Our family tries to get together each year for a reunion. With 18 of us it is no small undertaking. This summer our gathering was in Destin, Florida. We rented a lovely home about a block from the ocean. Our eight grandkids, ages 6-13, and their parents were totally psyched for the experience.

As for me, I was a bit uneasy about the whole ‘beach thing’. You see, I have horrible looking varicose veins, cottage cheese thighs and dry, sagging skin. Probably not a lot different from other women my age, but nonetheless this 70-year-old body of mine is not something I care to flaunt… Seriously, who wants to look at that!?

I Couldn’t Hide My Insecurities

So, before walking with my family down to the beach the next morning, I covered up my bathing suit and my unsightly body with a floor length cotton dress. Once we arrived at our spot, I quickly plopped down in a beach chair and hid under an umbrella.

I adjusted my sunglasses and straw hat, picked up my bottle of water and waved at the children and their parents as they marched down through the sand, boogey boards in hand.

After about 15 minutes Adie, my six-year-old granddaughter, started waving at me from the water; inviting me to get in and play. I smiled at her and shook my head ‘no’.

She was persistent and continued urging me to join her. I continued to decline.

Finally, my granddaughter strutted up on the sand, hands on her hips like a girl on a mission. “Come and play, Grandma. Don’t be afraid. I promise I will not let go of your hand until you feel brave.”

“Darn it,” I mumbled under my breath grabbing Adie’s hand, “the things I will do for these kids!”

I tossed the dress and beach towel aside, and Adie and I skipped down into the cold ocean water together. For the rest of the morning, I was boogey boarding, swimming, riding the waves and building sandcastles.

I had a wonderful time!

When Did I Decide to Stop Playing?

After returning home from our vacation, I found myself with a gnawing question that would not leave me alone. I kept asking myself, “When did I decide to stop doing that? When did I decide to stop playing in the ocean and frolicking in the sand? And what other fun things have I quit doing along the way?”

As synchronicity would have it, I found myself listening to an episode from ‘Huberman Lab’ about the topic of ‘play’. It was titled Using Play to Rewire & Improve Your Brain.

Andrew Huberman, a neuroscientist from Stanford University, was speaking about the myriad of research studies being done on the incredible power of ‘play’. As we age, he said, the amount of time we devote to play decreases. And yet play still holds amazing power for us all.

Do you remember when you began decreasing the amount of time you devoted to play?

Here Are Some Ways That ‘Play’ Can Contribute to Healthier Living

• Play releases endorphins
• Play improves brain functionality
• Play stimulates our creativity
• Play gives us more energy
• Play improves our memory
• Play stimulates the growth of the cerebral cortex
• Play can even help to keep us young.

Now let’s face it, Girlfriends, who at our age does not want to improve her memory, and her brain functionality; not to mention more stimulation and growth in our cerebral cortex?

As I became more intrigued about play, I found myself doing more reflection. There were so many things I used to enjoy playing in my past. And so many of those things I had stopped doing.

Why did I quit shooting basketball hoops, playing volleyball, four-square and chess games? What other things had I stopped doing?

I pulled out my journal and started to make a list.

Here Are Some Starter Phrases That Helped Me Brainstorm More About the Play

I used to… (play piano, dive, swim, play chess and poker)

I always liked… (playing basketball, volleyball, four-square).

I once loved… (creating and acting out plays, running lemonade stands and running through the fields of sunflowers).

I remember when… (we would go water skiing in the lakes, and boogey boarding in the ocean)

When I was younger, I loved… (doing cartwheels in the grass and playing Candy Land with my mom. I loved riding my bike through the neighborhood and sledding down the mountain in the winter).

I was pretty good at… (jumping on the trampoline and making up cheer and dance routines).

I wish I would not have stopped… (playing board games, basketball, volleyball, …just being open to more play).

These exercises were so cathartic for me that I decided to get off my bum, quit worrying about my 70-year-old body, and return to focusing on more play in my life.

Since our beach vacation, I started playing pickle ball, volleyball in the swimming pool, and challenging my grandkids to games of chess. Last week I drug my sister out to shoot some hoops and play HORSE. We also tried out tossing a few games of disc golf.

And, during a recent sister weekend, we all joined in and learned a new dance on YouTube to the tune of, “We are family.” We laughed until we cried… our endorphins were running wild!

Now It Is Your Turn. I Challenge You to Create Your Own List

I want to invite you to join in and create your own list to identify what you might be missing in your life. Ask yourself the questions I did about play… Why did you quit? Is this where you stop? What play can you add back into your life? What new play can you experience?

I urge you to consider ways you can get more play in your life. Jump in and you will quickly be reminded how much fun it is.

Play is so good for our brains, our body, our relationships, our self-esteem, and our overall happiness.

Oh, and yes, and that nagging question, “Why did I decide to stop?” has changed. I now have a new question I ask myself, “How far can I go?”

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you stopped engaging in play? When did this trend begin? Do you think you want to get play back into your life? What kind of play would you pick up?

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Since 2012, Charlotte Cho has been leading the way when it comes to Korean skincare. She and her then-boyfriend (now husband) Dave launched Soko Glam to bring the best of Korean beauty into our lives. They launched their own brand, Then I Met You, in 2018 and it’s been a hit since. The brand has never even done a sale — until now. Then I Met You’s Friends & Family sale is here but only for a few days short days.

If you’ve been wanting to try the best in Korean beauty technology, such as cleansing balms, tonics, lip masks and more, this is the sale you’ve been waiting for. In fact, Then I met You fans have been asking for a discount since the brand launched. Now, four years later, they can finally grab their favorite brand for 20 percent off. Shop some of our favorites below but there’s a lot more where this came from. The sale ends after the weekend and certain products have already sold out.

Then I Met You.

Birch Milk Refining Toner

Equal parts hydrating Korean toner and exfoliating Western acid treatment, this skin-refining toner brightens and clears pores.

Then I Met You.

The Giving Essence

Ellagic acid, black chokeberry and galactomyces work to brighten skin, hydrate and reduce the appearance of pores.

Image: Then I Met You.

Calming Tide Gel Cream

Hydrate, stimulate collagen production and bolster the skin’s moisture barrier with this antioxidant-rich moisturizer. The gel formula feels almost cooling going on to calm any skin irritation.

Then I Met You.

Honey Dew Lip Mask

Antioxidant-rich honeydew, moisturizing squalane and honey come together in this luxe lip mask.

Then I Met You.

Rosé Resurfacing Facial Mask

A blend of 6 percent glycolic and lactic acid exfoliates dead skin cells and leaves skin silky smooth in just 15 minutes.

Do you have a beautiful round-shaped face? Some hairstyles suit round-faced beauties over 60 better than others.

Looking to Change Your Style?

A good idea is to bring photos to your hairstylist and ask them about styling your hair for your face shape. We have put together a list of our favorite styles for women over 60 with round faces to help inspire you for your next haircut.

Here is our list of hairstyles for round-faced women over 60:

1. Natural Half-Pony Braids – Tie half your braids into a ponytail.
2. Layered and Colored – Feathered layers add softness.
3. Short Natural Coils – Frame your beautiful features.
4. Short with Wispy Bangs – Fun and flirty curtain bangs look great on round faces.
5. Bold Bangs – Go bold with straight-cut bangs.
6. Side-Styled Bob – Side parts look great on round faces.
7. Medium-Length with Bangs – Bangs are always a good idea.
8. Chic Evening Look – The perfect event style for round faces.
9. Layered Wavy Bob – Add texture with large waves.
10. Short and Sassy Pixie – Go super short.

Natural Half-Pony Braids

Wear your natural small braids pulled back in a half ponytail. This style suits round-shaped faces beautifully. Wear your braids as long or as short as you want.

Layered and Colored

This style suits all face shapes but especially round faces. Layer the cut and flip the feathered layers for a flirty look. Use a texturizing product to define your layers perfectly.

Short Natural Coils

Natural coils cut to frame your face shape create a great hair style that helps to soften your features and make you look as young as you feel. Condition your curls to keep them healthy.

Short with Wispy Bangs

Frame your face with soft layers and a wispy curtain fringe. This style looks great in all colors, even natural gray or salt and pepper. Dab on some anti-frizz product to keep the flyaways at bay.

Bold Bangs

Straight-cut bangs also look great on round faces. This Cleopatra-inspired hairstyle looks amazing in bold colors like red or purple.

Side-Styled Bob

Side-parted hairstyles look great on round faces. This shoulder-length bob style is perfect for all face shapes and looks great in natural colors and even bold colors. Blow dry with a round brush to add volume and minimize frizz.

Medium-Length with Bangs

Bangs suit round-faced women of all ages. You can cut them blunt across or softly frame your face like this style.

Chic Evening Look

Have a formal event to attend? Style your hair elegantly to fit your beautiful round face. This sophisticated and chic look can be achieved with a hot air brush and fixed with a long-lasting and extra hold hairspray.

Layered Wavy Bob

A layered bob always looks great on women over 60 with round faces. Create some large waves with a large barrel curling iron to add texture and movement.

Short and Sassy Pixie

This classic pixie cut looks great on women over 60 with all face shapes. You can wear this short hairstyle in a variety of colors. Keep your cut fresh by visiting your hairdresser regularly.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you have a round face? How do you wear your hair? Which hairstyle on our list is your favorite? Tell us about it in the comments below.

If you purchase an independently reviewed product or service through a link on our website, STYLECASTER may receive an affiliate commission.

Since 2012, Charlotte Cho has been leading the way when it comes to Korean skincare. She and her then-boyfriend (now husband) Dave launched Soko Glam to bring the best of Korean beauty into our lives. They launched their own brand, Then I Met You, in 2018 and it’s been a hit since. The brand has never even done a sale — until now. Then I Met You’s Friends & Family sale is here but only for a few days short days.

If you’ve been wanting to try the best in Korean beauty technology, such as cleansing balms, tonics, lip masks and more, this is the sale you’ve been waiting for. In fact, Then I met You fans have been asking for a discount since the brand launched. Now, four years later, they can finally grab their favorite brand for 20 percent off. Shop some of our favorites below but there’s a lot more where this came from. The sale ends after the weekend and certain products have already sold out.

Then I Met You.

Birch Milk Refining Toner

Equal parts hydrating Korean toner and exfoliating Western acid treatment, this skin-refining toner brightens and clears pores.

Then I Met You.

The Giving Essence

Ellagic acid, black chokeberry and galactomyces work to brighten skin, hydrate and reduce the appearance of pores.

Image: Then I Met You.

Calming Tide Gel Cream

Hydrate, stimulate collagen production and bolster the skin’s moisture barrier with this antioxidant-rich moisturizer. The gel formula feels almost cooling going on to calm any skin irritation.

Then I Met You.

Honey Dew Lip Mask

Antioxidant-rich honeydew, moisturizing squalane and honey come together in this luxe lip mask.

Then I Met You.

Rosé Resurfacing Facial Mask

A blend of 6 percent glycolic and lactic acid exfoliates dead skin cells and leaves skin silky smooth in just 15 minutes.

Angie Harrington’s Bird Print Ski Jacket and Pants While Skiing

Real Housewives of Salt Lake City Season 3 Episode 5 Fashion

Thank g-d Angie Harrington was invited to the ski day on last night’s episode of The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City because her look was EVERYTHING. And although birds usually fly south for winter, I think we can agree that these colourful ones definitely belong on the slopes. 

Fashionably,

Faryn

Jet Set Ski Suit Sold Out at Net-a-Porter

Originally posted at: Angie Harrington’s Bird Print Ski Jacket and Pants