Just went you thought you shopped all the Bath & Body Works goodies during its massive Black Friday and Cyber Monday sales, the company is at it again. The Bath & Body Works candle sale happens around this time every year and includes 60 percent off the fan-favorite 3-wick candles. So, if you stocked up on hand sanitizer, lotion, body gel and lotion, now’s your moment to ensure you have all the candles ready for the holiday season and beyond.

This year, the candle sale starts online on Friday, December 3 at 6 a.m. EST. This is just for a limited time while supplies last. Both Friday and Saturday, December 4, the sale is in-store. If you’re somewhere you feel safe shopping IRL (don’t forget your mask!) head out this weekend. Many stores are opening early (some as early as 7 a.m.!) to give you time and space to shop. Otherwise, plan to grab some of the 150+ candles on Friday.

Here’s the great news: all 3-Wick Candles will be $10.25. That’s almost 60 percent off holiday favorites including The Perfect Christmas and Fresh Balsam, as well as 45 new candles like Pure Wonder. Plus, best-selling fragrances launch in 3-Wick Candles, such as Japanese Cherry Blossom, A Thousand Wishes and In the Stars. You’ll also be able to pick up some spring-ready candles as you dream of warmer days ahead.

Get started with some of our favorites below!

Bath & Body Works.

Cranberry Pear Bellini 3-Wick Candle – $15.25 Off

With pear nectar, red cranberries, apricot and blackcurrant.

Bath & Body Works.

Champagne Toast 3-Wick Candle – $15.25 Off

With champagne, berries and sweet orange.

Bath & Body Works.

Fresh Balsam 3-Wick Candle – $15.25 Off

With woodland balsam, eucalyptus, fir branches and cedarwood.

We all seek love and connection. It’s a natural human trait to want to bond and share with others. Are you single and ready to mingle? Are you divorced or widowed and ready to hit the dating arena to give love another try?

But, inescapably, the question pops: Where do I start? We aren’t in our 20s anymore and meeting people may not be as easy as it once was.

Moreover, many of us have been single for a while and have learned to savor this state of being. Still a good number of us over 50 yearn for companionship and a partner to share life with – which poses its fair share of strives and perplexities.

Online dating has become a trendy and easy way to meet new people. It may sound a little complicated at first, but many great (senior) love stories have begun from an online meeting on a dating site.

Some dating sites are geared towards young people seeking first loves or short-term opportunities (they call them hook-ups nowadays). There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that, but chances are you want a little more stability and someone that you can relate to.

It’s important to choose dating sites that will actually have appropriate prospects for you – meaning, people in your age group.

How Do Online Dating Sites Work?

There are literally hundreds of online dating sites out there. Some are free, some are paid, and some offer both options.

When you choose the dating site of your preference, the first thing you need to do is create a profile. This includes telling a little bit – or as much – about yourself as you want and adding some photos. You will have the opportunity to state what you are seeking and enter some match preferences.

Do you prefer tall men who don’t smoke? Do you seek a sports enthusiast? Do you want to keep your options limited to your local area or broaden your horizon? You decide.

Choose photos of yourself that are current, not blurry, and that show your face and eyes well. It’s best to post photos where you are natural and that best represents you and your life.

Most dating sites have the messaging option, and this is where your potential suitors will get in touch with you. Don’t feel the need to answer every message you receive, but do look at the profiles and decide if you want to respond or not.

What Can I Expect from Dating Sites?

Online dating sites can get overwhelming, and you will need some time to get used to the interface and how it all works. When you fill out your profile well and have reasonable expectations, you can assume you will get to chat with interesting people and possibly meet a suitable partner.

How Do I Stay Safe?

We’ve all heard horror stories about men scamming women on dating sites. This is a reality that we need to consider, so it’s important to not share too much information in the beginning.

Don’t give your telephone number or any other personal information until you have had several conversations and feel like the person is genuine.

Treva Brandon Scharf is an ICF-certified life coach and dating expert and also a first-time wife at 51. She mentions that staying safe when dating online is imperative for anyone at any age, but especially for women over 50.

Midlife single women may be smarter and wiser, but they can also be more lonely and vulnerable, and prone to scams and cons. Don’t be fooled!

If a man sounds too good to be true, he probably is. Here are a few red flags to watch out for:

• If he comes on too strong and too fast. Someone who overpromises will most certainly underdeliver.
• If he only texts and never calls.
• If he doesn’t make plans or fails to keep them.
• If he asks for money.
• If he tells you a sob story about his ill mother, family member, or even his own health.
• If he asks for your personal information.
• If he refuses to meet virtually via Skype, Zoom, or FaceTime.
• If he can’t prove he lives where he says he lives.
• If he ghosts you or shows inconsistency in communication.

Jason Lee, a dating coach and communications expert, teaches older singles to always mind three things when it comes to online dating sites: “Number one, trust your intuition. Number two, protect your personal information. And number three, when in doubt, ask for help.”

Indeed, if you find yourself wondering whether a suitor is genuine, you can reach out to the dating platform’s customer service. After all, you’re paying them a fee, and they are legally bound to help you feel protected.

Which Online Dating Sites Are Best for Older Adults?

eHarmony

My #1 pick for online dating sites is eHarmony. It is known to have the most genuine people looking for commitment and long-term relationships. There’s an extensive personality test that each new member takes to determine their lifestyles, goals, and traits.

The website then matches you with potential partners according to the results of the test. I like that as you don’t have to filter through thousands and thousands of profiles before finding the right kind of suitors. eHarmony does the leg-work for you!

The free version is very restrictive, and you don’t get to see member photos or send personal messages. Having to pay a monthly fee seems to assure that the members are serious about their activity on eHarmony. And you can take advantage of their reduced monthly promotion when you sign up.

Match

Match.com is one of the oldest online dating websites out there. They have over 20 years of match-making experience. Unlike eHarmony, Match lets you scour through the several thousands of profiles and you, as well, will appear on other member’s feeds.

Match has a 6-month guarantee where if you don’t find love in the first six months, the following six months are free. Like eHarmony, the free version is very restrictive.

Senior Match

Every member on Senior Match is over 45. This makes it easier to find a suitable and age-appropriate partner. What I like about Senior Match is that it is not only a dating site but also a great place to find a travel buddy or people to do activities with.

Silver Singles

Silver Singles is another site dedicated to the mature daters. It offers a comprehensive questionnaire upon signing up to assess your personality and lifestyle.

The site only shows you five suitable matches per day. This is a good site if you feel overwhelmed at the thought of going through thousands of profiles and don’t like fast-paced dating. This method lets you slow down and think about the potential matches being offered to you.

Our Time

Our Time is exclusively a community for people over 50 who are looking not only for romance but also for travel companions, someone to do local activities with, and much more. It’s a laid-back atmosphere with no pressure.

Senior Dating Sites FAQ

What Are the Best Free Dating Sites for Seniors?

Most dating websites will have a free version to use. These free versions are typically restrictive. The sites that have the best free options are Silver Singles and Our Time. 

What Is the Safest Dating Site for Seniors?

The safest dating sites are the ones where you have to pay a subscription, like eHarmony and Senior Match. Chances are, scammers won’t want to pay a fee so this limits the potential of running into a fake or a scammer. 

Get out There and Mingle

Armed with useful resources and helpful tips, there is no reason why you shouldn’t get on the online dating bandwagon. Have fun and stay safe.

Do you have any questions or maybe you have some advice to share? Do you have online dating stories you want to share with our community? Funny or not so funny, we want to hear about them. Share your stories in the comments section below.

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Just went you thought you shopped all the Bath & Body Works goodies during its massive Black Friday and Cyber Monday sales, the company is at it again. The Bath & Body Works candle sale happens around this time every year and includes 60 percent off the fan-favorite 3-wick candles. So, if you stocked up on hand sanitizer, lotion, body gel and lotion, now’s your moment to ensure you have all the candles ready for the holiday season and beyond.

This year, the candle sale starts online on Friday, December 3 at 6 a.m. EST. This is just for a limited time while supplies last. Both Friday and Saturday, December 4, the sale is in-store. If you’re somewhere you feel safe shopping IRL (don’t forget your mask!) head out this weekend. Many stores are opening early (some as early as 7 a.m.!) to give you time and space to shop. Otherwise, plan to grab some of the 150+ candles on Friday.

Here’s the great news: all 3-Wick Candles will be $10.25. That’s almost 60 percent off holiday favorites including The Perfect Christmas and Fresh Balsam, as well as 45 new candles like Pure Wonder. Plus, best-selling fragrances launch in 3-Wick Candles, such as Japanese Cherry Blossom, A Thousand Wishes and In the Stars. You’ll also be able to pick up some spring-ready candles as you dream of warmer days ahead.

Get started with some of our favorites below!

Bath & Body Works.

Cranberry Pear Bellini 3-Wick Candle – $15.25 Off

With pear nectar, red cranberries, apricot and blackcurrant.

Bath & Body Works.

Champagne Toast 3-Wick Candle – $15.25 Off

With champagne, berries and sweet orange.

Bath & Body Works.

Fresh Balsam 3-Wick Candle – $15.25 Off

With woodland balsam, eucalyptus, fir branches and cedarwood.

Over the years, I have discovered there are certain pieces of common sense that apply to our weight and overall health. And whether we lose or gain weight, there are also certain undeniable facts that we must acknowledge – unless we want to bury our heads in the sand, or have discovered the secret to Eternal Youth and still have the body we had when we were 18!

It’s a fact that as we age we experience two major changes: loss of hormones and slowing metabolism.

Loss of hormones involves thickening around the waist and changes in hair (e.g., beard, moustache, and the rest). Slowing metabolism includes all the above as well as feet a size larger, tiredness, a bigger bust and dry skin. The list is endless.

In other words, there are some things we cannot change because they will happen anyway, and it becomes a question of degree. However, if you happen to have any information that will keep hormones at pre-menopause levels, and keep metabolic levels at those of an 18-year-old, please share! We all need this type of information.

Sharing Healthy Habits with Each Other

There are a few tips I would like to share, which you may find of some use, especially over the Christmas period when you may abandon or start at a gym and, for whatever reason, change your eating habits. Yes, I know; it’s Christmas and your eating habits will change.

These are nine small points that I always like to remember, especially when I start at a new gym. Here I find myself surrounded by gorgeous young things, all trying to tell me what’s wrong. Why do they assume I don’t know?

You Are Unique

If you go to a gym, or sign up for an online class, and the 21-year-old girl with the 21-year-old body tells you to do something, it doesn’t mean it’s right for you. Understand your limitations, which are there for a reason. You may not have exercised for a while so take it easy when you start. You may have arthritis which is worse some days than others.

Weight Loss Isn’t Always Good

If you’re sacrificing your bodily health to shed kilos too fast, weight loss becomes dangerous.

Weight loss doesn’t necessarily equal fat loss. Weight is a terrible way to measure health. You need to consider the muscle to fat ratio.

Throw the Scales Out the Window

The only thing they’re measuring correctly is how bad you feel. Use photos and measurements to track your progress and keep an eye on your stats. You will see real results and feel terrific about yourself.

Health Is a Lifestyle

A body transformation program can be a fantastic kick-start, but the program that gets you started isn’t necessarily the one that will keep you going. Healthy habits are not limited to 30-day restriction programs.

Sleep

Proper sleep is as important as the food you eat and the exercise you do. A healthy good night’s sleep can improve your health and your results in the physical realm.

Stop Cutting Calories

Cut them to stupid levels and you will only slow your metabolism, lower your energy levels and increase your appetite! Cutting back on food volume is the sensible way to go.

Take Your Health Less Seriously

Having an anxiety attack over what to eat or a missed training session is doing you more harm than good. Chill out: you’re human!

Slow Down

Achieving your health goals will never happen quickly. There will be no instant gratification on this one and yes, you will have setbacks and plateaus but you know that even slow progress is progress.

Start Thinking in Outcomes

Having a “naughty” meal or missing a training session won’t ruin your health. Feeling like a failure for tasting the forbidden fruits of frozen yoghurt will. Guilt is bad on every level… never feel guilty, just enjoy it while you can!

We are always interested to hear about the exercise regimes and eating habits of others so please, share with us. Especially share those handy little tips and tricks you may have for getting through the Christmas period! Please join the conversation.