisoles became prevalent. Logos and graphic prints also became more common on workout clothing.

In the 2010s, workout clothing trends shifted towards more minimalistic and functional designs with neutral colors. We also started seeing sports bras with strappy backs. Athleisure became popular at this time, with many women wearing yoga pants and other workout clothing as everyday wear. Everyone was wearing Lululemon yoga pants everywhere!

Overall, women’s workout clothing trends have varied over the years, reflecting changing styles and times.

High-Tech Fabrics for Enhanced Comfort

Advancements in textile technology have led to activewear that offers moisture-wicking, temperature regulation, and even activity tracking features. These innovations ensure that garments provide support, reduce muscle fatigue, and keep you comfortable during various activities. 

lululemon Go Further Bra with Support Code Technology High Impact, C/D Cup

lululemon Go Further Bra with Support Code Technology High Impact, C/D Cup

Sustainable and Eco-Friendly Materials

There’s a growing emphasis on sustainability in activewear. Brands are incorporating recycled polyester, organic cotton, and biodegradable materials into their products. This shift allows you to make environmentally conscious choices without compromising on style or performance. 

Sustainable Materials Nike 24.7 PerfectStretc Women's Dri-FIT High-Rise Loose-Fit Wide-Leg Pants

Sustainable Materials Nike 24.7 PerfectStretc Women’s Dri-FIT High-Rise Loose-Fit Wide-Leg Pants

Versatile Athleisure for Everyday Wear

The line between activewear and everyday clothing continues to blur. Versatile pieces that transition seamlessly from workouts to casual outings are in demand. Think high-waisted leggings paired with relaxed tops or stylish sports bras worn under open jackets. 

Athleta Retreat Linen High Rise Wide Leg Pant

Athleta Retreat Linen High Rise Wide Leg Pant

Bold Colors and Patterns

Activewear in 2025 embraces vibrant colors and striking patterns. Color-blocked leggings and floral-printed tops add a fresh twist to your workout wardrobe, allowing for personal expression and a mood boost during exercise. 

Athleta

Athleta

Nike

Nike

Adidas Originals x Liberty London AOP Boyfriend Tee

Adidas Originals x Liberty London AOP Boyfriend Tee

Inclusive Sizing and Body-Positive Designs

Brands are recognizing the importance of inclusivity, offering a wider range of sizes and designs that cater to various body types. This approach ensures that every woman can find activewear that fits well and feels comfortable. 

Adidas Adicolor 3-Stripes Baby Tee (Plus Size)

Adidas Adicolor 3-Stripes Baby Tee (Plus Size)

Functional Details for Convenience

Modern activewear incorporates practical features like multiple pockets, adjustable waistbands, and supportive elements. These details enhance the functionality of the garments, making them suitable for both workouts and daily activities. 

Athleta Venice High Rise Wide Leg Cargo Pant

Athleta Venice High Rise Wide Leg Cargo Pant

Layering for Adaptability

Layered activewear allows for adaptability to different temperatures and settings. Lightweight jackets, long-sleeved tops, and versatile outerwear pieces provide comfort and style, whether you’re heading to the gym or running errands.

Lululemon Always Effortless Classic-Fit Jacket

Lululemon Always Effortless Classic-Fit Jacket

Emphasis on Comfort and Support

Comfort remains a top priority. High-rise leggings, relaxed joggers, and supportive sports bras are designed to offer ease of movement and the necessary support for various activities, ensuring you feel confident and comfortable.

Activewear Brands for Women

Nike

Nike is a well-known athletic wear brand that offers a wide range of products for women, including sports bras, leggings, shorts, and tops.

Lululemon

Lululemon is a popular yoga-inspired brand that offers a range of activewear for women, including leggings, sports bras, tops, and jackets.

Adidas

Adidas is a global sports brand that offers a wide range of products for women, including activewear, running shoes, and sports accessories.

Under Armour

Under Armour is a sports brand that offers a range of activewear for women, including sports bras, leggings, and tops.

Reebok

Reebok is a sports brand that offers a range of activewear for women, including sports bras, leggings, and tops.

Athleta

Athleta, owned by The Gap, is also a brand that offers activewear and sportswear for women, with a focus on high-performance and sustainable materials.

Inner Joy Activewear

Owned by Susan Merry, a Sixty and Me blogger, Inner Joy Activewear is made with the woman over 60 in mind. Susan and her team are on a mission “to inspire fun and empower our inner joy.”

Read more: 10 Must-Have Summer 2025 Accessories for Women Over 50.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What’s your favorite brand for activewear? What is your favorite look when you work out? Tell us about it in the comments below.

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5 Tax Savers Seniors Must Plan for in the July 2025 New “OBBBA” Law

5 Tax Savers Seniors Must Plan for in the July 2025 New “OBBBA” Law

Seniors can save money with tax provisions in the new “OBBBA” (“One Big Beautiful Bill Act”). The new law took effect on July 4, and it can save money for seniors in 2025 and future years.

Here is how thoughtful tax and financial planning can help you keep more of your wealth.

The “Taxman”

The Beatles sang in their 1966 song “Taxman”:

Let me tell you how it will be

There’s one for you, nineteen for me

‘Cause I’m the taxman

Yeah, I’m the taxman

Provisions in the new law might allow seniors to keep a bit more than “one.” Good guidance in your tax and financial planning might allow you to preserve more of your wealth.

5 New Provisions to Know About

Here are five provisions in the new law that could be especially valuable for you:

#1: $6,000 Seniors’ Special Extra Tax Deduction 2025-2028

Each senior age 65 and over can now take a special extra $6,000 deduction. For a couple with both spouses 65+, their special extra deductions would total $12,000.

This special extra deduction is in addition to both the standard (or itemized) deduction and the regular extra senior deduction. For 2025, the regular extra senior deduction is $2,000 for single filers. For married couples filing jointly, the regular extra senior deduction is $1,600 for each spouse.

The special extra $6,000 deduction phases out at higher incomes. For an individual, the phaseout begins at $75,000 modified adjusted gross income (MAGI). The phaseout ranges to a midpoint at $125,000 where the deduction is $3,000. It then increases in steps to end at $175,000 where the deduction is $0.

Similarly for a couple, the phaseout begins at $150,000 MAGI, increases in steps to a midpoint at $200,000 where the deduction is $6,000, and ranges to end at $250,000 where the deduction is $0.

It is important to know that the seniors’ special extra $6,000 deduction is temporary. It is in effect only for tax years 2025 through 2028.

#2: Standard Deduction Increases for Seniors (and All Filers)

Before the new laws in July, the 2025 standard deduction for single filers was set at $15,000. The new law increases the 2025 standard deduction by $750 to $15,750.

A couple’s 2025 standard deduction increases by $1,500 to $31,500. It had been $30,000 before July. These increases are permanent.

#3: State and Local Tax (SALT) Deduction Increased

Seniors who itemize can now deduct, for each tax return, up to $40,000 in state and local (SALT) taxes. SALT taxes include property and state and local income or sales taxes.

Prior to the new law, the SALT deduction was capped at $10,000. The higher cap at $40,000 might especially help seniors living in states with very high SALT taxes such as New York and California.

Households with adjusted gross incomes (AGI) at or below $500,000 can use up to $40,000 of the SALT deduction. However, households with AGI above $500,000 remain capped at $10,000.

The $40,000 cap is inflation-adjusted. It will rise by 1% each year through 2029. But it is also temporary. In 2030, the SALT cap would go back to $10,000 for everyone.

#4: No Tax on Tips or Overtime

Seniors might not have to pay federal taxes on money earned working overtime hours or received as tips. Up to $25,000 per year might be exempt.

Only certain jobs qualify, however, and the Treasury Department is required to soon provide a list of jobs that qualify.

This deduction applies only to federal income tax. Qualified tips and overtime earnings remain subject to Social Security, Medicare, and state and local income taxes.

This exemption starts to phase out at $150,000 MAGI for single filers and $300,000 for joint filers. It is temporary. It is in effect only for tax years 2025 through 2028.

#5: $1,000 / $2,000 Income Deduction for Charitable Donations

Seniors who take the standard deduction (instead of itemizing) can now receive a deduction for donations to charity. Previously, filers had to itemize in order to get the deduction for charitable donations.

Single filers now can make cash donations to qualified charities and deduct $1,000 from income. Couples filing jointly can deduct $2,000.

Taking this income deduction for charitable donations can start in the next tax year, 2026. It is permanent.

Crucial Tax and Financial Planning

Understanding and doing taxes can be complicated and confusing. They can be even more complicated and confusing when tax laws change.

Clear understanding and thoughtful planning can save seniors money. Guidance from a knowledgeable and experienced financial planner can help you navigate through changes and confusion.

Provisions in the new law and financial planning strategies might allow you to be a bit happier while hearing the “Taxman.”

Also read, 11 Most Asked Questions I Get About Taxes in Retirement as a Financial Planner.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Would these new tax deductions help you with your finances? What additional information about these tax savers would you like to have? How will you plan to take advantage of some of these tax savers? Please join the conversation.

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The Road You Didn’t Take — And Felt Great!

The Road You Didn’t Take — And Felt Great!

We’re used to hearing the same story: that the things we don’t do – the job we turned down, the move we didn’t make, the relationship we walked away from – become the stuff of regret. The ghosts of “what if” and “if only.”

But let’s flip that tired script.

What if the road you didn’t take was the smartest move you ever made? What if not doing something turned out to be the very thing that protected your peace, preserved your power, and kept you from living a life that wasn’t really yours?

In a culture obsessed with chasing more, it’s time we started celebrating the roads we chose not to walk – and the quiet, powerful wisdom that led us to say “no.”

This article is a celebration of the decisions you didn’t make. The lives you chose not to live, the people you didn’t pursue. The houses you didn’t buy, the careers you didn’t re-enter, and the roles you stopped playing.

Let’s talk about those moments – not with regret, but with pride.

You Don’t Have to Do It All to Have Lived Fully

The modern woman, we’re told, must be everything: ambitious, nurturing, stylish, well-traveled, physically fit, deeply social, and Zen. It’s an exhausting and unrealistic script.

Many women I speak with have discovered the joy of editing their lives: of not doing it all, of choosing selectively. You may not have climbed Everest, started a business, or hosted family holidays with picture-perfect tablescapes – and yet you’ve lived richly. You’ve grown, created, let go, started over, and learned who you are beneath the roles.

Saying no to more on your plate isn’t laziness or fear. It’s wisdom. It’s choosing peace over performance. And the freedom that comes with deciding what doesn’t fit is unmatched.

Not Settling Is Not the Same as Missing Out

There’s pressure to accept what’s “good enough” – a safe job, a steady relationship, a tolerable routine. But not settling isn’t about being picky or ungrateful. It’s about knowing your value.

Maybe you didn’t remarry after divorce because none of the men who came along felt like equals. Maybe you stayed in a smaller home because the larger one felt like a trap. And maybe you turned down social invitations because the conversation never fed your spirit.

Those weren’t missed chances. They were powerful acts of alignment. The courage to say, “this isn’t right for me” is one of the quietest but most life-changing forms of self-respect. And it takes real strength to stand firm in that. It’s easy to get caught in the trap of “just settling.” But real fulfilment comes when you choose what makes your soul sing, even if it means walking alone for a while.

You Didn’t Take That Road Because You Outgrew It

Often the path we walk away from is one we once longed for: that job promotion, that vacation house, that relationship with someone we thought we couldn’t live without.

What once felt essential might later feel irrelevant, even heavy. When that happens, it takes strength to let the dream die gracefully. To acknowledge that your values have changed, and that your peace matters more than your plans.

It’s easy to cling to outdated visions. It’s much harder – and far more liberating – to outgrow them. The road you didn’t take was perhaps once your dream, but sometimes we grow in directions that no longer align with our past desires. Saying goodbye to those paths is often the greatest form of self-care and acceptance. It’s proof that you’ve grown – and that’s something to be proud of.

The Myth of Regret and the Truth About Relief

Let’s be honest: some opportunities looked great at first glance. But when you paused, dug a little deeper, and listened to your instincts, something felt off. And when you walked away – or watched the chance pass – there was a strange, unmistakable feeling: relief. That’s your inner compass working exactly as it should.

Relief is one of the clearest signs you made the right choice.

When you let go of a situation, a person, or an opportunity that didn’t feel right, you make space for what truly nourishes you. You might not recognize it at first, but with each “no,” you’re creating room for a more authentic and fulfilling life. And in the end, it will be these choices, not the ones you regretted, that define the life you’ve built.

You Didn’t Owe Anyone Your “Yes”

So many women have made life-altering decisions based on what others expected of them. But at some point you realized that saying “yes” to others when it means saying “no” to yourself is too high a price. Maybe you left the social group where you felt invisible. Maybe you said “no” to being the family caretaker again. Maybe you let go of friendships that only took and never gave.

When you stopped explaining your choices and started living them, things began to shift. That’s not selfish. That’s sovereignty. Saying “no” is an act of self-respect and a reminder that you are the author of your own story. As you step into this chapter, it becomes clear that your peace is not negotiable.

Want to Take This Further?

I’ve created a simple but powerful guide called the “No-Regret Roadmap” – a reflective tool to help you walk boldly in the direction of your values, not your fears. If you’d like a free copy, just send me an email at lifecoach@expertonyourlife.com and I’ll be happy to send it your way.

Let’s Talk About the Road You Didn’t Take

So I’ll ask you now – and I’d love for you to share in the comments:

Whats a decision you made that seemed risky but gave you peace? What life path did you decline – and later feel immense relief about? What dream did you release because it simply didn’t fit anymore?

These aren’t confessions. They’re milestones. The truth is, we all carry a few big no’s” that shaped our lives more than some of our loudest “yeses.” These stories matter. Lets start telling them!

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