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Book Review: Mad Mabel by Sally Hepworth

Book Review Mad Mabel – Done Running, Growing Older, and What Finally Matters

There’s a particular kind of freedom that arrives, if you’re lucky, in the last chapters of a life. Not the freedom of open roads and infinite possibility – that’s a young person’s freedom, showy and exhausting. This is quieter: the freedom of no longer caring what people think, because you’ve run out of time to perform for them.

The Character of Mable

Sally Hepworth’s Mad Mabel introduces us to Elsie Mabel Fitzpatrick, 81, grumpy, solitary, fiercely private, and armed at all times with a sharp remark and a hot cup of tea. She has lived on Kenny Lane in Melbourne for 60 years, keeping herself to herself with a discipline that looks, from the outside, like pure misanthropy. But Elsie’s self-containment isn’t actually coldness. When you’ve been the most reviled girl in Australia – Mad Mabel Waller, youngest convicted murderer in the country’s history – self-sufficiency isn’t a personality quirk, it is survival.

This Book Is a Mystery and a Handbook

The book’s genius is in its structure: past and present alternating, the 15-year-old Mabel and the 81-year-old Elsie in constant silent conversation. And what that structure quietly insists is that growing older is not, as our culture tends to frame it, a story of loss and diminishment. It’s a story of distillation. Of finding out what you actually are, once everything you performed for others has finally been stripped away.

We learn a lot about Elsie through Persephone, the relentless seven-year-old from across the road, who arrives with absolutely no sense that Elsie’s walls are meant to keep people out. And through the podcasters who want her story.

What’s striking is how the novel uses these intrusions not to diminish Elsie but to reveal what she has, over a lifetime of loneliness and survival, quietly become: someone who understands, with a clarity that only comes with age, what deserves her energy and what does not. She has no patience for performance, for social niceties that serve no one, for the comfortable cruelties of gossip. She has watched neighbors and seen what their respectability conceals. She has paid the price of being misunderstood and she has, somewhere along the way, made a kind of peace with it.

The Heart of the Book

The relationship between Elsie and Persephone is the emotional heart of the book, and it works because Hepworth resists making it sentimental. It’s not that children and the elderly naturally bond because they’re both outside the main current of productive adult life. It’s that Persephone, in her seven-year-old directness, sees Elsie without the filter of public narrative. She doesn’t know about Mad Mabel. She only knows the woman across the road, and she likes her. For someone who has been defined by a label her entire adult life, this is quietly devastating.

There is something bracing in how unsentimental Elsie is about her own age. She’s 81; she’s not performing for posterity. She has no interest in being rehabilitated in the public eye. What she wants – in the end, in the quiet – is smaller and more essential than that: to be left alone, yes, but also, it turns out, not entirely alone. To matter to someone. To have done, somewhere along the way, something that wasn’t just surviving.

I Really Enjoyed Mad Mabel

Mabel is feisty and strong, but compassionate with a soft center. I was reminded of The Tuesday Murder Club at some points in the book, but with a bit more grunt. And in the vein of The Tuesday Murder Club, Mad Mabel joins a growing shelf of fiction that refuses to treat old women as auxiliary characters in younger people’s stories.

Elsie is the story. Her history, her interiority, her grudging and hard-won capacity for love – these are what the novel is made of. And if there’s a thesis buried in all the sharp remarks and twisty plot mechanics, it’s this: the things that matter reveal themselves slowly, and often only once you’ve stopped running from them.

At 81, Mabel is done running. And what she finds, standing still, is more than she expected.

If you are interested in articles about staying vibrant and embracing change as you age, you can find more on my Website or my Substack Page. Or check out my other articles and book reviews on Sixty and Me. I love hearing from people, so please let me know your thoughts about this book or any other subject that came up as you read this review.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you read Mad Mabel? Have you read any other books by Sally Hepworth? What were your thoughts about the book? How did your opinion of Mabel change as you read the book? Did anything surprise you in the book? Have you read any of The Thursday Murder Club series? I’d love to hear if you saw any similarities between Mad Mabel and The Thursday Murder Club.

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Lindsay Hubbard’s Yellow Cutout Top and Glasses

Lindsay Hubbard’s Yellow Cutout Top and Glasses / Summer House Instagram Fashion June 2026

Now whenever I see this color yellow on anyone, I think of Lindsay Hubbard complimenting Amanda Batula in her Season 10 reunion look. It’s so gorge it’s literally bringing people together! If you couldn’t tell I’m someone who also loves this color, especially for summertime and this statement-making top is perfect because you can pair it with jean shorts or a skirt for work or play. Making it an easy decision to snag this style for under $100 you’ll reach for again and again, along with a cute pair of frames just like Lindsay.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Lindsay Hubbard's Yellow Cutout Top and Glasses

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Madison LeCroy’s White Button Embellished Tank Top

Madison LeCroy’s White Button Embellished Tank Top / Southern Charm Instagram Fashion June 2026

Madison LeCroy is giving us the best Prime deals on Amazon through her Philips Sonicare partnership, along with an affordable white button embellished tank top. This fun top is super cute and pairs easily with your fave jeans, so if you want to upgrade your tank collection for summer, I suggest you scroll below and button up this beauty while it’s still in stock. ✨

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Amanda


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The Most Important Question Women Over 60 Are Not Asking Themselves

The Most Important Question Women Over 60 Are Not Asking Themselves

I want to ask you something that might be a little uncomfortable.

When did you last ask yourself what you actually want?

Not what your children need. Not what your grandchildren would enjoy. Not what would make the holidays easier or the family gathering run more smoothly or the situation with your adult child less complicated. What you want. From this chapter of your life. From the years that are genuinely still in front of you.

I’m asking because I’ve spent a lot of time with women over 60 – through my writing, through the platforms I run for women navigating midlife, and frankly through just being a woman in my late 50s navigating the same territory myself – and I’ve noticed something remarkably consistent.

We are extraordinarily good at deferring that question.

We’ll get to it. After the holidays settle down. After the grandchildren get a little older and less demanding. After we figure out the living situation. After things calm down – which they never quite do, because life never quite does.

No Guarantees

I understand that impulse deeply. I lived it for decades. I was a criminal defense attorney for 35 years, which meant I was perpetually in service to someone else’s urgent need. Before that I was a mother, which is its own version of permanent availability. The habit of putting my own question last was so deeply grooved that even when the external demands finally eased, I kept reaching for other people’s priorities like a woman who had simply forgotten she was allowed to have her own.

Here is what I want to say as plainly as I know how to say anything: after is not a guarantee. And the life you keep meaning to sit down and think about is happening right now, while you’re waiting for a better moment to pay attention to it.

I am not trying to alarm you. I am trying to offer you the truth, which is something I have always believed women in this season deserve far more of than they typically receive.

Turn Toward the Questions

Here is the other truth, and I want to say it just as clearly: it is not too late. Whatever you’ve been telling yourself has passed you by, whatever chapter you’ve been quietly afraid you missed – you haven’t missed it. The research on meaning and purpose in later life is consistent and encouraging on this point. The women who report the highest levels of genuine flourishing in their 60s and 70s are not the ones who figured everything out early. They are the ones who kept asking. Who kept turning toward the question instead of away from it.

The women I know personally who are thriving in this season share one quality above all others. They answered the question. Not all at once. Not without doubt or uncertainty. But they decided that who they are now matters – not who they were, not who their families need them to be, but who they actually are today – and they started treating that as worth knowing.

Start Small

What does that look like in practice? It starts smaller than you might expect. It starts with 20 minutes of honest reflection and a willingness to sit with what surfaces. It starts with questions like: What would I do if I genuinely believed there was still time? What have I been telling myself I’ll get to someday? What does thriving look like for me, specifically, in my real and actual life – not the imagined one I keep putting off?

Those are not small questions. But they are available to you right now, today, regardless of your circumstances or your history or what has come before. They do not require a dramatic change or a perfect set of conditions. They require only a willingness to take yourself seriously.

I put together something free to help you begin. It is called the Second Act Soul Check-In – three questions to help you locate yourself honestly in this season. Where you have been, where you actually are, and where you might be heading. It takes about twenty minutes. It will not tell you what to do. It will help you hear yourself more clearly, which I believe is the most useful thing I can offer.

You have more life ahead of you than you may be allowing yourself to believe. The only question is whether you are going to pay attention to it. That question is worth answering now, not after.

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Technology After 60: Could the Right Tools Make Your Next Chapter Even Better?

Technology After 60 Could the Right Tools Make Your Next Chapter Even Better

Over the years, many of you have shared your stories with us.

You’ve told us about starting over after divorce or loss. About relocating to a new city or country. About becoming caregivers, then rediscovering yourselves once again. You’ve described learning to navigate retirement, changing family roles, health challenges, and the sometimes surprising question of who you want to become in this next chapter of life.

You’ve also told us something else.

Again and again, you’ve shown that women over 60 are remarkably adaptable.

Technology After 60 Is Not a New Challenge

Most of us have been adapting to change our entire lives.

We have watched handwritten letters give way to email and paper maps yield to GPS. We remember rotary phones, long-distance charges, and waiting days for photographs to be developed. We learned to navigate smartphones, online banking, video calls, and digital photo albums. Many of us maintain friendships across continents and stay connected to children, grandchildren, and communities through technology that would have seemed unimaginable just a few decades ago.

And now, artificial intelligence is simply the latest technology asking us to adapt once again.

Tomorrow it may be artificial general intelligence. The day after that, it could be technologies we cannot yet imagine.

The names will change. The headlines will change. The pace of innovation will continue to accelerate.

But perhaps the more important question remains the same:

How do we embrace change without losing ourselves in the process?

We’ve Been Adapting All Along

Most conversations about new technology focus on disruption. We hear about jobs disappearing, industries changing, and the pressure to keep up.

Yet based on what many of you have shared over the years, that isn’t the question keeping you awake at night.

You’re wondering how to make the most of this stage of life.

How do you maintain your independence? How do you nurture your health, deepen your relationships, travel with confidence, express your creativity, and continue growing into the person you are still becoming?

Perhaps technology matters only to the extent that it helps us answer those questions.

What Does Technology After 60 Really Mean?

For many women, technology after 60 isn’t about becoming an expert.

It’s about using the right tools to support the life you want to live.

When smartphones first appeared, many of us learned how to use them because we wanted to see photos of our grandchildren or stay connected while traveling.

Video calls allowed us to bridge distances that once felt impossible. Online banking simplified everyday tasks.

None of us had to become engineers to benefit from those changes. We simply remained open. Curiosity matters far more than technical expertise.

Small Tools Can Create Big Possibilities

Imagine planning a long-awaited trip and having technology help you build an itinerary tailored to your interests.

Imagine organizing treasured family recipes into a keepsake cookbook for future generations.

Imagine drafting a difficult email when emotions make finding the right words challenging.

Picture yourself preparing thoughtful questions before a doctor’s appointment so you feel more confident advocating for your health.

Perhaps a new tool introduces you to books you might never have discovered, hobbies you’ve always wanted to explore, or volunteer opportunities aligned with your values.

None of these uses require you to become a technology enthusiast. They simply invite you to use new tools in service of the life you want to live.

The Wisdom You Already Possess Matters Most

Technology can provide information. It can generate ideas. It can offer suggestions. What it cannot do is decide what matters most to you.

  • It cannot tell you which friendships deserve your time and attention.
  • It cannot determine which destinations feel like home.
  • It cannot define beauty, purpose, joy, or fulfillment.

Only you can do that.

The experiences you’ve gathered over decades of living have taught you what brings comfort, meaning, laughter, and peace.

Those lessons remain invaluable.

These conversations have also led us to wonder whether experience and judgment may become even more valuable in a rapidly changing world. If you’re curious about that idea, we’ve explored it more deeply in a companion article on Next Cradle.

The Next Chapter Is Still Being Written

Perhaps one of the greatest gifts of growing older is recognizing that we don’t have to embrace every trend that comes along.

We can choose thoughtfully.

We can adopt what serves us and leave behind what doesn’t.

The technologies of the future will continue to evolve. Artificial intelligence may eventually give way to something even more transformative.

But the deeper challenge will remain unchanged.

How do we create lives that reflect who we are and what matters most?

Based on the conversations we’ve had with so many of you over the years, I suspect the answer is the same as it has always been.

  • We stay curious.
  • We remain open to possibility.
  • We hold tightly to our values while adapting to changing circumstances.

And we continue creating lives filled with meaning, beauty, connection, and purpose.

Technology after 60 isn’t about keeping up with every innovation.

It’s about using what serves us, letting go of what doesn’t, and continuing to create lives that reflect who we are becoming.

After all, the goal of this next chapter isn’t to become someone else.

It’s to become even more fully ourselves.

What Do You Think?

How have you adapted to change over the years, and are there new tools that have surprised you in the ways they’ve enriched your life?

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