Month: October 2025

If you’re a woman over 50, you might secretly believe that “optimal health” just isn’t available to you. Maybe that ship sailed in your 30s – before the knee pain, the hot flashes, the extra weight that doesn’t budge, or the prescriptions that now fill your bathroom medicine cabinet.

When you picture someone who’s optimally healthy, she probably looks younger, thinner, or more fit than you feel right now. But what if that version of health isn’t the real goal? What if optimal health in midlife and after looks completely different – and it’s still 100% available to you?

The Problem: Why “Doing Everything Right” Still Feels So Hard

If you’re in midlife or after, you’ve been around the block. You already know what you should be doing to care for your health. You’ve read the books, done the diets, joined the programs – yet you still wrestle with cravings, inconsistent energy, and the disappointment of setting a goal to start exercising only to have it fall apart a few weeks later.

And that constant fatigue? It’s no wonder your energy and sleep in midlife feel unpredictable. The illusion of “optimal health” tells us we should spend our free time making healthy meals, counting steps, or chasing a smaller body. But who has free time? Between work, family, and everything else, health can start to feel like another job. Maybe the problem isn’t you. Maybe it’s the unrealistic version of health you’ve been sold.

Why Traditional Solutions Don’t Work

Here’s the truth: most of the popular diets and fitness apps weren’t made for women with busy schedules and lots of demands on your time. They’re designed for the general population – not for women whose hormones, metabolism, and stress levels have changed. These plans tell you to eat less and move more, but they ignore what’s really going on inside your body.

After working with hundreds of women, I can tell you that achieving optimal health is not about willpower. You don’t need another diet to “fix” you – you need something different that actually fits your life. That’s where a non-diet health approach comes in. When you learn to ditch diets in midlife, you stop fighting your body and start working with it. And that’s when health stops feeling like punishment – and finally becomes possible again.

Redefining What “Optimal Health” Really Means

Here’s the thing: optimal health isn’t a six-pack, a perfect diet, or a number on a chart. It’s your best health given your real circumstances. For most women in midlife, that means working with the body you have – not the one you had 20 years ago, and certainly not the one Instagram tells you to chase.

Your knees might ache. You might be caring for aging parents or leading a demanding team at work. You might only have 20 minutes for yourself some days. That doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It means your version of “optimal” will look different – and that’s exactly how it should be.

When you have peace with food and your body, when you build a healthy relationship with food that doesn’t rely on guilt or rules, everything changes. Optimal health becomes freedom. Confidence. Self-trust. It’s knowing you’re doing what’s right for you – and letting that be enough.

The Path Forward: Building Health That Fits Your Life

What is possible today? What does your best health look like today? Not 10 years ago, not what the internet says – but in this exact season of your life. It’s a powerful question to ask yourself, because the answer won’t look the same for everyone.

For most women, it’s not about pushing harder – it’s about building healthy habits for women over 50 that work with your changing body, not against it. Things like: staying hydrated, eating enough protein and fiber, getting good sleep, managing stress, moving your body regularly, and finding joy. These are the quiet foundations of real health – the things that help you balance hormones naturally and stay steady, even when life is busy or unpredictable.

And the best part is that none of it requires perfection. When you shift from rigid tracking to sustainable, shame-free habits, you stop obsessing about food and start living again. You reclaim the energy and mental space for your relationships, your career, and the things that truly matter. That’s what aging with vitality really looks like – not fighting time, but learning how to feel good in it.

When Health Becomes Partnership

One of my clients recently lost over 80 pounds in our work together, and was later diagnosed with a prolapsed bladder. She was heartbroken – angry with herself for “waiting too long” and convinced she’d failed her body. And while I couldn’t undo the diagnosis, what we could do together was change how she saw herself.

Through our conversations, she began to notice everything her body had carried her through – the stress, the sleepless nights, birthing two babies, and the years of putting everyone else first. She started treating her body as the loyal partner it had always been, not the enemy she had to fix.

That’s what I help women do – learn to care for their bodies with the same kindness and respect they’ve shown everyone else for years. Because when we stop trying to fix our bodies and start listening to them, that’s when everything begins to feel easier.

Your Next Step Toward Optimal Health

If you’re ready to stop guessing and start creating your version of optimal health in midlife and beyond, I’ve got you. My free 8 Basic Habits Guide & Checklist will show you the small, consistent actions that truly make a difference. These are the healthy habits for women over 50 that simplify your routines, support your hormones, and actually fit into your real life – no guilt, no overwhelm, no perfection required.

Start feeling better today. Download your guide 8 Basic Habits Guide & Checklist.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

When you think about optimal health in midlife and beyond, what does it look like for you – not what you’ve been told it should look like?

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After four decades of regular workouts, my body has decided to defend itself by developing osteoarthritis. Every workout is now a rousing game of Will It Hurt If I Do This? Oh, what fun.

But unlike a real game show, no prizes are awarded, no audience cheers me on and Door Number 2 does not hide a new sports car – or even a booby prize of a bucket of oats and a donkey. If only. Nope, the only reward is no pain if I win, pain if I lose.

I have two types of topical analgesic products to ease the discomfort. One is a roll-on. The other day I found myself rolling the soothing gel over both knees, my left thumb, my right toe and my right hip, all of which had decided to hurt for no reason whatsoever.

I started laughing as I realized I would gladly pay money for a head-to-toe roll on if it could erase every ache and pain.

In reality, I could skip the hilarity, throw myself a pity party (everyone’s invited!) and simply give up and lie on the couch, feeling sorry for myself. I could lament about the “good old days” when I could do lunges without pain, all while whimpering into my Chunky Monkey.

And to say I’m never tempted to do just that would be less than honest.

But here’s the thing. Aging happens. Everyone does it, whether they want to or not, whether they try to hide it or not.

Mother Nature has her way with all of us in one way or another.

Yes, even Madonna, Cher and every other woman in show biz, who pretends not to age, isn’t hiding from Mom Nature, I assure you. You can’t fake out your hormones, no matter how many rounds of Botox or full body lifts you endure.

Making fun of myself and these changes has been my lifelong way of coping. And, it turns out, I was onto something.

Laughter goes beyond simply good. Here are a few ways laughter boosts health.

Improves Memory

A 2014 Loma Linda University study found that humor may reduce brain damage caused by the stress hormone, cortisol, which then helps improve memory.

After watching a 30-minute humorous video, learning ability improved in the 60- to 70-year-old participants by nearly 39 percent. Scientists believe this occurs due to the ability of laughter to lower cortisol.

Raises Hopefulness

An earlier study by Texas A&M researchers shows humor increases hopefulness by relieving stress and producing a general sense of wellbeing.

Increases Heart Health

Research from the University of Maryland shows that an ability to laugh can even protect against heart disease.

The study found that people with heart disease responded less humorously to everyday life situations (even positive ones). They displayed more anger and hostility than those who did not have heart disease.

Numerous other research demonstrates the ability of laughter to lower blood pressure, reduce stress hormone levels and boost your immune system.

What’s Not to Love?

Problem is, if you’re Crabby McCrabby Face, it may take some work to turn that frown upside down.

Though keep in mind, I’m not talking about making light of serious situations. Sadness and other negative emotions are often warranted. We all go through tough situations in life that are not and never will be funny no matter how much time passes.

But on ordinary days, when your computer crashes, you’re stuck in traffic, or the cat barfs up a fur ball in the middle of your dinner party, putting things in perspective not only helps you move forward, but lowers cortisol and potentially avoids a whole heap of health issues.

When you’re having “one of those days,” at least one or more of the following tips should trigger your funny bone to do its thing.

Tap into Your Environment

Manipulate your environment on a daily basis by setting aside time to watch funny movies or videos or sitcoms. Think about what you find funny and schedule time for play or fun every day. Clown noses, funny cat videos or watching a favorite standup comic all work.

Create a Fun List

Jot down at least 10 things that bring a smile or a laugh. Your list should include things you can do when you’re feeling depressed or tired – times you’re typically least able to think of something fun to do.

Maybe it’s a Nerf ball you can throw at the wall, a Dave Barry book you can read for perspective or simply watching your cat play with a ball of paper.

Listen to Humor

Use audios of comics and humor writers on your iPhone, or other mobile device. Look for humorous podcasts, videos of standup comics on YouTube or others. Brian Regan and Jim Gaffigan are two of my favorite comediennes and appeal to a lot of people.

Call a Funny Friend

We should all have that someone who makes us laugh (my friends tell me I’m that person for them). Call him or her to talk about your frustrations. By the end of the call you should feel much better simply from talking it out and sharing a laugh.

Use Social Media

Do searches for “humor” on Pinterest, and you’ll find boatloads of funny quotes and cartoons. You can also look up this great list of funny quotes.

Decide to Laugh at Yourself

Case in point: I just returned from a dentist appointment after writing half this blog. Part of my lip was still numb, so when I attempted to drink water out of a bottle it ended up pouring out down the front of my shirt and into the waistband of my jeans. I laughed and went in the bedroom to change clothes.

I assure you, that whole story will end up as a topic for a future blog.

In the meantime, be sure to take action and make that funny list ahead of time, so it’s ready for the next time you’re tempted to let a bad day get the best of you.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How do you incorporate humor into your life? Do you have any funny movies, websites or social media groups that make you laugh? Please share a funny story that happened to you recently!

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