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I collect magazines. It doesn’t matter how old or out of date they are, as long as they have pictures, they work for me. Friends know about my penchant and pass on their publications when they’ve finished with them. I’ve amassed a stunning variety, and they just keep coming. 

Bear with Me, There’s a Method to My Madness

In one of the self-help books I devoured during my tormented 50s, I came across the idea of a vision board as a tool to help sort through troubling emotions, hard decisions, or the confusion of too many options. I was instantly intrigued. The process was broken down into easy-to-follow steps and I began to hunt and drag home every stray magazine I could find. 

Over the years, vision boards have become an important part of my life. Just the other day, I was feeling stuck. I paced, took a walk, journaled, and meditated, but couldn’t shake the antsy, unsettledness in my mind. Then it dawned on me: a vision board. Why hadn’t I thought of it sooner?

But even though I love the process, this time it was like swimming against the tide. I shuffled through multiple issues of Midwest Living, Magnolia, Astronomy, The Smithsonian, Scientific American, and National Geographic, uninspired.

Winds of Change…

And then… Oh! Wait! Those words – Winds of Change. They were superimposed on the image of a fierce-looking eagle. Yes! And then, more words: Are We There Yet? And so it went until I had a measly stack of eight images – only eight – and I immediately discarded one. Despite limited fodder, the board came together. 

What appeared to be totally random at first, turned into a revealing story. Now, several days later, it continues to offer clues to what is lurking in my psyche. I love to look at it and be amazed at how magically such a simple process can bring subconscious mysteries to light. Sometimes, we have to turn our thinking brain off to get to the truth of what’s really going on. 

Vision boards can be done with like-minded friends. About six months ago, my sister and I spent an afternoon together, each in our own world. For hours, we barely spoke. The only sounds were an occasional, Hmmm, and the rasp of ripping paper. What vastly different outcomes we had, but when we’d finished, hers was perfectly her, and mine was decidedly me. 

Follow the Steps Below…

I encourage you, if you’re in a slump, can’t make an important decision, or feel adrift, follow the steps below and discover what your gut is trying to tell you.

1. Find a quiet place, a large table, or the floor, and stack the magazines in front of you.
2. Focus on your question or the issue you want to resolve, but empty your mind of all possible solutions.
3. Page slowly through one magazine after another, tearing out any images, groups of words, or colors that grab you, and stack them to one side (sometimes I end up with 50 – sometimes many less).
4. Take a brief break, grab a drink of water, then go back through your tear-out pile discarding the ones that no longer attract you.
5. Lay the keepers in front of you and begin to organize them. A pattern or theme usually begins to emerge.
6. Do they call for smooth edges or ragged ones? Do they want to butt against each other or float with space between? What does the energy ask for? Allow your creativity full freedom. 
7. When you are satisfied with the placement, find a backing material (cardboard, foam core, heavy paper). Size it to accommodate your cuttings. Transfer and glue your images to the backing and… voila! 

You’ve created your vision board. It may turn out so beautifully that you’ll frame it.

In my experience, revelations come over time. As I gaze and ponder, layer upon layer of information bubbles up and I wonder why I didn’t see it all in the first place.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How do you resolve issues that make you feel stuck? Do you journal, meditate – or something else? What do you think about this vision board approach to getting unstuck?

Friendship is a cornerstone of the human connection, offering companionship, support, and shared experiences that enrich our lives. The friendship bonds between women stand out as resilient and profound. From childhood playmates to lifelong soulmates, the friendships forged among women often serve as sources of strength through life’s challenges and celebrations.

The Power of Female Friendships

Women’s friendships are a unique blend of empathy, understanding, and shared experiences. These connections often transcend mere companionship, evolving into deep bonds built on trust, compassion, and mutual respect. Research suggests that women tend to prioritize emotional intimacy in their friendships, fostering an environment where vulnerability is embraced, and support is freely given.

From Childhood Companions to Lifelong Allies

Many women form their earliest friendships in childhood, bonding over shared interests, experiences, and playground adventures. These childhood friendships lay the foundation for future connections, shaping how women navigate relationships throughout their lives. Childhood friends serve as witnesses to each other’s growth, offering a sense of continuity and familiarity that spans decades.

As women transition into adolescence and adulthood, their friendships continue to evolve, adapting to the changing landscapes of their lives. College roommates become confidantes, colleagues become allies, and mothers form tight-knit circles of support. Through each stage of life, women find solace, laughter, and understanding in the company of their closest friends.

Navigating Life’s Challenges Together

The strength of women’s friendships is most evident in times of adversity. Whether facing heartbreak, loss, or uncertainty, women often turn to their friends for comfort and guidance. The empathetic listening ear of a trusted friend can provide solace in moments of pain, while the shared laughter of companionship can lighten even the heaviest burdens.

Moreover, women’s friendships offer a unique form of support beyond mere emotional comfort. From offering practical assistance during times of need to serving as sounding boards for important decisions, friends play a vital role in helping women navigate life’s challenges with grace and resilience.

My Relationship with Kat: Kindred Spirits and Nonjudgemental Support

Kat and I share a bond that transcends mere friendship; it feels as though we must have been sisters in another life. Our connection runs deep, grounded in a shared outlook on life that resonates at a soul level. From the moment we met, it was as if we had known each other for lifetimes.

One of the most remarkable aspects of our friendship is the sacred space we’ve created – a no-judgment zone where nothing is off-limits, and judgment is suspended. In this space, we can be our most authentic selves, expressing our fears, dreams, and vulnerabilities without fear of condemnation. It’s a rare gift to find someone with whom you can share your deepest truths, knowing that they will be met with understanding and compassion.

While we offer each other advice and support, it never comes from a place of judgment. Instead, it’s rooted in a foundation of tough love – a desire to see each other thrive and grow, even if it means facing uncomfortable truths or making difficult decisions. We stand by each other’s side through thick and thin, knowing that our bond is unbreakable and our love unconditional.

My Relationship with Erin: Surprising Connections and Mutual Guidance

On the surface, Erin and I may seem an unlikely pair – she’s young enough to be my daughter. Yet, age is but a number when it comes to the depth of our connection. Despite the differences in our life experiences, we share a profound bond that defies generational boundaries.

What sets our friendship apart is the mutual guidance and support we offer each other, which you might not expect in a relationship outside of the same age dynamic. While I may have more years of life experience under my belt, Erin possesses wisdom and insight beyond her years. She challenges me to see the world through fresh eyes, offering perspectives that enrich my understanding of life and its complexities.

In turn, I provide guidance and support to Erin, drawing from my own experiences and lessons learned. Our friendship is a beautiful exchange of knowledge, empathy, and encouragement – a reminder that true connection knows no age limit.

Knowing When to Let Go

Despite the enduring strength of many friendships, there are times when it becomes necessary to let go. As the saying goes, “Only a few friends go with us for a lifetime. Some just come for a reason and a season.” While it can be difficult to recognize when a friendship has run its course, it’s important to prioritize our well-being and growth.

Sometimes, friendships may no longer align with our values, goals, or priorities, or they may become toxic or one-sided. In such cases, it’s crucial to recognize when it’s time to part ways with grace and gratitude for the time shared. Letting go of a friendship doesn’t diminish its significance; rather, it allows space for new connections and for personal growth to occur.

Friendship in Later Years: Evolving Through Retirement, Loss, and Change

As women enter their 60s and beyond, their friendships change in response to the unique challenges and opportunities of later life. Retirement may bring newfound freedom and leisure time, allowing women to reconnect with old friends and pursue shared interests and hobbies. Yet, it may also bring a sense of loss or uncertainty as familiar routines and identities shift.

The loss of a spouse or partner can be particularly difficult, highlighting the importance of friendship in providing comfort and companionship during times of grief. Women often turn to their friends for emotional support, finding solace in shared memories and the understanding that comes from experiencing similar life transitions.

Moreover, changes in location and living circumstances can further impact the dynamics of women’s friendships in later years. Whether relocating to be closer to family or downsizing to a smaller home, women may find themselves navigating new social networks and making connections with neighbors, community members, and fellow retirees.

Celebrating Life’s Joys Together

Amid the changes and challenges of later life, the joys of friendship remain a constant source of comfort and support. Whether reminiscing, exploring new adventures, or simply enjoying each other’s company, women continue to find solace, laughter, and understanding in the company of their closest friends.

The bonds of female friendships are a testament to the resilience, strength, and enduring power of being a woman. From childhood playmates to lifelong confidantes, these connections enrich our lives in profound and meaningful ways through every stage of life’s journey.

As we celebrate the power of women’s friendships, let us cherish the moments of laughter, the tears of shared sorrow, and the countless memories that bind us together. In each other’s company, we find solace, understanding, and the unwavering support of allies who walk by our side through life’s journey.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How many good friends do you have? How long have you been friends? Where did you meet? Do you have different friendships with different women? How about younger or older friends?

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Amanda Batula is back and she’s ready to confess that her and husband Kyle Cooke are going through a bit of a rough patch. And I, for one, cannot imagine living with cameras filming me during a rough patch in my marriage. But what I can imagine is buying Amanda’s confessional corset top to make me feel better until the patch has passed and the banana leaves the bed.

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