Stephanie Hollman’s Blue Tie Dye Workout Outfit in Oklahoma

Real Housewives of Dallas Season 5 Episode 13 Fashion

From what we gather based on the war paint it appears as though the ‘Wives will be engaging in some sort of competition on this week’s episode of RHOD where Stephanie Hollman wears this blue tie dye workout outfit. And although the full lewk is currently sold out, no worries because we’ve included some similar Style Stealers down below that are still perfect for all our Okla-homies.

Fashionably,

Faryn

Click Here to See Her Sold Out Electric & Rose Sports Bra

Click Here to Shop Her Electric & Rose Leggings on Sale

Photo: @KaryBritt

Originally posted at: Stephanie Hollman’s Blue Tie Dye Workout Outfit

Kameron Westcott’s White Puff Sleeve Shirt and Pink Jeans in Oklahoma

Real Housewives of Dallas Season 5 Episode 13 Fashion

On this week’s episode of The Real Housewives Oklahoma Dallas it appears as though the cast visits an animal rescue centre with Kameron Westcott wearing a cute white puff sleeve shirt paired with some pink ripped jeans. Both of which we thankfully managed to find just in time for you to give them a forever home.

Fashionably,

Faryn

Click Here to See Her Alice + Olivia Willa Shirt 

Click Here to Shop Her Cotton Citizen Jeans on Sale in 3 Colours

Golden Goose Sneakers Sold Out

Belt By Hermes

Click Here For Info on Stephanie’s Tank

Photos: @KameronWestcott

Originally posted at: Kameron Westcott’s White Puff Sleeve Shirt and Pink Jeans

Minimalism is a cool trend. I truly believe that minimalist living is something that Boomer women, especially, should look into. After years of home making, traveling, careers, and maybe children and grandchildren, chances are we’ve accumulated a lot of things.

Are You Ready to Embrace a Minimalist Lifestyle?

Many of us at this point are feeling more than a little overwhelmed by the large-to-huge collection of objects in our lives ranging from kitchenware to clothing to mementos that have no earthly value but that we cannot part with.

Minimalism is embraced as much by the young, as evidenced by this entire website, TheMinimalists.com, dedicated to minimalism, authored by Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus.

My Effort to Rid My House of “Stuff”

I myself am making a long-term effort to inch my way toward some version of minimalism – at least to clear out a significant portion of the belongings in my life that are multiples of each other or that I just don’t need. And it’s not always easy, for emotional reasons as well as the simple fact that it can be daunting.

And it’s not fun to sort through what may feel like an endless supply of things.

Taking First Steps

I’ve written before about how difficult it can be to sort through the things your son has left behind after going off to college. And even though my son finished high school a number of years ago, I’m still not ready to start throwing away objects that were a part of his life when he was younger.

So, right now I’m tackling less memory-laden belongings: books, paperwork, my own clothes, gifts from so long ago that I can’t even remember who gave them to me. Even then it’s slow, but I don’t feel like I’ve been through the wringer when I finish an hour or two of the work, and I can face doing more. That’s a start.

Minimalism from a Woman’s Perspective

Perhaps a less snazzy looking site than Joshua and Ryan’s, but very useful and full of encouraging words, is another website, FlyLady.net, run by a woman closer to our age. It looks like a great source of ideas and inspiration on paring down, streamlining, and minimalizing all the “stuff” we have.

Some of her tips and discussions revolve around life as a mother whose children are still in the house, but let’s face it – a lot of us do still have children in the house, even if they’re young adults well past the teen years. The site is filled with ideas, suggestions, planning tools, and, best of all, encouragement and inspiration that apply to everyone, regardless of family situation.

The FlyLady LaunchPad and Getting Started

One of the sections I especially like – useful for the overwhelmed who just don’t know where to start, is called “Launch Pad.” There FlyLady gives you a number of areas to choose from: detail cleaning, flight plan, zones, daily focus, and a habit of the month, among others. You can simply pick one, follow the do-able list of actions she suggests you take, and know that you’re doing something good for your home and your sense of well-being.

The Get Started series of blog posts and videos is useful to “get your mind right,” too, though it does deal with regular cleaning tips as much as it does with de-cluttering. If that’s not your thing, you might want to concentrate only on her clutter-clearing advice.

The 15-Minute Rule

Best quote of the site: “FlyLady’s principle is that anyone can do anything for 15 minutes. Just set a timer and declutter something for 15 minutes every day.” Seems simple. It is. And if you do the math – 15 minutes x 6 days/week (everyone needs a day off, right?) x 52 weeks = 78 hours of clearing clutter out of your home over the course of a year. That’s a lot of progress right there.

If you give her ideas a try, I’d love to hear what’s worked best for you.

Are you struggling with getting rid of objects you’ve accumulated over your life? Do you worry about whether you’ll be able to clear your clutter and pack up your belongings in order to move, if you decide to live elsewhere? Are you ready to embrace a minimalist lifestyle? What changes have you made? Please contribute your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

Is writing a memoir, novel, or self-help book on your bucket list? Does the thought of writing your story fill you with excitement? Whether you’ve been writing for years or are just beginning to nurture that kernel of creativity, your dream of seeing your name on the cover of a published book can become a reality.

Wondering How to Get a Book Published After 50? We Have 5 Tips!

Today it is easier than ever to make your publishing dream a reality. Whether you self publish or pursue traditional publishing, you need to think about more than just writing your story if you hope to be a successful published author.

Here are five tips for what you can and should do – beginning today – to build a following of loyal readers in the future.

Read. A lot.

The more you read, the more you’ll learn about the mechanics of writing, about story structure, about the standard conventions and what makes a compelling read in your genre.

If your heart is set on penning your own story, read some of the amazing memoirs that are currently on the market. Love a good romance novel? This is one of the bestselling genres today, but readers expect certain things to happen and will not be pleased if you don’t follow the “rules.”

If you plan to share your expertise in a subject you know like the back of your hand, your book will need to offer something unique. Read a variety of genres, but become an authority in the type of book you plan to write.

Create a Strong Author Platform

Your platform is everything you do as a writer that makes you attractive to a publisher. If you wait until your book is finished to begin building your platform, you’ll be too late. Publishing is a business, and unless your only goal for writing a book is to put it in a drawer when it’s finished, you need to approach your writing as a business too. A publisher wants to see evidence that you have the ability to sell books; a strong author platform is the ammunition you’ll need.

Begin building your platform now, so you’ll have an audience in place when your book is published. Think of platform building as a marathon, and spend a little time every week on platform-building activities in addition to writing your book.

Two surefire ways to jumpstart your author platform are to start a blog and engage in social media.

Blogging is an inexpensive way to connect with potential readers, improve your writing skills, and even test book concepts. Regardless of whether you write fiction or nonfiction, blogging is a powerful way to connect you with potential fans while experimenting with writing styles.

Engage in social media to connect with other writers, readers, and ultimately publishers. Choose the media you’ll actually use and enjoy; you don’t have to master every social media option out there. Remember that the key word is social, so focus on engagement and sharing, not just on self-promotion.

Join a Writers’ Group

Writing can be a lonely business, and joining a writers’ group – either in-person or online – is one way to combat isolation. New writers can find inspiration and feedback from more seasoned writers. There’s also a great deal of incentive to write when you’re expected to present each week – sometimes that’s just the push you need to sit down and write when you might not be in the mood.

Attend a Writers’ Conference

Writers’ conferences are crucial to your writing and publishing education. Not only will you learn more about the craft of writing, but you may also have a chance to meet and interact with agents, editors, and other publishing professionals, learn about trends in the publishing world, and be inspired by the speakers and workshop leaders who share their knowledge.

You’ll come away with a greater understanding for how to market yourself and your book, and you’ll meet other writers who can potentially become critique partners.

Get the Best Professional Help

Writers are often too close to their own work to be objective about what they’ve written; even the most seasoned writers have editors to help them polish their writing. If you want to convey your message in the most powerful way possible, establish a relationship with a professional freelance editor.

Whether helping you organize your ideas (before or during writing), or fine-tuning details such as spelling, punctuation, syntax, and word choice, a good editor will not only help you polish your writing (while preserving your voice) but will also help you strengthen your writing.

A good professional editor will provide a sample edit to show you how he or she can help you, and to see if they’re the right person for you. You might even consider hiring an editor for your blog posts as a way to find one who “gets” you, and establish that professional relationship.

Seeing your name on a book is a thrilling experience! Set yourself up for success by learning all you can about writing and publishing, and I look forward to reading your book one day!

Do you have a book inside you waiting to be written? Which of these five tips do you personally plan to focus on? Which will you put to use right away? Please share your thoughts.

Meetings, lunches, paint nights, parties… there’s so much happening on Zoom these days. And while it’s wonderful to be able to connect with friends and family virtually, there are drawbacks too. Honestly, who enjoys staring at themselves during a Zoom meeting? (That’s right, no one.)

Feel like it’s hard to look your best on screen? You’re not alone. Achieving a confident look is challenging enough when you’re not also dealing with the technical aspects of a video chat. But don’t give up! With a little effort, you can look elegant on every Zoom call.

Little Details, Big Difference

Since Zoom calls happen at home, it can be hard to motivate yourself to dress up. Why not just stay in your pajamas? Or just throw a jacket over whatever house clothes you have on?

Here’s why: you will feel so much better about your appearance and radiate elegance just by adding a few fashionable touches to your on-screen look. Here are some little details that are worth putting bit of effort into:

• A colorful necklace and bracelet combo.
• An understated gold necklace and pendant.
• A patterned scarf or headband.

These are the simple touches that step your outfit up from “acceptable” to “wow.” Think it’s silly to accessorize on Zoom? No way! You’ll elevate your look and impress in all the right ways.

Stand Out with a Splash of Color

When you’re at home, you can get into a style rut. The same colors. The same silhouettes. The same old everything. But when you add a splash of color to your look – especially on screen – you stand out and feel great.

This doesn’t have to be a major overhaul of your wardrobe. If you generally stick to neutrals and understated hues, no problem. But adding hints and flourishes of color still gives you an elegant pop in your little Zoom box. Here’s how to do it:

Creative Patterns

A top, cardigan, or cover-up featuring a unique pattern will draw in the eye when you’re chatting with friends, family, or colleagues on a video call.

Black, but Bold

You can stick to neutrals while adding a bold touch that complements your look. This jacket is a great example – it’s black, but the purple trim and jewel-toned flourishes take your attire from simple to standout.

Lighting and Camera Angles Matter

An elegant outfit can be ruined by bad lighting and camera shots. Fortunately, you don’t have to be a video production pro to get it right. A few simple rules of thumb will ensure you’re always looking your best when you log on to a video chat:

Light Source in Front of (Not Behind) You

Whether it’s an open window or a ring of light, placing your light source in front of you makes all the difference. When your lighting is behind you, it tends to darken your face and hide your features. You might have to rearrange your desk a little to achieve the right angle of light, but don’t worry what it looks like behind the scenes. All that matters is you look amazing on screen.

Natural or Artificial Light, Not Both

Clothing colors and skin tones look odd when you mix warm and cool light sources. It won’t look good if you’ve got an open window plus a light bulb on you. Stick to one or the other so your elegant attire (and winning smile) get all the right attention.

Camera at Eye Level or Just Above

Elevate your laptop, tablet or phone camera so it’s at eye level with you. That way you’re looking directly at the camera – not up towards it in an unflattering angle that also features your ceiling as the background.

Mind Your Surroundings

You put a lot of effort into your elegant Zoom event outfit. That’s where you want everyone’s attention to be – not on what’s going on in the background of your shot. So before you log on to your video call, make sure your surroundings are as elegant as your outfit.

This might mean straightening up the room a bit, organizing a shelf, or moving to a different place. Distractions like people walking around behind you or a view of half your house will detract from your otherwise splendid outfit.

Yes, Video Calls Can Be Elegant!

Don’t give up on looking posh when you get on a Zoom call. With a little preparation and effort, you’ll stand out for all the right reasons. You have a beautiful, elegant wardrobe just waiting to be shown off on the screen. Enjoy every call looking your best – you deserve it!

How do you make your outfits sparkle on Zoom meetings? Do you put extra effort or do you prefer to stay in your PJs? What extra do you do? Please share your tips with the community!