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Mocha Makeup Look: Pantone Color of the Year!

Mocha Makeup Look Pantone Color of the Year!

The 1960s rocked brown. Here we are in 2025 and ladies, brown is back. Like a blitzed rendition of I Can’t Get No Satisfaction while wearing bell bottom pants and a wide collared brown shirt, the proverbial color of mud rolls in as a badass color. Can you dig it, man? Not to overplay the 70s verbiage but, reader be warned, slang is slopped all over this article. Besides not getting any satisfaction, I can’t help myself taking advantage of slang. Sorry.

To add to the new brown obsession, Pantone made Mocha Mousse its color of the year – which is weird, in my opinion. Why take brown and call it Mocha Mousse as if that makes it any easier to deal with? Many of you adore brown, but personally, it’s not my favorite in wardrobe or makeup. It is such a drag to look dead, and no color does that like brown. Having said that, there are some easy tricks to look chic, not catatonic, and we are headed there with a cool head and a makeup brush.

Browns and Death: How to Look Chic not Catatonic

Many of you haven’t changed your brown eyeshadow palette in, like, 20 years, and others are terrified of brown and can’t imagine wearing it! For both sides of that far out coin, brown needs to be approached with a modicum of panache and knowledge of how color works.

Mocha Mousse palette from Pantone.

If you look at the Mocha Mousse palette from Pantone, you will see the gradient of colors that can be used in both makeup and clothing. As an aside, I want to be on the board that chooses the names of the colors. I would have had a lot more fun with them like promoting more “Chocolate Martini” type titles, but that’s just me.

Hide the Brown Spots to Wear Brown

Did you know that brown can be made by mixing equal parts of the primary colors red, green, and blue? What this means in practicality, is that there is no way to flatter brown. For example, orange enhances purple when worn together – they are what’s called complementary colors. Brown just sits there alone and complains because no one makes him (her?) look any better. You can use other colors in conjunction with brown, but nothing makes brown look less, well, brown.

How this plays out in makeup is that if you have any sun spots or brown discolorations on your skin, you have to cover them or they will look worse. There is no way to distract from brown, it’s a stick in the mud (pun intended).

To further this analogy, getting out of the mud means making your skin look more even, which is why I am using a matte finish CC cream called PrimeSkin CC+Cream specially formulated to cover brown spots and discoloration. It is a cream-to-powder that sits lightly on the skin and offers coverage without setting in fine lines or looking cakey. It’s a delicious blend of skin care (vitamin E and bioferment serum) and makeup that makes our model Starr’s skin look far out!

As an aside, the foundation does not contain SPF, which I prefer. Many of you would rather have both foundation and SPF in one product; however, when you mix the two, both are subsequently minimised, therefore I recommend applying them separately.

Contour/Bronzer Brown Debacle

A word on bronzer or contour. Because we have so many browns going on, be sure that your bronzer or contour doesn’t match the color of any age spots or discolorations. You want to head toward a warmer, skin-kissed shade in order to head off the flattening effect of the browns. We are not here to be a bummer brown wall!

Brown Eye Makeup Without Slinging Mud

The Mocha Mousse palette (as shown above) is helpful as it offers some guidance on how to layer a bland color like this without looking like you slung mud on your face. Of course, choosing the right colors is more about your skin color than anything else, so here are a few suggestions. Start with a shade either one shade darker or lighter as the base. Then carefully add the crease color, liner, outer liner, and highlight (if you want to use that many colors) each being a shade darker than the previous.

If I just overwhelmed you with detail, don’t worry, Starr and I demonstrated the technique in the video. Having said that, the same goes for wardrobe choices. I’m not going to focus on the wardrobe, but I think a suggestion or two is warranted given the whole “death” idea of the color brown.

Depending on your skin color, adding a bit of rose (like the Baltic Amber in the palette) or some green, (like Safari) can really liven things up, especially around your face. Maybe try a scarf with multiple shades of cream and bronze to bring attention to your face, especially if you have brown hair, skin, and top (also known as brown overload).

With Starr, I used Nebula on her lid, and then layered her eye shadow starting in the outer crease and blended it for a graduated look. After that, I used a water resistant Mocha eyeliner pencil that blends easily and doesn’t smudge on mature eyes (my favorite). I finished with a wonderful dark brown mascara that lengthens and thickens, while simultaneously bringing out her blue eyes. The outcome is a chic, smokey, and slightly dramatic look.

The Trouble with Brown Lipstick on Older Women

Brown lipstick can look, well, muddy. My recommendation here is to go with a warm (peachy) or cool (pinky) brown lipstick in order to avoid it looking dated. Depending on your skin color, go one to two shades darker or lighter, with a slightly darker lip liner pencil, but not too dark or risk looking funky in a bad way.

A note about the Mocha Mousse palette: the palette leans toward a rose tint as opposed to a peachy tint. Having said that, on Starr, the peach works better so that’s where I went. If you prefer roses, then that’s just marvy. On the boob-tube you will see all variations of this so do what works best for your coloring. In the world of makeup, there are no hard and fast rules, just cherry picking what floats your boat!

Also read, Martha’s New Look: Brown Smokey Eye Makeup Tutorial (for Beginners).

Basic Brown as Your Bag:

Is brown your bag? To quote again from the Rolling Stones, is it a “gas, gas, gas”? Okay, maybe I overdid the slang, but if you dig it then give me some skin! How does using more brown sound to you? Does it feel fun and playful or like someone slung mud on your face? Whatever you do, have a blast and enjoy playing with how beautiful you are. Groovy😊 Please join the conversation!

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The Magic of Shine in Our 60s, or How Comparing Ourselves to Others Can Actually Ruin Our Lives

How-Comparing-Ourselves-to-Others-Can-Actually-Ruin-Our-Lives

Over a decade ago, in 2011, I saw Rita Moreno in her one-woman theatre piece, Rita Moreno: Life without Makeup. She was spectacular – singing, and dancing. She was in her early 80s.

Now she is 93 and still taking various roles, both in TV series and cinema productions. In 2011, it did not cross my mind to compare myself with her, but now at 72, I cannot help but feel a twinge of jealousy.

Comparisons Make Us and Break Us

When we were teens, comparison was about who was the most popular or who had a cuter boyfriend. As young parents, we bragged about how early our babies walked or talked. Then it was our careers, or the size of our house, and then what our children were doing with their lives.

It is so easy to compare ourselves to others, so it is natural to compare how we age. We worry about how young we look, and God forbid someone asks us if our husband or sister is one of our children.

We might laugh about it, but these comparisons are damaging. They become an excuse to feel bad about ourselves and become resentful, thinking that others have it so much better.

We Will Always Be Different

There is really no point in comparing ourselves to anyone else. I’ve heard that called “comparing our insides to other people’s outsides.”

Over a lifetime, I believe that everyone has had to face at least one big challenge, whether it is cancer, divorce, problems with our adult children, or a bad turn in our career.

As we well know, in the long-run, who was more popular, which baby walked first, or even career accomplishments shrink from a huge thing into a thing of the past.

For some, our life challenges turn up in wrinkles or grey hair, for others, they are buried deep inside. When you compare yourself with the ‘outside’ of another person, you don’t really know the half of what they have gone through.

Forget Competition, Embrace Shine

My friend Jennifer Abrams directed me onto a way of thinking that turns competition on its head. It’s called the #ShineTheory. The idea that “I don’t shine if you don’t shine” was conceived by Ann Friedman (journalist) and Aminatou Sow (media strategist), cohosts of the podcast “Call Your Girlfriend.” They did a lot of shows before they closed in 2022.

They invented the #ShineTheory to put the brakes on the tendency for women to be competitive. Their idea is for us to celebrate each other’s successes and good fortune, opposed to feeling the twinges of jealousy that can fester into actual resentment.

Take Competition Out of Aging

The #ShineTheory is also a great way to approach aging. The other day, I noticed that I need to be much more careful when I get up from sitting or get out of the car. As I stand up, I cannot leap into action, but must take a moment to get my body moving, even though I go faithfully to the gym.

I can’t remember my mother getting up like that when she was in her 60s. Aging happens differently to all of us. No point in comparing ourselves to others.

Our attitude is very important, but our bodies truly are changing. And for each of us, it happens a bit differently. For some, it is arthritis in the joints, for others, our hearing is going, and for some, night vision weakens, making driving at night no longer an option.

Part of a positive attitude is accepting our limitations. By applying the #ShineTheory I can be happy that my sister and her husband annually ride a bicycle from San Francisco to Los Angeles.

I can also be happy for my sister-in-law who, in spite of a myriad of health problems, can be found posting her salsa dancing videos on Facebook.

And of course, what’s not to like about Rita Moreno paving the way for new attitudes about aging and beauty? So, Sixty and Me friends, let’s let go of comparisons and shine!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Who do you compare yourself to most often? What feeling does that bring into your heart? Do you think you can switch your attitude from comparison to something more productive? Please share your stories and thoughts below!

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❤️16 Valentine’s Day Gifts for the Older Man❤️

16 Valentine's Day Gifts for the Older Man

Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to show appreciation for the special older man in your life. Does he enjoy practical gifts or indulgent treats? Does he prefer experiences to remember or maybe even something to share with you? There’s something for every personality. 

Here are some thoughtful ideas tailored to older men this coming Valentine’s Day.

  1. Luxury Shaving Kit – Many kits come with a classic, vintage-inspired aesthetic that will appeal to men who appreciate timeless style.
  2. Smartwatch with Health Features – A smartwatch can help him stay connected and monitor his health. 
  3. Gourmet Whiskey or Wine Set – If he’s a connoisseur of fine drinks, consider a bottle of premium whiskey or wine.
  4. Weekend Getaway – Plan a weekend trip to a nearby destination he’s always wanted to visit.
  5. Experience a Cooking Class Together – Sign up for a cooking class that focuses on a cuisine he loves. 

Continue reading to discover many more Valentine’s Day gifts for older men. There’s sure to be something for your special man!

Valentine’s Gifts for the Mature Man in Your Life

Luxury Shaving Kit

Sandalwood Full Size Kit from The Art of Shaving New York

Sandalwood Full Size Kit from The Art of Shaving New York

Upgrade his grooming routine with a luxury shaving kit. Look for sets with high-quality razors, a shaving brush, and nourishing shaving cream. Many kits come with a classic, vintage-inspired aesthetic that will appeal to men who appreciate timeless style.

Smartwatch with Health Features

Apple Watch Ultra 2 from Apple

Apple Watch Ultra 2 from Apple

A smartwatch can help him stay connected and monitor his health. Many models now offer features like heart rate monitoring, step tracking, and even fall detection. Opt for one with a classic design to blend technology with elegance.

Personalized Leather Wallet

Personalize the Derrick Sliding 2-in-1 from Fossil

Personalize the Derrick Sliding 2-in-1 from Fossil

A high-quality leather wallet with his initials embossed adds a personal touch to an everyday essential. Choose a slim and functional design that accommodates his cards, ID, and cash.

Gourmet Whiskey or Wine Set

The Gentlemans Whisky Taster Pack from The Gourmet Basket

The Gentlemans Whisky Taster Pack from The Gourmet Basket

If he’s a connoisseur of fine drinks, consider a bottle of premium whiskey or wine. Pair it with accessories like a decanter, personalized glasses, or whiskey stones for an extra-special gift.

Comfortable House Slippers

RockDove Men's Original Two-Tone Memory Foam Slipper on Amazon

RockDove Men’s Original Two-Tone Memory Foam Slipper on Amazon

Upgrade his at-home comfort with a pair of high-quality house slippers. Look for options made from materials like shearling or memory foam for ultimate coziness.

Weekend Getaway

Plan a weekend trip to a nearby destination he’s always wanted to visit. Whether it’s a serene cabin in the woods or a cozy bed-and-breakfast, this experience-based gift offers memories to cherish.

Customized Photo Book

Through the Years Photo Book on Shutterfly

Through the Years Photo Book on Shutterfly

Compile cherished memories into a professionally printed photo book. Include pictures of family, friends, and meaningful moments to create a sentimental keepsake.

High-Quality Coffee Maker

9-Cup Coffee Maker from OXO

9-Cup Coffee Maker from OXO

For the coffee enthusiast, a premium coffee maker or espresso machine can elevate his morning routine. Include a bag of gourmet coffee beans or pods to complete the gift.

Read The Best 12 Gifts for Coffee Lovers.

Membership to a Craft Beer Club

The Original Craft Beer website

The Original Craft Beer website

The Craft Beer Club is a subscription service delivering carefully curated craft beers from independent breweries across the United States. Each monthly shipment includes 12 beers along with a newsletter featuring brewery profiles, tasting notes, and food pairing ideas.

Massage Gun

Theragun Prime from Therabody

Theragun Prime from Therabody

Help him ease sore muscles with a handheld massage gun. These devices are excellent for relaxing tense muscles and promoting recovery after physical activities.

Classic Timepiece

1940s Tudor 9ct Gold Small Seconds Mechanical Watch 

1940s Tudor 9ct Gold Small Seconds Mechanical Watch 

A classic wristwatch is a timeless gift that adds sophistication to any outfit. Go for a design that reflects his style, whether it’s sleek and modern or vintage-inspired.

Personalized Vinyl Record or Turntable

Automatic Wireless Belt-Drive Turntable and Speaker BundleAT-LP70XBT-BDL3X from Audio-Technica

Automatic Wireless Belt-Drive Turntable and Speaker BundleAT-LP70XBT-BDL3X from Audio-Technica

If he’s a music enthusiast, gift him a turntable and a personalized vinyl record featuring his favorite songs or artists. This nostalgic yet functional gift can bring back fond memories while creating new ones.

Experience a Cooking Class Together

Online Cooking Classes at Sur la Table

Online Cooking Classes at Sur la Table

Sign up for a cooking class that focuses on a cuisine he loves. Not only does this gift offer a chance to learn new skills, but it also provides quality time spent together creating delicious meals.

Custom Puzzle from a Favorite Photo

Personalized Jigsaw Puzzle from Jigsaw2order

Personalized Jigsaw Puzzle from Jigsaw2order

Turn a cherished photo into a custom jigsaw puzzle. Whether it’s a family portrait, a scenic vacation spot, or a meaningful moment, this interactive gift can be both fun and sentimental.

Refillable Hand Warmer

Zippo 12-Hour Refillable Hand Warmer on Amazon

Zippo 12-Hour Refillable Hand Warmer on Amazon

Keep him warm on cold days with a refillable hand warmer. Sleek and easy to carry, this practical gift is ideal for outdoor activities, from walking to fishing. Its refillable design ensures it can be used repeatedly, making it a sustainable and thoughtful choice.

Outdoor Fire Pit or Patio Heater

Master Forge Rancher 47.24-in W Black Steel Wood-Burning Fire Pit at Lowe’s

Master Forge Rancher 47.24-in W Black Steel Wood-Burning Fire Pit at Lowe’s

Enhance his outdoor living space with a compact fire pit or a patio heater. Perfect for chilly evenings, this gift encourages relaxation and can make gatherings even more enjoyable.

Valentine’s Day gifts for older men don’t have to be complicated. With these thoughtful and tailored ideas, you’re sure to make him feel appreciated and loved. The key is showing you care!

Read 11 Thoughtful 30th Wedding Anniversary Gifts.

Also, read 10 Gifts for Grandad for National Grandparents Day.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you have an older Valentine to get a gift for? What do you think your valentine would like to receive? Do you have any Valentine’s Day gift ideas for an older man? Share your ideas and tell us about it in the comments section below. 

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