Heather Gay’s White Floral Pajamas in Scottsdale

Real Housewives of Salt Lake City Season 3 Episode 4 Fashion

While Heather Gay may have woken up in a pile of chocolate on last night’s ep of RHOSLC (dead ), she also woke up in these super cute white floral pajamas. And although they’re no longer available, thankfully our Style Stealers below are anything but duds. 

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Faryn

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Originally posted at: Heather Gay’s White Floral Pajamas

BravoCon 2022 Fashion: Real Housewives of Potomac

If you thought the BravCon-tent was over, you are sadly mistaken. We’re taking it down franchise by franchise and today is your lucky day because we’re covering the Real Housewives of Potomac! They had some reallllly great looks most of which are actually still in stock which is always great news. Of course next to finding out our RHOP girly Ashley Darby struck up a fling with another Bravo Babe. Either way we can all find love by shopping all the lewks below!

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Robyn Dixon’s Brown Leather Blazer + Pants

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Ashley Darby’s Black Leather Crop Top and Skirt

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Robyn Dixon’s Black Leather Chain Trim Blazer

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Wendy Osefo’s Sequin Leopard Dress

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Ashley Darby’s Blue Satin Cutout Shirt Dress

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Ashley Darby’s Black Cutout Dress

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Robyn Dixon’s Black Cutout Halter Dress

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Gizelle Bryant’s One Shoulder Feather Trim Jumpsuit

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Whitney Rose’s Denim Jacket Bag and Croc Pants in Scottsdale

Real Housewives of Salt Lake City Season 3 Episode 4 Fashion

Whitney Rose’s denim jacket, bag and croc pants in Scottsdale on last night’s episode of The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City made for a very cute lewk. And if you’re curious about the deets, well thankfully when it comes to finding clothing items seen on reality TV this ain’t our first rodeo. 

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Faryn

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Originally posted at: Whitney Rose’s Denim Jacket Bag and Croc Pants

As we age, it becomes apparent that we must create new lives. Will we change careers, begin retirement, travel, downsize or stay where we are?

Whatever the changes, they are often associated with the fear of making those choices. We begin to worry about money, our family, our health, where we should live, should we settle down or roam the world.

When we were raising our families, those decisions seemed to be made for us – we must keep a job and take care of the children, with all of the responsibility that entails. There was very little free time, and it usually consisted of weekends or a once-a-year family vacation and then we went back to the routine.

Our Lives After 60

Now, in our 60s and beyond, we have to make a conscious decision about the things we want in our lives.

Our job in this time of our lives is not to hurry to make something happen. Now we have the opportunity to allow the soft flowing of events to become clear to us and then follow the path that has the most meaning in our lives.

It can be very easy to remain in our old patterns, letting familiar circumstances drive our daily lives. If we look more closely, however, we would realize that we are entering a brand new chapter, and that is a tremendous gift. This is our opportunity, maybe for the first time, to do something just for ourselves.

As this realization sinks in, many of us try to employ the same principles of getting things done – we take action. What is really ironic about this concept though, is that the harder we try to make anything happen, the less likely it is to turn out in a way that is pleasing to us.

Letting Go Opens Possibilities

Letting go is much easier said than done. Our entire lives we are taught that we must work and struggle in order to get things accomplished. We are continuously told that hard work is the only way to achieve the results we desire.

Always trying to control external circumstances is exhausting, and, in the end, it is never really possible. We cannot control anything outside of our own self, so that is where we must concentrate our efforts.

That is why so many spiritual teachers advocate practices like meditation, mindfulness, yoga, prayer and journaling. Anything that allows our conscious mind to relax and release resistance will provide benefits in all areas of our lives.

Just like any other skill, we must learn to develop techniques that work for us. This is not a one-size-fits-all solution, so we must do what feels right for us on a personal level.

The Key Is to Begin

Much like everything else in life, it is very easy to approach this area as something else to manage or control. Trying to unlearn my controlling habits is the most difficult thing I will ever do in my life.

Even now, after many years of practicing the aspects of letting go, I find myself slipping back into my old habits. It is important for me to do something each day, even for just a few minutes, to reclaim my balance and continue forward.

What works best for me is to keep it simple, and find those things that bring me joy. Sometimes, I find peace when writing in my journal or going for a walk. Other days it is playing with my grandchildren or planning a trip to some faraway place.

It really doesn’t matter what means you choose to free yourself from the burden of those old habits. All that matters is that you find ways to release the anxiety and tension so that you can learn to experience the peace that comes from just being in the world.

When that peace comes, events will unfold that we never could have planned, bringing to us those very things we thought we had to chase after. It is ultimately more satisfying to have everything we desire come to us in the perfect way and at the perfect time than to try to manipulate or coerce it.

For me, appreciation is a key factor in everything I do. I am grateful for what I already have in my life and look forward to whatever new surprise is on the horizon. I always trust that something wonderful is about to happen, and my only job is to relax and enjoy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How do you relax and let go? Do you do anything differently now that you are older? Have you had any experiences with how something occurred after releasing control? Share your stories and join the conversation!

As a dating consultant, I have listened to thousands of women explain why they are still single. Excuses include “all the good men are taken/married,” “my career kept me engaged and I woke up one day celebrating my 55^th birthday,” “after the divorce I was busy raising my children,” “I was married for 30 years to the most wonderful man who passed away,” etc. When you read these, they sound reasonable, don’t they?

Here’s the good news: there’s still plenty of time! And every week I see people in their 50s and 60s fall in love!

Being Single, Widowed or Divorced Has Become Your Comfort Zone

Time flies as we age, yes? You have a daily rhythm: working out, yoga, pickleball, volunteer work, lunching with friends and book clubs. But are those a substitute for a loving partner? Maybe or maybe not.

I personally think there is nothing better than having a partner who shares interests like travel, movies, dinners in or out, a date for New Year’s Eve and the cuddles, kisses and hugs that go along with all of this!

Your Love Life Needs Planning

Oh, I know you may have met the one in college or the workplace. That was the biggest pool of people you’d ever meet. Not true anymore! You need a dating strategy – and stop thinking it should all fall into place organically or by luck. Because the biggest pool of eligible people is now online.

Sure, you’ve heard horror stories that tend to be exaggerated. In my 25+ years of working as a dating counselor to singles, I’ve rarely encountered those.

So, you need a plan: writing a great dating profile, choosing the right online dating site, having lovely, true and current photos, and being able to craft fun messages to other singles. There are over 100 million singles in the US alone – I’d say your odds, whether you live in Boston or the Badlands, are pretty darn good. After all, the people online are looking for relationships too.

Unrealistic Expectations

You can’t go into the dating process thinking it’s all rainbows and unicorns. Instead, think of it as an added adventure to your life. Your best bet is to enter online dating with low expectations and the thought that “Hey, I’m going to meet someone I’d have never crossed paths with otherwise.”

I had one client go on a date four weeks ago with an interesting doctor, but no chemistry. They both agreed it was more of a friendship, but he asked her if she’d like to join him at a work cocktail party the following Wednesday. Guess what? She met one of his work colleagues – and they’ve now been on 4 dates!

You Listen to Your Friends and Family

May I start with, what do they know about online dating? Most of your married friends may have married pre-online dating, your family thinks it’s dangerous (What? Meeting a person at a restaurant sounds pretty safe to me.), and your single friends… well, they are single for a reason. Enough said!

Fear or Low Self-Esteem

Of course, there is some anxiety about doing something new and wondering if you remember how to date and converse. I encourage all my clients, both male and female, to get out on 4-5 first dates the first 2 weeks. Why? Your confidence will soar!

You’ll be thrilled to be having new conversations with new people that are not part of your social circle. This is part of the spice of life and will keep you young in heart and spirit. I promise you, after 4-5 first dates, you’ll be learning new things, not just about other people but about yourself!

Good luck and happy dating!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What’s holding you back from dating in your 60s and beyond? What are your fears about dating? Do you think you are single because you feel comfortable this way or is there a different reason?