Kristin Cavallari’s Orange Tweed Jacket in Italy

Season 3 Episode 9 Very Cavallari Fashion

I adore Kristin Cavallari’s orange tweed jacket in Italy. It reminds me of a vintage style tweed jacket that I used to see in my great grandma’s closet. I used to play dress up in her clothes and I remember I felt so powerful in the structure of the tweed material. Like I was a rich and famous actress that could’t be bothered, or a HBIC of some big firm on Wall Street. Though you don’t need to be a famous HBIC like Kristin or my 5 year old self to wear tweed. You can wear it for whatever you may be doing whether it’s in the office or out on the town. Especially in a color like this orange, it adds a nice pop.

Even though Kristin’s jacket is sold out and I can’t get my hands on it, it was a sweet reminder of my childhood and a look at Style Stealers I can put in my closet. Then who knows maybe one day my future great grandchild will find it, put it on, and aspire to be a writer for an amazing fashion website such as BBH.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Originally posted at: Kristin Cavallari’s Orange Tweed Jacket

Most people want to
age in the home they have. According to AARP, three out of four people 50-plus
want to stay in their homes and communities as they age but just 59 percent
anticipate they will be able to do so.

The key to aging in
place is making your home safe and accessible while you are still young and
healthy to tackle the job. Part of that process has to do with decluttering and
downsizing your possessions. But where do you start?

Having Stuff vs Hoarding

International OCD Foundation research shows that one in 20 people are hoarders. There is even a term for this condition – Diogenes syndrome – characterized by self-neglect, squalor, social withdrawal, apathy, compulsive hoarding of garbage or animals, plus lack of shame.

Certainly, aging and health issues contribute to this phenomenon. The Centers for Disease Control label hoarding an epidemic, and the World Health Organization has assembled an international task force to attack it. So, for most of us, we should be able to distinguish a clutter situation versus a hoarding one.

Clutter Sneaks Up on You

My good friend
Dorothy Breininger, a.k.a., “Dorothy The Organizer”, known to millions
as the fearless-yet-endearing problem solver on the Emmy-nominated TV show on
A&E, Hoarders, tells me there are three stages of clutter.

In our youth, we
establish our identity by acquiring not just things but relationships. When we
get to our age, it becomes about managing our stuff, our kids’ stuff, and our
parents’ stuff.

And, finally, if you
are wise enough to get there, you reach the sharing stage, where you share your
wisdom with others and you give back by, in part, giving away.

It’s an Emotional Process

Dorothy tells me you
cannot make your parents happy during this process, so get comfortable with
being uncomfortable. That goes the same for you if you are the one
decluttering. If you are the caregiver, set limitations for yourself in the
amount of time you will devote to this task.

And, don’t expect
praise.

The most important
skill we need is the ability to listen. Listen to mom and dad’s ideas. Take a
notebook and go from room to room to understand how they feel about the things
in those rooms. Prioritize your projects by first grouping like things with
like things.

For example, gather
up all the photo albums, the CD and DVDs, etc. Each becomes a zone or
collection. Pick the easiest zone or collection to start your organizing. For
example, memorabilia might be the hardest so save it for last.

Five-Point Value System

Dorothy uses a five-point
value system where you keep anything that is rated a four or five. So, let’s
say you have all of the china in one place and there is a dish, that one dish,
that is so sentimental, you cannot bear to give it away. That’s a five. That is
a precious dish.

Now all other dishes
have to stack up against this one (pardon the pun!). If it’s not a four or
five, it goes. It also helps to understand that part of the rating comes from
the item’s sentimental value, utility, and aesthetics.

Don’t Be Frozen, Let It Go

Now let’s talk about
an article I read about a couple that was using a technique called the Swedish
art of Death Cleaning.

According to Margareta Magnusson, author of The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning: How to Make Your Loved Ones’ Lives Easier and Your Own Life More Pleasant, this is “a permanent form of organization that makes your everyday life run more smoothly.”

Essentially, this
approach involves getting rid of your stuff as you end middle age. The
contention is that it will make you happier, less stressed, and help you deal
with your own mortality.

It provides a
reminder that things can’t last forever, and practically, it helps ease the
burden of family members who have to handle your estate later. So why wait
until then?

Karen and Fritz Mulhauser had fun with it.
Living in DC, they held a downsizing party based on the idea of death cleaning.
They sent out invitations and served food and all day long, they gave stuff
away.

Besides having a
party, you can sell things online or in a garage sale. Donate to charity. Deal
with sentimental items that you can’t keep by taking a picture of them, writing
a description, and storing it on a Cloud solution.

You can make
downsizing fun. I think of Chevy Chase in the attic in the movie Christmas
Vacation wearing a mishmash of old clothes he gathered to stay warm. Try out
old clothes, costumes, and sports memorabilia.

Get help from a
sibling, children, or from a professional. We’ve written about senior move managers in the past and you can also
find estate sale professionals that can help you before the fact!

Of course, you want
to talk to your kids about the things they would like to have as well. You may
find more and more that they want less and less of it.

Would you classify
yourself as a hoarder? Do you collect stuff or has clutter crept up on you? Are
you ready for Swedish death cleaning? What are you doing to declutter and
organize to make your life easier and safer? Please share your thoughts and
let’s have a conversation!

Although pink makeup is nothing new, this past award season we’ve seen the rosy trend blow. up. Pink eyes—not the infection—were seen on a dozen gorgeous celebrities walking the red carpet with flushed cheeks and pink lips. M.A.C.’s Petal Power Collection is basically perfect for the trend. It’s got all the rose hues we’re craving in the formulas you know and love from M.A.C. Plus, the 10-piece line is wrapped in pretty limited-edition floral packaging. It’s all inspired by spring’s cherry blossom blooms.

“This collection offers a way to find a shade of pink that works for your skin tone and personality, while also delighting with special Deco packaging,” said Romero Jennings, Director of Makeup Artistry, M.A.C. Cosmetics, in a statement. The brand promises those of all different skin tones will love the way the pink hues pop. There’s something for everyone with three lipstick shades, Plenty of Pout Plumping Lip Gloss (a returning fan-favorite formula!) in three hues, Prep + Prime Lip, Mineralize Skinfinish, a new Fix+ with a cherry blossom scent and a pink-tipped powder brush.

With my fair skin, I loved the way the Lipstick in Skew (a coral with pink duo chrome) looked with Plenty of Pout Plumping Lip Gloss in Ephemeral Nature (a coral pink) on top. I was worried the plumping action would sting as some brands’ do but this formula felt soft—not sticky—and just lightly tingled. I did feel my lips looked a bit fuller. That’s probably because of ingredients such as ginger root complex.

Image: Elizabeth Denton.

Want to get in one the pink makeup trend? Try an even trendier monochromatic look by adding some pink eyeshadow. (A pink dress is definitely optional.) Shop the entire collection, below.

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127S Split Fibre Brush

A paddle-shaped face brush.

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Lipstick in Craving

A pink-plum.

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Lipstick in See Sheer

A grapefruit pink.

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Lipstick in Skew

A coral with pink duochrome.

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Mineralize Skinfinish in Lightscapade

A beige with multidimensional shimmer.

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Plenty of Pout Plumping Lip Gloss in Ephemeral Nature

A coral pink.

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Jennifer Aydin’s Season 10 Reunion Dress

Season 10 Real Housewives of New Jersey Reunion Fashion

As some of you probably figured since we didn’t report on it along with the others weeks ago, we were unable to track down Jennifer Aydin’s RHONJ Season 10 reunion dress; which now makes complete sense considering Jennifer posted to her Insta last night that it was purchased “off the rack in a random store in LA for $129.” Just going to show that maybe she now agrees that even if you have a large bank account, it totally pays to be cheap once in a while as long as it’s not for your kid’s birthday party.

Fashionably,

Faryn

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Originally posted at: Jennifer Aydin’s Season 10 Reunion Dress

Jules Daoud’s Color Blocked Swimsuit on Summer House

Season 4 Episode 5 Summer House Fashion

Although Jules Daoud may be having a hard time fitting in with the Summer House crew (tbh we think we would too), based on the super cute color blocked swimsuit she wears on tonight’s episode we already know that she’ll definitely have no trouble fitting in with our site. We on the other hand may have trouble fitting all of her affordable fashion finds from this season in our closets.

Fashionably,

Faryn

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Photo #1 & Info: @SimplyJules___

Originally posted at: Jules Daoud’s Color Blocked Swimsuit