Lisa Barlow’s Neon Camo Fur Coat on RHOSLC

Real Housewives of Salt Lake City Season 2 Episode 8 Fashion

On this week’s episode of RHOSLC Lisa Barlow wears this neon camo fur coat while out and about doing some party planning. And while it’s super cute, the only qualm we have with it is that it may not be the best choice for blending into the Salt Lake City landscape to hide from Jesus (who we’re assuming Mary has already sent after her). 

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Deciem is standing out from the pack this holiday season, just like the company did last year. The parent company for The Ordinary’s Black Friday 2021 sale is actually more of an anti-Black Friday blowout, a boycott of the day when we often spend too much and buy things we don’t really need because we’re moving too fast. It’s all about “Slowvember” for Deciem this year. That means you won’t be able to shop on November 27. But don’t worry — you can still pick up the brand’s affordable skincare at a discount throughout the entire month of November.

“At Deciem, we are working towards minimizing the impact our products have on the earth, including looking at our packaging, water and energy use across our offices and supply chain globally,” Jackie Kankam, Director of Sustainability and Social Impact at Deciem, said in a statement. “Whilst we have started our journey, we are still not a sustainable company. Initiatives
such as our Slowvember campaign encourage everyone to do better for a lasting planet.”

Though you can’t shop from Deciem on November 27, you can still hang out in the stores. Yes, really! They’re staying open so fans of the brand can experience live music and local refreshments, as well as take part in musical and artistic workshops, per the brand.

You have the whole month to shop so you can decide what to grab on your own time. This way, we’ll only pick up what we really need and keep excess products from ending up in landfills. And when we say sale, we mean sale. Everything from Deciem is 23 percent off. That includes The Ordinary, Niod (science-focused skincare at a higher price point), Hylamide (even more skin care!) and Chemistry Brand (a hand-focused line). No idea where to start? Shop some of our favorites, below.

Our mission at STYLECASTER is to bring style to the people, and we only feature products we think you’ll love as much as we do. Please note that if you purchase something by clicking on a link within this story, we may receive a small commission of the sale.

The Ordinary.

The Ordinary Natural Moisturizing Factors + HA

Get non-greasy hydration with 11 amino acids and hyaluronic acid.

Deciem.

Hylamide SubQ Mist

With marine saccharides, Australian pepperberry, tea polyphenols and rose, this hydrating mist soothes the skin and calms any redness or irritation.

Deciem.

Niod Low-Viscosity Cleaning Ester

Fans of this alcohol-free cleanser swear by the way it cleans the skin without stripping it. It contains no plant oils, detergents or water but instead features isolated sugar and avocado esters to remove dirt, oil and makeup.

Deciem.

Niod Copper Amino Isolate Lipid 1%

Use this tripeptide-1 copper-infused blue gel at night to strengthen your skin barrier, increase elasticity and see overall healthier skin.

Deciem.

The Ordinary “Buffet”

This super-popular serum targets multiply signs of aging with a peptide complex.

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The Ordinary Niacinamide 10% + Zinc 1%

Niacinamide (vitamin B3) works to reduce congestion and breakouts, while zinc helps balance sebum.

As a young girl, growing up in the midst of the Women’s Lib Moment, I rejected all shades of pink in my clothing and room décor and never looked back. Pink was society’s self-imposed girly color, and I wanted nothing to do with it.

But as I moved into my 60s, I suddenly fell in love with pink. I painted my bedroom walls pale pink and special-ordered a soft pink sofa for my living room. I even placed all pink flowers in my balcony garden. Pink, pink, pink. I had to wonder what was up with this color fixation.

Colors Reflect Life Change

After some reflection, I decided my enchantment with this color, which is often associated with nurturing and compassion, was my soul telling me that it was okay to take a deep breath and relax at this stage of my life. It was time to discover new colors.

I could hear my inner voice saying, “Heidi, have more compassion for yourself. Come snuggle into your pink sofa cloud and feel the love.”

New Seasons Demand New Colors

We expect nature’s colors to change with each season. So why shouldn’t we expect our own color palette to change as we transition through our own life seasons?

I’ve definitely had to rethink some of the colors I wear because of my maturing skin tone and silvering hair. And I believe it’s just as important to rethink some of the colors we bring into our living spaces.

Our physical environments are an extension and reflection of our inner-selves – who we are now and who we want to be in the years to come.

Are you ready to create a more supportive, harmonious, and “the real you” color energy in your living spaces? If so, here are a few points to consider that can help you find the colors that reflect your uniqueness at this stage of your life.

Our Memories Live in Colors

Much of what I do as an interior designer deals with helping my clients choose paint and fabric colors that create a beautiful and nurturing home, design-wise and heart-wise. In the process, I’ve learned that colors can be tricky because they hold so many memories.

I know of one woman who refused to have gray in her home. That is, until a beautiful experience of swimming with dolphins on vacation forever changed how she looked at the color.

Similarly, when I returned home to hot, land-locked Atlanta after a blissful trip to the Caribbean, I redesigned my kitchen around subtle ocean colors to hold the memory of those gentle sea breezes and heavenly blue waters.

Are there certain colors that hold memories – good or bad – for you? If you’re feeling drawn to the color now, maybe it’s your inner self wanting to either celebrate or change the memory around it.

Notice What You’re Noticing

What colors inspire you today? Which are yelling, “This is so me”? Notice which colors pop out at you as you walk through a nursery or thumb through a color fan deck. You might be surprised.

Trust your initial response to the color, even if it’s called Electric Lime or Psychedelic Purple. You don’t have to paint your entire living room in it. Even as only an accent color in a pillow, vase, throw, or wall art it might create the feel and allow the expression you desire. Never underestimate the impact of a small design element.

Too Much of a Good Thing?

Traditional design wisdom recommends having two or three colors flow throughout a home to help create a cohesive design and rhythm. But if you’re loving more than a few colors, don’t worry.

It’s okay to push the boundaries and experiment with lots of color combinations. Nowadays, trending design styles, like bohemian, have found a way to harmoniously play with layers and layers of patterns, textures, and colors.

Strange how combinations that once seemed unlikely or mismatched now work in beautiful synchronicity. You may not want “color clutter” in every room in your home, but go with your intuition and what you want to express about yourself.

Give a Color Nod to Nature

I incorporate Vastu, also known as the yoga of design, into all my projects. Vastu’s ancient science and wisdom teaches us how to partner with the natural world so that positive energy moves freely throughout our human built spaces.

Colors, each with their own unique energetic frequency, can help balance our spaces by bringing in nature’s uplifting colors.

Green goes with every color and speaks of refreshing, nourishing, and renewal. Placing living plants throughout the home is an easy and cost-effective way to infuse your life with the energy, emotion, and intention of good health and vitality.

The science of Vastu also balances the energy in our living spaces by placing representational colors of nature’s five elements – space, air, fire, water, and earth – in their respective geographic directions in a room or home. (Your smartphone compass, typically located in the utilities folder, can quickly establish the directions in your home.)

Here’s a color scheme you can utilize:

• Place blue shades in the northeast to represent water.
• Use delicate colors in the northwest for air.
• Put flame colors like red, orange, and golden yellow in the southeast for fire.
• Position earth tones such as brown, cinnamon, and ochre in the southwest.
• The space element is located in the center of a room or home and should remain open and uncluttered.

These colors can be brought in through any decorative item, such as a painting, pillow, candle, or vase.

Let Intuition Guide You

Color is here to support you energetically, emotionally, spiritually, and aesthetically. So, let new colors inspire new memories and create a nourishing home for this season of your life.

Break a design rule, if necessary, to achieve the beauty and sense of belonging you desire. In the end, your own intuition will always be the best guide for your personal color choices.

Have you been surprised by a few new favorite colors that you didn’t like a decade or two ago? Are you gravitating toward shades you never considered before? What colors inspire you today? Which are yelling, “This is so me”? Please share your color inspirations and explorations with our community!

It’s happened again. I was walking almost every day. My joints felt loose, and my arthritic pain was minimal. Then I missed a day, then two days in a row. Then we had a few days of rain and I elected not to go to the indoor track. Then a dear friend died and instead of walking to ease the grief I stopped walking all together.

This is not the first time I’ve done this, and it might not be the last. Previous fall-off-the-wagon stops were because of minor injuries, overscheduling, and numerous issues related to the pandemic such as stay-at-home orders and parks being closed.

Here are my top ten tips to get walking again.

Forgive Yourself

Beating yourself up about it is counterproductive. The stopping is in the past, the starting is now. Embrace it.

Start Small

One loop around the track or block or a short trail is all you need to get started. Don’t overdo it!

Embrace the Joy of Beginning

This is a fresh start, and all things are possible. Have fun!

Look Back and See How You Did It Before

I keep exercise journals and as I go back and read them, I remember how much fun it was to keep moving. My past accomplishments motivate me.

Track Your Miles or Track Your Days

Maybe buy a snazzy new journal for this. Or use a fitness tracker. Set a reward schedule. Something small for finishing a week (a Starbucks coffee or new socks), something a bit bigger for a month (maybe a manicure or pedicure). Maybe at 100 days book a massage.

Enlist a Friend or Online Group for Support

Consider using a site like Meetup to find a group to walk with occasionally. Or simply post on Facebook asking any of your friends in the area to message you if interested in walking together.

Set a Trails Goal

I am challenging myself to walk all the trails in three local parks. The 15 trails are different lengths and have different degrees of difficulty. I made a post-it for each trail and have them on a whiteboard. After I complete a trail, I date it and move it to the done side of the board. So satisfying!

Choose a Beautiful Place If Possible

In the parks I appreciate the forest canopy, finding feathers, hearing bird calls, even seeing the occasional snake. You might enjoy walking around your neighborhood.

Nature Sounds or Headset?

Sometimes just tuning in to the sounds around me is enough. But as a writer, I sometimes listen to YouTube videos or podcasts about writing. I have an app on my phone where I can dictate any ideas for future books or essays inspired by the listening.

Have a Backup Plan

Where will you walk if it rains? You could go to an indoor track, but I also love heading to a small shopping center. The concrete can be hard on my feet but the people watching, and window shopping make up for it!

The Two-Day Rule

Once I have my mojo back, I try to follow the two-day rule. I can miss a day if busy, maybe even two. But without fail, if I miss more than two, I find it difficult to restart. So, no more than two consecutive misses. I feel so good in my body when I walk regularly. I’m back at it now and hope you will be too!

Have you stopped walking daily for whatever reason? Is it easy or difficult for you to restart? What benefits of walking do you miss the most when you don’t walk? Please add any tips of your own in the comments.

The holiday season is upon us. Of course, thoughts go to food, gatherings with family and friends, giving, and gratitude. But it is also a time when we share stories – holiday stories, family stories, and just plain good stories.

However, we often share stories that are familiar to us. But the holidays provide us with an excellent opportunity to share diverse stories.

Why Diverse Stories?

The Anti-Defamation League says this about the importance of children’s multicultural books:

“Children’s books, at their best, invite children to use their imaginations, expand their vocabularies and gain a better understanding of themselves and others. And, if the titles reflect the diverse groups of people in the world around them, children can learn to respect not only their own cultural groups, but also the cultural groups of others.

“Children’s literature serves as both a mirror to children and as a window to the world around them by showing people from diverse groups playing and working together, solving problems and overcoming obstacles. At its best, multicultural children’s literature helps children understand that despite our many differences, all people share common feelings and aspirations. Those feelings can include love, sadness, fear and the desire for fairness and justice.”

In addition, the article “5 Benefits of Teaching Classroom Diversity” from Kickboard for Schools (a company that creates professional development for educators) listed these benefits:

Knowing these myriad benefits for my students, I built a library collection focused on multiculturalism as a school librarian. Unfortunately, in the early 2000s, diverse books were hard to find. Now, the number of diverse books has increased (not nearly enough), but these books’ quality and authenticity is often lacking.

Part of this is because many publishers do not have diversity in their editorial teams. A book that is not authentic can often lead to stereotyping, so it is imperative to vet the books we give to children.

So How Do You Know If You Are Getting Books That Contain Accurate Portrayals?

Luckily, there are resources to help us find appropriate books, including book lists from reliable sources such as Cooperative Children’s Book Center, Children’s Book Council, We Need Diverse Books, and the Diverse Book Finder. In addition, Pragmatic Mom, a diverse children’s book blogger, has kids book lists for these groups: African Americans, Arab Americans, Asian Americans (Asian American, Korean American, Japanese American, Chinese American, and South Asia American), Hispanic Americans, Jewish,  LGBTQIA, and Native Americans.

Also, certain publishers are known for their quality diverse books, such as Lee & Low, August House, Groundwood/House of Anansi, Mango and Marigold Press, Oyate, Lantana Publishing, and Barefoot Books.

When you share diverse stories with your grandchildren, you help them understand that even if people have different beliefs, traditions, and histories, we all share the human experience. So, read a diverse book with your grandchildren this holiday season and model how to be good global citizens.

Below are some recommendations for diverse books that relate to holidays celebrated by cultures and religions from around the globe.

Thanksgiving/Gratitude

Thanku: Poems of Gratitude

Gratitude should be practiced all year round. A diverse group of writers has shared what they are grateful for in their lives. Each entry is in a unique poetic form. This book provides an excellent springboard for discussions of gratitude with your grandchildren. Suited for kids 6-9.

*A portion of the sales goes to the non-profit “We Need Diverse Books” mentioned above.

Christmas Traditions

Joy To the World

This joyfully and cheerfully illustrated book features Christmas traditions from Ethiopia, Colombia, Australia, Italy, Serbia, Mexico, India, Iceland, Egypt, Argentina, Philippines, Lebanon, and Canada. The rhyming text and shimmering gold ink will engage younger kids, while the endnotes detailing the traditions will keep older kids interested.

Embrace diversity by helping your grandchildren choose Christmas traditions from other countries to include in your celebrations this year. Perfect holiday gift book for ages 4-10 years!

New Year’s Traditions

Every Month Is a New Year

In the U.S., New Year’s occurs on January 1. However, this is not the beginning of the new year for many others around the world. This multi-layered book features poetry and colorful collage illustrations describing these other new year celebrations.

In addition, endnotes contain historical and cultural details about the global New Year’s traditions that appear in the book. A fun way to begin diversity discussion, including exploring calendars used in other cultures. Best for ages 6-12.

Global Celebrations Throughout the Year

Year Full of Celebrations and Festivals: Over 90 fun and fabulous festivals from around the world

This extensive compendium includes religious and cultural holidays, national holidays, commemorating historical events, and festivals for fun. Details and entertaining facts are provided for each celebration. The cheerful and colorful illustrations by Chris Corr provide an engaging backdrop for this journey around the world. The book features people with a wide range of skin tones. And the traditional dress and architectural details from various cultures are included in the illustrations.

You can spend hours delving into this book with your grandchildren. It provides numerous opportunities to discuss diversity, including various customs, clothes, food, and beliefs. In addition, the book, organized by season, allows you to add a science lesson to the mix. It’s great for ages 6-9.

A Year Full of Stories: 52 Folktales and Legends from Around the World

This book provides a folktale, legend, or myth for each week of the year. Each story is associated with a religious holiday, festival, cultural event, or changing seasons. Organized into 12 chapters, one for each month of the year, this book gives you a year’s worth of stories to share with your grandchildren.

Make a weekly storytime date with your grandchildren, in person or virtually, to share a story from this enriching global collection. Illustrations by Chris Corr are colorful, detailed, and engaging. You will want to keep this book handy whenever you need a good story to share with your grandchildren. Perfect for ages 6-9.

Let’s Celebrate! Special Days Around the World

This joyful book weds colorful, warm, and engaging illustrations with rhythmic, rhyming words to produce an outstanding contribution to diverse children’s literature. The reader travels worldwide to celebrate holidays from Japan, China, New Zealand, Peru, Brazil, Sweden, Iran, Nigeria, Russia, Egypt, Mexico, India, and the United States.

The text is sparse, but the illustrations and the endnotes provide details to satisfy curious minds. Includes pronunciations of the holidays and a calendar showing how these holidays are dispersed throughout the year. This book is perfect when you are reading to grandchildren of different ages. The book is suitable for ages 4-10.

How do you engage your grandchildren around the holidays? Have you discussed diverse ways that people around the world celebrate? Have you read any specific books that discuss diversity? Which ones are your favorites?