Month: August 2021

The Pros and Cons of Shaving, Waxing & Laser Removal

Now that we’re knee-deep in summer, one part of your beauty routine is probably pretty high up on your list: your high-visibility hair removal approach. You’ve likely asked yourself, “Should I shave? Wax? Laser off all that pesky hair in my bikini line, underarms and legs?!” If so, welcome to Hair Removal 101.

We all know that keeping our bodies hairless in all the right places isn’t always smooth sailing — all hair removal methods, whether it’s waxing, shaving, or laser has the potential for issues like nicks, bumps, ingrown hairs, and…general discomfort. Let’s take a cursory look at the multitude of removal options, and with them, the different levels of pain, commitment, expense, convenience and perhaps most importantly, longevity.

And as always, remember that how much hair you remove, if at all, is up to you and there’s nothing dirty or unsightly about body hair. It’s normal! It’s natural! So, you do you always. But if you do decide to jump into hair removal, these tips will help.

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wax warmer home waxing kit

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Waxing

How It Works: Hot (but not too hot!) wax is applied to the desired area and removed in the opposite direction of the hair growth, pulling hairs out from the root.
Best For: Legs, underarms, and bikini areas, and great for those with coarse, darker hair that tends to be stubborn.
Pros: Temporarily removes hair at the root for an average of three weeks of smooth skin, which can range from two to six weeks depending on your hair type and thickness.
Cons: Waxing requires some regrowth in order to be effective, as the wax needs at least a quarter-inch of stubble to adhere to. Treatments can be moderately painful, as hair is indeed being ripped out at the root, but it becomes more tolerable over time. Waxing can also result in ingrown hairs.
Average Cost: Anywhere from $15-80 for salon waxing, depending on areas waxed and your salon of choice. Or, you can go for at-home options, such as Bella Verde’s Wax Warmer Home Waxing Kit.
Tips: “Don’t drink and wax,” warns Noemi Grupenmager, founder and CEO of Uni K Wax Centers. “Some people come in after consuming alcohol thinking it’ll ease the pain, but alcohol tightens pores, making it much more painful.” Stimulants, like coffee, can also increase sensitivity, so be sure to remember this if you DIY.

gilette venus razor

Gillette.

Shaving

How It Works: Shaving removes hair from the skin’s surface by cutting it off with a razor.
Best For: Legs, underarms, and those with lighter, finer hair.
Pros: Inexpensive, painless, quick, and easy; and shaving creams used can help moisturize the skin, keeping it soft.
Cons: Regrowth happens quickly, and because hair is cut off at the surface, regrown hair is blunt, not tapered, so it can appear thicker. Razor burn, nicks, and cuts are possibilities, and those who shave regularly can also become prone to ingrown hairs.
Average Cost: Razors and shaving cream can be inexpensively purchased at any grocery or drugstore.
Tips: For those who can’t quit their shaving habit, “growth reduction” products promise to help inhibit hair regrowth, thus reducing the frequency of shaving required.

easy OFF Foaming Hair Removal Spray

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Depilatory Creams

How It Works: Hair removal creams use chemicals to weaken the hair follicle, so you can effectively wipe it away.
Best For: Those who want quick, easy, relatively painless at-home results. Depilatories are most popular for facial hair, bikini lines, and underarms.
Pros: Can be done at home, and removes hair just below the surface of the skin, ensuring slower and less coarse regrowth than shaving.
Cons: Chemicals in these products can irritate sensitive skin, particularly in more delicate areas. These creams are infamous for their odor, and can also lead to ingrown hairs.
Average Cost: Around $6-$12 for a tube of cream or spray-on depilatory lotion.
Tips: Choose a cream suited for the specific area you’re treating—and maybe light some scented candles in the bathroom to mask the strong smell most of these products tend to have. A solid option is Completely Bare’s Easy Off Foaming Hair Removal Spray, which comes in an easy-to-apply foam that washes off in the shower.

Permanent Hair Removal, MiSMON IPL Laser Hair

MiSMON.

Laser Hair Removal

How It Works: Laser penetrates the skin to target the hair shaft and inhibit hair growth. It essentially destroys the follicle, meaning it can achieve permanent removal. Typically, the hair in treated areas falls out within 2-3 weeks.
Best For: People with hair darker than their skin—while professional dermatologists can vary the type of laser used, laser targets the melanin in the hair, so it’s not suited as well for people with dark skin or pale hair. The laser needs to be able to lock on to the dark pigment in order to differentiate the dark hair from the skin.
Pros: Great for long-term hair removal in all areas. “It causes no damage to the dermis, so even the most sensitive skin can be treated,” says New York dermatologist Dr. Ariel Ostad.
Cons: Laser hair removal can be painful, with most people describing it as a “snapping” sensation against the skin, as well as a sensation of heat from the laser. Also, it requires numerous visits to a dermatologist for best results. “It is important to go to a dermatologist who can offer different lasers which are customized to the patient’s skin color and hair color,” says Ostad.
Average Cost: $150 to $500 per treatment, with an average of six sessions recommended, depending on the area being treated. Several cycles of treatment are usually recommended to capture the hair follicles at different stages of the growth cycle. Some people require touch-up treatments to maintain, especially on larger areas.
Tips: While it may seem expensive, in the long run, many consider laser removal to be an investment that can pay off. “It is the most effective and cost-effective treatment, considering how much one can spend over a lifetime with options such as waxing or electrolysis,” says Ostad.

Finishing Touch Lumina hair removal The Pros and Cons of Shaving, Waxing & Laser Removal

Finishing Touch.

Electrolysis

How It Works: Electrolysis uses a fine, needle-shaped electrode to apply an electrical current to the hair follicle.
Best For: Small areas such as the eyebrows, upper lip, and underarms, as it treats each hair and follicle individually, which is time-consuming and can get expensive.
Pros: Can permanently remove hair and is suitable for very fine and light-colored hair, unlike laser, which works best on darker hair.
Cons: When improperly done, electrolysis can lead to scarring or skin discoloration. Treatments can be uncomfortable and cause a “stinging” or “pricking” sensation, and as with laser hair removal, permanent results require multiple sessions.
Average Cost: Around $25 to $150 an hour.
Tips: Dehydrated follicles can be more difficult to treat, so be sure to drink plenty of water the day before, the day of, and the day after your treatment.

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Margaret Josephs’ Floral Off The Shoulder Dress

Margaret Josephs’ Floral Off The Shoulder Dress on Instagram

Real Housewives of New Jersey 2021 Instagram Fashion

Margaret Josephs’ floral print off the shoulder dress on Instagram is perfect for summer. I don’t think anything goes better with summer events than floral print. Well that and maybe some good friends and and cold drinks. Which is what Margaret had paired so well with her dress. Thankfully this dress is still in stock but we all know that goes fast. So get it before the stock and summer is over!

 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

 

Margaret Josephs' Floral Off The Shoulder Dress

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Wendy Osefo’s Grey Outfit

Wendy Osefo’s Grey Outfit on the Party Bus

Real Housewives of Potomac Season 6 Episode 5 Fashion

Wendy Osefo looked sooo good in her grey outfit on the party bus. I’m not sure why Gizelle was questioning it because I think it looks great. So great that BBH’s Lauren and I searched the ends of the earth for it so we could have it for ourselves share the deets. Though we both had no luck thankfully Wendy did us a solid and told us where to find it. And lo and behold it’s affordable and the top is still in stock. But even when that runs out we still have Style Stealers below that will have you pole dancing.

 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

 

Wendy Osefo's Grey Outfit
Wendy Osefo's Grey Outfit

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Lingerie Guide for Older Women

lingerie older women

Are you unsure about what lingerie styles suit you best? As we get older and our bodies and lifestyles change, so do our choices of clothing items. Lingerie can be the one that gets the most intimidating as we get older.

As a fashion designer, I designed collections for major retailers for many years in Canada, and I specialized in lingerie over the course of my career. I truly enjoyed choosing fabrics and trims, creating color combos, and designing collections that women loved to wear. Although I am no longer a fashion designer, I still have the guilty pleasure of enjoying lingerie (a lot)!

I always feel confident when I know I’m wearing something special under my clothes – something that is comfortable, that doesn’t dig into my skin, and that provides a nice silhouette under my clothes.

As I got older, I noticed that my personal taste in clothing changed. That included my choice of lingerie pieces as well. Was it because my body was changing? Was it because my lifestyle was also changing? I think it’s a combination of factors that make us choose different styles, fabrics, and cuts as we get older.

I can remember the days in the 80s and 90s of the past century when I swore by thong and string panties and wore practically nothing else. Today, my lingerie collection has zero thongs, zero string undies. Not a single one.

Not that there is anything wrong with wearing thongs as we mature, but personally, I look for more comfortable undies that don’t dig in or leave marks. But, by no means does this mean that my lingerie is frumpy and old school. There are plenty of lacy, sexy, and comfortable lingerie out there for us sexy and confident mature women.

NOTE: I know most of the models in the photos below don’t represent our community. These photos are taken from the retailers’ websites. Obviously, there’s still some work to be done in the fashion industry in regards to ageism.

What to Look for in Lingerie for Older Women

Fabrics

Natural and organic fibers are always a good idea when it comes to choosing underwear. Natural fabrics breathe better and have natural wicking features that keep skin dryer.

Styling

A well-styled bra or panty will generally fit better. The cups will be well-formed without putting pressure on the chest area and elastics will be soft but firm. Hardware like rings and sliders are better when made of lead-free metal rather than plastic.

Sizing

Did you know that you are probably wearing the wrong size bra? Studies show that up to eight women out of ten are not fitted with the proper bra size.

Care

Look at care labels and make sure that you will be able to provide the necessary washing and drying instructions. Lace typically has to be hand washed, and if you live a busy life or simply don’t want to hand wash, maybe that shouldn’t be your first choice.

Bras for Older Women

Types of Bras

Underwire Bras

Underwire bras like this Ultra Light Bali style provide the most support. The wires should comfortably sit under the arm area behind the breast. The wires should not poke nor hurt.

Bali - One Smooth U Ultra Light Shaping Underwire Bra 3439

Wireless Bras

Wireless bras such as Playtex Secrets are more comfortable than wired bras. Because they are not as supportive as wired bras, they should be well constructed to provide adequate support.

Playtex Secrets Perfectly Smooth Wirefree Bra

T-shirt Bras

T-shirt bras are made with molded cups and don’t have any seams. They are often made of cotton and provide a sleek look under clothing. Personally, these have been my everyday bras for years. They can be designed with or without underwires.

Vanity Fair Beauty Back Smoothing Full-Figure Contour Bra 76380

Demi Bras

As the name suggests, demi bras don’t cover the entire breast. They are not recommended for the fuller ladies as they don’t provide enough support and may cause the breasts to spill out. Not a good look!

Hanes Ultimate Breathable Comfort Underwire Bra DHHU36

Bralettes

Bralettes such as the ENBLISS have become popular in the past years and are not solely for the younger women to wear. They are pulled over the head and generally don’t have wires or hard parts like metal closures. They are considered minimal support bras and are great to sleep in (but a little difficult to get in and out of.)

ENBLISS Bralette

Specialty Bras

Some bras are designed for specific purposes.

Sports Bras

As the name suggests, sports bras are made to keep you supported while doing physical activities. They provide the maximum support to keep the girls from moving too much while you are being active.

WACOAL Sport Contour Underwire Bra

Push-Up/Padded Bras

On other fashion articles I have written for Sixty and Me some of you have shared that you have lost a significant amount of breast size. Push-up bras and padded bras can provide the little extra oomph you need.

DREAM ANGELS Lace Push-up Bra

Front-Fastening Bras

Front fastening bras like this Playtex model are a god-send for women with arthritis or problems with their wrists or shoulders.

Playtex 18 Hour 4695 Front-Close Wirefree Bra With Flex Back

Minimizing Bras

For those with large bosoms, minimizing bras can help create a nice silhouette.

Bali Passion for Comfort Seamless Underwire Minimizer Bra

Racer Back Bras

Racer bras are bras that are crossed at the back and very handy when wearing sleeveless tops that have a racer back. Many of these bras often have transformable straps for more versatility.

Women's Zip Front Sports Bra

Strapless Bras

Strapless bras like this one from Soma are great for the times where your top or dress reveals the shoulder area.

CURVY COUTURE Strapless Multiway Push Up Bra

For a few more examples of bras for older women read this article 10 BEST BRA OPTIONS FOR OLDER WOMEN.

Bra Tips and Tricks

Support in the Band

The part of the bra that provides the most support is the band and not the straps. It’s important that you get the proper size so the band is well fitted.

Right Size

Bras usually come with 3 sizes of closure options. Your new bra should fit at the middle hook. You may have to move one size over as your bra gets older.

Annual Fitting

It’s a good idea to get fitted every year or so by a bra specialist. Our bodies are constantly changing which means we may need to change our bra size several times throughout our lives. It’s better to embrace change than to wear a wrong-fitting bra. Specialty lingerie shops typically have sales associates that are trained to size and fit their clients. This service is usually of no cost to you.

Support

It’s time to change your bra when it doesn’t support you as much as before. All bras lose their elasticity and support features as they get older and go through the many, many washes. You will notice that a well-styled bra that is made of quality fabric (and more expensive) will last longer than a cheaper bra made with lesser quality fabric and construction materials.

How do you know if your bra is still supporting you properly? Simple – test the fit of your bra by dropping down the straps from your shoulders to see how much support the band and the cups are still providing your breasts.

If everything gets exposed and goes south, it’s time to get a new bra that has better support. If everything stays mostly in place it means that the shoulder straps are not the support system for your bra – which is a good thing!

Health Issues

Look for front-fastening bras if your mobility is compromised by arthritis or other issues with your hands or shoulders.

Panties for Mature Women

All panty styles can be made of cotton, lace, nylon, spandex mixes, polyester, bamboo, lyocell etc. and come in solid colors or in various prints.

Types of Panties

The names we call the types of panties (undies or knickers in the UK) vary from country to country. This is a basic list of types that you will find (with North American lingo.)

Classic Brief

Briefs are panties that provide the most coverage of all the panty types. Classic briefs, which are sometimes called granny panties, sit very high on the waist and provide full coverage at the back.

Vanity Fair Perfectly Yours Ravissant Nylon Full Brief Underwear

High Cut Brief

The high cut brief is designed with a larger leg opening. These can be more comfortable to wear for some women while still providing adequate coverage at the back. High cut briefs offer a more revealing look, showing more leg.

Bali Skimp Skamp® Hi-Cut Panty

Control Brief

As the name suggests, control briefs offer a front or back control panel to offer a trimming look to the tummy and buttocks.

Bali Double Support Collection Brief Underwear

Hipster

The hipster panty style like the cotton modal from Soma offers a good amount of coverage but sits lower on the waist.

COTTON MODAL Hipster 5 Pack

Bikini

Bikini panties resemble the hipsters but are designed with less side coverage. They still offer coverage at the back but reveal more leg.

Hanes Cool Comfort® Women's Cotton Bikini Panties 6-Pack

Boy Shorts

Boy shorts resemble men’s boxer briefs and sit low on the waist while covering most of the back area.

Maidenform Dream Boyshort

Thong/Tanga/G-String

These panties offer no buttock coverage and are good to wear under garments that are form fitting. Thongs are the go-to panties if you don’t want any revealing panty lines. But they can be uncomfortable for many women.

TellTale The Dreamer Thong

Seamless Panties

Seamless panties are usually made of a specialty fabric that is molded with the least seams. Typically, these styles offer a cotton crotch. They are great for minimizing the look of panty lines and are often used when doing sports.

Panty Tips

Comfort

Your panties should first and foremost be comfortable. The style is completely up to you and will probably change as you get older. What was comfortable when we were 22 is probably not comfortable when we are 65. Heck what was comfortable at 55 may not be comfortable at 65. You should not “feel” your panties as you go about your day.

Fabric

The fabric should breathe, absorb, and wick moisture. Cotton and natural fibers like bamboo, for example, are good choices. If you do opt for lace panties or man-made fabrics make sure that the crotch area is made of cotton and that it is big enough.

Fit

Your panties should fit properly and not dig into your waist or thighs. This can cause them to reveal panty lines under your clothes. Not very elegant! Remember to change your panty size as your body changes over the years.

Seams

Panties with less seams look better under clothes. Look for laser cut or seamless panties for the best look.

HINT: White panties or bras are not the best underwear to wear under white clothing. Many women make this mistake. Choose nude (or flesh) colored underwear. Some brands offer them in a variety of shades to match various skin tones.

Special Occasions Lingerie for Older Women

Now for the sexy lingerie! Do you wear sexy lingerie because it boosts your confidence? Do you enjoy wearing it to feel sexy with your partner? Either way, it’s always good to have a few pieces of lingerie that are made for those special occasions – lacey, frilly, transparent, and OO-LA-LA!

Babydolls

Babydolls typically have a bra-like top part with a flowy bottom part that covers the hip area.

Avidlove Women's Chemise Nightgown Babydoll

Teddies

Teddies (or bodysuits) like this one from Victoria’s Secret are a one-piece lingerie item that is often made with lace or sheer fabrics. These styles can be flattering and make you look taller.

VERY SEXY Floral Embroidered Plunge Teddy

Slips/Chemise

Silk, satin, or lace slips are very comfortable and are easy to wear.

b.tempt'd by Wacoal Lace Kiss Chemise Nightgown

Best Lingerie for Older Women

Choosing lingerie as older women is a very personal experience. The fabric, the color, and the style will all depend on your personal taste, lifestyle, and preference. Of course, we expect sexy lingerie to be less comfortable than our cotton briefs, but we should still feel comfy without anything poking into our skin.

Sexy has no age!

What are your favorite lingerie items? Has your style changed as you have gotten older? Tell us what you like to wear now. How is it different from before? Leave your comments below.

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The Bachelorette Season 17 Finale: Looks We Love

The Bachelorette Season 17 Finale: Looks We Love

And the final rose goes to _____! On tonight’s season finale of The Bachelorette Katie Thurston’s dramatic journey to find love comes to an end. And while we’ll have to wait and see which one of the remaining guys she decides to pick (if anyone after Greg’s dramatic exit last week), thankfully we can still pick as many cute looks from the episode to report on here as we want. 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

 

Fashionably,

Faryn

 

Tayshia Adams’ Yellow Printed Dress

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Click Here to See Her Stuart Weitzman Sandals

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Kaitlyn Bristowe’s Yellow Asymmetrical Dress

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Katie Thurston’s Pink Shoulder Pad Tee

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Kaitlyn Bristowe’s White Hoodie Sweatshirt

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Tayshia Adams’ Purple Cashmere Sweater

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The Bachelorette Airs MONDAY, AUG. 9 (8:00-11:00 p.m. EST), on ABC. (ABC/Craig Sjodin)

 

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