Month: December 2024

Winter 2025 is all about merging style with functionality. As temperatures drop, your outerwear becomes the centerpiece of your wardrobe, and this year’s trends ensure you’ll stay cozy without compromising on fashion. 

From oversized silhouettes to bold textures, here are the top winter coat trends for 2025 to keep you warm and stylish.

1. Oversized Puffer Coats – KARL LAGERFELD PARIS Shine Hooded Belted Puffer Coat at Macy’s
2. Eco-Friendly Wool Wraps – The Warmest Wool Wrap Coat at Summersault, made from 80% Recycled Wool and 20% Recycled Polyamide.
3. Shearling-Lined Coats – BCBGMAXAZRIA Single-Breasted Faux-Shearling Coat at Macy’s

Continue reading to find more 2025 winter coat trends for women over 50.

2025 Winter Coat Trends

Oversized Puffer Coats

The oversized puffer is back and bigger than ever – literally. Designers are playing with exaggerated proportions, creating coats that are not only warm but also dramatic statement pieces. Look for neutral tones like beige and taupe or metallic finishes for a modern touch. For an even bolder look, some brands are experimenting with asymmetrical cuts and unique quilting patterns.

Perfect for: Braving snowy days while turning heads on the street.

KARL LAGERFELD PARIS Shine Hooded Belted Puffer Coat at Macy’s

Eco-Friendly Wool Wraps

Sustainability continues to lead the fashion conversation, and wool wrap coats made from recycled materials are a top pick this year. These coats feature soft, flowing lines and are often belted at the waist, creating a flattering silhouette. Designers are also incorporating plant-based dyes and innovative weaving techniques to minimize environmental impact.

Perfect for: Minimalist dressers who want an eco-conscious choice.

The Warmest Wool Wrap Coat at Summersault made from 80% Recycled Wool and 20% Recycled Polyamide.

Shearling-Lined Coats

Shearling is synonymous with warmth, and in 2025, designers are incorporating it into everything from leather trenches to aviator jackets. Look for contrasting shearling trims in bold colors like deep green or cobalt for a fresh twist. For a more understated option, neutral tones like cream and caramel remain timeless.

Perfect for: Adding a touch of luxury to casual winter outfits.

BCBGMAXAZRIA Single-Breasted Faux-Shearling Coat at Macy’s

Cropped Quilted Jackets

For milder winter days, cropped quilted jackets offer a lighter yet fashionable option. They’re versatile enough to layer over chunky knits or under longer coats for extra warmth. This year, expect to see bold geometric stitching patterns and experimental materials like water-resistant nylon blends.

Perfect for: Transitional weather or city dwellers on the go.

Tweed Trim Faux Nylon Jacket from Chico’s

REBECCA MINKOFF Fitted Quilted Jacket With Snaps at TJ Maxx

Faux Fur Coats in Bright Hues

This year, faux fur gets a vibrant update with shades like magenta, tangerine, and electric blue dominating the runway. These coats bring a playful energy to dreary winter days and can instantly boost an otherwise simple outfit. For added flair, some designs feature mixed textures or patchwork-style patterns.

Perfect for: Making a bold statement at winter events.

Purple Fluffy Faux Fur Long Coat on Amazon

Longline Down Coats

Longline down coats are both practical and chic, offering maximum coverage against the cold. Popular features include sleek quilting patterns and hidden zippers for a minimalist aesthetic. Many designs now include smart insulation technologies, such as heat-reflective linings and lightweight, compressible downfills.

Perfect for: Outdoor enthusiasts who refuse to sacrifice style for warmth.

Soft Quilted Down Snap Front Coat Lauren Ralph Lauren at Nordstrom

Plaid and Checkered Classics

Plaid is timeless, and this season it returns in oversized patterns and unconventional colorways. Whether in bold red tartan or soft pastel checks, these coats add a nostalgic yet contemporary flair. Layer them over monochromatic outfits to let the pattern stand out, or mix prints for a daring, modern look.

Perfect for: Those who love vintage-inspired looks with a modern twist.

Plaid Double-Breasted Coat at Ann Taylor

T TAHARI Plus Size Pocket Sweater Coat at TJ Maxx

How to Choose the Right Coat

When shopping for a winter coat, consider these factors:

• Climate: Ensure the coat’s warmth level matches your local weather conditions. For extremely cold climates, prioritize insulated or shearling-lined options.
• Lifestyle: Opt for versatile styles that fit your daily activities, from errands to office commutes. If you’re frequently on the move, lightweight yet warm options like cropped quilted jackets are ideal.
• Material: Look for quality fabrics that can withstand wear and tear, such as wool, down, or high-quality faux fur. Waterproof or weather-resistant finishes are a bonus for snowy or rainy conditions.
• Color and Style: While neutrals are versatile, don’t shy away from experimenting with bold hues or patterns that align with your personality.

Where to Shop

Here are some accessible and budget-friendly options for finding the perfect winter coat:

• Macy’s – Offers a wide range of classic and trendy styles with frequent sales.
• Kohl’s – Great for affordable, everyday options that balance quality and style.
• JCPenney – Features a variety of winter coats at budget-friendly prices.
• Target – Perfect for on-trend picks that won’t break the bank.
• Amazon – Provides a vast selection of options for all styles and budgets, with the convenience of online shopping.
• Lands’ End – Known for durable and warm outerwear, ideal for colder climates.
• TJ Maxx and Marshalls – Excellent for finding designer coats at discounted prices.

Read Warm and Stylish – 12 Winter Scarves and Gloves for Women Over 50.

Also, read 17 Winter Hats for Older Ladies.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Will you be shopping for a new winter coat? Which trend do you like? Do you always stick to neutrals, or do you like to play with colors when purchasing a winter coat? Tell us about it in the comments section below. 

You can always count on this to bring them together.

Starting off the new year is a perfect opportunity to reflect on what you want from life and love. If you’re lonely or frustrated about dating, because you can’t seem to ‘put yourself out there’ and you’re ready to invite someone new into your life, you can’t keep doing what you’re doing now and expect different results. You have to try something new and different.

Here are some practical tips to help you up-level your dating style to help you take a fresh approach to your dating journey and improve your chances of finding love.

1. Embrace Your True Self

One of the greatest advantages of dating later in life is the clarity you gain about who you are. By this time, you’ve learned a lot about your desires, boundaries, and the qualities you value in a partner. Instead of trying to fit into someone else’s expectations, embrace your true self.

Whether you’re looking for a casual companion or a lifelong partner, being authentic is crucial. Let go of any insecurities or pressures about “doing it right” and focus on being genuine. The right person will appreciate you for who you truly are.

2. Expand Your Social Circles

To meet new people, it’s important to step outside of your usual social circles. While traditional avenues like clubs or bars may not be the best places to meet someone at this stage of life, there are plenty of other opportunities. Consider joining groups that align with your interests, such as book clubs, hiking groups, or art classes.

You can also explore online dating platforms designed specifically for people over 50. Sites like Match, OurTime, or eHarmony are known for helping mature singles find meaningful relationships. If you’re not sure where to start, try volunteering or attending local events in your community. These places offer natural ways to meet people while participating in activities you enjoy.

3. Be Open to Online Dating

Online dating is no longer just for younger generations. Many people over 60 are finding success online, and it can be an excellent way to meet high quality men. The key is to approach it with an open mind. Take the time to write a thoughtful profile that reflects who you are and what you’re looking for. Avoid the temptation to be vague. A detailed and honest profile will attract people who are looking for a similar type of relationship. Don’t rush the process – let connections develop naturally.

Remember, safety is important: If you can’t meet an online match in person within five to seven days (regardless of the reason), you are most probably communicating with a scammer. Always focus on his actions rather than his words/text and meet in a public place for the few couple of dates.

4. Focus on True Compatibility

As you date, keep in mind that chemistry is fun and sizzling, but emotional intimacy is what creates strong heart-to-heart connections. Even though physical attraction is important, we’re all more than the package we come in. When you focus on the person rather than the packaging, you create opportunities to build emotional connections that are the foundation of a lasting relationship.

Look for someone who shares your values, interests, and outlook on life. Pay attention to how someone makes you feel. Are they supportive, kind, and understanding? Emotional intimacy lays the groundwork for a deeper, more meaningful connection.

5. Communicate Clearly and Honestly

Honest communication is essential at any stage in life, but especially now. If you’re entering the dating scene after a long marriage or a period of being single, it’s important to be upfront about your intentions.

Whether you’re looking for a meaningful relationship, companionship, or a casual fling, make sure both you and your potential partner are on the same page. Clear communication about your needs and boundaries will set the foundation for a healthy and respectful relationship. Remember, it’s okay to express what you want and need.

6. Be Reasonable

Are your expectations realistic? Recently, I read an article from a dating coach who mentioned how she no longer works with women over 50 because the man they are looking for doesn’t exist. Was she talking about you?

While it’s important to have standards, being too inflexible can limit your dating opportunities. The person you end up with may not check every box on your list, but they may offer qualities that are more important overall, such as emotional intelligence, kindness, and compatibility. Be open to dating people who may not meet all your criteria, but who show potential for a meaningful connection.

7. Give Yourself Time

While it can be tempting to rush into a relationship, especially if you’re feeling lonely, it’s important to take your time and let connections develop organically. Whether it’s your first date or your 50th, take the time to learn about the person and evaluate if you share a true connection. If you haven’t dated in a while, it’s important to give yourself time to understand the new emotions that you’re feeling. Even positive emotions can be scary if you’re unfamiliar with how they feel in your heart and mind.

I’ve seen women end budding relationships because they made a snap decision about someone and then, when they had time to reflect, were regretful that they didn’t give things more time. Feeling an instant connection isn’t the only way to find love.

8. Have Fun with the Process

Above all, dating should be fun. The goal isn’t just to find love, but also to embrace new experiences, meet interesting people, and enjoy the journey. Approach dating with a sense of adventure and a playful attitude. You’ve already spent decades learning who you are, so now is the time to embrace the excitement of discovering new possibilities. Whether you’re enjoying dinner with a potential partner or striking up a conversation with a new friend, keep things light-hearted, open, and fun.

Dating is an exciting opportunity to find a fulfilling relationship, and you can do so with an open heart, confidence, and inner awareness. As you enter the new year, focus on enjoying the process, prioritizing emotional connection, and finding a man who makes you feel loved and supported. Love knows no age, and with the right mindset, you can find companionship that enhances your life and brings joy in the year ahead.

If you’re struggling to know how to begin your dating journey so you can start attracting and dating the type of men you could write your next chapter with, watch my free masterclass, How to Find Love without Losing Yourself. You’ll learn the three dating mistakes all women make and how to avoid them, plus the four key ingredients you need to create your very own unique recipe of romance.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Knowing yourself, what is the one thing you can do differently next year to create a more open dating style so you can find love?

You can always count on this to bring them together.

The
reality of stepping out there after a long hiatus – whether you’re divorced or widowed – is anxiety-producing.
But what I’ve learned about myself and about men couldn’t have been experienced
otherwise.

Who
knows what you’ll glean from an hour or two (or 45 minutes, in a few cases)
over coffee, a glass of wine or dinner?

And
this is a good thing. Healthy, and perhaps even a tad heartwarming.

And
fun, too.

All
my encounters with men, whether male friends or dates, have been enlightening.
So, here are some of the things I’ve learned, in no particular order.

Regardless of Experience, Rejection Smarts

“It’s still painful, getting rejected,” a friend of mine, who’s dated widely and works the room (as I call it), said. “Especially if you think you’ve read all the signals. You never get used to being rejected.”

What’s he really saying between the lines? I wondered. “Are you saying flirting is almost like leading a man on?” I asked.        

“Not
exactly.” He hesitated and then elaborated. “When a woman flirts, I think she’s
interested, and I’ll ask her out. I’m a man, it’s what I do,” he said with a
hurt look.

I
couldn’t really blame him for trying.

Women Are Not Tuned in to Rejection

“Women
don’t really know what it’s like to be rejected all the time,” my friend said.
“How many times have you risked rejection by asking a man on a date?”

With a start, I realized I could count on one hand the times I’d asked a man out. Two or three over a lifetime? Men put themselves on the line far more often than women do. And, men too, are riddled with doubt, whether they’re looking for companionship or their special person.

Practical Lessons

I’ve learned a
few practical things from men. I know how to check the pressure in my tires, the
value of really good paint and how to choose and apply it. Hint: Never shake
the can, which creates bubbles.

I know how to
pull baseboard off the wall without damaging it. I’ve learned some sexy rhumba
moves and two complete line dances – which I
forgot a week later. Also, I can play the first four notes to “When the Saints
Go Marching In” on the harmonica.

Men with a Hobby Are Interesting Species

I
especially enjoy the company of men who have a passion. Too many men have few
interests beyond the sedentary, and no, I don’t count going out to eat. Right
now, I have a musician friend with his own band, a writer who’s on his fourth
book, and a welder, who’s been at his hobby for 40 years.

It’s
particularly intriguing to watch and listen to these men talk about their
projects. You can almost see the gears in their brain turn and click, and all
of that elevates your spirits too.

Men Have Body Issues Too

Men
have the same body hang-ups we do. The male character in my new
novel-in-progress has lost a cool one hundred pounds.

To
research this touchy subject, I spoke to a brave man about his body image
before and after his gastric bypass. Although he felt much more at ease after
losing weight, he preferred lights off in the bedroom.

“My
wife has a tough time losing weight,” another friend told me. “Now that I’m
trying to shake 30 pounds off, I have a lot more compassion for her than I used
to.”

Other
friends hate their chicken legs and wear socks to disguise skinny shins or a
shirt at the beach to cover a thin chest.

Two Categories of Men

When it comes to dating in our 50s and beyond, men fall
into two categories. Those who know what they want and those who don’t. This is
obvious, you say? Not so fast.

A man can believe he knows what he wants, but if, at
around the two or three-month mark in the relationship, he starts backing off,
it’s a sign he has doubts. Which is reason enough to have a full life, so you
don’t go all clingy.

Don’t Keep Him Hanging On

If you’re not interested, let a man go. Leading someone on is cruel and worse – it’s dishonest, especially if he’s paying
your way.

I’ve
been on both sides of this dating dilemma. A lopsided relationship, no matter
which side you find yourself on, is not fun. Give it three dates at the most.
You’ll know at that point.

Men Don’t Like to Feel They’re Being Used

No one likes to be used, but online dating lends itself
more easily to bad behavior (ghosting, bread crumbing, for example) than most
other social activities.

More than one man I met over wine or a beer felt
obligated to announce he didn’t take a woman to dinner on a first meet. “Some
ladies out there just want dinner, and they meet us guys so we’ll wine and dine
them.”

Best to keep it casual and inexpensive on the first
date.

Sensitivity to All Relationships

Men are as sensitive as women to family issues,
misunderstandings with friends and troubled offspring. They can’t always let
go, especially since many divorced and widowed men have no one to vent to.

Clueless About First Date Conversation

Many men who are dating for the first time aren’t great
at asking questions. In fact, some blow it by dominating the conversation.

When you finally rise from the table, you realize you don’t know a thing about him, and he knows everything about you. You might want to give this clueless guy a second chance. Second dates allow a man to relax and focus more on getting to know you.

Interest Shows

If a man is into you, he wants to spend time with you. This
goes for male friends as well as those interested in dating you. Your friends
not only value you, they’ll be there long after your latest two-month
relationship has fizzled, so cherish the friendship.

Men aren’t the pleasers we women are. There are times I
don’t say no when I should, volunteer for projects or activities I have little
interest in – and resent it
later. Men don’t seem to have this problem. This is not a scientific survey and
comes from my experience. Do you find it true?

Men Love Appreciation

Often, while we’re pursuing productivity and the
occasional drudgery of our daily lives, we forget to show the men in our lives
how much we appreciate them. And I don’t want to take anyone in my life for
granted.

Acceptance is great quality and, when it comes down to what’s important in life, we all have room to be more open and accepting toward those we love and value.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you think that even after 60, women are just missing some of the things about men? Men are sensitive, men love appreciation… Do you agree with some of the statements in this article? Which ones? Please share below and let’s have a conversation!