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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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From Invisible to Unstoppable: It’s Time to Stand Out, Shine, and Get Your Sparkle Back!

From Invisible to Unstoppable It’s Time to Stand Out, Shine, and Get Your Sparkle Back!

Somewhere in the swirl of raising families, building careers, and showing up for everyone else, many women reach a point where they notice something unsettling: they feel invisible. It’s not that you’ve stopped existing; it’s that people, opportunities, and sometimes even conversations seem to pass right by you.

This “invisibility” isn’t your imagination. Society often places its spotlight on the young and overlooks the wisdom, style, and substance of women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to fade into the background. You can step back into your spotlight, confident, magnetic, and fully seen.

Here are some tips on how to ignite your sparkle!

1. Reconnect with Who You Are Now

You’ve changed. Your dreams, style, and energy are different from your 20-something self. Take time to rediscover what excites you today – whether that’s bold fashion, a new hobby, or a cause you care about. Books like Untamed by Glennon Doyle or The Confidence Code by Katty Kay & Claire Shipman can help you tune into your authentic self and own your power.

2. Own Your Presence

Posture, eye contact, and a warm smile are powerful non-verbal cues. Stand tall, keep your shoulders back, and look people in the eye when you speak. Joining a local speaking club or interest group can help you practice being in the spotlight again. These small shifts signal confidence before you even say a word.

3. Speak Up and Share Your Perspective

You’ve lived, learned, and earned your wisdom; don’t keep it hidden. Share your insights in meetings, social settings, or online communities. Listening to podcasts like Midlife Matters, Women in the Middle, or shows that feature stories of reinvention can inspire you to use your voice.

4. Infuse Your Days with High-Vibe Energy

Your “vibration” is the mood and energy you carry. Create a simple morning ritual. Perhaps a 5-minute gratitude journal prompt, a brisk walk outside, or an energizing playlist to start your day strong. Daily practices like movement, journaling, and connecting with uplifting people help you stay magnetic.

To boost your vibration even more, try these journaling prompts:

  • Where in my life do I already feel confident and visible?
  • What small action can I take today to show up more fully?
  • How can I convey joy through my movements, speech, and interactions with others?
  • What’s one thing I’d love to be known for in this season of my life?

5. Refresh Your Outer Look to Match Your Inner Glow

This isn’t about chasing trends; it’s about feeling current and expressing your personality. Try a fresh haircut, a bold accessory, or colors that make you feel alive. Even small changes can shift how others perceive and approach you. One of my favorite resources is Beth Garrett from Elevating Your Image! Beth takes the time to help you regain your confidence and MOJO!

6. Engage with Curiosity

Instead of waiting to be noticed, notice others. Ask genuine questions, listen deeply, and make people feel seen. When you show interest, you become interesting.

Remember, you don’t have to do this alone. Sometimes, a fresh perspective from a coach can help you see yourself in a new light and create a plan to be noticed for all the right reasons. I work with women navigating midlife transitions to boost clarity, confidence, and visibility in ways that feel authentic.

You’ve already walked through decades of challenges, victories, and lessons. You are more than worthy of taking up space and being fully visible.

Step forward.

Lift your head.

The world is ready for your light, so let it shine!

Challenge yourself this week by choosing one suggestion from above, and see how you feel about yourself and those around you.

I’d Love to Hear from You!

How have you managed this stage of your life? What’s worked for you, and what wisdom can you share with others? Please tell us in the comments.

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

From Invisible to Unstoppable: It’s Time to Stand Out, Shine, and Get Your Sparkle Back!

From Invisible to Unstoppable It’s Time to Stand Out, Shine, and Get Your Sparkle Back!

Somewhere in the swirl of raising families, building careers, and showing up for everyone else, many women reach a point where they notice something unsettling: they feel invisible. It’s not that you’ve stopped existing; it’s that people, opportunities, and sometimes even conversations seem to pass right by you.

This “invisibility” isn’t your imagination. Society often places its spotlight on the young and overlooks the wisdom, style, and substance of women in their 40s, 50s, and beyond. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to fade into the background. You can step back into your spotlight, confident, magnetic, and fully seen.

Here are some tips on how to ignite your sparkle!

1. Reconnect with Who You Are Now

You’ve changed. Your dreams, style, and energy are different from your 20-something self. Take time to rediscover what excites you today – whether that’s bold fashion, a new hobby, or a cause you care about. Books like Untamed by Glennon Doyle or The Confidence Code by Katty Kay & Claire Shipman can help you tune into your authentic self and own your power.

2. Own Your Presence

Posture, eye contact, and a warm smile are powerful non-verbal cues. Stand tall, keep your shoulders back, and look people in the eye when you speak. Joining a local speaking club or interest group can help you practice being in the spotlight again. These small shifts signal confidence before you even say a word.

3. Speak Up and Share Your Perspective

You’ve lived, learned, and earned your wisdom; don’t keep it hidden. Share your insights in meetings, social settings, or online communities. Listening to podcasts like Midlife Matters, Women in the Middle, or shows that feature stories of reinvention can inspire you to use your voice.

4. Infuse Your Days with High-Vibe Energy

Your “vibration” is the mood and energy you carry. Create a simple morning ritual. Perhaps a 5-minute gratitude journal prompt, a brisk walk outside, or an energizing playlist to start your day strong. Daily practices like movement, journaling, and connecting with uplifting people help you stay magnetic.

To boost your vibration even more, try these journaling prompts:

  • Where in my life do I already feel confident and visible?
  • What small action can I take today to show up more fully?
  • How can I convey joy through my movements, speech, and interactions with others?
  • What’s one thing I’d love to be known for in this season of my life?

5. Refresh Your Outer Look to Match Your Inner Glow

This isn’t about chasing trends; it’s about feeling current and expressing your personality. Try a fresh haircut, a bold accessory, or colors that make you feel alive. Even small changes can shift how others perceive and approach you. One of my favorite resources is Beth Garrett from Elevating Your Image! Beth takes the time to help you regain your confidence and MOJO!

6. Engage with Curiosity

Instead of waiting to be noticed, notice others. Ask genuine questions, listen deeply, and make people feel seen. When you show interest, you become interesting.

Remember, you don’t have to do this alone. Sometimes, a fresh perspective from a coach can help you see yourself in a new light and create a plan to be noticed for all the right reasons. I work with women navigating midlife transitions to boost clarity, confidence, and visibility in ways that feel authentic.

You’ve already walked through decades of challenges, victories, and lessons. You are more than worthy of taking up space and being fully visible.

Step forward.

Lift your head.

The world is ready for your light, so let it shine!

Challenge yourself this week by choosing one suggestion from above, and see how you feel about yourself and those around you.

I’d Love to Hear from You!

How have you managed this stage of your life? What’s worked for you, and what wisdom can you share with others? Please tell us in the comments.

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Visiting My First Greek Islands: Rhodes

My First Greek Islands, Part One

Recently, my partner and I made our first trip to Greece and we was lucky enough to get to visit two Greek islands. I was blown away. I will be writing a separate article for each island as they were such different experiences from each other. Each incredible in its own way.

Taking the Ferry

We took the Ibiscus Ferry from Fetiyhe, Turkey to the Greek island of Rhodes. It only took about an hour and 50 minutes and cost $43.00. The ferry is like a cruise ship, it had several decks of comfortable seating, air-conditioning, nice restrooms, and several cafes and snack bars. The ferry was pulling into the ancient port in the Old City of Rhodes Harbor before I knew it.

Ferry to Rhodes

We stayed at a nice boutique hotel in the old town of Rhodes, which is contained within the ancient city walls. As it turned out, from the harbor, we were in walking distance to one of the historic city gates that led right to our hotel. Once you pass through the gate into the old town, it is pedestrian traffic only, except for the odd motorized cart making a delivery. These ancient cobbled streets were not built with cars in mind.

Ancient City Wall and Gate

History, History, and More History

This place is a living museum containing centuries of history. History buff or not, you can’t help but appreciate its beauty and historical significance. I felt as if I was walking through time as I headed up the Street of the Knights of Rhodes. This 600-meter-long street begins at what was originally the hospital and ends at the Palace of the Grand Master. In between there are seven inns; one-time residences for each of the Knights of St. John Hospitaller.

Street of Knights of St. John

Originally built in the seventh century as a Byzantine Citadel, 600 years later, in 1309, the Knights Hospitaller conquered and occupied Rhodes, taking it over as their administrative center and Palace of their Grand Master (head of the Order of Knights). The Order of Knights of St. John of Jerusalem were a military and religious order which fought in the crusades to defend the Holy Lands. This order still exists today helping the sick and the poor internationally. There is even an ancient hospice here that was for elderly knights and knights injured in battle.

The Palace in Rhodes

The palace is grand. I felt as if I had walked into a story book. This beautiful palace has 154 rooms, 24 of which are open to the public and showcase antiquities. Of special significance are some frescos by renowned artists along with great sections of the floors paved with ancient mosaics of Byzantine and Roman art.

Grand Palace

There are many statues from the Greek and Roman era both inside and out in the gardens. The furniture and tapestries on the walls were outstanding. For 10 Euros a person you can get a combo ticket that includes the Palace and the Archeological Museum, which is not to be missed either. The artifacts there are amazing!

Mosaic Floor in Palace

Going back as far as 305 BC, Rhodes was already enclosed by walls. Then the Greeks and Romans added more fortification when they took the city over. And again in 1309 when the Knights Hospitaller took over, they added even more – things like forts, towers, and an amazing moat that encircles the old city. Dry now, with a walking path through it, you can still see hundreds of enormous stone balls that were hurled by catapult at the city walls during countless battles that took place here.

Stone Ammo in Palace Moat

The Rhodes Harbor Is a Busy Place

The harbor here, besides being a strategic Naval base for the Knights, is where the Colossus of Rhodes once stood – one of the seven wonders of the ancient world. Built of bronze in 280 BC, the statue stood 33 meters (108 feet) high. He only stood for 54 years, then a massive earthquake broke the statue off at the knees. The people took this as a bad omen and never tried to rebuild the Colossus. Over the next century, traders would come and haul pieces of the bronze away until it was all gone.

The harbor is still lined with ancient windmills that not only ground grain for export, but were also used as Naval lookout towers. Cruise ships do come into this harbor and it can get quite crowded and busy. But all day visitors see the sites, shop for souvenirs on the main street, eat, and then they are gone by late afternoon.

We found that when a ship was in, we could just stay a block or two back from the main street and enjoy picturesque alleyways and small local restaurants with no crowds. There is so much history inside these ancient city walls, way more than I can even begin to cover here. It really takes your breath away. It did mine anyway.

Please check out our video on Rhodes and Lindos.  

Exploring Lindos

After staying in Rhodes Old City for several days, we headed South, up the stunning rugged coastline to visit Lindos. Known for its beautiful beaches, the ancient acropolis, and picturesque cobblestone streets with whitewashed buildings. The streets of Lindos are continuous buildings, chiefly with interior courtyards.

Most of the houses have not been affected by time or changes in shape or use. They continue to be built from local quarried porous stones, or field stones, then plastered over and white washed. Its charming alleyways, expansive views, Mediterranean cuisine, and cosmopolitan atmosphere draw in everyone visiting the island of Rhodes.

Lindos Walking Street

Views Are Amazing

Lindos is a maze of narrow cobbled passages. As picturesque as it is, it can get very over crowded as bus loads of day trippers from the cruise ships flood the small town and small beach for the day. They are all gone by 3:00 in the afternoon to head back to the cruise ship. We stayed four nights in Lindos in a lovely little hotel that had a terrace with tremendous views. The Aegean Sea in front of us and the Acropolis on the hilltop behind.

Beach at Lindos

The Acropolis of Ancient Times

The Lindos Acropolis, or fortified Ancient Greek city, stands at 116 meters above sea level. Blending in with the dramatic natural landscape, the Acropolis provides a breathtaking backdrop to the town below. This was the center of religious and socio-political life in ancient times.

Most of the important archeological monuments can be found at the Acropolis, these include the Hellenistic temple of the goddess Athena Lindia, which was built on the ruins of an already ancient temple. You can also find the Propyaea, an Ancient Greek portico. These both date back to the 3rd century BC. Although Athena remained the principal goddess of the temple, the cult of Zeus was introduced here by the Romans in 352 BC.

There is also the Stoa, another massive sheltered promenade built in 200 BC. A little out of place was the Byzantine chapel of St. John. As in Rhodes Old City, the Knights of St. John were here centuries later, from 1309 until 1522, when they were forced to hand the island of Rhodes over to the forces of the Sultan Suleiman the Magnificent. Other smaller ruins can be found scattered in and around Lindos.

There is not much flat walking in Lindos and we did have to climb a few flights of stairs to get up to our hotel. The only way to get to the Acropolis is to walk up the hill or ride a donkey. We walked up a couple of times and it was so worth it. We visited the Acropolis early in the morning and were some of the first in line. This was to avoid the heat and the crowds.

Hill Up to the Acropolis

People were really lining up to get in by the time we were leaving so arriving early paid off. I think the island of Rhodes would be much more laid back during the shoulder season, but I am so glad we had the opportunity to visit when we did. Our next stop should be a more laid back and relaxing experience, the island of Karpathos.

You can also read more about our slow travels at farawaynowtravels.com.

Additional read, Which Are the Best Mediterranean Islands for a Walking Holiday?

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you visited any islands at all? Which ones and what was the experience like? Have you visited any of the Greek islands? Would you return if you had the chance?

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Stephanie Shojaee’s Blue Feather Top and Shorts

Stephanie Shojaee’s Blue Feather Top and Shorts / Real Housewives of Miami Season 7 Episode 11 Fashion

Though I loved all the ladies dresses for their dinner in Seville last night on #RHOM, I loooooved Stephanie Shojaee’s blue feather top and mini shorts. It was a uniquely fun take on fashion which I am always all about doing. Because I think stepping out of the norm from time to time can just be so fly

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


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