This past year has been tough on everyone but a few industries were hit especially hard. The hair industry is one of them. With salons closed much of the year, many hairstylists were out of work. That’s why John Paul Mitchell Systems launched the XO Your Pro campaign, a love letter to hairstylists. Winnie Harlow and her new bangs star in the campaign alongside celebrity hairstylist Cesar DeLeon Ramirez to show the special relationship between a hairstylist and their client.

“It’s so important to feel comfortable with your stylist, and the minute I met Cesar we just clicked,” Harlow said in a statement. “He gets me and it’s no question the relationship you share with your stylist impacts the results everyone sees on screen. I hope XO Your Pro encourages us all to take the time to appreciate the pros in our lives. They are so often behind the scenes, but their hard work, talent and companionship do not go unnoticed. XO Your Pro is all about giving hairdressers the love and appreciation they deserve.”

Paul Mitchell.

“Winnie is constantly inspiring me and we work collaboratively to bring our creative vision to life,” Ramirez added. “It’s so true that the stylist’s relationship with their client impacts the final product. I’m honored to be celebrating the magic that is created behind the salon chair with Paul Mitchell.”

Ramirez created eye-catching looks on Harlow for the campaign, including these swoon-worthy blunt bangs and a blonde pixie that’s to die for. She wore this hair during her first-ever Paul Mitchell campaign and we continue to drool over it.

Paul Mitchell.

With salons finally reopening safety, Paul Mitchell launched a “stimulus plan” to support hairdressers and salon owners. According to a press release provided by the brand, the JPMS Salon Jumpstart Stimulus is a $4 million program that includes free hair color, free backbar product, discounted offers across professional product assortment and digital support.

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Ramirez posted the pair’s sweet story to Instagram. “This is our story on how our chemistry helps us bring the best looks to life,” he wrote. Watch the campaign video, above. 

If you are over 50 and divorced, you may feel stuck, unable to move on after the divorce. In my years as a divorce recovery coach, I have discovered the reason divorced women over 50 feel stuck is because they are operating on 4 myths that keep them from getting what they want. 

Let’s bust these divorce myths so you can finally get unstuck after your divorce. 

Divorce Myth #1: Asking for What You Want Is Selfish When You’re Over 50

I don’t know about you, but a lot of the messages I received growing up were that women should strive to be saintly and selfless mothers and wives. Divorce wasn’t even an option. I think growing up Catholic also meant that that infamous Catholic Guilt permeated everything I did. 

We were taught from an early age that if you wanted something for yourself, you were selfish. 

Did you ever feel like that in your decades-long marriage? 

Do you still feel like that, even if you’re divorced and over 50? 

You may struggle after divorce with feeling selfish if you don’t want to watch your grandkids this weekend.

Here’s what you must know. 

The Truth: Asking for what you want is not selfish. It’s healthy and absolutely critical to your divorce recovery… especially when you’re 50 and better.

Even if you’ve been conditioned to think that you should put everybody’s needs ahead of your own. 

Asking for what you want is not selfish. It’s just plain empowering and necessary if you want to get out of the divorce rut that’s going to keep you from moving on. 

Divorce Myth #2: Asking for What You Want Is Narcissistic

You may have had someone convince you that it was wrong to ask for what you want. Well, that doesn’t mean they were right.

The Truth: Unapologetically asking for what you want after divorce is an act of courage, not narcissism. It’s giving yourself permission to value yourself in a world that may not value you. 

Divorce Myth #3: It’s Just Too Hard

Asking for what you want – and not apologizing for it or justifying it to anyone – definitely takes work. But that doesn’t mean it’s impossible. And now that you’re divorced, the world is yours to take back.

Think of a time you did something that you were scared of or anxious about. Whether it was taking a full course load back in college, working full-time and raising kids, or navigating your own divorce, no matter how hard it was, you prevailed. 

Because you believed in yourself and knew you could do better. 

The Truth: Asking for what you want after age 50 is going to take work. It’s going to take practice. But that doesn’t make it “too hard.” That makes it something you owe to yourself to do. Especially after divorce.

Divorce Myth #4: You Don’t Deserve It

If you’re anything like me, you probably carry this weight that you should be grateful for the things you have. You may have heard it for decades from your family. At church. Or even at work. 

“You should just be grateful for what you have.” 

“That’s asking a bit much, isn’t it?” 

This myth is what keeps us from investing in ourselves. 

The Truth: You 100% deserve to ask for what you want. It is your right. And it’s your responsibility. 

Messages about your unworthiness came most likely from toxic patriarchal values that were designed to keep divorced women over 50 like you feeling ashamed and unworthy. 

It doesn’t matter if society’s message of “just be grateful” even if you know you aren’t happy and know you deserve more is swirling around in your head. 

This is *your time* and you deserve to confidently ask for what you want. 

Even if you’re divorced. 

Even if you’re over 50.

It is time to ask for what you want. Because that’s what you deserve. 

How long has it been since you did something because you wanted to? Have you allowed yourself to want to do things for yourself? Have you been taught you should be utterly selfless? Please share how you handle such thoughts, especially after divorce.

You might be able to do your seven-step skincare routine in your sleep, but have you given any TLC to the rest of the skin on your body lately? Your face may be glowing and nearly pore-less, but the dry, cracked skin on your elbows might be screaming out for help. Treat your parched and scaly skin to one of the best sugar body scrubs. You might hesitate when you hear the word “scrub,” especially if you have sensitive skin, but don’t worry. Unlike other exfoliating scrubs, this one won’t totally dry out your skin and leave it worse off than before. The sugar, which is much gentler than salt, is combined with oil to slough off dead dull skin cells and moisturize your healthy skin underneath at the same time. 

It’s basically a 2-in-1 skincare product that you bring into the shower with you. You accomplish two tasks at once. You just gently massage it into your skin when you shower and rinse it off. It’s that easy. These body scrubs are must-haves. They’ll make your after-shower moisturizing that much more effective. We rounded up the top sugar body scrubs for you. You can even use a few of them on your face and lips—talk about a versatile product.

Courtesy of Dermelect.

Dermelect All-Aglow All Over Scrub

This multifunctional scrub can — as its name suggests — be used anywhere you need some extra exfoliation: hands, lips, back, and more. Best of all now, not only does it function is a gentle physical exfoliant, but it’s also infused with a slew of antioxidants and anti-inflammatory ingredients to help calm the skin and reduce irritation.

Courtesy of Tree Hut.

Tree Hut Sugar & Shae Butter Scrub

Made out of shea butter and a mix of seed and fruit oils, this is definitely a popular sugar scrub. You rub it on your skin as you shower and it both softens and moisturizes your skin, while hitting you with a beautiful aroma. It’s a great exfoliator and removes dead skin. There are four different varieties of sugar scrub, including Tropical Mango, Pear & Chia, Mocha & Coffee Bean and Amazon Pequi.

Buy: Tree Hut Scrub $6.48

Courtesy of Brooklyn Botany.

Brooklyn Botany Body Scrub

The exfoliating scrub will remove any dead skin and moisturize the healthy, elastic skin underneath. Designed for sensitive skin, the scrub gives you a gentle treatment that won’t leave your skin feeling dried out. This scrub isn’t just for your body either. You can also use it on your face and feet. It can even be a lip scrub in a pinch. You’ll feel like you just stepped out of a spa treatment.

Buy: Brooklyn Botany Scrub $14.95

Courtesy of M3 Naturals.

M3 Naturals Brown Sugar Scrub

This brown sugar scrub has a few extra secret weapons baked in—collagen and stem cells. This antioxidant-rich scrub gives you healthier, more elastic skin while also getting rid of toxins. Your skin will look younger and more supple after a good scrub because it’s moisturizing. In addition to getting rid of blackheads, the face and body scrub can also reduce the size of your pores.

Buy: M3 Naturals Scrub $27

Courtesy of Bella and Bear.

Bella & Bear Goddess Body Scrub

If you’re struggling with keratosis or super dry scale-y skin, you should check out this powerful body scrub. It’ll help soften your skin, while sloughing away dead skin cells. The scrub will keep your brighter skin, while preventing in-grown hairs. Plus, this scrub only has a slight but enjoyable smell, so it won’t overwhelm you while you’re showering.

Buy: Bella & Bear Scrub $8.99

Dorit Kemsley’s Black Piped Pajamas in Lake Tahoe,

Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 11 Episode 3 Fashion

Though I though that nothing could bring me more joy than finding Dorit Kemsley’s “More Joy” black piped pajamas from Lake Tahoe, something did. And it was that when I found them I saw that they came complete with an on sale price tag. So if you need me I’ll be taking a joy ride, knocking back  sipping martinis water in my new satin pajamas that I saved on.

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair

Click Here to Shop her Christopher Kane “More Joy” Pajamas

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Dorit Kemsley’s Anti-Aging Serum

Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Season 11 Episode 3 Fashion

I’d be lying to you if I didn’t say that right now I’m A) EXTREMELY excited to have spotted Dorit Kemsley’s anti-aging night serum on her bathroom counter in Lake Tahoe. B) Extremely tired. I’m so tired, in fact, that the only thing that could make me want to go to bed more in this moment is the possibility of heading to my bathroom, putting a serum on my face and waking up with skin like Dorit’s.

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair

Click Here to Shop her Dr Barbara Sturm Night Serum

*Sturm products are also a fave of Lisa Rinna!*

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