Kyle Richards’ PMS Relief Oil on Her Vanity

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Alright ladies (sorry fellas this doesn’t apply to you) I’m going to get down to it. We all know that sometimes Aunt Flo doesn’t just come knocking, but comes kicking the door down engulfed with pure rage. Thankfully there is a secret weapon and it’s Kyle Richards’ PMS relief oil. I didn’t even know a product like this existed, but I am sure glad it does. So now when that time of the month rolls around we can just roll our oil on and kick Aunt Flo’s nonsense to the curb.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Originally posted at: Kyle Richards’ PMS Relief Oil

If you knew Gayle and Marc, you would think that it was entirely Marc’s idea for them to move into a cottage home. For years, Marc led a fairly frugal life. He carried the same briefcase to work. He had the same lunch with leftovers from the previous night. He changed the oil in all the family cars.

It wasn’t that they couldn’t afford to splurge some. They could. Marc just didn’t see a need to. But when he was able to retire, things changed.

A few months post retirement, Marc purchased a third car. He also started wood carving and buying all the tools he saw in woodworking magazines, including chisels, a lathe, and a paint kit.

Meanwhile, Gayle was purging, methodically donating, or throwing away many things she felt she had held onto “just because.” For 36 years, Gayle had thought about Marc’s retirement and when they could leave their 4-bed/3-bath Colonial behind and really start to live a little.

Instead of growing closer together, it felt like they were growing apart, and it seemed like the wedge was either made of plastic or had a sharp end on it.

A Different Kind of Compromise

I remember talking to Gayle one day about marriage and how it ages. Being in the early stages of my own, I often thought she and Marc had mastered the art of compromise.

I’ll never forget what she told me that afternoon. “Spouses can be stubborn about many things,” she started. “In marriage, it is almost impossible for two people to see eye-to-eye on everything. One of you wants to get a pool for the backyard and the other just wants to head to the lake on hot days. All of that is just the details though.”

She continued, “Typically, it is one person gently leading the other. Sometimes though, one of you just has to brace yourself against the wall and push back as hard as you can.”

Gayle told me that after Marc’s retirement she had a firm vision for where the marriage could go. She didn’t want the house or the cars or the things that took her and Marc’s money each month. She wanted Marc. She wanted adventure. And she wanted to be a bit more carefree again, like they were more than 35 years ago. Gayle wanted less. (And more, as she put it.) And she was prepared to push back to get it.

Downsizing

Downsizing to a smaller home really comes down to three main points. It means less upkeep, lower bills and more time to do the things you love. It is an exercise in saving both money and time. That is all Gayle wanted.

A plus for Marc and Gayle was that they were downsizing later in life. For them, this meant they had lived together long enough to know exactly what the other would like. They could choose a property and a home that would perfectly suit their needs rather than the needs of everyone around them.

When it comes to downsizing, de-cluttering, and relocating, it can be both discouraging and frustrating. But that is where compromise comes in and above all, communication. Gayle was ready to refocus her and her husband’s life, and she knew it would take compromise between them to do it.

As we talked more that afternoon, I picked up on some strategies that had helped her merge their two mindsets and ultimately helped her to convince her spouse to downsize. If you are in a relationship with someone who isn’t all that enthused about downsizing, try some of these ideas:

Communicate

Like you would any other subject, talk through the scenario. Talk about all the costs and benefits of downsizing together, and make your personal intentions known so your partner doesn’t assume anything. It is no surprise that communication is key to any successful relationship. Try making a pro/con list together with an emphasis on the “what” questions, such as:

• What is intimidating about this idea? What is exciting about it?
• What items are you most fretful about parting with?
• What is daunting about making a big change?
• What risks and benefits are involved in living out an adventure or a new experience?

Take Your Spouse for a Virtual Tour Around the Tiny House and Small Cottage Home World

The internet allows us to take virtual tours and truly peer into the lives of other right-sized housing people. We can see the triumphs and the pitfalls of downsizing. We can gain decoration inspiration and even hear some of the philosophies of others who have chosen to downsize their lifestyle.

Show Them the Money!

Who can resist a good savings? A great conversation to have is how downsizing can reduce your monthly overhead and allow you to save money that can be used to do so many other things. Crunch the numbers as a couple and show your spouse how much money can be saved by living in a smaller home with less to maintain.

Talk about the financial benefits of downsizing your abode and what you can do with the money you save. Freedom and flexibility will likely show themselves as obvious rewards.

Lead by Example

It is a hard sell the idea of downsizing and encourage your spouse to give up some things when your stuff looks like Mount Vesuvius just erupted. Take some time to de-clutter and downsize your own things and let your example speak more loudly than your words.

Your space will start to feel better to you, and you’ll begin to see the incredible value in the special things you decide to keep. This may just be the inspiration your spouse needs.

Start Small

You don’t have to do everything overnight. You don’t have to de-clutter or relocate tomorrow. Set manageable goals. Start small and encourage your spouse to start with a bookshelf or a sock drawer and then move on from there. As you both de-clutter you’ll start to see how little you actually need to be happy.

Have you and your spouse recently decided to downsize? Was it a difficult process? What tactics did you employ to help navigate the conversations? Share some of your tips with the rest of us. Let us hear from you!

Whether you believe it’s 100 percent accurate and true or just follow for fun, you have to admit that astrology sometimes just really nails it. You’ll have to decide if ColourPop’s Astrology collection is on point when you shop your sign in the form of an adorable eyeshadow quad. The brand’s latest line takes inspiration from the colors and attributes of each specific sign. Pick up your sun, moon, or rising — or all three.

The collection is organized into sign families: Fire, Earth, Water and Air. Fire sign (Aries, Leo and Sagittarius) eyeshadows feature shades of warm terracotta, coral, and golden yellow, in mattes and metallics. (You know, firey colors.) Earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn) products include shades of are green, gold, silver and neutrals. Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces) get shades of teal, lavender and plum. And Air signs (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius) have shades of champagne, blushing pinks and sky blue.

You can shop the affordable palettes on their own or grab an entire Fire, Earth, Water or Air bundle. Either way, you know you’re getting a deal since it’s ColourPop. The collection is out now and there’s a ton to go through. But we broke down some favorites to get you started, below.

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Crystal Clear Aquarius Shadow Palette

This quad features Eccentric Me (a metallic icy blue), Free Spirit (a metallic bright cobalt blue with a gold chrome effect), On the Contrary (a matte warm nude) and Greater Good (a matte deep chocolate).

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The Bold & the Aries Shadow Palette

This quad features Seize the Day (a metallic hot orange with warm gold duo-chrome effect), All I Do is Win (a metallic champagne pink), Fired Up (a matte burnt peach) and 0 to 100 (a matte deep brown-red).

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Tender Loving Cancer Shadow Palette

This quad includes So Devoted (a metallic warm lavender with a soft golden duo-chrome effect), In My Feels (a metallic warm lilac with a teal duo-chrome flip), Take Care (a matte warm rose)  and Hard to Crack (a matte deep plum).

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Head Capricorn in Charge Shadow Palette

This quad includes Hustle Hard (a metallic silver with gold sheen), Play Hard (a metallic gold champagne),  Ambition (a matte cool taupe( and Independent (a matte espresso).

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Semi Precious Gemini Shadow Palette

This quad includes Too Witty (a metallic warm true gold), Soul-Cialite (a metallic warm champagne), Entangled (a matte marigold) and Bohème (a matte warm brown).

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Big Leo Energy Shadow Palette

This quad features A Star is Born (a metallic peach with gold sheen), Centerstage (a metallic vivid sunflower), Warm-Hearted (a matte burnt orange) and Charisma (a matte warm chocolate brown).

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Peace Love Libra Shadow Palette

This quad includes Aesthetics (a metallic warm pink with peach and violet duo-chrome), A Muse Me (a metallic bubblegum pink with gold sheen), Social Butterfly (a matte warm pink) and Balancing Act (a matte muted coral).

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Pisces in the Sky Shadow Palette

This quad includes Healing Water (a metallic lavender with a golden teal duo-chrome), Almost Psychic (a metallic bright teal with a gold duo-chrome sheen), Empath Much (a matte pale nude) and Dreamer (a matte peachy nude).

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Sagittarius in Flight Shadow Palette

This quad includes Magneti (a metallic terracotta), #goals (a metallic orange with gold sheen), Archer (a matte cool nude) and Free to Roam (a matte deep terracotta).

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The Secret Life of Scorpio Shadow Palette

This quad includes That’s Deep (a metallic plum with flecks of pink and gold), Burning Passion (a metallic warm burgundy with gold and purple highlights), Mystery (a matte cool nude pink) and Secrets Secrets (a matte deep magenta).

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Never Taurus Apart Shadow Palette

This quad features The Good Life (a warm undertone with a golden khaki duo-chrome flip), Rich Rich (a soft metallic gold), Like-A-Bull (a matte warm midtone brown) and Trust Me (a matte army green).

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Like a Virgo Shadow Palette

This quad includes To The Tee (a metallic mauve with a golden silvery teal duo-chrome), Perfection (a metallic pale silver with gold sheen), Details Details (a matte cool mauve) and Workhorse (a matte deep warm brown).

Kyle Richards’ Buildable Foundation Stick on Her Vanity

Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 11 Episode 13 Beauty

I was seriously obsessing over Kyle Richards’ makeup for her party on last nights episode. Now I know one of the factors of why- her buildable foundation stick. So I am not the best with putting on foundation. Usually I use one of those sponges or my fingers. Now that I see how well this stick works on Kyle I think this may be what I need for the two times a year when I wear makeup. Thankfully it’s in stock and pretty affordable because the only way to build something great (like your makeup look), is to have a solid foundation.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Originally posted at: Kyle Richards’ Buildable Foundation Stick