Month: February 2020

This New Way of Looking at Fitness After 50 Can Change Your Life!

This New Way of Looking at Fitness After 50 Can Change Your Life!

Doing seven hours of specific and
targeted physical activity a week – yup, I can happily say that I’m fit for my
age. Getting fit
after 40
with
my new career as a personal trainer was something I relished after years
working in retail management.

Sometimes, whilst working around the
house or garden, I stop and am literally startled at what a body can do at over
60 years of age. I’m not saying this to boast. I just want to start in a
positive light. 

The Past of Fitness

The only time I can remember my mother
ever went to an exercise class or did anything to explicitly improve her
fitness was, unfortunately, when she was in a wheelchair. 

It was a locally organized community
group to encourage older adults to do some sort of movement. But, even then, I
remember her poo-pooing the idea that there would be any benefit at all. 

Sadly, our parents’ generation grew up
to the set standard of working hard, raising a family, and upon reaching 60 (or
65 for men), retirement. There was little to no deviation from the usual ongoing
chores like eating, sleeping, and having the occasional trip, interspersed with
watching Days of Our Lives.

Of course, our parents aren’t at
fault. The current ‘older’ generation – yes, like me and you – are fully aware
of the meaning of the simple but true maxim “use it or lose it,” but
awareness does not always turn into action.

We are more aware of the benefits of
regular exercise than ever before, but still we make excuses. It is sometimes
hard to get into a habit of physical activity without the immediate
gratification of positive results. Like a lot of things in life, however, if
you keep at it the rewards will be all too evident.

What Does Fitness Mean?

According to one source, fitness is “The ability to carry out daily tasks and routine physical activities
without undue fatigue.” That’s quite uninspiring though.

You could sit around all day and internally
believe that, at any time, you’ll be ready to get up to prepare dinner or chop
some wood. But would that be true?

The above definition easily creates
association with the saying “fit for purpose.” And if something is not fit for
purpose then you might as well bin it.

On another note, we all know that astronauts
are fit people. They’d have to be. Millions of dollars have been spent on high-tech cardio and weight resistance machines that try to keep them fit whilst in
space.

Shockingly, during their stay at the
International Space Station (ISS), astronauts can lose up to 50% of their
aerobic capacity
.
Additionally, bone and muscle mass decreases significantly up in space – for every
month spent on the ISS, astronauts may lose up to 1% of their bone density
without proper exercise.

It’s no surprise then that an
astronaut’s life is much the same as a person over 60 with no physical
commitments. When someone is inactive for long periods, strength, bone, and
muscle mass is lost and the body atrophies.

Never Too Late to Start Exercising from Home

It’s never too late to start a regular
program of physical activity. And if you’re just beginning, a great place to start
exercising is from home
.
It will be beneficial whatever age you are.

First of all, I am not a medical
practitioner and my suggestions are based on personal or anecdotal experience,
so if you’re in any doubt about proceeding with an exercise program, please
check with your medical professional beforehand. 

Areas of Fitness

There are generally three areas that
concern fitness.

Cardio

Cardiovascular, as the name suggests,
is a form of continuous steady physical activity that activates the heart and
respiratory system. Having efficient oxygen take-up to all the cells in your
body minimizes the risk of related heart diseases and cancers.

Strength

Strength comes from activating the
major and anterior muscle groups to make the body stronger with better balance.
The resulting leaner muscle promotes good weight management and lessens the
risk of many aging-related diseases.

Strength and resistance exercises lead
to stronger bones, which lessens the risk of osteoporosis in later life. The
bone mass can be retained and can even grow with correct strength training.

Stretch

The third and least stressful of our
pillars of fitness is stretching, though many don’t always see the importance and
benefits of gentle but purposeful body movements.

All You Need to Start Exercising from Home

To get started with exercise, you
don’t need any specific training equipment. Ideally, a towel, a mat, suitable
clothing, water, perhaps a sturdy chair, and a favorite video series would do
quite well.

An initial program should cover cardio, strength,
warming up beforehand, and stretching after. As you get fitter, stronger, and
faster you can up the tempo, use weights, and follow a video series that pushes
a little further.

Fitness Blender has 500 videos aimed at all levels.

Exercising Can Be Fun

In addition to those two or three
weekly workouts from home, you can find an exercise group that can help you
stay social and have fun.

Make a weekly date with a like-minded
friend or friends to keep you motivated to maintain the habit. Exercising
together, maybe in a class where you meet people is good for general
well-being.

Some suggestions include dancing, tai-chi,
yoga, swimming or aquafit, mall walking, hiking, and cycling. Anything that
gets your body moving and the heart pumping is beneficial and fun.

Whatever you choose, keep it up and enjoy.
Let us know how you go.

What makes up your exercise regime? If
you haven’t started one yet, what are you afraid of? What type of exercise do
you think you would enjoy the most? Please share in the comments below.

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Are You “Dueling” with Clutter? How to Win the Battle and Get Your Life Back

Are You “Dueling” with Clutter How to Win the Battle and Get Your Life Back

Are you fighting
a never-ending battle with clutter? If you think you are alone, you’re not!

According
to the National Association of Professional Organizers:

  • 54% of Americans are overwhelmed by clutter.
  • 55% say clutter is a huge source of stress.
  • 33% hold onto things they no longer want, need,
    or use.

Americans
are “dueling” with too much stuff, and they know that it is impacting their
health, wealth, and relationships. It is costing them time, money, energy – and focus.

The Pain of Living Cluttered Lives

The other
day, I received a call from a new client, who was responding to an article I
had written, “Breaking
Up with Your Stuff Is Hard to Do.”

She said,
“I really need your help. I can’t seem to get rid of all of the clutter in my
home. It is everywhere and it is literally making me sick! I’m overwhelmed and
don’t know where to start.” She continued, “No matter how many new storage
containers and organizers I buy, my problem just seems to get worse.”

STOP! Buying
more pretty baskets, storage containers or organizing bins is like putting a
band-aid on a gaping wound.

Americans
are drowning in their stuff, and we are making desperate attempts (like buying
more files, shelves, and plastic bins) to try to take back control of our
lives. Our overabundance of “stuff” is making us miserable, causing stress,
anxiety, frustration, overwhelm, and embarrassment.

The impact
that it has on the quality of our lives is great. Our cluttered lives prevent
us from living a simpler life with less, so we have more time, money, freedom,
and energy to pursue what matters most to us.

In my TEDx
Talk, “Downsize
Your Life: Why Less is More,”
I confess to once owning 11 closets and 9
rolling racks of clothes. My ultimate realization during my downsizing and decluttering
journey was that buying more “stuff” didn’t make me happier.

In fact,
the more I bought, the emptier and less fulfilled I became. Once I disrupted
the downward spiral of thinking I needed more, and once I changed my
relationship to “stuff,” I won the battle! Stuff no longer owned or consumed my
life. I got my life back and never looked back!

Many
people complain that they do not have enough room for all their stuff, while at
the same time saying they know they need to get rid of stuff they no longer
want, need, or use. They are afraid to let go, and yet, they continue to
accumulate and add more.

Is There a Clutter Crisis in America?

Americans
are drowning in “stuff,” yet we continue to buy more. Let me offer a few scary
clutter statistics:

  • 300,000 – this is the
    average number of items in the American home (UCLA study video “A Cluttered Life:
    Middle-Class Abundance)
    .
  • 11% of Americans will rent a storage unit
    in 2020 at a cost of $1,095 per year (Bloomberg).
  • $38 billion that’s how much the storage industry was worth in 2018 with more
    than 50,000 facilities in the U.S. (Bloomberg).

Is It Time to Let Go of Your Stuff and Get Your Life Back?

Every day,
people ask me to help them solve their own clutter crisis. But, before dealing
with the physical clutter, it’s even more important to honestly address these
difficult and confronting questions:

WHY Do You Want to Declutter?

  • What is the impact clutter is having on the
    quality of your life and on your happiness?
  • WHAT is it costing you in time, money, energy,
    and freedom?
  • HOW is it impacting your relationships?

WHY Do You Buy and Accumulate More Than You Need? Does It…

  • Make you feel more secure?
  • Make you feel happier and less lonely after
    loss or divorce?
  • Make you feel more important, more successful?
  • Make you feel like you can measure up to
    others?

WHY Do You Have Difficulty Letting Go of Stuff?

We often
attach meaning to our stuff and are afraid, resist, or procrastinate in letting
go.

  • Sentiment – Our
    “stuff” can be reminders or memories of special people, places, or times in our
    lives.
  • Security – Feeling
    safe and secure is a basic human need. Does owning an excessive amount of physical
    possessions make us feel safer and more secure?
  • Scarcity – Fear of
    not having enough or being without can have us hold on tight. The idea that we
    spent “good money” on something and would be wasting it if we got rid of it is
    also a reason we don’t want to let go.
  • Someday – Resisting
    or procrastinating in letting go… just in case you might need it someday!

10-Step Plan to Win the Battle with Clutter

Here is a handy
10-step plan that can help you win your space for yourself and effectively get
rid of clutter.

Vision

Create a
vision for what your life will look like without clutter. Then, focus on what
matters most in your life.

Willingness to Do What It Takes

Commit to
making changes – getting rid of clutter and not allowing it back into your home
and your life.

Stop Buying More

Develop
the mindset of having enough and being enough. You don’t really need more.

Create a Plan

Strategize.
Set Goals. Create a Timeline. Track progress. Have accountability partners.

Ask for Help

If you
think you need help, ask for it. From family, friends, professionals who are
not emotionally attached to your stuff.

Schedule Decluttering

Pick a favorite
decluttering method and a schedule that works for you and stick to it. Start
small or start big. Just start today!

Develop Your “Letting Go” Muscle

If you
don’t want it, need it, or use it, let it go. Sell it, donate it, repurpose it.

Have Fun

Make
decluttering a game. Laugh at yourself and why you accumulated so much in the
first place.

Be Resilient

You will
get stuck, you will want to quit, you will question why you are doing this.
Recall your reasons for wanting to live with less. This will serve as a
reminder and motivate you to continue on your journey.

Remember, This Is a Journey

Along the
way, you might actually realize how much less you need, but even better, how
much less you want.

Decluttering is a process that takes time, effort, and
commitment. It takes real courage to “duel” with your clutter. But, I assure
you, it is a fight worth winning!

What decluttering challenges are you having? How long do
you think it would take you to get rid of the stuff you don’t need? I would
love to hear from you so let’s have a conversation!

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Teresa Giudice’s Blue Metallic Pants

Teresa Giudice’s Blue Metallic Pants at the Jersey Shore

Season 10 Episode 14 Real Housewives of New Jersey Fashion

Teresa Giudice was totally serving up some eighties realness at the dinner on last night’s episode of Jersey Shore The Real Housewives of New Jersey in a pair of super fierce blue metallic pants that were seriously not to be missed. And although her exact pair is unfortunately sold out, no need to fret because we’ve included some Style Stealers down below that’ll totally have you wanting to throw some fists pump asap. 

Fashionably,

Faryn

Teresa Giudice’s Blue Metallic Pants

AG Adriano Goldschmied Pants Sold Out

Originally posted at: Teresa Giudice’s Blue Metallic Pants

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Jackie Goldschneider’s Black Ring Jumpsuit

Jackie Goldschneider’s Black Ring Jumpsuit at the Jersey Shore

Season 10 Episode 14 Real Housewives of New Jersey Fashion

With it’s side cutouts and middle ring, Jackie Goldschneider’s black jumpsuit at the Jersey Shore on last night’s episode of The Real Housewives of New Jersey was just so up our alley, so you can imagine our disappointment at finding out that it’s sold out. Oh and not only that, but that it was apparently last on sale for only $69; which in the words of Jackie’s son, reallyyyy “f**cking sucks.”

Fashionably,

Faryn

Jackie Goldschneider's Black Ring Jumpsuit

Click Here to See Her Sold Out Fifth & Mode Jumpsuit

Originally posted at: Jackie Goldschneider’s Black Ring Jumpsuit

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Kristin Cavallari’s Black Crop Top

Kristin Cavallari’s Black Crop Top with Audrina and Heidi

Very Cavallari Season 3 Episode 6 Fashion

Kristin Cavallari looks like one hot mama in her black puff sleeve crop top hanging out with her old friends from The Hills on tonight’s episode of Very Cavallari. I know it’s been years since theses ladies were originally on Laguna Beach and The Hills, but they are looking better than ever. And even if we weren’t invited to this gathering of the coolest mom’s group ever, at least we can buy Kristin’s top and hopefully her personal trainer to combat some of the FOMO.

The Realest Housewife,

Big Blonde Hair

Kristin Cavallari's Black Crop Top

Click Here to Shop her Racil Crop Top on Sale

Click Here to Shop Additional Stock

Click Here to Shop it in White

Originally posted at: Kristin Cavallari’s Black Crop Top

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