As we reach our 60th birthday, it’s natural to look back and ask where all the time has gone.

Of course, we know “logically,” exactly what we have done with our lives. For the last 6 decades, we built our careers, raised our families and supported our spouses. In our “spare time,” (don’t laugh!) we tried to keep up with our passions and read the occasional book.

For most of our lives, we didn’t need to worry about “reinventing ourselves.” We were too busy living our lives to think about how they could be different. Then, in our 60s, things start to change. As our time starts to free up a bit, the nagging question of what we want to do with our lives resurfaces.

Fortunately, we are not alone on this journey! As members of the Sixty and Me community, we have each other to turn to. We can learn from our collective failures and share in each other’s successes.

Through my conversations with the other women in our community, I have realized that there are several questions that can help you to reinvent yourself after 60. Here are a few of the most important.

What People, Places and Things Are Cluttering Up Your Life?

By the time we reach our 60s, most of us have acquired a lot of “stuff.” On a physical level, this includes all of the furniture, pictures, dishes, electronics, clothes, jewelry and makeup that clutters up our homes. On a slightly higher level, this might include friends who no longer make us happy.

The problem is that our mental world is a reflection of our physical world. When our environments are cluttered, we don’t have room for the possessions or people that could make us truly happy.

I can’t tell you how many women have told me that downsizing in retirement changed their lives. In most cases, what started as a decluttering process, focused on their physical possessions, turned into a complete reinvention of their lives. As their physical environments opened up, they were able to see their friends and acquaintances in a new light. Some of their true friends were people that they spent very little time with. Other people added very little to their lives and asked for a lot of their time.

The shift that these women went through wasn’t dramatic. They didn’t throw anyone out of their lives. They simply started to shift their time and attention towards the people that made them happy.

What Activities Do You Love to Take Part in?

As mothers and wives, we have a tendency to put our passions on the back-burner. After all, there are plenty of everyday tasks to take care of. Who has time for writing, bowling, running or hiking? I’m not saying that we abandon these activities altogether – but, we certainly don’t have as much time to enjoy them as we would like.

Are there any activities that you used to love as a child, or young adult, that you want to pick up again? What have you always wanted to try?

Take a few minutes today and write down one activity from your past that you want to bring back into your life. Then write down one more activity that you have always been curious about. You don’t have to jump in “feet first” and start buying equipment. But, you should at least take one tangible step to explore these potential passions in the next 7 days. Don’t leave this process up to chance. Find an activity (even if it’s just to watch) and mark your calendar. If not now, then when?

Is Your Lack of Physical Fitness Stopping You from Following Your Dreams?

This may seem like a strange question to include in this list. It’s not “touchy-feely.” In fact, it’s downright practical… if not boring. That said, if there is one thing that ties together all of the women in our community who have reinvented themselves it’s that they took steps to improve their health.

Getting in good shape is the only way I know to improve every aspect of your life after 60. Exercise helps to keep your brain in good shape as you get a little older. It also gives you more energy to explore your passions. Exercise also helps to improve our physical appearance and gives us the confidence we need to join groups of like-minded people.

Exercise doesn’t have to be a chore. If you enjoy exercising with others, there are so many activities that you can consider – from tennis to hiking. If you prefer to work out alone, simply setting aside a few minutes every morning to stretch can make all the difference in the world.

Where Do You Want to Be 10 or 20 Years from Now?

Most women in their 60s underestimate just how long they have to live. If you are turning 60 today, you probably have 20-30 more years on this planet. This is a LONG time. The investments that you make in your health, wealth and happiness now will have a significant impact in the future – and it all starts with having a picture in your head of where you want to be.

Take a few minutes to close your eyes and imagine where you want to be 10 years from now. Where are you living? What kind of people are in your life? What does your daily routine look like? What passions are you exploring?

Keep this picture in your mind as you plan out the next decade. There is almost nothing that you can’t achieve in this amount of time. The trick is to focus on small habits that can be repeated every day. Focusing on your dream life will help you to stay motivated along the way.

Are you in the process of reinventing yourself after 60? Which of the questions in this article can you relate to the most? Are there any other questions that you think we should ask as we reinvent ourselves? Which ones?

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“It does so by inhibiting tyrosinase, which is the enzyme that produces melanin,” he says. “Hyperpigmented conditions, whether it’s melasma or dark spots developing after an acne cyst, are marked by the over-production of melanin. But with kojic acid causing less melanin to be produced, the dark spots inevitably become lighter as any existing melanin continues to be broken down by natural processes.”

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Dr. Dennis Gross Skincare Clinical Grade IPL Dark Spot Correcting Serum

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ARCONA Brightening Drops

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PCA Skin Pigment Bar

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La Roche-Posay Mela-D Pigment Control Serum

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One Love Organics Konjac Cleansing Sponge

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Shaping our
eyebrows can be a tough beauty challenge as we grow older. Thanks to the wide
range of makeup brands today, we can work through several issues we may have
with our brows when we hit our 60s, such as hair color change and sparseness or
thinning hair.

One of our top eyebrow makeup goals is avoiding the shocked or surprised look due to improperly arched brows. Professional makeup artist Ariane Poole says that this is a common problem that can be easily corrected if we remember and apply her insights and tips.

Our Eyebrows Are More Like Sisters than Twins

Today’s eyebrow
madness has a lot to do with how self-conscious we are about how our eyebrows
are arched or how our eyebrow makeup looks.

But despite the latest
trends, we have to remember that people are more than their eyebrows. There’s
also no such thing as identical eyebrows.

Both sides of our
face are not symmetrical, so we shouldn’t expect our eyebrows to be identical
either. However, we can try and create some level of symmetry with the help of
makeup.

Mannerisms, Botox Contribute to Raised Eyebrow Effect

Women who have had
a Botox brow lift may not be able to avoid that stunned look on their faces
because the treatment naturally elevates the height of their eyebrows.

If we don’t want
people to focus on our eyebrows, what we can do is to identify and avoid our facial
mannerisms that can draw others’ attention toward them, like the way we widen
our eyes when we look up or get angry.

OK to Pluck Stray Hairs at “Pointy Peaks”

Ariane agrees with
beauty advisers who say that plucking from the top of your brow is perfectly
fine if it means taking the one or two wayward hairs, particularly in parts
where they produce a “pointy peak” in the arch of our brow.

Move the Arch’s Peak Away from the Iris

The highest point
of the arch of our eyebrows would have been directly above our iris during our
younger days. But as we grow older, we must move the peak to the outer side of
the iris, approaching the tail of the brow.

There’s an “eyelift”
effect that happens when we move the peak away from the center and etch our eyebrow
pencil or mascara toward our temple when we reach the
tail of our brow instead of etching it downward toward the outer edge of our
eye.

Relocating the peak
of our eyebrow arch and creating a “straight tail” at the end of our brow adds
youth to our face.

You can also check out past interviews
and articles from Sixty and Me for more tips on handling thinning or uneven eyebrows and coloring
gray eyebrows.

What are your personal makeup strategies for
keeping eyebrows and eyes looking fully awake and youthful? Do you have any
grooming habits that make your eyebrows look thick even if they are actually
thinning? Please share your
thoughts with the community in the comments section below!