Ramona Singer’s Zebra Print Sequin Dress at Black Shabbat

Real Housewives of New York Season 13 Episode 14 Fashion

Although Ramona Singer appears to make Eboni’s “Black Shabbat” dinner on tonight’s episode of RHONY all about herself, what it should be about of course is G-d her amazing zebra print sequin dress. Which may be sold out, however you can definitely rest easy knowing there’s some very cute Style Stealers still in stock. 

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Faryn

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Originally posted at: Ramona Singer’s Zebra Print Sequin Dress

Eboni K. Williams’ FF Logo Dress in Flashbacks

Real Housewives of New York Season 13 Episode 14 Fashion

Eboni K. Williams is definitely providing us with the perfect all ashion inspiration in this flashback scene on tonight’s episode of RHONY with her FF logo dress. I mean, just pair something like this with some black leather boots and you’re guaranteed to look *cking abulous. 

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Faryn

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Originally posted at: Eboni K. Williams’ FF Logo Dress

I’m learning each day to look forward to what is coming as I stand where I am today. Being present in my life right here and now has created an appreciation for all that I have and an eagerness for what is yet to come. Every change I make takes me to that new and exciting place.

Take Small Steps

I have been toying with the idea of retirement for several years now, while taking small but significant steps toward that end.

I kept waiting for that grand event when I would know that it was time to finally take the leap. What I realized after turning 60 a couple of years ago, is that it was more of gradual tip-toe than an actual jump.

Fear is a compelling thing, but letting go of all the security and control of what I thought I needed to be happy was very difficult. Most days, it still creeps into my brain, and I feel slightly overwhelmed by the fact that I have chosen to not continue to work full-time.

I remind myself that I do have passive income and have not yet tapped into my retirement savings but something about not reporting to a job at a required time feels like stepping into a great void.

I’ve never been concerned about what I will do with my time when I retire. I have many passions that give me great joy and satisfaction, but I do still worry that I’m being unrealistic about how much money I will need.

Retirement Is Not an All or Nothing Affair

What I must remember is that this is not an all or nothing situation.

If, at any point, I feel like I am financially insolvent or even approaching it, I can simply get a job. I’ve never had a problem finding work, and I don’t believe I ever will. That is the big safety net I have, and if I can keep that in mind, then maybe I will be able to let go of some of my concern.

It is essential that the only work I do now is what makes my heart happy. I believe that should be the minimum criteria for anything I do for the rest of my life.

I know this is not something that is generally accepted. The expectation is that you will work hard for all your life, struggle and sacrifice to get ahead and then fade into the sunset. Anything else is perceived as selfish or irresponsible.

This philosophy doesn’t make sense to me at this stage of my life. I’m very young at heart and I know that I have so much life yet to live, so I am ready to find out what is next for me.

I want to take the time to explore new people, places and things. There will be some things that feel right for me and others that I will just experience and let go.

You Can Make Changes Along the Way

I know it will be fun to experiment and see what fits.

Trusting myself is key – I need to stay aware of how I am feeling so I can make changes whenever necessary. Right now I tend to stay a little too long when I’m not happy and then I start feeling trapped and need to break away.

I know that I have so many options and that this is what the journey is all about. I don’t ever need to go back, I just need to stay focused on the present and let the future unfold.

It is time for me to really break the mold and let myself be outrageous in my exploration of what lies ahead. I’ve always had an adventuresome spirit, and now is the time to really let it shine. I am going to create the life that I want and don’t need to retire from.

What revelations have you discovered after turning 60? Are you looking forward to retirement or is it a concern for you? Please share your stories and join the conversation.

About six months before my wedding, I had an “ah-ha” moment. If I wanted my skin to be in its best possible shape, it was time to start thinking about the timeline it was going to take to get glowing skin before my wedding. Considering some treatments have a longer recovery, I needed to get started. But which treatments should I even have done? And how many months out is too many? Too few?

And then, of course, there’s the month-of crunch. How far out do I get my last facial so I’m clean and clear for the big day, but not still recovering from extractions? What treatments do I get the week of the wedding? With so many questions swirling, I thought it would be best to speak to a professional. I enlisted Dr. Jennifer Chwalek of Union Square Dermatology and Dr. Carolyn Jacobs, founder and medical director of Chicago Cosmetic Surgery and Dermatology. LINK TO THESE These derms have seen it all and had some sage advice for me when it came to putting together my wedding skincare timeline.

When it comes to preparing your skin for the big day, you can never start too soon, especially if you have breakouts or issues with acne scarring or pigmentation.

“When it comes to preparing your skin for the big day, you can never start too soon, especially if you have breakouts or issues with acne scarring or pigmentation,” says Dr. Chwalek. She recommends visiting a dermatologist and coming up with a treatment plan at least one year out.

Dr. Jacobs, on the other hand, got specific with me about what treatments I should focus on. “In the months leading up to a big event like a wedding, having peels performed monthly will help the skin be its best by the big day,” she suggests. Keep reading for more of what I learned.

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One Year Out

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If you’re looking to treat acne scarring or pigmentation, starting early is key. Both Dr. Chwalek and Dr. Jones swear by consistent peels to get your skin in tip-top shape. “Now is also the time to start treatments like Fraxel/laser resurfacing or microneedling if you have acne scarring or if you are trying to improve the texture of your skin,” says Dr. Chwalek. “If you have pigmentation issues like melasma, starting a good skincare routine is vital in combination with laser or peels.”

And of course, starting up (or maintaining) a consistent skincare routine is key to looking your best. And don’t forget your SPF. Every. Single. Day.

Six-to-Nine Months Out

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This is the key time to try out any new products or treatments you think you might want to add to your routine before the wedding. With enough time, any reactions you have or results you don’t like will have worn off before the big day.

Dr. Chwalek recommends using this time to test out Botox or fillers, treatments for redness, skin tightening treatments, and even body contouring treatments like cool sculpting if you’re looking to go all out. That is, if you think you need them! It’s all about your personal preference.

This is also the time to start working chemical peels into your routine. “Having peels performed monthly will help the skin be its best by the big day,” says Dr. Jones. She recommends monthly professionally applied peels like the Sensi Peel or Ultra Peel by PCA Skin, starting at least six months prior.

Two-to-Four Months Out

As you get closer to the big day, you want to make sure you’re not doing any treatments with long recovery times. “Any aggressive treatment that has significant downtime should be avoided,” recommends Dr. Jones. This is also the time to touch up any filler and to continue any long-term treatments you started a year out from the wedding.

Six Weeks Out

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“This is a good time to start switching to lighter treatments as you near the four-week mark,” says Dr. Chwalek. “If you struggle with acne then sometimes I will give patients a low dose oral antibiotic to cover them against any breakouts for the month prior to the wedding.” No breakouts on the big day!

Don’t try any new treatments during this time, and just focus on maintaining the gorgeous skin you worked so hard for in the months prior.”“I would also really focus on hydration/moisturization and good, regular sleep,” adds Dr. Chwalek. “Nothing does more for the skin than these.”

One Week Out

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Again, now is not the time to try any new products. Stick with your trusted faves. “Treatment [at this point] is something more gentle, and also something you’ve already experienced in the past and tolerated well, like an enzyme treatment,” says Dr. Jones, who recommends the PCA Skin Revitalizing Mask with papaya enzyme or the brand’s Micro Peel At Home kit. CAN YOU LINK TO THESE? OR include above instead of Skinceuticals?

The Night Of

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“Doing a gentle hydrating face mask the night before or a red LED light treatment can ensure your skin is glowy for the special day,” says Dr. Chwalek, who recommends the Skinceuticals bio-cellulose mask. Drink plenty of water and don’t go too crazy at your rehearsal dinner! Avoid any alcohol and make sure you get a good night’s rest. You’re going to need it for the big day. A quick morning meditation will help you feel calm, collected, and ready to commit yourself to the love of your life.

Congratulations, you made it!

Eboni K. Williams’ White Button Detail Dress at Black Shabbat

Real Housewives of New York Season 13 Episode 14 Fashion

Shabbat Shalom! Although Eboni K. Williams decided to wear white to her “Black Shabbat” dinner on tonight’s episode of RHONY, we very much approve of her choice. And have of course linked it down below for you to shop (along with some more affordable Style Stealers), which in Judaism we like to call a true “mitzvah.”

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Faryn

Click Here to Shop Her Balmain Dress on Sale

Originally posted at: Eboni K. Williams’ White Button Detail Dress