Kristin Cavallari’s Beige Blazer on Her Instastories

Kristin Cavallari 2023 Instagram Fashion

It’s our fave business woman doing her business women thing. And when you’re doing business whatever that may be (meetings, interviews, Saturday brunch, etc.) a blazer is always a good power move. Which is why we love Kristin Cavallari in her beige blazer on her IG stories. And why we also love that it’s in stock with fab Style Stealers leaving us with the most important business to tend to, shopping them below.

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Amanda Batula’s Grey Cargo Pants on Instagram

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The Bravo cross over we didn’t know we needed, and the outfits we also didn’t know that we def needed. Like Amanda Batula in her grey cargo pants. Her whole fit is giving Y2K which is very in style right now. Thankfully there’s nothing “2K” when it comes to the price of these pants because they are only $32! Which means we can get really pumped about adding these charming pants to our House.

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Jess

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You may be surprised, but how you self-talk creates your success… or failure. In life. In dating. In everything.

Quick example: I have a new 66-year-old client who told me she wasn’t sure anyone would want to date her – after all, she was widowed. I’m looking at her on our Zoom call thinking, “What? She’s darling! Dimples, gracious Texan accent and in great shape.”

And, I said, directly and bluntly, “Don’t ever say or think that again.” Other than her self-demeaning talk, she sounded quite confident. However, long married life had made her very nervous about dating again. Science has proven we have something like 70,000 thoughts a day – and 60-70% of them are negative. Isn’t that startling?

So how should you be talking to yourself? Here’s my advice that has worked with numerous clients.

Say to yourself, possibly out loud:

“I Make My Own Decisions, Take the Actions and Am Responsible for the Results.”

Yes, you should make your own decisions, take actions to complete them and be responsible for the outcomes. So, last week you played a lot of golf or tennis, binged The Diplomat, and went online once for 20 minutes. You now have no dates this week. Decision + Actions = Result.

“My Past Needn’t Be My Future.”

Sure, the past shapes us and has a huge impact on who we are today. Is change possible? My mom once told me the only certainty in life is change. She wasn’t talking about dating, just life in general. You may have been in an unhappy marriage. You may feel you wasted five years on a man who couldn’t commit.

Intelligent people learn from these mistakes. And guess what? When I’m working with them, they see red flags after one or two or maybe three dates and cut it off immediately. The past did affect the future in a great way in dating!

“I’m Not Easily Influenced by Others’ Opinions.”

You have no idea how many women have told me horror stories their friends have told them about online dating. Tons! I always laugh. Well, this isn’t 2005 or 2010 when the online dating world was still figuring out safety features.

How about this one: “My married friends tell me online dating is for losers.” And your married friends’ solution is…??? And they know this how?

“Self-Care Is Not the Same as Being Selfish.”

If don’t spend time taking care of yourself, who will? Self-care can mean many things to different people. For some, it may mean eating a healthy diet. For others, visiting the gym several times a week. Others practice yoga, meditation, go to lunch with friends, play rounds on the golf course, see their doctor on a regular basis, try a new hobby/sport or start or join a book club. None of these are selfish. Self-care is just you continuing to grow as a person.

“Optimism Will Help Me Succeed.”

If you think you are going to meet someone, you will. If you don’t, you won’t. While a positive attitude can lead to accomplishments, this certainly does not happen without actions and steps to control the outcome.

I saw an interesting YouTube video today of a Navy Seal talking about how he makes his bed first thing when he gets up. As he put it, one task done for the day.

Having a doable list of daily tasks/steps with dating can definitely matter. For example, one item you can certainly put on there is “I am going to get on my dating site at 12pm today and message 5 men. Not just look at the men’s profiles (that’s like looking at a messy bed and doing nothing), but take a step and reach out.” That’s the beginning of success!

Food for thought!

Happy Dating… and remember, there is a lid for every pot!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

So, what do you do on a weekly basis for self-care? Have you ever written a short list of tomorrow’s tasks before you went to bed? How easily are you influenced by others’ opinions?

Do you love museums? Do you choose your travel destinations prioritizing the museum scene? If so, join the club!

Getting lost in a museum for hours is one of my favorite pastimes, whether it’s pondering the stories of the past and present or uncovering the vibrant world of contemporary artists and experiencing the world through their eyes.

Although there are numerous remarkable museums scattered across the globe, I’ve curated my ultimate list of world-class museums. Having already visited four of these 10 gems, I am eagerly anticipating the opportunity to explore many more of them in the future.

1. The Louvre, Paris, France – The Louvre is a world-famous museum in Paris that houses an extensive collection of art and artifacts from ancient times to the present day.
2. The British Museum, London, England – The British Museum is a world-renowned museum in London that houses a vast collection of cultural artifacts and art from around the globe.
3. The National Museum of Anthropology, Mexico City, Mexico –The National Museum of Anthropology is an acclaimed museum that is dedicated to preserving and exhibiting the cultural heritage of Mexico’s pre-Columbian civilizations and indigenous peoples.
4. The Metropolitan Museum of Art, New York City, United States – The MET is a famous museum that houses an extensive collection of art and artifacts from ancient to modern times, representing various cultures from around the world.
5. The Smithsonian Institution, Washington D.C., United States – The Smithsonian Institution is a research and education center consisting of 19 museums and galleries, a zoo, and numerous research centers and programs, dedicated to preserving and promoting American history, art, and culture.
6. The Vatican Museums, Vatican City – The Vatican Museums are a collection of art and cultural museums located within the Vatican City, showcasing an extensive collection of art and artifacts collected by the Catholic Church over the centuries.
7. The Prado Museum, Madrid, Spain – The Prado Museum is a distinguished museum showcasing an extensive collection of European art, including works by Spanish masters as well as notable works by other European artists.
8. The Acropolis Museum, Athens, Greece – The Acropolis Museum is dedicated to showcasing the archaeological findings from the Acropolis, including the famous Parthenon sculptures and other ancient Greek artifacts.
9. The Egyptian Museum, Cairo, Egypt – The Egyptian Museum is known for its extensive collection of ancient Egyptian artifacts, including mummies, sarcophagi, and the iconic gold death mask of the boy King Tutankhamun.
10. The National Museum of China, Beijing, China – The National Museum of China is a museum dedicated to presenting the country’s rich cultural heritage and history, featuring over a million artifacts, including ancient Chinese bronze sculptures and vessels, calligraphy, paintings, and ceramics.

What Makes a Museum World-Class

There are several factors that contribute to a museum becoming internationally renowned.

Unique Collections

A museum with rare, unique, and well-preserved collections is more likely to attract visitors from around the world.

Historical Significance

A museum that preserves and displays historically significant artifacts, documents, or artwork can attract visitors interested in learning about history and culture.

Expertise and Scholarship

Museums with curators, scholars, and researchers who are experts in their field can offer more in-depth and accurate information about the collections.

Interactive Exhibits

Museums with interactive exhibits that engage visitors and provide a hands-on learning experience can make the visit more memorable.

Architecture and Design

The architecture and design of a museum can also contribute to its reputation and popularity, as they can enhance the visitor experience and make the space more aesthetically pleasing.

Location

The location of a museum can also play a role in its popularity, especially if it is situated in a popular tourist destination.

A combination of these factors, along with effective marketing and management, can make a museum internationally renowned and worth the visit.

Must Visit Museums in the World

These museums offer a range of collections and exhibits covering different aspects of art, history, culture, and science. Out of the lot, the first four are the ones I have visited, and on multiple occasions, for some.

The Louvre – Paris, France

The Louvre is one of the world’s most iconic and largest museums. Originally built as a fortress in the 12th century, it was transformed into a museum in the late 18th century.

The Louvre houses tens of thousands of pieces of artwork, ranging from ancient artifacts to contemporary art, including the world-famous Mona Lisa by Leonardo da Vinci.

The museum’s impressive collection is spread over eight different departments, featuring works from various regions and time periods. With its magnificent architecture, stunning artworks, and fascinating history, The Louvre remains a must-visit destination for art lovers and history buffs alike.

The British Museum – London, England

The British Museum is one of the world’s oldest and most extensive museums. Founded in 1753, the museum boasts a collection of over 8 million objects, spanning from ancient times to the present day.

The collection includes objects from all continents and covers a wide range of subjects, from art and culture to history and science. The museum’s most popular exhibits include the Rosetta Stone, the Parthenon sculptures, and the Egyptian mummies.

With its stunning architecture, vast collection, and rich history, The British Museum is a must-see destination if you are interested in culture and history.

The National Museum of Anthropology – Mexico City, Mexico

The National Museum of Anthropology is one of the world’s most comprehensive museums dedicated to the study and preservation of Mexican culture and history.

Opened in 1964, the museum’s collection includes over 600,000 artifacts, including archaeological and anthropological exhibits from Mexico’s indigenous cultures, such as the Maya, Aztec, and Toltec civilizations.

The museum’s most significant exhibit is the Aztec Hall, featuring the famous Aztec calendar stone. The museum’s stunning architecture, which features a massive outdoor courtyard with a cascading waterfall, further enhances the experience of exploring its impressive collection.

The National Museum of Anthropology is a must-see destination for anyone interested in Mexican history and culture.

The Metropolitan Museum of Art – New York City, United States

The Metropolitan Museum of Art (MET) is one of the world’s most prominent and comprehensive art museums. Founded in 1870, the museum’s vast collection includes over 2 million artworks, spanning from ancient times to contemporary art.

The collection includes art from all parts of the world, with works from Africa, Oceania, Asia, and the Americas, as well as iconic works from European and American artists. Some of the museum’s most famous exhibits include the Egyptian Temple of Dendur, the American Wing, and the Costume Institute.

The museum’s impressive collection and stunning architecture make it a must-see destination for art lovers and visitors to New York City.

The Smithsonian Institution – Washington D.C., United States

The Smithsonian Institution is a collection of 19 museums, galleries, and research centers. It is the largest museum and research complex in the world, and houses over 154 million objects and specimens in its collections, including historic artifacts, artworks, and natural specimens.

Some of the most famous exhibits at the Smithsonian include the Hope Diamond, the Wright Brothers’ plane, and the original Star-Spangled Banner.

The Smithsonian’s mission is to increase and diffuse knowledge, and its extensive collections and research facilities make it a vital resource for both scholars and the public.

The Vatican Museums – Vatican City

The Vatican Museums are a collection of museums and galleries displaying some of the world’s most significant works of art and artifacts. Founded in the early 16th century, the museums house a vast collection of art and antiquities collected by the Popes throughout the centuries.

The museums include galleries such as the Raphael Rooms, the Gallery of Maps, and the Sistine Chapel, which features Michelangelo’s famous ceiling. The collection includes works from ancient civilizations, Renaissance masterpieces, and contemporary art.

With their incredible art and rich history, the Vatican Museums are a must-visit destination for anyone interested in art and culture.

The Prado Museum – Madrid, Spain

The Prado Museum is one of the world’s most renowned and visited art museums. It houses a collection of over 35,000 paintings, sculptures, prints, and drawings, with works by some of the greatest European artists from the 12th to the 19th century.

The museum’s collection includes masterpieces by artists such as Francisco de Goya, Diego Velázquez, and Hieronymus Bosch, among many others.

The museum’s architecture, with its Neoclassical façade and elegant interior, adds to the experience of viewing its impressive collection.

With its vast collection and historical significance, The Prado Museum is a must-visit destination for art lovers and visitors of Madrid.

The Acropolis Museum – Athens, Greece

The Acropolis Museum is a modern museum dedicated to the preservation and display of artifacts from the Acropolis of Athens, one of the most significant archaeological sites in the world.

The museum’s collection includes over 4,000 objects, including sculptures and artifacts from the Parthenon, Erechtheion, and Temple of Athena Nike. The museum’s most notable feature is the Parthenon Gallery, which houses the original frieze from the Parthenon, an ancient temple dedicated to the goddess Athena.

The museum’s architecture, with its stunning glass walls and top-floor restaurant offering panoramic views of the Acropolis, adds to the overall experience of visiting this impressive museum.

The Egyptian Museum – Cairo, Egypt

The Egyptian Museum is a notable museum dedicated to preserving the ancient history and civilization of Egypt. The museum’s collection includes over 120,000 artifacts, including sarcophagi, mummies, and ancient Egyptian artifacts spanning over 5,000 years of history.

The museum’s most notable exhibit is the Tutankhamun Gallery, which houses the treasures of the boy king’s tomb, including his famous gold death mask.

The museum’s architecture, with its classical Egyptian design and spacious halls, adds to the experience of viewing its impressive collection. The Egyptian Museum is a must-see destination for anyone interested in the rich and fascinating history of ancient Egypt.

The National Museum of China – Beijing, China

The National Museum of China is one of the largest museums in the world, dedicated to preserving and displaying China’s long and rich cultural history.

The museum’s collection includes over a million artifacts, covering the country’s history from prehistoric times to the present day. The museum’s most notable exhibit is the bronze artifacts gallery, showcasing ancient Chinese bronze sculptures and vessels.

The museum’s architecture, with its blend of modern and traditional Chinese design, adds to the experience of exploring its impressive collection. The National Museum of China is a must-visit destination for anyone interested in the fascinating and diverse cultural heritage of China.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you visited any of these museums? Which ones are you the most interested in? Tell us about it in the comments below.

I have a hunch that if I mentioned the names of two iconic Hollywood stars from the 50s and 60s, you could immediately picture their faces and also identify one or more aspects of their makeup look that made them unforgettable.

Well, believe it or not, the makeup artists who created the iconic looks for Marilyn Monroe and Audrey Hepburn used several makeup techniques that can work especially well for those of us over 60.

(Please note: photos of Audrey Hepburn and Marilyn Monroe are included in the video to illustrate the techniques discussed in this article).

Makeup artist Alberto de Rossi is credited with creating the iconic doe eyes of Audrey Hepburn and was her makeup artist for 25 years. He was also the designer of Elizabeth Taylor’s dramatic eyes for Cleopatra, and was Ava Gardner’s favorite makeup artist.

Marilyn Monroe’s bold lip, defined brows, big lashes and the beauty mark on her cheek were the creation of Whitey Snyder. Snyder was Marilyn Monroe’s makeup artist throughout her entire career – from her first screen test at 20th Century Fox in 1946 to her funeral makeup in 1962.

Now I know you may be thinking, “Elise, come on, let’s be real. How can aspects of either of these looks work for us?” But hang in here with me, and I think you’ll see what a positive difference a few of these Hollywood makeup artist techniques can make for us.

Skin Prep

First, let’s talk about skin preparation. Audrey Hepburn knew the importance of drinking lots of water. She knew that water is not only beneficial for the skin but also supports the entire body. Audrey also had a weekly detox day when she would only eat fruits, vegetables, yogurt, and water.

Whitney Snyder used to love to add a wonderful glow to Marilyn’s skin by prepping her very dry skin with Vaseline. He also used Vaseline as highlighter on her cheekbones and after her eye makeup was complete, he’d add a tiny dot of Vaseline to her eyelids to give them a glossy look.

Now I think I can safely say that rubbing Vaseline all over our face doesn’t sound very appealing to most of us. But what we can do is add some glow to our face – as Marilyn did – either by using a foundation with a glowy finish or by using a product like Elf’s Halo Glow Filter as our face primer before applying makeup or mixing some of it with our foundation. This will add some beautiful soft glow to our skin.

The Brows

The thin brows of the 1920s and 1930s gave way to a more natural look in the 1940s and 1950s. Audrey’s eyes were always framed by full brows – as were Marilyn’s. Filling in our brows can make a huge difference in framing our eyes which makes them look bigger.

The eyebrows of both actresses were arched. But there’s a fine line when creating arched brows. If we create too much arch, we can look like one of the evil characters in a Walt Disney film such as the Evil Queen in Snow White. But adding just a slight arch to our brows can give the illusion of more lifted, larger eyes.

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The Eyes

Although the eyes of Audrey Hepburn and Marilyn Monroe are very different, both makeup artists used similar techniques to emphasize the beautiful eyes of these women. The technique in question is something that we can do as well to make our eyes look bigger and stand out.

Alberto di Rossi used a light color on Audrey’s eyelids and Whitey Snyder actually applied a white cream on Marilyn’s eyelids that went from her lashes all the way up to her eyebrows. So we can definitely create the look of bigger eyes by applying a light color all the way from our lashes up to our eyebrows. Or, we can make our eyes look bigger by just applying it all over our eyelid and under the arch of our brow.

The next step with the eyes is creating more depth and definition by putting a mid-tone neutral color in the eyelid crease and slightly above it. In the video I’ll mix together the two mid toned colors from the Elf “I Love You A Latte” Bite Size Eyeshadow Quad and apply it in the crease and slightly above the crease. And by the way, this is an especially good method for hooded eyes, but it works well for all of us.

Eyeliner was an essential part of the eye look for both Audrey and Marilyn. But for many of us, applying eyeliner is a bit more challenging than it used to be. There is an eyeliner application technique that makes it far easier to apply eyeliner.

In the video, I’ll take an angled eyebrow brush, rub it across a regular eyeliner and then use the brush to apply the eyeliner. What’s great about this technique is that you don’t have to apply the eyeliner perfectly because you can just use the brush to go back over the eyeliner to smooth out the line. Using the brush not only makes the eyeliner look perfect, but it also makes the eyeliner look more natural. (And if you’re interested in additional ways to make eyeliner easier to apply, check out this video.)

Marilyn also used white eyeliner in the waterline under her eyes to make her eyes look bigger. Since white is great on a movie set or for photos, but looks a little too stark in real life, it’s best to use a nude or off-white color. In the video, I’ll use my ABH Highlighting Duo Pen to do this.

Emphasizing the eyes by applying mascara was also very important. It’s said that Alberto de Rossi actually used a pin to separate each of Audrey’s eyelashes so she’d have perfectly defined eyelashes. Well, I certainly hope none of us will do that, but what we can do is use tubing mascara that is especially good for adding length to the lashes and does a great job of also separating them. I’ll use my Doll 10 Effortlash Mascara which is a tubing mascara.

The Lips

Audrey’s makeup artist often had her wear light pink lipstick so her eyes could be the star of the show. But Marilyn’s lips were front and center stand out features. Her makeup artist, Whitey Snyder, is credited with the concept of lip contouring. Darker colors were applied toward the edges of the lips and lighter colors in the middle. A bit of white highlight was added to the middle of her lower lip and finally a coat of gloss completed the look.

This clever use of lipstick made her lips look fuller and her overall appearance more glamorous. Now we certainly aren’t going to do all that, but we can make our lips look fuller by applying lip liner along the outer edge of our lips rather than just on top of the lip line. Then we can add our regular lipstick to the lips and apply a touch of lighter gloss to the lips.

The Glow

Marilyn loved a glowing look, so she used as little powder as possible. So I’ll add some of my Laura Mercier setting powder to my T-Zone area. And I’m also going to add another product to create some glow which I’m sure Marilyn would have absolutely loved: Hourglasses’ Ambient Light Finishing Powder. This Hourglass powder does a fabulous job of adding a beautiful subtle glow to the face.

As a child, Marilyn grew up in several foster homes and orphanages. She never had any money and owned only few possessions so she cherished the little things, including makeup. In her autobiography, she wrote:

“I stood in front of the mirror one morning and put lipstick on my lips. I had no money for clothes, but the lipstick and mascara were like my clothes. I saw that they improved my looks as much as if I had put on a real gown.”

At the age of 14 – with just a few products – Marilyn realized the power of makeup.

I thought it would be appropriate today to end with some beautiful words attributed to Audrey Hepburn. She said: “For beautiful eyes, look for the good in others; for beautiful lips, speak only words of kindness; and for poise, walk with the knowledge that you are never alone.”

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What memories do you have of Audrey Hepburn and Marilyn Monroe? What features of their makeup do you most remember? Have you tried emulating their looks?