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As a gentle but constant snow falls, the pure clean white provides contrast to pearl, slate, gunmetal grey and silver of winter. The sky, trees, Blue Ridge mountains, and even my farm house have faded into waxen shades. Winter has striped color from all and the frosty crisp air sharpens everything into focus.

Ebony crows sit on the fence line and a mixture of hoarse and sharp coos, caws, rattles, and clicks occasionally break the tomb-like silence. Yet, the snow drifts softly blanketing the earth like a comforter. I call to you to sleep, dream and float through another world, a time out of time, as the quietness of the dark seems to call.

Birth and Rebirth

Yet, the red of stag horn sumac, the flash of a fox, the beauty of a cardinal and the holly berries pierce the eye like blood for they are the vein of winter, the life flow against the pale and what often appears with color in the frigid and seemingly lifeless landscape.

Still, the sage of cedar, the emerald of hemlock and the iridescent pine remind us that life lives on, always just like the moon reminds us to embrace the spiral of light and dark. For, the maiden is colorless, pure, a life yet to be lived. The mother is green, verdant and abundant. And the crone? Well, she is the red of the berry, the blood and the passion, for in the end of things, she knows all.

For it is the Crone, the Winter Woman that holds the power of age, time, and transformation. Ancient, but not always aged, she may be beautiful, but she is not pretty. So, that pointy black hat, big hook nose and a mole in an apple doll wrinkled face is the image that comes to mind for many people, as this has been the detrimental effect of media and patriarchy on a woman’s psyche. Have you noticed that the Venus of Dusseldorf has sagging breasts and stomach?

According to Wisewoman Susun Weed, these carvings were not pregnant women but old women who were honored and revered because they had the knowledge, intuition and were not afraid to hold their power. Wild horses, elephants, and herd animals follow the older lead female, for she knows where there are fresh meadows and protects the herd, not the stallion. This is science, not enchantment.

It Takes Courage      

Yet, in many cultures that do not always support ageing, to embrace your winter has been portrayed as scary for there may not be many butterflies to follow. Just like winter, 60+ is the time to sit, be still, support the unknown and have faith, just like the caterpillar.

Menopause is the start of the caterpillar entering the cocoon, and it does so willingly despite not knowing the next phase of its life. The tree, as its leaves fall, dropping each into aloneness, separated from the mother, must have trust, just as the dying leaf must have confidence in its regenerative power as it becomes compost for the earth. And all will grow from it.

This takes courage, and we must try out croning like teenagers try out different personas of who they want to be. Susun Weed refers to the 65-85 years as the teenage years of croning. The great Goddesses like Sophia, Hestia, Baba Yaga, are past the mascara, the worry of wrinkles, and Goddess forbid, plastic surgery for they know, winter needs no help.

“This is the time for kicking ass,” Weed says confidently at 78. For it is the older woman who are the ones who know where the water is when drought comes; they take care of the fire in the middle of the night and just being old is beyond enough because they have earned their place within the tribe and that emanates with every step. Old age is a gift and an honor.

We Know Where to Find Water

It is through the winter woman our granddaughters will know where to find water and how to age with honor. Through them, our granddaughters will be able to start a fire with green wood; though them, young women can choose between baking cookies and tending their young goddesses or being Speaker of the House at 83, climbing Kilimanjaro at 90, picking up a sword, or running a country and monarchy for over 50 years and dying on their throne, just like Queen Elizabeth. My winter woman was Tomyriss, who refused marriage, became a fighter, archer, horsewoman and leader of her people.

So, as the snow falls, and your cup of tea and blazing fire warm you, think of the grandmother that you want to be, think of the grandmothers that you know or should know and in doing so, you will embrace the divine feminine and you will not fear winter or wrinkles again.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you feel the call to go inward, to rest and retreat in Winter? How do you honor your Winter Woman? What can we do to change our culture’s ideas about aging? Should we lead by example?

With gorgeous landscapes from the Pacific coastline to the North Cascade mountains, Washington State offers a delightful array of activities for every interest. I’ve lived here for over 30 years and am still amazed by the endless opportunities, from outdoor adventures to cultural experiences. Here are the top six, in my experience.

1. San Juan Islands

The San Juan Islands, accessible by ferry, are a summer paradise in the state’s northwest corner. The waters around the San Juan Islands are most famous for whale watching, particularly for orcas. Several tour operators offer boat tours to see these magnificent creatures and other marine wildlife like seals, sea lions, and porpoises.

San Juan Island, Lopez Island, and Orcas Island are the most popular islands. They each have numerous trails for hiking and nature walks. Orcas Island has over 30 miles of hiking trails, for example, including the Mount Constitution trail, which has fantastic, photo-worthy views on a clear day.

The islands are also a popular destination for kayaking, biking, boating, and camping. And for their beautiful beaches and parks, where you can relax, have a picnic, or enjoy the sunset.

The San Juan Islands are home to a vibrant arts community as well. You can visit galleries, studios, and shops to see local art, crafts, and other unique items. And, of course, enjoy the local cuisine, which emphasizes fresh, locally sourced seafood.

Each island has unique charm and attractions, so visiting multiple islands is worth making the time.

2. Mount Rainier National Park

Rainier is a nature lover’s dream, with trails and impressive views for all skill levels. Summer is the perfect time to explore its meadows, which burst into color with wildflowers.

There are several scenic drives for those who prefer to enjoy the beauty of the park from their vehicle. The drive to Sunrise, the highest point in the park accessible by car, provides breathtaking views of Mount Rainier, the surrounding valleys, and usually wildlife too.

The park is home to a rich array of wildlife, including black bears, deer, and mountain goats, and offers excellent opportunities for wildlife photography. Visitors often ask about the black bears, which are generally brown or cinnamon in color. There are no grizzly bears in the park.

The park also boasts several incredible waterfalls, with Narada Falls, Christine Falls, and Myrtle Falls being some of the most picturesque and easily accessible.

Lastly, perhaps my favorite, are the meadows around Paradise and Sunrise which burst into color with wildflowers between July and early September. This is the best time of year to visit all around, for weather, amenities, wildlife and wildflowers.

3. The Skagit Valley Tulip Festival

This signature spring event is an exceptionally delightful experience for everyone of all ages. The festival, celebrated every April, transforms the Skagit Valley into a vibrant landscape of blooming tulips and, slightly earlier, ever-so-fragrant daffodils, drawing visitors worldwide.

The festival’s main attraction is the endless rows of tulips in various colors. These fields provide a spectacular backdrop for strolls, photography, or simply enjoying the beauty of our state. The flat terrain of the tulip farms is generally easy to navigate, making it accessible for those who prefer a less strenuous outing.

The festival features beautifully curated garden displays, floral shows, and outdoor fields. The festival also includes a marketplace featuring local artisans and crafters. You can browse and purchase unique handmade goods, garden art, and other crafts.

4. Olympic National Park

This UNESCO World Heritage site encompasses nearly a million acres. It includes a stunning stretch of the Pacific coastline, alpine areas, and the temperate Hoh Rainforest. Summer is the best time to explore its varied ecosystems, whether hiking in the mountains, strolling along the beaches, or trekking through the rainforest.

The park is famous for its lush, temperate rainforests. The Hoh and Quinault Rainforest offer trails like the unbelievably beautiful Hall of Mosses and the Spruce Nature Trail.

A drive or hike up to Hurricane Ridge is a must for stunning panoramic views of the park and its surrounding areas. On clear days, you can see the Olympic Mountains and even glimpses of Canada.

Olympic National Park offers a variety of hiking trails for all skill levels. Popular trails include the Sol Duc Falls Trail and the trails in the Staircase area. Rialto Beach, Ruby Beach, and the beaches around La Push offer wonderful walks also, with dramatic sea stacks, tide pools, and the chance to spot marine life.

The Sol Duc Hot Springs Resort is another relaxing vacation stop, letting you decompress in natural hot spring pools surrounded by the forest. The area is also dotted with beautiful waterfalls, with Marymere Falls and Sol Duc Falls being among the most popular and accessible.

Each area of the park has something unique, so try to visit multiple regions if time allows.

5. Lavender Fields of Sequim

The Lavender Festival, held annually in Sequim, celebrates the region’s extensive lavender farms and status as the “Lavender Capital of North America.” The festival usually occurs in July, during the peak bloom season for lavender.

The highlight of the festival is the opportunity to visit multiple lavender farms. Each farm is unique, offering tours, demonstrations, and the chance to see lavender fields in full bloom.

You can purchase a wide range of lavender products at the farms and the festival street fair, from essential oils and soaps to culinary lavender and crafts. Many farms offer a “U-Pick” experience where you can harvest your lavender directly from the fields.

You can also participate in workshops or watch demonstrations to learn about lavender cultivation, distillation processes, and its many uses in cooking, crafts, and aromatherapy.

The festival typically features live music and entertainment, adding to the festive and fun atmosphere. It’s not just about the beauty of lavender but also a celebration of community, local agriculture, and the arts.

6. Museum Tours

Washington State is rich in history and culture, reflected in its many spectacular museums. Whether you’re interested in Native American history, aviation, art, or natural history, a museum in Washington caters to your interests. Here are some of the best:

The Museum of Flight (Seattle)

One of the world’s most significant air and space museums, it’s impressive for all ages with a vast array of airplanes and space vehicles.

Seattle Art Museum (Seattle)

Known for its diverse and dynamic collection, this museum features works ranging from ancient artifacts to contemporary art, including a notable collection of Native American art.

Museum of Glass (Tacoma)

Focusing on contemporary and incredible art, this museum highlights the medium of glass and features works by renowned glass artist Dale Chihuly, among others.

Burke Museum of Natural History and Culture (Seattle)

Located at the University of Washington, this museum has extensive anthropology, natural history, and paleontology collections. If you visit in the spring time, you may also catch the cherry blossom fever.

Museum lovers will be thrilled at the endless options that await, offering a unique window into the various aspects of Washington State’s rich cultural and historical tapestry.

Whether you’re seeking adventure, relaxation, cultural experiences, or natural beauty, the state is full of opportunities to create memorable experiences. Always check for current conditions and reservations when planning your trip!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What’s your favorite kind of adventure when you travel – urban exploration, nature escapes, or cultural experiences? Have you ever visited Washington State? If so, what was the highlight of your trip?”

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“Everybody has a calling. Your real job in life is to figure out why you are here and get about the business of doing it.” — Oprah Winfrey

I love this quote by Oprah! She is a beautiful living example of renewing what it means to embrace purpose and meaning at every stage of life.

I think we limit the definition of meaning and purpose solely to jobs, volunteer work or our roles as parents and caretakers. I believe Oprah is talking about what has heartfelt meaning and purpose in all our life. What is a better time than now to explore the things we want to express in our lives?

Meaning and purpose create value both in our life and in others’ lives. Our culture is slowly starting to recognize that we have so much to offer the world as we age.

Research shows aging people have higher cognitive abilities when they had a greater sense of purpose and meaning. Northwestern University found that sleeping patterns improved when aging people had a sense of purpose. They also had fewer hospitalizations and fewer problems with mobility.

Meaning and purpose have a direct relationship to your heartfelt experience. Heartfelt means connecting to feelings in your experiences and relationships. Researchers have found that people have a rich spectrum of feelings: not 5 or 6 basic emotions, but 27!

When we connect to others through feeling, we dissolve our protective armor and open up to wholehearted relationships. This can be somewhat challenging because of previously experienced heartbreaks. And so because of fear, we tend to close off our hearts. But a closed heart feels isolated.

Whole­hearted living leads us to experience meaning and purpose. We can open our hearts by connecting through our feelings.

Here’s how…

Risk Feeling Heartfelt Moments!

Make a list of those moments in your day where you noticed happiness. If you didn’t, look harder. Eventually, you will attune your awareness to focus on the positive instead of the negative.

Use Your Senses to Help Connect to Your Heart

Can you smell the rose as it blooms every day? Can you feel the coolness of a gentle breeze on your skin? Can you smell and taste your favorite food? Can you be a witness to the beauty of a sunrise or sunset or a rainbow?

Notice how these experiences change your focus and feelings? Perhaps part of the purpose in these moments is to create beauty every day in your life and let it ripple out to others with whom you come in contact.

Activate Your Imagination

Children are magical in how they imagine and play. Draw, paint, write, do something! Let yourself be a beginner. Every day is a new beginning.

Sing: Bring Music into Your Life

Sing in the car, the shower, wherever you feel like it. Listen to music you love. Research findings have concluded that people who listened to happy music increased their creative thinking and had more imaginative ideas. Isn’t that a connection to feeling meaning and purpose?

Help Others!

When you help others, especially through comfort, you connect with your heart. Get out of yourself and make a difference in someone else’s life. You would be surprised how it changes yours.

Joseph Campbell says, “Follow your bliss,” and that happens through your actions. And as Oprah says, “…get about the business of doing it.”

This is the pathway on your journey to meaning and purpose.

What are you waiting for? There’s a big beautiful world waiting for you.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What do you do to create meaning and purpose? What is your calling? Please share the meaning you have found in your life.