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Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

Why You Should Commit to the Carry-On and Tips for Making it Easy

The world is divided into two different kinds of people: overpackers and underpackers. If you fall into the first category, don’t turn away yet! Give me a few minutes to try and convince you that there is a better way to travel.

As you might already suspect, I am an underpacker. My measure of a packing fail: Coming home with even one thing in my suitcase that I did not need, use or wear during my trip. I do fail sometimes, but not often anymore.

Here’s how to pack lighter – all lessons I learned the hard way.

Start with an Attitude Change

It helps that I don’t really care how I look. I don’t mean I would travel in ripped or dirty clothes. But I don’t need to be the glammed up center of attention. In fact, when you’re traveling, the more you can blend in, the better. You’re less likely to be targeted by pickpockets and local scammers.

Spend a little time researching what the locals wear and try to pack like that. This is the lesson I learned when I wore my electric blue winter coat to Romania, a former Soviet block country where there were two colors of winter coat: grey and black.

So if you simply must be a fashion plate, try to pare down the clothes to a capsule wardrobe of items you can mix and match and pieces that will do double duty.

Use a Packing List

These printable packing lists will give you a feel for the things you’ll need. If the list includes something you don’t think you’ll need, don’t pack it. If there is something missing, make a note on the printed sheet so you don’t forget it.

Check the Weather Forecast

I make this recommendation because I live in Chicago. We like to say, “If you don’t like the weather, wait 10 minutes.” Here, the calendar might say May, but the thermometer might say March. Or July.

So check the forecast for your destination. It will tell you whether to pack a raincoat, sunhat, shorts, or sweaters.

Start Packing Early

If you have a spare bed, room, couch or some other spot to hold the things you want to pack, start a week early and put everything on the bed that you think you might want on your trip.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day and look it over. Is there anything missing? Is there anything you think you might not need on the trip? Make adjustments accordingly.

Then walk away.

Come back the next day with the intention of making choices. If you have two pairs of pants on the bed, take away one pair. If you have four shirts, take away two. And so on, until you have cut in half the things on the bed.

Then walk away.

The next day, it’s time to pack. Start with the pieces of clothing you absolutely MUST have with you.

If you run out of suitcase before you run out of clothes to pack, you get to make a choice: Leave something else behind or pay $40 or more to check a bag.

Buy Packing Cubes

I resisted buying this travel essential for years. Now I can’t believe I ever traveled without them.

Packing cubes are flexible pouches with a brilliant zipper system. You pack them with the clothes you want to take, and zip them shut. Then – this is the brilliant part – you zip a second zipper to compress the insides flat. (Think of it like your expandable suitcase, when you open that second zipper, it gives you an extra inch or two of suitcase space. When you zip it shut, everything inside is compressed.)

As a bonus, the clothes you lay inside the packing cube are much more likely to stay wrinkle free. I don’t know why. But it’s true.

Stick with One Basic Color

When I head to a Caribbean resort, that color will be white. But most of the time, it’s black – black pants, a black skirt, a black dress. Then I add color in the tops I will wear with the pants and skirt. Finally, I pack a few scarves and funky costume jewelry to dress everything up or down and add more color.

Wear the Heavy Stuff on the Plane

There are plenty of TikTokers and travel hacker influencers who will tell you to wear layers and layers on the plane to save suitcase space. Or to pack a pillowcase with your stuff and pretend it’s a pillow, not a suitcase, so it doesn’t count as a carryon.

While that might be useful info for travelers on uber-budget airlines that charge for anything that doesn’t fit under your seat, you really don’t have to go that crazy. Just use a little common sense.

If, for example, you’re flying from Florida to Colorado, you know you’ll need your winter coat, hat, gloves, hiking boots and heavy jeans. Wear the jeans and hiking boots on the plane, stuff the hat and gloves in the coat pockets and carry the coat on the plane rather than packing it in a suitcase.

I do this anyway because I’m always chilly on a plane. I’m always surprised when I see someone boarding a flight in shorts and flip flops. I would be blue by the time I landed!

Think Layers, Not Bulk

Thin layers are always the right answer, no matter where you are. Even a Caribbean vacation requires preparing for chilly evenings or overly air-conditioned restaurants. Layers are the answer to staying warm and packing light.

Make the Best Use of Your Under-Seat Bag

Finally, remember that you get not one, but two things to carry onto the plane – a bag that goes into the overhead and a smaller bag that fits under the seat in front of you.

Don’t waste the space in that second bag!

My go-to is a roomy backpack because I travel with a lot of electronics – laptop, Kindle, phone, ear buds and all of the cords and accessories they require. But those only take up two zippered compartments. That leaves two more compartments for other things – makeup bag, an extra pair of shoes, etc.

The other thing that works for me is a big striped bag that is super flexible. I can cram a lot into it and still stuff it under the seat. The downside of that is it is heavy to carry, unlike my backpack which easily distributes the weight across my shoulders.

Practice, Practice, Practice

I know. This isn’t easy. Especially if you’ve always been an overpacker. But practice will make perfect. Try it on your next quick weekend trip. That will give you a chance to see how it feels to only pack what you’ll need for 2-3 days, how much you like being able to lift that light carry-on bag and how happy you are not worrying about whether your suitcase will show up at the other end of your flight.

Just remember to pack one more thing: a credit card. That way, if you find you truly can’t live without something for a few days, you can head to the store to buy it.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you an overpacker or an underpacker? What’s your favorite packing hack? Share with us in the comment section below.

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How to Make Your Own Essential Oil Blend for Mature Skin (Recipe)

A Basic Essential Oil Blend for Everyday Mature Skin Care

With all the wonderful natural facial serums on the market today, it can be a little overwhelming choosing the correct formula with safe, non-toxic ingredients, all at a reasonable price. The good news is that it’s easy and fun to make a quality product on your own using the miracle of nature – essential oils. 

When I started working with skincare formulas in 2003, one of the first products I was excited about making was an essential oil-based facial serum. My skin needs were changing, and a moisturizing oil made perfect sense for dry, maturing skin.

I decided to work with four wonderful healthy aging essential oils I had discovered: Lavender, Frankincense, Rose Geranium, and Carrot Seed.

The natural and highly effective nature of essential oils makes them perfect for skincare. When blended for their various properties and used with a carrier oil that matches your skin type, you can create a serum tailor-made for your skin.

What Are Essential Oils?

Essential oils are the essence of plants. Hidden away in many parts of the plant, like the flowers, seeds, and roots, they are very potent chemical compounds. They can give the plant its scent, protect it from harsh conditions, and help with pollination.

The benefits of essential oils on humans are diverse and amazing. Lavender flower oil, for example, contains compounds that help soothe skin irritation and redness, while the scent reduces feelings of anxiety and stress.

The beautiful Rose essential oil is hydrating to the skin and sometimes used to treat scarring, while the scent is known to help lift depression. 

There are many essential oils to choose from for specific skincare needs. I have used a myriad of different combinations but keep coming back to the tried and true blend from my very first serum.

The four essential oils used are the workhorses of skincare for mature skin, as well as being wonderfully uplifting for mind, body, and spirit. 

The Base Oil Blend Formula

Here’s what you’ll need:

Bottle

1 oz. amber dropper bottle. You can find those in pharmacies or online.

Base (Carrier) Oil

As a base, you can use one of the oils below or a combination of several that meet your skin’s needs:

  • Jojoba oil is my base oil of choice. It’s incredible for most skin types: it’s extremely gentle and non-irritating for sensitive skin, moisturizing for dry skin, balancing for oily skin, ideal for combination skin, and offers a barrier of protection from environmental stressors. It also helps skin glow as it delivers deep hydration.
  • Rosehip oil smooths the skin’s texture and calms redness and irritation.
  • Argan oil contains high levels of vitamin E and absorbs thoroughly into the skin leaving little oily residue.
  • Avocado oil is effective at treating age spots and sun damage, as well as helping to soothe inflammatory conditions such as blemishes and eczema.
  • Olive oil is a heavier oil and the perfect choice if your skin needs a mega-dose of hydration. Just be aware that olive oil takes longer to absorb and leaves the skin with an oily feeling. This may be desirable for extremely dry, red, itchy skin.

Essential Oils

  • Lavender essential oil is very versatile and healing. It helps reduce inflammation, kill bacteria, and clear pores. Its scent is also calming and soothing.
  • Frankincense essential oil helps to tone and strengthen mature skin in addition to fighting bacteria and balancing oil production.
  • Rose Geranium essential oil helps tighten the skin by reducing the appearance of fine lines, helps reduce inflammation and fight redness, and offers anti-bacterial benefits to help fight the occasional breakout. The scent is also known to be soothing and balancing.
  • Carrot seed oil is a fantastic essential oil for combination skin. It helps even the skin tone while reducing inflammation and increasing water retention.

The Recipe

Let’s start with a simple recipe:

  • 1 oz. Jojoba oil (or carrier oil of your choice)
  • 10 drops Lavender
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 10 drops Rose Geranium
  • 10 drops Carrot seed oil 

Place the essential oil drops in the amber dropper bottle then fill with Jojoba/carrier oil. It’s that simple!

Applying Your Homemade Serum

Use this serum morning and evening as part of your regular skincare routine. Serums work best when applied after cleansing your face. You can cleanse with Coconut Oil or a mixture of oils for enhanced hydration (we will cover this in the next article) or use your regular facial cleanser.

Essential oils will not interfere in any way with your normal skincare products.

Keep in mind that the serum is concentrated. Use only a pea-sized amount, work it into your fingertips, and apply evenly over the face without tugging or pulling.

If your skin feels tacky, reduce the amount on the next application. Your skin should feel soft, not oily. Follow with your regular moisturizer if you like. 

Making your own facial serum is fun and rewarding! I look forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas on essential oils and making personalized serums and skincare.

What facial serum do you use? Have you made one yourself? What is your favorite essential oil for skin care? Please share your thoughts with our community!

Packing Anxiety? When to Stop Overthinking and Check the Dang Bag

Packing Anxiety When to Stop Overthinking and Check the Dang Bag

For most flights, I pack a carry-on and a tote bag as a personal item. For a short trip (5 days or less), it’s all the room I need. But sometimes, I need to check a bag. It’s not the nightmare it was when fees were high and lost bags were common. If you’re a committed carry-on-only traveler, here are reasons why you should consider checking a larger suitcase on your next trip.

Fee-Free and Peace of Mind

Like many fliers, I became a carry-on convert when airlines began charging fees for checking bags. Paying an additional $35-$50 for a convenience I’d grown used to seemed unfair. It took me a while to get used to traveling lighter. I’ve mastered it now. My reliable TravelPro Maxlite 5 spinner holds a ton when loaded strategically with packing cubes, and it’s never too heavy to hurl into the overhead bins.

Another reason travelers abandoned checking bags was to avoid lost luggage. Nothing kills a trip faster than realizing your bag is never going to slide down the chute onto the carousel.

But it’s growing increasingly easy to avoid both luggage fees and lost baggage.

Free checked luggage is a perk of many premium airline credit cards and frequent flier programs. I choose JetBlue whenever possible, and a free checked bag is one of the benefits for me and up to 3 traveling companions.

And, according to SITA, a leading provider of technology solutions for airlines, lost bags per 1,000 have decreased by 63% since 2007 despite surging passenger numbers. They cite improved digitization, increased use of biometrics and AI as reasons for the decrease.

Also read, Best Way to Use Packing Cubes – You’ll Never Travel Without Them Again!

Check It or Carry On?

I try to decide whether I’ll be packing a large suitcase or a carry-on a week or so before my trip. It helps me plan outfits, shoes and toiletries, so I’m less likely to forget an essential item like my eyeglasses. If I’m going with a checked bag, I need to venture into the attic. My wheelie bag lives on the top shelf of my closet so it’s ready to go when I am!

Another thing to keep in mind if you decide to check your bag is to make sure you have a well-attached luggage tag updated with your recent address, phone and email information.

Here are the five reasons why I think checking a bag is better than traveling with a carry-on.

Security Is a Breeze

TSA PreCheck eliminated much of my security stress. However, when I travel with a carry-on, I still ask if I need to remove my laptop and liquids. I need to scramble for multiple bins. And I’m always concerned that I’ve forgotten something. When my suitcase is checked, I slide my laptop out of my tote, pass through the scanner and move on my way.

Bring All the Things

Packing a carry-on involves making a series of decisions. This sweater or that one? These sandals or those? It works for me most of the time since I’ve realized that no one cares what I’m wearing. But, for other trips, I like the flexibility to bring more shoes or full-sized toiletries. And I don’t have to overstuff a carry-on, so there’s always room for souvenirs.

Less Schlepping

I’ve been taking more solo trips since I’m retired and my husband, family and friends are still working. It’s wonderful, but I’m frequently navigating airports on my own. So there’s no one to watch my bag while I dart into the restroom. If you’ve tried to wheel your bag into a bathroom stall, you understand the hassle.

No Overhead Bin Drama

Not boarding until Zone 5? The overhead bin space will be gone by then, and your bag will be gate-checked. Perhaps you’ll get lucky and be able to pick it up on the ramp. But, there’s always the possibility you’ll end up at the baggage carousel. When you check your bag, you can board with your hands free and not have to fight for your right to stow.

Special Occasions

You plan on hiking. Or you’re going to a destination wedding. Maybe you’re traveling for two or three weeks. There are times when you need to travel with bulky items, things that need special care or just more stuff. I visit family overseas several times a year. They always have a list of “please bring if you have the room” items. And that’s when a checked bag becomes a trip-saver.

Also check out Best 9 Carry-on Rolling Suitcases.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you carry on or check your bag? Has your luggage been lost on a flight? Is your favorite bag a classic neutral or fun color?

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5 Ways That Connecting with Other People Keeps Us Strong and Positive in Our 60s

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One of the things I’ve noticed about getting older is my tendency to try and keep things neat and predictable. I often long for a life that requires few changes and gives me plenty of time to control my own environment. I get it that this is a pipe dream, but it’s also not what’s really best for me.

After a lifetime of living, working and playing with other people, I know at least a couple of things are true:

First, other people can make you crazy with their emotional ups and downs and their changeable lives, and second, without them, my own life may feel more in my control, but it is much less rich.

So, despite the countless times we may feel disrupted by our friends and family, the real beauty of life comes from connection.

Connecting Gives Us a Fuller View of the World

As much as I might want to hole up and live my life in peace and solitude, it is by connecting with other people that I can see and experience the world as it really is.

And why wouldn’t I want to do that?

Sure, sometimes it drives us nuts having to put up with other people’s schedules and habits, but we learn about our environment by involving ourselves with it, not by retreating.

If we stand next to a stranger at a bus stop, simply asking them how their day is going can start a conversation. From those first words, the chances are very great that we will learn something we didn’t know before. Not bad for the price of a bus ticket.

Connecting Develops Our Empathy

To truly connect with another person, we need to listen – both to their verbal and their nonverbal communication. We need to see and feel what they are seeing and feeling. This is real connection.

With it comes an authentic understanding, not only of who that person is, but what it feels like to be him or her. As a result, we share on a much more meaningful level, and we come away from the interaction feeling as if we have truly connected with someone else.

As botanist and inventor George Washington Carver once said, “Resolve to be tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and the wrong. Sometime in life you will have been all of these.”

Each of these acts requires connection and results in connection.

Connecting Expands Our Creativity

When we are willing to see connections that we might not immediately notice if we’re simply going through the motions and engaged in superficial relationships, we get creative. If we let other people in, we almost always learn a new way to think or solve a problem.

If we remove our self-imposed barriers and let ourselves connect, we get to see unique ways of doing things and more significant links between people, ideas and relationships.

This reminds me of the old adage that “two heads are better than one.” I’ve rarely come up with a better idea or solution alone than I have with another person, even if I was reluctant at first to ask for help.

Connecting Teaches Us About Ourselves

Making a real connection with another person can be the only mirror we’ll ever need. If I stay isolated from other people, I may feel as if I have more control over my environment, but I also have no way of really knowing how I’m being perceived and understood in the world.

If I am a little afraid of connecting or engaging, it’s easy to make up some strange ideas about the way people see me.

When I’m brave enough to have truthful relationships, it definitely helps me to see myself better and to understand how people see me. I certainly don’t have to change to please them, but it can help me to see parts of myself I might not be aware of.

Connecting Reminds Us That We Are Better Together

Naturalist John Muir once said, “When one tugs at a single thing in nature, he finds it attached to the rest of the world.” This is true for people, too. When we meet the challenges of the world together, we have the history, wisdom and resources of at least two people, if not many more.

Avoiding these connections because we are tired or overwhelmed may make sense on an immediate, practical level, but in the long run, it’s the human connection that keeps us strong and moving forward.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What is the main thing that keeps you from connecting? How can you get yourself past that? What group or individual do you think you could connect with more regularly? Please ponder on this in the comments below.

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