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Marlo Hampton’s Snake Print Dress in Alabama

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I have a house by the river and so I am seeing snakes everywhere unfortunately, and I hate it. But when it comes to fashion and seeing snakes on my screen I don’t mind one bit. Especially when it’s something as cute as Marlo Hampton’s strapless snake print dress. One that is so cute that we’d be fortunate to have one just like it hanging around our house.

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Jess

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Marlo Hampton’s Burgundy Lace Confessional Dress

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Is it just me or are they churning out the confessional looks on RHOA? I feel like every other one there’s a new look and it’s only episode 4! But I’m not complaining because one of those looks was Marlo Hampton in a burgundy lace dress. It’s kinda giving sexy vampire and I’m very here for it. Especially because Marlo is known to sink her teeth into Kenya Moore certain people from time to time. But either way this dress is fab and if you didn’t shop a Style Stealer of it below, welp that would totally suck.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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As a dating coach with experience of over 25 years, I have heard and seen quite a bit.

When Carol, 67, an architect in Texas, came to me last month, she asked me why she hadn’t yet met The One yet, despite being online for a year.

• Issue #1: Each man she had met in the last 6 months, she thought was The One – after the first date!
• Issue #2: She so much wanted to find love, she told me she was falling in love after each first date.

Carol is a positive, smart lady – and I could go on and on with more she shared about her first dates, but falling in love after or during the first date? Uh-Uh. No way. That’s Hallmark movie stuff. Or desperation. Or many more adjectives.

So, let’s just jump in and talk about the mistakes women make when dating online:

Looking for a Perfect Partner

Often, when I am online working with a client, and we’re looking together at potential online dates, they find something wrong with every single man. He’s an inch too short, he rides horses, his hair is receding, she doesn’t like photo #5 he posted…

My solution? Rarely do you look at someone online (come on, it’s a photo and a written dating profile) and say, “Wow, there’s a 95% chance I’m going to (like) love him.” No, it’s the ones you are on the fence with – the 50/50’s – that sometimes turn into great first dates!

Talking About Medical Issues

Yes, people do that, but still can’t comprehend the why of it. Unless you are showing up with an arm cast from a pickleball incident, there’s absolutely no reason to talk about your health past. Remember, this is to be fun date, not a medical consult.

Pretend Interest in Things You Have Zero Interest in

Lauren, 59, went on a date last week with Jerry, whom she liked. He had just gotten back from a golf trip to Scotland and was super excited talking about it. She told him she loved golf and was thinking of taking lessons. He texted for a second date – and she texted me in a tizzy: “Andrea, how am I getting out of this golf thing? I hate golf.”

Trying to Change Him

Do you want him to change you? Like my daughter’s first grade teacher said about lunch, “You git what you git and you don’t throw a fit.” If you really like him, why would you want to change him? Carmen told me she wished he was more outgoing. You can’t do a darn thing about that. I always say the only thing you can change is some of their clothing!

Trusting Too Fast

Trust takes time. You don’t even know him yet, and we try to put our best foot forward on the first date. Trust is not about words, but actions. Does he call when he says he’ll call? He mentions planning something for July 4 weekend. Does he come through? Those are actions that inspire trust.

Too Many Drinks

Trina gets nervous on first dates. So, she pre-games with a cocktail. On her last date, she had three glasses of wine. You don’t want to be sloppy, so come up with a better way to deal with nerves on a first date. I think my idea is better – just go on lots of first dates and your confidence level will skyrocket.

Inviting Him Over Too Soon

Most likely, a second date is too soon to invite a man over to your house. That is, unless that date is a party at your home. A second date invitation, cooking him dinner is too much, too soon 99% of the time.

Not Being Positive

Your attitude on a first date should aim to charm, so be positive. This means no bashing an ex, bashing the dating site you are on, complaining about the weather or anything similar. Negativity is a major turn-off.

Bonus Tip: Be gracious! Thank you is a big turn-on.

Happy Dating!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you get nervous before a first date? How do you deal with your nerves? How many dates would you go on before inviting a man to your home for dinner? Have you ever successfully “changed” a man? Do you think mood matters on a first date?