We all hope to see our grandchildren grow up to be happy, healthy, productive and compassionate adults. The part about compassion becomes a huge challenge in today’s world where media frequently spews out negativity and prods us to criticise others.

Compassion involves two traits – the ability to empathize with what others are feeling, and the desire to do something to make things better. When it comes to teaching compassion, today’s parents need all the help they can get.

Here’s where you come in. Grandparents play an enormous role in helping children grow.

Be a Role Model

Children are a lot more apt to remember what we do rather than what we say. When we demonstrate compassion to strangers, as well as to people within our own families, children follow our example.

Watch for everyday opportunities to help other people. You don’t need to plan something extravagant. Even little acts of kindness can brighten someone’s day and leave a lasting impression on a child.

Make compassion an expectation when grandchildren visit your home. Be clear about what is acceptable behavior, and be consistent with appropriate consequences. When a child breaks a rule, talk about how it affects other people and discuss alternative actions.

Your grandchildren are also watching how you treat each other as a couple and how you treat their parents. Every extended family experiences conflict, but we need to show our grandchildren that we’re able to work things out in a positive, healthy manner.

Point Out Examples

When you’re out and about with your grandchildren, and you see someone showing compassion, be sure to point it out. Encourage your grandchildren to watch for examples, too. You can even turn this into a game!

Be sure to offer positive feedback when you observe your grandchildren showing compassion. Doesn’t it give you a warm and wonderful feeling when you see that the lessons you’ve taught are making a difference?

Volunteer with Your Grandchild

In a recent blog post about volunteering, I pointed out the many benefits of serving others as a family. Volunteering at a nursing home, soup kitchen or animal shelter offers an opportunity to spend quality time together while learning important lessons.

Seeing the challenges and needs of others helps children look outside themselves. They also feel the satisfaction of knowing that they can truly make a difference in the lives of other people.

Use Media to Teach Compassion

There are lots of excellent books you can read with your grandchildren that teach important traits like compassion, kindness and empathy. Make use of search engines to find book descriptions and reviews as a guideline.

It’s a bit more difficult with movies or television. However, they also provide valuable lessons. When you watch a program together, point out both good and bad examples of how people treat each other.

Talk about scenes and ask questions: How do you think the character felt when they were treated that way? How could they have handled it differently? Have you ever been in a situation like that?

Treat Yourself with Compassion

When we refer to ourselves in a critical or judgmental manner, it teaches our grandchildren that we’re not worthy of compassion. It’s important to be kind to yourself.

When you make a mistake, avoid beating yourself up. Admit it, learn from it, then forgive yourself – or ask for forgiveness if necessary – and move on.

Avoid perpetuating ageism. It’s okay to talk about the challenges that come with growing older. But when we complain or joke about aging in a derogatory manner, it tells children that older people don’t deserve compassion.

Show your grandchildren that you’re able to embrace the changes that come with aging, and focus on the strengths you’ve gained over the years.

We’ve all heard this quote: “It takes a village to raise a child.” This certainly is true when it comes to teaching children to understand the feelings of others, and to develop a desire to make things better.

Grandparents, never underestimate your role in growing the next generation of compassionate adults!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What role should grandparents play in grandchildren’s lives. Can we make them more compassionate? I would love to read how you help teach your grandchildren to show compassion. Please share in the comments below.

Autumn is my favorite season because it feels abundantly joyful. In a spiritual sense, autumn is about taking inventory and making an assessment of where you are on your life’s path.

Autumn is a time of questioning and a time of answering the unresolved. I always ask myself, “How are you feeling, Joan Frances? What’s the latest in the land of Joanie Moran?”

I’m feeling hopeful that my mental, emotional, physical and spiritual temperature is on track to experience joy, peace and fulfillment.

Welcoming the Changes of Autumn

Autumn is also a time of changing weather – it’s a snap – as my father used to say when the mornings got cooler and the nights suddenly required that extra blanket on the bed. There is a sense of excitement as football reemerges as the national pastime. I look forward to the quarterback’s first snap in August. I passionately love football!

We eat comfort food again after a long, hot summer of cold food. And, of course, there are the month-long festivities before Halloween when everyone gets into the decorating mode and the sugar comes out of the pantry so you can make your favorite cookie, cupcake or brownie.

Although Boomers may be in the midst of the empty nest syndrome, or have reached grandparent status, autumn is the perfect season for everyone. You are perhaps changing habits and lifestyles, moving locations, traveling regularly or driving the RV through national parks. And all of these changes in life present new opportunities and exciting connections.

As you know, opportunities create awesome challenges while exciting your sensibilities and fostering your curiosity. Life is always in flux so be prepared to embrace the unknown and be delighted.

Practicing Balance

Lucky is the person who is born under the sign of Libra – the end of September through the first three weeks of October. You are a person who is all about balance. You approach balance with balance. Yet, others may not have strong criteria by which to judge balance in work and life. And if you are one of the retired, balance flexes its muscles no matter how you choose to live your Act 3.

Let’s take a page out of the Libra horoscope and consider striking a more mindful balance for the autumn season; perhaps, balance will guide you into the Thanksgiving holidays and on into December and the winter season.

Here Are a Few Ideas to Get You Started

Learn the power of saying no and the joys of moving forward with yes. Be more mindful of time. Give yourself plenty of time for tasks and plenty of time to take care of your own personal needs.

Leave work at work. Don’t be a slave to staying up late to satisfy a work-related task. You will find space to handle the task in the morning. Seek out options in your work place and take advantage of them in your life if they fulfill your personal needs.

Don’t be timid about seeking out people in your support system. They are there to help.

Work/life balance is a continuous process that affects your mental and physical health. Examine your priorities, values, and responsibilities and don’t fear change. Change is a perquisite to good health.

Above all, take 10 minutes out of your day – preferably the morning – to meditate and clear the mind of mindless mental activity. Peace and joy will follow.

Happy autumn!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How do you feel about autumn? What are your observation about the change of season? How do you bring balance into your life during this season? Share your thoughts and join the conversation.

Looking for a new hairstyle? Have you been wearing your hair the same way for years or even decades? Maybe you’re ready for a color change? Or even ready to let your gray grow out?

No matter what the reason for feeling the need for a change it’s always good to look at hairstyles to get inspiration for your new look. Bring photos of what you like to your hairdresser and ask them if they think it is doable with your hair type and face shape.

Sometimes a small change can make a big difference.

Here is our list of favorite hairstyles for women over 50:

1. Natural-Looking Waves – Play with your waves.
2. Natural Gray Curls – Grow out your gray.
3. Shoulder Length Cut with Curls – Great for thin hair.
4. Longish Pixie – Pixie cut with highlights and lowlights.
5. Straight Chin-length Bob – A classic look that fits almost everyone.
6. Long Beach Waves – We are never too old for beachy hair.
7. Layered Shoulder Length – Great hairstyle for thick hair.
8. Layered Bob – Add layers for texture and movement.
9. Soft Layers with Bangs – Bangs never go out of style.
10. Short Shaved Sides – Modern and bold hairstyle.
11. Natural Curls – Beautiful curls are romantic and flirty.
12. Asymmetrical Bob – A bold hairstyle for trendy women.
13. Short Sassy Pixie – Classic and sassy super short hairstyle.
14. Long 80s Inspired – Go back in time.
15. Color Play – Express yourself with color.

Hairstyles for Women Over 50

Natural-Looking Waves

You can rock waves even if your hair isn’t wavy naturally. Styling products can enhance natural waves. Use a texturizing cream to add a “messy” look to your do. This style fits most face shapes and can be worn in all colors.

Natural Gray Curls

Gray doesn’t have to make you look older. More and more women in their 40s and 50s are not coloring their hair and are playing with their natural salt and pepper instead. Leave your hair grow out and play with your natural curls for a flirty youthful look.

Shoulder Length Cut with Curls

Shoulder length and single-layer hairstyles are great for fine or thin hair. Add some highlights for a more interesting and dimensional look. Also, you can easily create some curls with a wide barrel curling iron or a flat iron for more movement.

Longish Pixie

This classic short pixie/bob looks great on all face shapes and hair textures. You can play with color by adding highlights and lowlights. Use thickening shampoo to add a little oomph to your style if your hair is thin.

Straight Chin-Length Bob

Classic chin-length bobs suit most face shapes. Use a straightening product and a flat iron to smooth out the bob.

Long Beach Waves

Don’t let anyone tell you that you should cut your hair now that you are over 50. Women with healthy hair can wear it long for as long as they wish. We love this beachy hair look! Cut a long side-swept fringe and soft layers for more movement. Spray with a beach-hair product to get the perfect texture.

Layered Shoulder Length

Soften your thick hair with feathered layers. Add an anti-frizz product to keep your layered look fresh all day.

Layered Bob

Add layers to your bob haircut if your hair is thick and naturally wavy. Keep your bob cut above the shoulders and add a styling finishing product to keep your hair set all day.

Soft Layers with Bangs

Bangs (or fringes) never go out of style. Women often wear bangs to hide a receding hairline or a long forehead. Cut a side-swept fringe for a soft and girly look.

Short Shaved Sides

Feeling adventurous and modern? Go for an ultra-chic and statement hairstyle by shaving the sides super short and sweep the top to one side. This style looks great in every color and can look even more trendy with a bold color like pink or red.

Natural Curls

Cut your beautiful coils into an afro with soft bangs covering your forehead for a romantic and feminine look. Condition your natural curls for more definition.

Asymmetrical Bob

Another bold hairstyle women over 50 can rock is the asymmetrical cut. Have one side cut longer than the other for a fun and flirty look. Add some finishing spray to keep your style intact all day.

Short Sassy Pixie

Short hair looks great at any age. We love this short and sassy front-swept pixie that suits practically all face shapes and hair textures. Add a bold color like red to match your fiery personality!

Long 80s Inspired

Remember the long flipped curls of the 80s? 80s hairstyles are making a comeback, and women are styling their hair with a modern twist. Use a large hot air brush to expertly achieve the long flipped curls.

Color Play

A great way to express your personality is with hair color. Bold colors definitely don’t go unnoticed and can make you look and feel young and trendy.

Over 60? Head on over to read our article 60 BEST HAIRCUTS AND HAIRSTYLES FOR WOMEN OVER 60 to find inspirations for your next hairstyle.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you thinking of changing your hairstyle? How long has it been since you changed your hairstyle or color? Which hairstyle on our list is your favorite? Let us know in the comments below.

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Regardless of who you are or what your skin is like, wrinkles are part of the natural aging process. They’re inevitable and honestly, nothing to be frightened by or ashamed to show. Everyone gets them! While some embrace their fine lines with open arms, others might prefer to conceal them with beauty products. If you fall into the second camp, there’s a product that we definitely want to put you onto.

Korres’ bestselling Black Pine 3D Eye-Lift Super Serum works overtime to combat visible signs of aging, like fine lines, wrinkles and loss of elasticity. After swiping the serum under your eyes, you should notice your skin tighten and bounce right back. It’s like an eyelid lift, but without the needles.

For a quick crash course on what makes this product so effective, black pine promotes collagen production, mica brightens dark circles and dill extract. In fact, Korres works with the Greek Forestry Association to remove the most potent part of the black pine bark and pack it into this serum.

If you haven’t had luck with other anti-aging eye products, you might just strike gold with the Black Pine 3D Eye-Lift Super Serum. Shop it for 20 percent off at Revolve while you still can. The eye serum is additionally available at Korres, Sephora, Amazon and HSN.

RELATED: This Anti-Aging Eye Balm Is ‘Nature’s Botox’ & It Apparently Works Overnight 

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To back up these tall claims, have a peek at shoppers’ reviews. After all, they collectively gave the product a 4.3-star overall rating on Korres’ site.

“This eye cream is amazing! It is so light, not heavy or greasy. Smells nice, lifts your eyelid, no heavy droopy hooded eyes,” raved one five-star reviewer. “Hides your fine lines; no more crow’s feet. I’m in love with this product! I use it every morning and night.”

“I use this twice daily above and under my eyes, and it is the only thing that works to lift sagging eyelids,” wrote another one. “I do two pumps in the morning and one pump at night. I pump the product onto one finger and then smush it onto the opposite finger to evenly distribute the serum. I’m on my fourth tube of this; a tube seems to last two to three months for me.”

Follow their lead and shop this eye serum ASAP. To apply, use your ring finger to gently tap one pump of the serum onto your entire eye area. This includes both your under eyes and lids. Do this on a daily basis and you’re about to see some serious results.

Between ingredients, shopper reviews and trials, we predict Korres’ Black Pine 3D Eye-Lift Super Serum is soon to become a game-changer in your beauty routine. Firm, lifted, tight, smooth eyes are headed your way, stat.

BravoCon 2022 Fashion: Real Housewives of Orange County

I think we can all agree that the Real Housewives of Orange County ladies brought   it with their BravoCon 2022 lewks. And while there were no sky tops present (however Chrissy Teigen did wear a dress version lol!), there was lots of Barbiecore-pink, bright jumpsuits and cute dresses galore —  so keep on scrolling to get the orange juice.

Fashionably,

Faryn

Gina Kirschenheiter’s Neon Yellow Gloved Dress

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Tamra Judge’s Orange Strapless Jumpsuit

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