Month: July 2021

Thinking About Starting a Garden? Learn from My Mistakes and Successes!

Starting-a-Garden

Have you thought about growing your own garden? There are no excuses such as space or soil. If you have even a small patio, you can grow many veggies and herbs in pots.

Setting Up Our Garden

Last year, we started a very small garden with only a few pots of peppers, tomatoes and herbs. This year, we decided to have a big garden in our yard.

Growing your own produce is a spiritual experience. After much loving care with the proper nutrients and water, you have the tasteful experience of your hard work. Not to mention the great health benefits of fresh food.

Living in dry Arizona, our soil is not suitable for growing anything except cactus and citrus. So, we purchased four large beds 4 ft by 8 ft that were 12 inches deep and put them together after much ado. We were lucky to find these beds on sale.

Next, we searched out the best soil, top soil and a variety of different nutrients to add. We were lucky again as the usual cost of the primary soil we used is $8.00 a sack, and we needed about 50 sacks. But there was a big sale in town, and we were fortunate to pay only $2.00 a sack.

Choosing What to Grow

The produce we decided to grow included tomatoes, peppers, radishes, cucumbers, melons, berries, artichoke, cauliflower, brussels sprouts and okra.

We also have small pots for oregano, basil, tarragon, cilantro, thyme and even some arugula.

Though my husband has a thoroughly green thumb, we had no idea how these plants would fare. There are many variables that could influence their development, such as weather, varmints and bugs in general.

Our Mistakes

We made a bunch of mistakes that showed up a few months after planting.

  • We planted too early.
  • We put too many plants in one bed not taking regard for the spreading roots.
  • The radishes went crazy and crowded out many other vegetables.
  • The melons did not develop and were a complete loss.
  • The berries needed to be planted in a separate bed.

The Results

Some of our plants had a blast, including the tomatoes (beefsteak, grape and roma), peppers (sweet and hot), lemon cucumbers and okra. But we lost the melons, the berries didn’t thrive, the regular cucumbers just didn’t make it, and we’re still waiting on the cauliflower and brussels sprouts.

We have more tomatoes than we can eat though, so our neighbors are also enjoying them.

Next year, we will plant in May instead of March, and use seeds for many of the veggies and fruits. We will also plant less seeds or plants to give more room to grow and spread. And the best part: next year the expense will be far less.

Our Trees

We also planted a fig and apple tree, and believe it or not, we are already getting fresh figs. Next year the apples will be out.

In summary, I think growing our own produce is exciting. Does it save money? Well, the jury is out on that. Even if you have a small space and bad soil, watching the birth of fruits and vegetables is an amazing experience.

Do you ever wonder if you have enough space to grow a garden? What would you like to grow in your garden? Can you describe your first gardening experience? Please join the conversation below!

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Calling All Icons: NSale Starts Today!

Calling All Icons: #NSale Starts Today!

If you’re an Icon that means you’re the most expert of Nordstrom shoppers, so you probably already know that your access to the best deals starts today!  But never fear, if you have a Nordstrom card but aren’t an Icon, Ambassadors have access July 14 and Influencers can shop July 16 (check out your account to see which level you are). No card? Sign up today! Don’t want to? You can start shopping July 28.

Check out my picks below, some of which I’ve already shared and some I’m adding today! No access to shop yet? Don’t forget to save your picks to your favorites to shop ASAP before they sell out.

 

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Going Back to Work as a Mature Woman Gives Me 4 Things I Never Had When I Was Younger

Going Back to Work as a Mature Woman

As I
gathered my briefcase, purse, and lunch from my car and headed up to my office
this morning, I remembered I’d be welcoming a new co-worker today.

She
comes from another campus in our community college district, and I’m looking
forward to working with her and making her feel like a part of our team.

Being the Old Newbie

This
is what everyone did for me a few months ago on my first day, and it’s one of
the reasons I like working here so much. My fellow employees have all been
helpful, encouraging, and supportive to me as the new kid on the block.

The
funny thing about being that newbie is that I actually first started working
here in 1986. I was a month shy of 35 the day I began as a journalism professor
and student newspaper adviser, and I was scared to death. Even then, though, I
felt welcomed and supported.

Because
the job was quite intense, I kind of slogged through it, learning as I went,
but I was often so busy I was almost unaware of what all I was experiencing as
a human. I went on to work here more than 20 years, eventually moving to
another college in the district as a dean for several years before I retired.

Enter Retirement, or Not Quite

The
day I packed my personal belongings in a cardboard box and started my new life
as a retired person was amazing. I could set my own schedule, plan my own
activities, and appreciate all the unplanned time in front of me. I loved the
sense of freedom that retirement provided.

But
I also struggled a little with having quite so much free time. I had worked for
more than 30 years by then, and I realized I did best when I had a schedule. I
experimented with my own daily agendas and to-do lists, but when I was
occasionally asked to come back to work in an interim role, I was kind of
relieved.

I
ended up working about half of every year, which was nice. I still had time for
fun and hobbies, I made some extra money, and the work provided me with the
sense of meaning I had felt was missing when I was fully retired.

Being Back to Work Builds Character

Then,
one of those interim jobs was so enjoyable and meaningful that I decided to
apply for the permanent version when it opened. I was lucky enough to get it, so
I rescinded my retirement and started anew in January.

It’s
a fun position with lots to absorb, but I’ve actually learned the most about
myself and what it’s really like to be at this stage of one’s life. At 67, I
feel as if I’m starting all over – but with the time, consciousness, and
emotional maturity to really learn and build an even more substantial person.

When
we’re younger, raising families, buying houses, paying bills, and figuring out
all of the other aspects of adulthood, there is rarely the opportunity to take
in what we’re learning and how we’re going about developing ourselves as
people.

My
new foray into working is completely different. It’s not that my life is
without issues, but it isn’t anything like it was when I was in my 30s and 40s
and working while managing all of the other things we face at those ages.

There
are lots of ways this experience makes me feel like a whole new person, but there
are four that stand out.

I Have a Clarity I’ve Never Experienced Before

Throughout
my “first” career, handling work – and home and family and all – was like
constantly sorting through a really full, messy closet to find my shoes. There
was never time to clean everything up, and even if I did, I would lose control
of it in a day.

When
we are doing so much in our lives, it’s almost impossible to find and maintain
clarity. We might have moments or weekends of enlightenment and resolve about
what we need to do to get everything done and do it well, but those get easily
lost in the next week full of commitments.

These
days, I simply have more time and more opportunity to learn.

I Am More Interested in What I’m Engaged in

When
we’re always behind, forever late, and frequently stressed, it’s hard to take sustained
pleasure and interest in what we’re doing. In my new life, I’m still busy and
occasionally stressed, but it’s relative.

I
know I don’t have to do this forever, so the tension is automatically less.
Plus, I’ve had enough of a career before this to know what I like and what I
don’t. I feel blessed to have had the chance to choose my focus this time
around, and it makes it much more engaging.

I Have a Deep Sense of Self-Appreciation

I’ve
learned to value who I am and what I’m doing, and this isn’t bragging. I simply
have more perspective than I did throughout much of my career when I was
striving and feeling overworked.

When
we’re in mid-life, we tend to compare ourselves (often negatively) to others,
and it’s hard to truly welcome our own take on what we’re doing.

From
my new vantage point I appreciate the wisdom I bring. Plus, my ego is no longer
so involved, so I’m open to asking questions and showing what I don’t know.

I See an Open Door in Front of Me

Because
we aren’t particularly creative about the arc of our lives, many of us imagine
college, work, family, retirement, relaxing – usually in that order. And that
makes for a lovely track for most of us. But with good health and fitness, 65
may be a very early age for many of us to settle down on the porch.

Doing
this new job gives me the feeling of being young and growing again, with many
possibilities ahead of me. I’m not unrealistically thinking I’ll live forever,
but I love all of the new dreaming I’m doing about where my adventures may take
me next.

Going
back to work after retirement isn’t for everyone, but it has served me well.
I’ve learned so much about myself and about the world around me – and I’m
inspired in a way I never was when I was younger.

If
you could go back to work, what do you imagine yourself doing? What would your
new life look like if you did “un-retire”? Let’s engage in a conversation!

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Gizelle Bryant’s Brown Leather Puff Sleeve Top and Pants

Gizelle Bryant’s Brown Leather Puff Sleeve Top and Pants

Real Housewives of Potomac Season 6 Episode 1 Fashion

Gizelle Bryant may get some flack about her sense of style, but I think that so far her season 6 outfits are on point. Her brown leather puff sleeve top and pants at the Nude Interlude party were super cute and edgy—I’m totally on board with the look. I can actually totally picture one of the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills rocking it. And although her exact look is sold out, there are some fab Style Stealers to leave you puffed and pretty next time chilly weather hits.

 

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair

 

Gizelle Bryant's Brown Leather Puff Sleeve Top and Pants

Click Here to See her Olivia Culpo for INC International Concept Look

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The Bachelorette Season 17 Episode 6: Looks We Love

The Bachelorette Season 17 Episode 6: Looks We Love

On this week’s episode of The Bachelorette Katie Thurston has the men compete in a very interesting and um, hard shall we say challenge that involves little “friendly handshakes” with themselves being off-limits (lol wtf) for as long as possible. And while that task may require willpower, we highly recommend that you ladies give into temptation and start shopping the best looks of the ep right now to bring along some instant self-gratification. 

 

Fashionably,

Faryn

 

Katie Thurston's Black Sequin Blazer Dress

Click Here to Shop Her Badgley Mischka Blazer on Sale (she removed the belt)

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Kaitlyn Bristowe’s White Tassel Cover Up

Click Here to Shop Her L*Space Dress in 5 Colours

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Click Here to Shop Her Havianas Flip Flops in 4 Colours

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Tayshia Adams’ Beige Cargo Dress

Click Here to Shop Her Derek Lam 10 Crosby Dress

Click Here to Shop Her Saint Laurent Sneakers

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Katie Thurston’s Yellow Leather Dress

Click Here to Shop Her Zeynep Arcay Dress on Sale

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Katie Thurston’s Gold and Black Jumpsuit

Click Here to Shop Her Alice + Olivia Jumpsuit on Sale

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And Here For More Stock on Sale

Click Here to Shop Her Marion Parke Sandals on Sale

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Tayshia Adams’ Beige One Shoulder Dress

Click Here to Shop Her AZ Factory Dress

Click Here to See Her Gianvito Rossi Sandals

Click Here to Shop Them in Gold on Sale

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Kaitlyn Bristowe’s Black Crystal Trim Dress

Click Here to Shop Her De La Vali Dress on Sale

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The Bachelorette Airs MONDAY, JULY. 12 (8:00-10:00 p.m. EST), on ABC. (ABC/Craig Sjodin)

 

 

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