Sutton Stracke’s Black Crochet Top on Instagram

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Sutton looks as cute as a button in her black crochet black crochet top on Instagram. She was singing a familiar southern tune with her fellow southern friend. Now I am absolutely terrible at singing, but finding Style Stealers is totally my jam. And they just so happen to be below and ready for you to rock me Mama like a wagon wheel.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Originally posted at: Sutton Stracke’s Black Crochet Top

Kyle Richards’ Striped Fringe Cardigan on Her Instagram

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Kyle Richards is 100% correct in saying that there is no shame in her and her daughter’s stripe game. Except for when it comes to that price tag of her striped fringe cardigan. There may be a little bit shame there if you aren’t able to drop 2k for a fab cardigan. But that’s okay there’s no need to take out a loan just yet because there are amazing Style Stealers below that are definitely bank approved.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Originally posted at: Kyle Richards’ Striped Fringe Cardigan

We’ve heard retirement referred to as the “golden years,” the “autumn in life,” or the “third act,” and ideal lifestyles ranging from active to passive and energetic to idle. Destinations abroad await some, while tango lessons, writing memoirs, pickleball, and more time with grandchildren await others.

One woman jokes retirement is having “twice as much husband with half as much money,” while another career woman smiles at thoughts of being able to languish in bed most mornings. Improving health, physical flexibility and longevity rank high, as do plans to volunteer, garden, start a small business or just keep working – maybe part time.

We Are Far from the 90s

When unforeseen circumstances occur, including divorce, death of a loved one, an unexpected health condition, or a financial calamity, they re-define the future.

With the over-50 divorce rates in the US roughly doubling since the 1990s (according to Pew Research Center,) pandemic-induced remote work persisting and even trending permanent in the US, andtechnology changing how people worldwide work in the 21^st Century, what retirement plans Baby Boomers set early in their careers may have altered drastically by today.

Don’t Underestimate the Power of Research

Whether you are in the US, UK, or elsewhere, and long to retire to an idyllic tropical scene visited during long ago vacations; move closer to family members, grandchildren, and long-time friends; or are staring at a low-balance bank account and your projected income appears inadequate, pulling up stakes for a relocation retirement may suddenly sound more appealing.

The decision to relocate in retirement has many faces, and perhaps the only thing we might agree on is it is different for everyone!

The amount of information about the topic of relocating in retirement abounds. We can look at traditional business-focused magazines for articles that rank retirement states and countries; find out about expat communities and affordable retirement locations from websites/organizations like Transitions Abroad or Americans Abroad or several others to be found searching Google.

We can confer with a personal retirement coach and turn to retirement organizations like AARP, or the pension authority in the last EU country where employed. We can also ask a financial planner, talk with retired friends, or read what others are doing on their blogs and listen to their podcasts.

Real estate professionals always encourage buyers to visit prospective locations, and preferably during different seasons, while others encourage retirees to rent before making a permanent move.

For example, there is a podcast entitled “Repurpose Your Career” on CareerPivot.com, where a freelance writer and mother of adult children discusses her thought process and the steps she took to find an apartment in Porto, Portugal, establish her business, and move.

Owner and publisher of CareerPivot, Marc Miller (and his spouse), moved from the US to live in Ajijic, ­­­­Mexico. Mexico and Portugal both appear on lists of affordable retirement countries.

I have a 77-year-old family member who relocated from San Diego, CA to Coeur d’Alene, ID where he’s experienced a 40% increase in rent since moving to what he’d hoped would be more “affordable” living four years ago.

Pandemic-spurred real estate prices in Boise, Idaho rose 28.8% in 2021! Similarly, real estate increases in Billings, Montana, that averaged 2% in the last several years climbed to 16% in 2021. There has been a veritable land rush to small cities in the US Mountain states for affordable housing.

All this is to say, seek current information.

Know Your Preferences and Values

A clear understanding of personal values and preferences, along with knowledge of how to research locations is essential. Browsing websites, reading newsletters, talking to residents, watching selected YouTube channels, and exploring locations in person can all be helpful.

If you are considering retirement or winding down your career in another geographic area, what is motivating that decision? While many do relocate during retirement, 90% of 50-plus-year-olds say they wish to age in place. Consider the factors below and decide, how would you prioritize them?

• Community: pride; location; diversity & inclusiveness
• Community: other seniors, spiritual/religious group
• Recreational opportunities
• Local transportation and municipal services available
• Climate: weather/seasonal differences with adherent heating/cooling costs
• Proximity to family
• Adequate health care resources like major/minor healthcare/assisted living
• Access to international airport
• Quality of life: libraries, parks, entertainment, college or university
• Available technology to work from distance, or employers to sustain a job in retirement
• Quality of life: proximity to grocery, eateries, meal services, theater, art scene
• Affordability: taxes, property maintenance, cost of living
• Other

Account for Possible, Unanticipated Changes

Despite the best laid plans as life can certainly intercede. I can tell the story of friends who ranked their priorities as:

1. Proximity to family

2. Adequate healthcare facilities and

3. Climate

Thus, they ended up moving to join their daughter and young grandchildren in San Diego, CA. All went well for three years, even while the woman was diagnosed with life-altering heart disease, and until the son-in-law was laid off his job. The young family needed to make a career move back to the east coast, and the retired couple then returned to Chicago shortly thereafter.

Relocation in retirement has always been a fascinating topic. Whether we see the grass being greener on the other side of the fence, come upon the decision in an impulse, or on slow burn, knowing our priorities and preferences, doing good research and making solid plans should help.

Author’s Note: While writing this piece, someone reminded me of the Alcoholics Anonymous notion that “Pulling a Geographic” is essentially trying to solve an internal problem with an external solution; it doesn’t work. “Wherever you go, there you are” is another way to say this, and it might encourage us all to take a deep breath, focus on our glasses being half full this holiday season and returning to the SixtyandMe.com Mindset column for emotional sustenance.

Is retirement relocation in your future plans? Where would you like to go? Have you done your research, made your plans and evaluated your priorities? What have you learned about yourself in the process?

Now that we’re on the tail end of the I-woke-up-like-this beauty trend, the classic red lip is poised to make a huge comeback. But considering how quickly it can upgrade your look, it’s a wonder it went anywhere to begin with. Still, not all the best red lipsticks are created equal: Some are too chalky, or too dry, or worse — can’t make it through breakfast without smudging off. One thing to keep in mind: your undertones. Warm tones look great with an orange-red lipstick, and a bright cherry red will complement cooler tones, but if you find one that breaks the rule, you do you.

Ever since the rerelease of Taylor Swift‘s Red album, folks on TikTok have been having their red lip moment. From matte to glossy and blue-red to wine shades, there’s a color and formula for every age and skin tone. There’s the perfect red lipstick at every price point, too. We found stellar options that cost less than a coffee, as well as luxe ones that are worth saving up for. So, pop on the 10-minute All Too Well and get ready for this season to become your own Red era.

E.L.F.

E.L.F. Srsly Satin Lipstick in Cherry

This silky-smooth, creamy lipstick contains hydrating macadamia seed oil. Srsly Satin Lipstick is a cruelty-free and vegan formula that comes in 10 shades — including this Cherry hue.

Maybelline New York.

Maybelline New York Color Sensational Made for All Lipstick in Red for Me

Maybelline tested this blue-red lipstick on a diverse mix of 50 skin tones to ensure it looks good on everyone. Plus, the comfort matte formula lasts all day without flaking.

Nars.

Nars Powermatte Lip Pigment Liquid Lipstick in Starwoman

This brick-red hue comes in a unique lightweight formula that feels like nothing on the lips but delivers bold, matte color.

M.A.C.

M.A.C. Love Me Liquid Lipstick in Whatta Doll

Liquid lipstick fans love this argan oil- and shea butter–infused liquid lip color with a satin finish. And in this deep rose color? Sign us up.

Charlotte Tilbury.

Charlotte Tilbury Matte Revolution Lipstick in Red Carpet Red

Although Charlotte Tilbury is known for its nude shades, don’t dismiss the red colors — especially this ruby red with a hydrating matte finish.

Sephora Collection.

Sephora Collection  #LIPSTORIES Lipstick in 23 After Hours

This matte red lipstick feels way more expensive than its $9 price tag. It lasts all day without drying out lips.

Dior.

Dior Rouge Dior Refillable Lipstick in 999 Metallic

Go luxe with this hydrating and long-wearing classic red lipstick with a cool metallic sheen. It’s also refillable so you can pop in a new shade without buying a whole new lipstick case.

Rare Beauty.

Rare Beauty Lip Soufflé Matte Cream Lipstick in Inspire

This bright red hue is Selena Gomez’s go-to shade from her Rare Beauty line. The weightless air-whipped lip cream allows you to get a full-coverage pout or that just-kissed look with ease.

Gucci.

Gucci Rouge à Lèvres Voile Sheer Lipstick in 25* Goldie Red

Somehow this “Gucci red” color is both pigmented and sheer at the same time, making it a great starter red lipstick for those who are a little nervous about going bold.

Amazon.

Haus Laboratories by Lady Gaga Sparkle Lipstick

Although this universally flattering, true red color has a ton of sparkle, it feels creamy — not glittery.

Ilia.

Ilia Color Block Lipstick in Grenadine

Those looking for a clean, vegan formula will love this organic castor seed oil-infused smooth lipstick in a soft coral-red with warm undertones. 

Christian Louboutin.

Christian Louboutin Velvet Matte Lip Colour in Rouge Louboutin 001m

Christian Louboutin lipsticks are basically like a piece of art — just like its shoes. But the actual lipstick formula isn’t to be overlooked. This ultra-pigmented formula has a soft, suede finish in a class blue-red shade.

Smashbox.

Smashbox Always On Longwear Matte Liquid Lipstick in Liquid Fire

Looking for a deeper, more rust color? Choose this matte liquid lipstick that’s non-drying but also waterproof.

Glossier.

Glossier Generation G in Zip

For that blotted lip look, choose Glossier’s lightweight, diffused matte lipstick in this bright poppy red.

Revlon.

Revlon Super Lustrous The Luscious Mattes Lipstick in Red 026 Getting Serious

This comfort matte lipstick has a velvety feel and tons of pigment in just one swipe.

Wet n Wild.

Wet n Wild Silk Finish Lip Stick in Just Garnet

Choose this red lipstick if you’re looking for a more purple-red — with tons of hydrating color and a natural finish.