Kristin Cavallari’s Cropped Plaid Shirt on Instagram

Kristin Cavallari 2021 Instagram Fashion

Kristin Cavallari took to Instagram to share a video of all her fav UJ pieces rounded up from this year. Little did she know she also rounded up a few of our *new* fav outfits. For instance, her cropped plaid shirt in the first ‘fit. Suuuuper cute and paired perfectly with the distressed jeans. KCav just has a knack for giving us great styles. And we here at BBH have a knack of giving you ways to steal it below.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Originally posted at: Kristin Cavallari’s Cropped Plaid Shirt

Like so many people around the world, my husband and I battled Covid for several weeks. We’re both healthy with no pre-existing conditions except being over 65, but it was a tough couple of weeks when we both ended up with pneumonia as well.

We’re back to normal now, but I found the psychological aspect of recovery to be both really interesting and really relevant to how an individual’s mindset can impact both daily choices and recovery from severe health challenges.

In my work, I’ve explored a large body of research on the psychology of healthy aging – things like what drives health beliefs, behaviors and outcomes – and, more recently, how perceptions impact recovery from acute illness or injury.

One really eye-opening Harvard University study demonstrated that people with a positive aging mindset were 44% more likely to recover fully from a severe illness or injury than those with a negative aging mindset. That’s a pretty large advantage – one I certainly want working for rather than against me!

A Health Setback

For us, Covid was like having a really bad flu that just kept lingering on and on. As many people have experienced, the fatigue was relentless so that each day became primarily about getting through it without doing anything taxing that could make it worse.

With very little energy or motivation, my husband and I spent most of the days sleeping, watching TV, or reading. Even though I had a lot of office work to do, I simply couldn’t muster the mental or physical energy to do it!

Psychology of Doubt

After about 2 weeks of being ill with no signs of recovery, the on-going media attention to the worst-case scenario (death statistics) brought feelings of vulnerability and even fear. We’ve always been strong and healthy and were knocked pretty flat. Being In our mid-60s was our only risk factor but we started to wonder if we would recover!

At that point, I started doing some research and learned that the recovery rate from Covid for people with no pre-existing health conditions ranges from 97 to 99.75% (CDC, WebMD). That’s no comfort to those who have lost loved ones, but it allowed us both to consciously stay focused on the probability of recovery rather than possibility of the worst outcome.

Path to Recovery

Even though the intense illness only lasted three weeks, it became obvious how easy it would be to stay in a mindset of just “making it through the day” even when we started feeling better. This mindset was reinforced after a couple of false starts when we would feel better and do too much, or one of us had a chore to do – like tromp through the snow to feed horses – and then would end up back in bed.

Once we genuinely started feeling better, we were both leery of repeating that mistake. Out of necessity, we had settled into a very sedentary pattern, and I had to remind myself of advice I often give in healthy aging seminars – don’t let a health setback become a new health set-point.

It took conscious effort, lots of self-talk, and consistent action each day to prevent our new pattern – conserving energy by doing just enough to get by – from becoming a lifestyle habit.

Aging and Illness/Disability

Experiencing how susceptible I was to the 18-month narrative around Covid re-enforced my belief in how easily negative “aging scripts” – the stereotypes we’ve been exposed to over our lifetimes – can be internalized to drive our personal responses to illness, injury, or functional issues.

Health challenges combined with an internalized aging narrative can act as a directive to withdraw from challenges and make life smaller. I use directive because I’ve observed that this reaction is often not so much a conscious choice as it is a surrender to ageist programming.

Let me be clear – I fully support anyone’s right to make whatever choice is right for them about responding to a health challenge. I just encourage individuals not to make long-term choices based on “survival mode” strategies ingrained during a crisis.

Instead of allowing a health setback to automatically become a new health set-point, consider consciously seeking the fullest recovery possible – regardless of age – and maximizing adaptive strategies before determining what’s possible for your life moving forward.

Overcoming vs Coping with Challenges

The disability movement provides a valuable roadmap to follow. Young people with severe physical and cognitive challenges are given a steady diet of resilience training with resources, tools, and encouragement to overcome challenges and live fully in-spite of them – and they accomplish remarkable things!

In contrast, why are older adults so often only given tools and resources to cope with – rather than overcome – health challenges? There’s a profoundly different mindset between overcoming and coping, resulting in profoundly different outcomes. A mindset of coping makes it much easier to subconsciously default to withdrawing rather than opening up to possibilities.

Reclaiming Well-Being

Research demonstrates even a week of bedrest (at any age) or long periods of sedentary behavior significantly reduces muscle mass, cardiovascular endurance, and mobility.

For my husband and me, recovering fully required reclaiming strength, mobility, and endurance, doubling down on good nutrition and immune boosting vitamin C, D, and zinc, and reclaiming passions that uplift emotional and social well-being.

My first post-Covid horseback ride was exhausting but also exhilarating. Normally, spending 4-5 hours on horseback doesn’t seem like much effort, but this 2 ½ ride was physically challenging. It was also life affirming as a critical step towards reclaiming my lifestyle and knowing I would recover fully.

Have you recovered from a recent illness or injury? Did negative or positive “aging scripts” impact your experience? What’s your best advice for living well regardless of long-term health challenges?

Kristin Cavallari’s Tan Blazer on Instagram

Kristin Cavallari 2021 Instagram Fashion

Yet another solid outfit from Kristin Cavallari’s UJ roundup vid. This one features a tan blazer paired with some chunky boots. I love this look for two reasons. One, because it’s obviously cute. Two, because this outfit is a warm weather outfit turned cold weather outfit. For those of you that live in the colder states you know it’s gut wrenching to put your cute summer dresses away for the winter. Welp, thanks to KCav, now we don’t have to. We can just toss a blazer and some boots on with it and call it a day night out.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Tis the season for gift giving. While most of us enjoy receiving gifts, there is nothing quite like giving a gift to others and watching them light up with delight.

The type of gift I want to share with you today is not necessarily the kind you wrap and place under the tree. This gift is the one you first unwrap from within and must own in order to give away.

For my 2010 birthday wish, I wanted to meet Zenyatta. She had already won 19 straight races, and she was now preparing for her 20th and final race.

Being an actor, I never thought of celebrities as being any better than my lesser known but equally talented, fellow creative professionals. In the realm of horses, Zenyatta was different.

Zenyatta transcended not only her species but also the profession by which she had established a second-to-none legacy. I had to meet her.

Through a group of close friends I knew from the racing world, a visit with Zenyatta was arranged. I understood going in this was a gift like no other. I had no idea, though, that another, much more profound gift was awaiting me.

This Is Who I Am. This Is What I Do.

In the early morning, we arrived at Zenyatta’s barn. She was in her stall with her head out, awaiting her trainer, John Shireffs, to start her morning workout routine.

I walked over to her.

Here was Zenyatta, one of the largest and most physically imposing horses to ever race, looking down at me. Without even thinking whether she would understand, I said to her, “Zenyatta, I have always wanted to meet you and I am so excited to be here with you.”

She liked this, and I had her full attention now.

With the regal tilt to her head and brilliant attentive gaze, her magnificent presence was focused on my face. Zenyatta’s truth is simple, and her gifts are readily seen and experienced. But there is much more to her than what our eyes can see.

I felt this magical connection between us in an undeniable way.

I continued with an equal dose of enthusiasm and genuine gratitude, “Zenyatta, I want to ask you a question. I am an actor, and I would psych myself out long before I ever booked 19 jobs in a row. How did you win 19 consecutive races?”

The mood shifted between us.

She looked at me with bemused disdain and said, “What is it with you humans, you make everything so complicated? Why wouldn’t I win every race? This is who I am, and this is what I do.”

I Am No Horse Whisperer

I know it seems hard to believe, but Zenyatta did look into my face and say this. I could never make something like that up. And the way she communicated to me is not even how I think or speak.

I do want to be clear I am no horse whisperer. Zenyatta did not open her mouth and speak as you or I would. It was a language of the mind, of the heart. Some describe it as a form of telepathy.

It is when you tap into the thought waves of another living being and intuitively connect on a level that words could not aptly describe. I have never had an experience like that before, nor have I had one since. Beyond the connection we had is the profound, transformative gift Zenyatta bestowed onto me that day.

Accepting Your Gift to the World

Yes, Zenyatta is a racehorse, I am an actor and author, these are the gifts we share with the world. But what is a gift if it is not unconditionally accepted from within and shared externally with others?

If you are not accepting of who you are in this moment, your gift to the world, which is an extension of your true self, becomes more of a burden than something to joyously embrace and accept.

Accepting your gift is about first knowing who your true authentic self is. This is what struck me about Zenyatta.

There was no doubt or overthinking in anything Zenyatta did. There was no shrinking from the moment or playing small. She carried herself with a sense of uncompromising purpose and pure confidence born of a present-minded ownership of the moment.

Everyone has a unique gift to offer the world.

When you reject your gift, you reject your true self. By owning your gift, and having complete trust in your purpose, you remove any lingering thoughts about not being enough just the way you are.

Once you own your gift in this manner, there is no room for limited thinking. You can give away your gift for others to enjoy without feeling as if you are losing something of yourself or being burdened with unrealistic demands for what you want in return.

Honor Your Value

Now, before I engage in any creative, collaborative endeavor I say to myself:

I am here to share my authentic gifts and contribute to the vision of the project. This is who I am, and this is what I do.

I invite you to journal your answers to the following questions:

• What are my authentic gifts?
• What lingering thoughts have hindered my desires to share my gifts with the world?
• How can I more fully own my unique gifts and accept my true, authentic self?

In the comments below, I invite you to share your personal experiences with how you have come to recognize, own, and share your gifts with the world.

We all know Tatcha as a celeb-loved brand, making fans out of the biggest A-listers of the moment. Jennifer Aniston, Meghan Markle, and Doja Cat are just a few of the stars who have proven to be the brand’s biggest supporters. You likely want skin like the celebs, too, but sometimes, Starbucks and Jeff Bezos take all your money and leave you with only a small amount of pocket change. Lucky for you, Tatcha is hosting a Days of Delight sale event, where each day brings a new and exclusive offer. 

Days of Delight is happening this week only, and seeing that it’s Friday, you’re going to want to shop today’s deal ASAP. It shouldn’t be a hard decision, though, because Tatcha is serving up the amazing Treatment Kit. It comes with two best-selling serums and the one and only Kissu Lip Mask that is oh so dear to Jennifer Aniston. 

With a value of $151, you’ll be relieved to save a whopping $40 on this set, thanks to the deal of the day. Whether you’re treating yourself to The Treatment Kit or gifting it to a loved one (or doing both), shop the set in the name of better skin and saving the big bucks. 

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Let’s break down what exactly you get when you buy the discounted Treatment Kit. You get two mini versions of the brand’s best-selling serums, The Dewy Serum and Violet-C Brightening Serum. On top of that, you get a full size Kissu Lip Mask. We can tell you now that you’re going to want these miracle workers in your skincare routine.

The Dewy Serum is the multitasking product of our dreams. It resurfaces, plumps, and retains your skin’s moisture in one fell swoop, according to the brand. If your skin’s looking dry and dull from winter’s wrath, this serum is your new hero product. Tatcha’s own signature Hadasei-3 complex makes up 73 percent of the formula, which is great news because it contains superfoods Uji green tea, Akita rice and Okinawa algae. Together, they help stimulate skin surface turnover to leave your skin looking smoother and your lines looking way less visible.

If you’re on the market for a new vitamin C serum, check out the Violet-C Brightening Serum. It’s composed of 20 percent vitamin C and 10 percent AHAs, helping to brighten, soften, and illuminate your skin. You might also notice the fading of dark spots and hyperpigmentation after applying this serum.

We couldn’t forget to rave about one of Jennifer Aniston’s favorites, The Kissu Lip Mask. Japanese peach extract, Japanese camellia oil, and squalane join together to create one of the most hydrating and plumping lip products. You’ll want a jar or two of this lip mask for year-round use, but especially for the colder months ahead. 

Now that you know what’s in store when you buy The Treatment Kit, all that’s left is to try out the three products and watch your skin transform. Tatcha is the gold standard for dewy, glowy, plump skin, and you’ll soon have a front row seat to these results.