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4 Ways to Find Inspiration During Difficult Times

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The past year has taken its toll on our mental and physical health – as well as affecting our relationships and our finances. This has left the majority of us hoping for clear signs that 2021 will be the year when we’ll finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.

With so much uncertainty surrounding the future, it can sometimes feel difficult to stay focussed, motivated, or inspired. While this is perfectly natural, there are a few things that you can do to foster hope, and to help the rest of the winter months feel a little brighter.

On that note, here are 4 ways to find inspiration during these difficult times.

Prioritise Your Health

When it comes to feeling motivated, our health can play a significant role. For instance, if we feel tired or run down, then we might have a lower mood, and feel less like doing anything that doesn’t involve curling up under a blanket.

When our mental and physical health is suffering, it can also make it more difficult to enjoy the little things, like going for a relaxing walk or cooking our favourite food. And it’s these little things that tend to keep us feeling positive and inspired.

Taking Care of Physical Health

Looking after our physical health generally means making sure that we’re getting enough exercise, sleep, and nutritious food, to keep your energy levels up and your immune system boosted. If this feels like a lot to tackle all at once, then why not start by being more active?

Doing regular exercise can help us sleep better and encourage us to make healthier food choices.

Looking After Mental Health

When it comes to looking after our mental health, we can often help ourselves by learning how best to manage feelings of stress and anxiety, making time to do activities that we enjoy, and trying to stay as connected as possible to the present moment, rather than worrying about the past or future.

Create Positivity Around You

It can be difficult to stay motivated and inspired if our immediate environment feels negative, which is why it’s a good idea to try and create as much positivity around you as possible.

Limiting Self-Criticism  

This could mean limiting how much time you spend listening to and reading negative news. Or choosing to fill your mind with information from positive people, books, and films instead. It could also mean paying closer attention to how you talk.

For example, do you spend a lot of time criticizing yourself or those around you? If yes, then try your best not to. When you feel yourself going to think or say something negative, why not stop and consider how you could change it by putting a positive slant on that thought or comment instead?

And if you can’t, then consider whether it’s something that is really worth a thought at all. Taking more control over negative thoughts and comments can be challenging, but you might be surprised at how positive your outlook on life can become once you do.

Exposure to Positive People

The same can be said about the people you talk to or spend the most time with. If you spend a lot of time interacting with people who have a tendency to moan or complain at every opportunity, then you might find that you too begin to feel incredibly negative yourself.

It can be helpful to consider who you speak to most and how the attitudes of these individuals make you feel. Then, if possible, try to spend more time talking to the people in your social network that speak and act positively.

There are often people in our lives who can do wonders for helping us to feel motivated and inspired, and it’s important to nurture our relationships with them.

Make a Vision Board

Although the future feels uncertain, this doesn’t mean that you should let go of your goals or ambitions, however large or small these might be. Goals and ambitions are what drive us forward. They give us meaning and purpose and encourage us to get up and out of bed every day.

Of course, some of our goals might be on hold at the moment while we’re spending more time at home. But we can still take certain steps to prepare ourselves for life post-lockdown. This could mean taking the time to reflect on what you really want from this chapter of your life, and what your interests and passions are.

Or perhaps it might mean arming yourself with new knowledge and skills that you can take out into the world once you’re able to. We might not be able to take the large strides towards our goals and ambitions that we would usually – but often, we can still take small steps to help us inch closer to where we want to be.

Creating a vision board is a great way to stay focussed on your goals and keep hope alive. It can also act as a daily reminder that our current situation isn’t permanent.

Put Together a Reading List

Whether you read a non-fiction book about a protagonist who overcomes a significant challenge to reach a better day, or a fictional autobiography about an individual that you admire, who has been through life’s ups and downs and always comes out stronger on the other side, reading is a fantastic source of inspiration that can leave us feeling uplifted and hopeful.

While our world might feel much smaller at the moment, because we’re spending so much time at home, reading can help to expand it by taking us to faraway places, introducing us to new possibilities, and showing us different perspectives on the world.

Have you struggled to stay inspired over the last year? Do you have any additional tips that have helped you stay motivated? Please share them with the community!

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Release Your Inner E-Girl With ColourPop’s Adorable V-Day Collection

Typical Valentine’s Day makeup consists of red or pink lipstick and some rosy eyeshadow. But we can do more this year. Because why not? We’re stuck at home anyway and probably can’t have the epic Galentine’s Day blowout. Whether you’ll be alone hanging with friends on FaceTime or with a partner IRL, ColourPop’s Valentine’s Day collection will help take your makeup to the next level.

The massive line (did you expect anything else from ColourPop?) includes three new five-pan shadow palettes in natural, soft pink and bright pink shades. There are also three new Pressed Powder Blushes in adorable heart-shaped compacts. Ready to channel your inner E-girl? Finish with a heart-shaped face stamp.

Fourth Ray and SOL Body brands are also getting in on the Valentine’s Day action with skincare kits in V-Day-themed totes, as well as highlighter and dry oil to help your body glow. Finally, don’t miss the heart-shaped mirror to up your TikTok makeup tutorial game. All of these products are great for year-round use—not just on V-Day. Shop just some of our favorites, below.

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S.W.A.K. Shadow Palette

With five matte and metallic shades.

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Pink Heart Face Stamp

The long-wearing QT Mark Face Stamp now comes in a pink heart.

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A warm mauve with a silver sheen.

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My Type Pressed Powder Blush

A warm true pink.

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Red Pocket Lippie Stix

A creamy true red.

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INTERVIEW: Kary Brittingham on Closet Confessions

INTERVIEW: Kary Brittingham on Closet Confessions

ICYMI, Kary Brittingham of the Real Housewives of Dallas joined me on @BigBlondeHair‘s Instagram Live for our digital series, Big Blonde Hair Closet Confessions. She got candid about everything from her personal life, to this season of Real Housewives of Dallas, her fashion tips and more.

Plus, I had to know all of her beauty secrets after seeing how ah-may-zing she looked at her 50th birthday celebration and she totally gave us the (green) tea on all of them!

Check out our chat below (Kary was so fun) and don’t forget to follow @BigBlondeHair’s Instagram for the scoop on the next episode of Big Blonde Hair Closet Confessions.

 

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Big Blonde Hair

 

 

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Products Mentioned by Kary:

Beauty

Khiel’s Avocado Eye Cream (Kary’s Holy Grail)

Image Skincare (5 Stars on Amazon)

Green Tea (For Amazing Skin)

True Organics Face Cream

Iris + Beau Serum (Her Gift from Whitney Rose)

Christian Dior Lip Color

 

Fashion:

Kamo by Kary

Misa Collection

Zara

 

Podcast:

Kam and Kary Do Dallas

 

Places to Eat in Dallas:

Drakes 

Beverly’s 

Le Bilboquet (I also love it there!)

 

 

Originally posted at: INTERVIEW: Kary Brittingham on Closet Confessions

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H.O.P.E. – Have Only Positive Expectations

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Really? Only positive expectations in a world that seems to be spinning completely out of control? Where pandemic, economic distress, and violence appear to be the order of our days?

Yes. Hope. Whether you define hope as the dictionary does, “the feeling that what is wanted can be had or that events will turn out for the best,” or as “Have Only Positive Expectations,” where hope is absolutely essential.

H.O.P.E. is the only thing that can lift our hearts and minds out of the despair that often spells an end to innovation and progress and to movement forward. Hope is precisely what we need to restore our world to health, be it physical, mental, or emotional.

Defining Hope

The advantage to defining hope as “Have Only Positive Expectations” is that it gives us a practical application of what can be an otherwise amorphous experience. It is, after all, easier to come up with a thought than it is to generate a feeling. You can come up with a positive expectation without having to feel it.

For example, I can have a positive expectation that my efforts to maintain good health during the Covid pandemic by wearing a mask, hand-washing, and maintaining social distance will be successful, even if my feeling about everything turning out for the best is up one moment and down the next.

Positive Expectations Keep Us Going

Think about it. What if Gwyn Haslock, Britain’s first competitive female surfing champion, had no positive expectations about her ability to become a surfer? Back in the 1960s, there was hardly a woman anywhere who surfed, much less surfed competitively.

But Gwyn had always loved the sea, and when she saw people “walking on water,” as surfers looked to be doing, she wanted to emulate them. She had a positive expectation that she could learn the sport, regardless of her gender, and that with enough practice, she could get good at it.

Given that Gwyn worked fulltime as a typist and could only surf on weekends, she was prepared for it to take her a while. Her positive expectation of success did not diminish.

Sure enough, four short years later, Gwyn made history and became a competitive surfer. Now, at 74, Gwyn is still riding the waves. Now retired, she can surf anytime she wants.

How does Gwyn’s example help us now? Positive expectations are the fuel of optimism, and optimism is what keeps us going during tough times. No matter how badly you may miss being with friends and family “live” and enjoying their hugs and spontaneous interaction, you can still entertain the positive expectation of an enjoyable FaceTime or Skype or Zoom get-together.

You can feel sad and disappointed at not being able to celebrate birthdays or anniversaries at your favorite restaurant, that place you always go to for special events, yet you can still have the positive expectation of creating a special virtual or at-home celebration.

Let Negative Emotions Take a Back Seat

It’s all about giving negative emotions less of your focus so that you can go forward into your day with thoughts that develop into pleasant or more pleasing events. The more you focus on what you can expect deliberately, with positive intent, the less you will let your unhappy emotions drag you down.

Eventually, our world will find its balance again, but in the meantime, let hope/H.O.P.E. be your guide.

Can you describe a hopeful thought that you’ve turned into a positive action? Is being hopeful challenging for you right now? In what ways? How have you turned a negative emotion into a positive experience? Please share with the community!

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Heather Gay’s Pink Ombre Dress

Heather Gay’s Pink Ombre Dress at Her Party

Real Housewives of Salt Lake City Season 1 Finale Fashion

I first recognized Heather Gay’s pink ombre dress in Vegas when her and Jen Shah were shopping because we’ve seen the brand on SO many Housewives lately whether it’s been this dress in various colors or prints or their bodysuits or tops. And if this style of dress is good enough for Heather, Erika Jayne, Ariana Madix (and more) in addition to being available for under $100 in many prints, you’d better believe it’s good enough for me too.

 

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair

Ariana Madix's Pink Ombre Dress

Erika Jayne Girardi's Black Mesh Confessional Look

Erika Jayne Girardi's Blue Tie Dye Dress

Heather Gay’s Tie Dye Striped Dress

Heather Gay's Pink Ombre Dress

Click Her to Shop her AFRM Shailene Dress in Other Colors

Photos: Bravo TV, @theprettymess @ariana25252

Originally posted at: Heather Gay’s Pink Ombre Dress

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