Month: July 2024

Sharing My Own Powerlifting Story: From Kettlebells to a Silver Medal

Sharing My Own Powerlifting Story

Having already written about the benefits of strength training as we age, I thought I would continue on that subject and tell you a little bit about my own success in powerlifting.

Apart from when I was in my late teens, a period when I was severely overweight, I have kept myself fit and healthy through playing sports such as rugby and taking part in running events. I completed several half-marathon distance races over the course of 10 years and played rugby for a local ladies’ team.

My Journey Started with Kettlebells

I only discovered the benefits of weight training when I entered my 40s. I was interested in a local group that used kettlebells and decided to give it a try. If you don’t know what a kettlebell is, it is basically a weight on the end of a handle which you can swing, squat, press, and do many other exercises with.

I found the technique quite difficult to start with but, after perseverance and practice, I became much more confident and saw the difference it made to my body, my self-esteem, and my confidence. At that point, I hadn’t considered the possibility of any other form of lifting.

Next Came Deadlifting

A few years into my kettlebell journey, I was given the opportunity to try deadlifting, which involves lifting a bar with weights at each end from the floor to a standing position. To my surprise, I was pretty good at it, and I continued to practice mainly the deadlift for many years.

I got myself a coach who helped me to fine-tune my technique, and gradually my strength improved. I took part in some local competitions and managed to achieve a lift which allowed me to enter a national competition, which I won much to my surprise. That being said, not many women of my age were taking part in the sport.

Settling on a Combination

It is only over the last couple of years that I have found an interest in combining my deadlift with the squat and bench press and competing using all three lifts.

My training consists of three days of lifting a week. One session will concentrate on the squat and bench press, another will focus on the deadlift and bench press, and the final session will include all three lifts. Each session takes anywhere between two and three hours and also includes some warming up and mobility drills.

Entering a Local Competition

I started with a local competition to get a total big enough to enter at the national level and then entered the British Powerlifting Championships, which took place in Belfast in June 2023. I compete in the Masters 3 category for people between the ages of 60 and 69 and in the under 69kg weight class.

There is always a certain amount of stress involved in making the weight. I tend to spend most of my time a couple of kilos over the weight required and then need to cut down gradually so that I am just under the required weight on the day. I do get so very nervous.

Moving Up the Proverbial Ladder

I had a good day and managed to conquer my nerves, completing my lifts with 9 out of 9 successful attempts. I managed to squat 90kg, bench press 47.5kg, and deadlift 147.5kg. All lifts were personal bests compared to anything I had achieved previously.

I was then selected to be part of the British Powerlifting Team for the European Powerlifting Championships in Malaga, Spain. One of my dreams was to represent my country at the international level. I was over the moon 😊.

Day of the Championship

I headed to Spain on the 11th of February, 2024, and competed on the 12th. I had never been in such an environment. To my wonder, I felt immense pride in putting on my British Powerlifting outfit. The competition at this level is very intense, and I had no idea if I would be able to overcome my nerves.

I came out with the same squat of 90kg, an increased bench press of 52.5kg, and a deadlift of 147.5kg, the same as at the British Championships. I secured a silver medal for my squat, a bronze for my bench, another silver for the deadlift, and an overall silver medal. Standing on the rostrum to receive my medals was amazing.

Linda Thorne at the European Powerlifting Championship in Malaga, Spain.

This journey has been incredible, and I hope my story inspires others to take up weightlifting or any other form of exercise, regardless of their age. Remember, it’s never too late to start, and the benefits are truly rewarding.

One note: Always consult your medical provider before you start any routine that is different from your current daily fitness habits.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What type of strength training have you tried so far? What is your motivation? In what ways have you felt benefits to your health and wellbeing?

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Leave a Lasting Legacy: It’s What We Do, Not What We Have

Leave a Lasting Impact It’s What We Do, Not What We Have

Leaving a lasting legacy is not about the material possessions we accumulate, but rather the impact we make through our actions. The greatest legacy we can leave our children is happy memories.

It’s what we do, not what we have, that will create a lasting legacy.

When you think back on your life, who and what impacted you the most?

  • Was it a prized heirloom given to you by a loved one that now sits on a shelf?
  • Or was it a particular experience or series of experiences you had with that loved one that helped shape you?

For me, it was almost always the latter. One particularly fond memory is of me sitting at the kitchen table with my Polish grandmother, pinching pierogies. During the time we spent together, not only did I learn how to make one of our favorite family treats, but I also learned about strength, perseverance, faith, and true grit from a woman who grew up under Communist rule and who migrated to America at a young age.

Hers Is a Living Legacy; What She Taught Me Is Intangible

Through her eyes and our many conversations, I got to see for myself what fortitude and grit looked like. These lessons remain with me today. They impacted me in ways she will never know, but for which I am eternally grateful.

Before she passed away, she also wanted to give me her handwritten pierogi recipe, a recipe handed down to her from her own mother and grandmother. While seemingly minuscule, to me, that small tangible heirloom is priceless.

While I cherish that recipe written in her own hand, the time we spent together at our kitchen table has a far more lasting impact that I will carry with me throughout my lifetime.

In my  previous articles for this series, I focused on tangible heirlooms (our stuff) and how the younger generations, due to various influences and shifting values, are rebelling against our tradition of passing down our physical heirlooms as a means of preserving our cherished memories and traditions.

1st Blog – “MOM, THANKS, BUT NO THANKS!”: THE REBELLION AGAINST FAMILY HEIRLOOMS

2nd Blog – IT’S JUST GRANDMA’S OLD STUFF… UNTIL IT’S VINTAGE. THEN IT’S CHIC!

In this new article, I am focusing on intangible heirlooms, a timeless way of passing down family stories and customs without passing down our possessions.

Why Is Intangible Legacy Important?

It is intended to help:

  • Bridge the generational gap of ideas, beliefs, behaviors, and values about family, heirlooms, and legacy.
  • Shift our perspective by rethinking and expanding the definition of family heirlooms and the tradition of handing down physical items from generation to generation.
  • Explore simple ways to connect generations, preserving cherished traditions through shared activities, experiences, conversations, and storytelling.
  • Discuss the value of intangible heirlooms that enrich the lives of our loved ones by helping to foster family bonds and laying a foundation for future generations.

In our lifetime, many of us have been caught up in accumulating possessions and then sharing them with our children when we pass. Times are changing, and what our kids value is changing. Our kids live in smaller spaces and value collecting experiences rather than our stuff. We need to listen to their requests and reflect on what we can do to shift the narrative from leaving “stuff” to leaving a meaningful legacy that will ensure the cherished stories and traditions are not forgotten or overshadowed.

Of course, we can still pass down some of our cherished items, those tangible heirlooms, but when you reflect on what truly matters to you and what lasting impact you want to leave behind, ask yourself:

What Is the Lasting Impact, the Intangible Heirlooms, That I Want to Leave Behind?

The experiences you create with your kids and grandkids today will not only impact their present fun and enjoyment, but they will also impact the future memories they have and the stories they will tell for many years to come.

30 Opportunities to Connect Generations

#1: Cooking and Baking Together

Food is love. It is a powerful way to connect generations, teach new skills, and create lasting memories (e.g., Christmas cookies, ethnic foods like butter lambs, and pierogi).

#2: Holiday Gatherings

Celebrating holidays together creates opportunities to share food, fun, memories, and traditions (e.g., Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving, Hanukkah).

#3: Family Celebrations

Sharing significant events together, both happy and sad, strengthens family bonds, connecting us on a deeper level (e.g., weddings, funerals, graduations).

#4: Family Dinners

There’s no place like the kitchen table to share, learn, ask advice, and exchange ideas. This teaches us the importance of family.

#5: Multigenerational Travel

Exploring new places, people, and cultures with parents, grandparents, and kids opens doors to conversations while sharing food, fun, and creating new memories.

#6: Family Vacations

Taking time to be together, having fun, relaxing, and learning generates many opportunities to have great conversations and create new memories together (e.g., beach, mountain vacations).

#7: Sports

Participating in sports together provides opportunities to learn new skills, spend time together, and have fun (e.g., golf, pickleball, tennis, swimming, walking, running).

#8: Sporting Events

Watching sports together provides opportunities to share a love of a particular sport, generating conversation and bonding (e.g., football, baseball, soccer, lacrosse).

#9: Hobbies

Doing hobbies together provides opportunities to learn new skills, develop common interests, and have fun creating something together (e.g., sewing, crafting, woodworking).

#10: Arts and Entertainment

Various entertainment mediums provide opportunities to experience something new together, enjoy time together, and connect on a deeper level (e.g., theater, museums).

#11: Gardening

Working in the yard provides an opportunity to share a love of nature, develop new skills, and learn to care for and nurture what we grow together (e.g., flower gardens, vegetable gardens).

#12: Household Chores

Sharing responsibilities for a household, contributing to your family, whether young or old creates bonds (e.g., doing the dishes, setting the table).

#13: Church and Spiritual Activities

Connect with your loved ones on a spiritual level, sharing your faith and beliefs, traditions, and customs (e.g., church on Sundays, celebrating spiritual holidays).

#14: Volunteering

Sharing your time and your gifts with others helps foster compassion and commitment to helping those in need (e.g., Meals on Wheels, serving food at a homeless shelter).

#15: Classes

Incorporating learning into our lives teaches the value of sharing knowledge, wisdom, and exchanging ideas so young and old can learn from each other (e.g., language, technology, cooking).

#16: Music

Music is a universal language that connects young and old (e.g., everyone singing around the piano).

#17: Granny and Grandpa Camp

Overnights at your home to spend time together, tell stories, learn about your family history and traditions, and receive advice and mentorship.

#18: Bedtime Stories

This evening ritual and commitment is an opportunity to spend quality time together, connect on a much deeper level, and learn from books or family stories.

#19: Writing and Journaling

Taking time to record family memories, stories, and exchange ideas creates respect for our past and learning about our roots.

#20: Movie Night

Teaches the importance of shared time and experiences, laughing, crying, and having fun together.

#21: Board Games and Card Games

Having fun, friendly competition teaches the value of family time together across all generations.

#22: Handyman Projects/Repairs

Handywork teaches valuable life skills that we can incorporate into our own lives. It also offers quality time together to have important conversations and share family values.

#23: Competitions

Competing is a healthy way to have fun together, create new memories through meaningful experiences, and teach discipline, sacrifice, and perseverance (e.g., 5k walks, marathons).

#24: Family Photos

Looking at family photos together inspires conversations, sharing stories that help preserve cherished memories. It also provides an opportunity to learn about our family history and connect to our roots.

#25: Finances and Investing

Discussing finances and investing is an opportunity to advise, mentor, and plan for the future. It also teaches discipline, sacrifice, and commitment to goals.

#26: Technology

This is an opportunity for the younger generation to share their knowledge and skills with the older generation, teaching them that we all learn from each other.

#27: FaceTime

This is an opportunity to stay in touch regardless of the distance, sharing about our lives together.

#28: Treasure Hunts in Grandma’s Attic

Looking through the attic creates an opportunity to explore family heirlooms, listen to family stories, and ask questions about your roots. This opens our eyes to family treasures, connecting us on a much deeper level.

#29: Crafting

Sharing an activity you love, teaching new skills, and creating something together is a unique bonding experience.

#30: Emails and Texts

This provides an opportunity to stay connected, regardless of the distance, sharing what’s happening in your lives. The result is a continuous bond.

Stuff Does Not Remain

When we die, our possessions will be left behind and most won’t be cherished. What we will be remembered for will be:

  • The love we shared.
  • The laughter we brought.
  • The lives we’ve touched.
  • The memories we’ve made.

I encourage you to take time to reflect on the impact you want to leave behind. Prioritize actions that can change lives by the way you live each day.

It might seem challenging to get our younger and older generations to connect and share experiences, family stories, and traditions, but what if I told you it’s the small, seemingly insignificant moments that we create each day that will be remembered long after you are gone? The experiences you create with your kids and grandkids today will not only impact their present fun and enjoyment, but they will also impact the future memories they have and the stories they will tell for many years to come.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Which of your stuff matter to your children and grandchildren? What about immaterial things? Does your legacy matter more? What about your stories and time together? Have you noticed your grandchildren showing favoritism to particular stories of your past?

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Ariana Madix’s Love Island Finale Look

Ariana Madix’s Love Island Finale Look / Love Island Season 6 Finale Fashion

Season 6 of Love Island was my introduction to the series, thanks to one Ariana Madix. I wasn’t even planning to watch, but when I saw her first gold dress of the season I was hooked to the fashion and the drama.

The combo of Ariana and the genius styling of Emily Men, every look was revenge dress level. And though I’m sad it’s coming to an end, I’m happy to deliver one last look that I’ll be dreaming about tonight.

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair


Ariana Madix's Love Island Season 6 Finale Look
Ariana Madix's Love Island Finale Look

Photo: @loveisandusa

Styling: @emilymen


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Originally posted at: Ariana Madix’s Love Island Finale Look

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Ariana Madix’s Love Island Looks

Ariana Madix’s Love Island Looks / Love Island Season 6 Fashion

Ariana Madix’s Love Island finale look is in, and it’s the perfect style to top off a season of incredible fashion. And while we’re obsessed with it, we thought it was only right to take a look back at all of Ariana’s amazing looks on Love Island and Love Island Aftersun as a tribute to this Vanderpump Rules very stylish season of hosting. Looks Styled by Emily Men

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair


Ariana Madix's Love Island Finale Look

Ariana Madix's Floral Dress

Ariana Madix's Sequin Striped Dress on Love Island USA

Ariana Madix's Tie Dye Cutout Dress on Love Island


Ariana Madix's Black Gladiator Heels on Love Island


Ariana Madix's Multi Color Chain Mesh Dress on Love Island

Ariana Madix's Gold Cutout Gown on Love Island

Photo: @loveisandusa

Photo: @loveisandusa

Styling: @emilymen




Originally posted at: Ariana Madix’s Love Island Looks

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10 Thoughtful Gifts for Grandma on National Grandparents Day

10 Thoughtful Gifts for Grandma on National Grandparents Day

National Grandparents Day is the perfect opportunity to show Grandma just how much she means to you. Finding the right gift can express your love and appreciation in a meaningful way. 

Here are ten thoughtful gift ideas that are sure to make Grandma smile:

  1. Customized JewelryIt’s a keepsake she can wear every day, reminding her of her beloved family.
  2. Memory BookThis can be a DIY project or ordered from a professional service.
  3. Spa Gift SetA luxurious spa gift set with bath salts, body lotion, and scented candles can offer Grandma some well-deserved relaxation.
  4. Personalized Blanket A cozy blanket with a custom design, such as family photos or a heartfelt message.
  5. Cooking or Baking ClassIf Grandma enjoys cooking or baking, consider signing her up for a class where she can learn new recipes and techniques. 

Keep reading to discover the complete list of gift ideas for Grandma on National Grandparents Day.

Gift Ideas for Grandma on National Grandparents Day

Finding the perfect gift for Grandma on National Grandparents Day is all about showing her how much she is loved and appreciated. These ten gift ideas cater to a variety of interests and tastes, ensuring there’s something special for every Grandma. 

Customized Jewelry

Personalized jewelry, such as a necklace with her grandchildren’s names or birthstones, is a beautiful and sentimental gift. It’s a keepsake she can wear every day, reminding her of her beloved family.

Perfect for: Grandmas who love to accessorize and cherish family mementos.

Memory Book

A custom-made memory book filled with photos, handwritten notes, and memories from family members is a touching gift. This can be a DIY project or ordered from a professional service.

Perfect for: Sentimental Grandmas who love reminiscing about family moments.

Spa Gift Set

A luxurious spa gift set with bath salts, body lotion, and scented candles can offer Grandma some well-deserved relaxation. Choose calming scents like lavender or chamomile for a truly soothing experience.

Perfect for: Grandmas who enjoy pampering themselves and need a bit of relaxation.

Personalized Blanket

A cozy blanket with a custom design, such as family photos or a heartfelt message, can keep her warm and remind her of her loved ones every time she uses it.

Perfect for: Grandmas who love to stay warm and cozy with a personal touch.

Cooking or Baking Class

If Grandma enjoys cooking or baking, consider signing her up for a class where she can learn new recipes and techniques. Many classes are available online, making it convenient for her to join from home.

Perfect for: Grandmas who are passionate about cooking and love trying new recipes.

Flower Subscription

A flower subscription service that delivers fresh flowers to her door every month can brighten her home and bring a smile to her face. Choose a service that offers a variety of seasonal blooms.

Perfect for: Grandmas who love fresh flowers and enjoy a touch of nature in their home.

Digital Photo Frame

A digital photo frame allows Grandma to display a rotating slideshow of family photos. This is a great way to keep her updated with the latest pictures of her grandchildren and other loved ones.

Perfect for: Tech-savvy Grandmas who love to see new photos of their family.

Handwritten Recipe Cards

Collect family recipes and write them on beautiful recipe cards. These can be kept in a decorative box and passed down through generations, preserving family culinary traditions.

Perfect for: Grandmas who are the keepers of family recipes and enjoy sharing them.

Personalized Puzzle

A personalized puzzle featuring a cherished family photo or a meaningful message can provide hours of entertainment and be a fun activity to share with family during visits. It’s a unique way to create lasting memories together.

Perfect for: Grandmas who enjoy puzzles and spending time with family.

Subscription Box

A subscription box tailored to her interests, whether it’s books, crafts, gardening, or gourmet foods, is a gift that keeps on giving. She’ll look forward to a new surprise every month.

Perfect for: Grandmas who love discovering new products and experiences related to their hobbies.

Adding a Personal Touch

When selecting a gift for Grandma, adding a personal touch can make it even more special. Consider writing a heartfelt letter expressing your love and appreciation. Including a recent photo of the family or a handmade card can also add sentimental value that she will cherish. Personal touches show thoughtfulness and make any gift more meaningful.

Hint, hint…forward this article to your grandchildren to help spark some gift ideas for National Grandparents Day.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you celebrate National Grandparents Day? How do you celebrate? Do you enjoy getting gifts on Grandparents Day? Tell us about it in the comments below.

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