The Bachelor Fashion: Season 25 Finale

While Matt James and his mom may believe that “feelings change” much to the chagrin of Chris Harrison, our feelings regarding the outfits we saw on last night’s very dramatic season finale of The Bachelor certainly have not yet. And if you can say the same this morning, well then scroll on down below and make sure to show your everlasting commitment to them by clicking “add to cart.”

Fashionably,

Faryn

Katie Thurston’s Dress on After the Final Rose

Click Here to Shop Her Gauge81 Dress in Fuchsia or Black

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Rachael Kirkconnell’s Green Sequin Halter Gown

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Rachael Kirkconnell’s Black Square Neck Bodysuit

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Michelle Young’s Camel Turtleneck Sweater

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Originally posted at: The Bachelor Fashion: Season 25 Finale

“Becoming an Old Person in Training makes it easier
to think critically about what age means in this society and the forces at work
behind depictions of older people as useless and pathetic.” —Ashton Applewhite

When
most people talk about aging, they portray it as decline, holding onto this
misguided belief while the best years pass them by. Sadly, the anti-aging
message is pervasive in our society, and the increasing rates of social isolation among older adults speak
volumes about our views on aging.

But
what if, instead, we looked at aging as a time of growth? How drastically does
that change this image?

There
isn’t something specific about aging that causes a state of decline. Your beliefs are what cause change with age.
Nothing more.

By
telling ourselves we’ve gotten “too old to…” we initiate the
process of decline. If we’d just admit that yes, we are getting older, embrace
this fact, and view aging as an opportunity for further growth, we’d all be much better off.

In
my years as a physical therapist focused on empowering the aging process, I’ve
compiled a list of skills that older adults who age well have in common.
Practice these daily and you too can train wisely for your later years.

In
order to age well, you need to continue to live the life you want to live when
you’re older, day in and day out. No excuses. Start with the list below if you
want to take control of your aging today.

Get On and Off the Floor Daily

Practicing
the floor skill will put you leaps and bounds ahead of most of the aging
population. In the clinic, I’ve heard countless times (even from people as
young as 40) that they’re “too old to be getting on and off the floor.”

This
belief is a detriment to your future health. Research has
found that the inability to get on and off the floor without using your hands
is linked to a higher risk of early death. You read that right.

So, get yourself on the floor and start practicing right now. Start floor sitting as often as the opportunity arises. And when you start to do this in the presence of others, you’ll discover what an unconventional choice this is.

Whenever
I’m with a group of people, and I opt for the floor instead of an open chair,
there are always comments. But remember, people tend to judge based on their
own insecurities. Stick to your principles and be okay with being different.
Being different is the key to aging well.

Practice Balance Daily and Make It Fun

We
hear that balance declines with age, but this has more to do with the behaviors
we adopt as we age instead of aging itself. By definition,
anything we don’t practice daily will be in a state of decline regardless of
age. So, when was the last time you went out of your way to challenge your
balance?

Practicing
balance daily can and should be a lot of fun! Start by
exploring your balance comfort zone. Make note of the surfaces you tend to walk
on, whether or not you’re comfortable standing on one foot, etc. The possibilities
are endless.

Then
once you find your limits, challenge yourself to push past those boundaries
every day.

Reach Your Arms Up Overhead Every Day, as Often as You Can

Healthy
shoulder joints have a wide range of motion. As humans in modern life, we use
our shoulders much less often than we used to. The shoulder is a big mover and
a complex joint surrounded by a lot of muscles.

Movement
of the shoulder joint is also key to our lymphatic system and blood
circulation. An astounding number of older adults lose the ability to lift
their arms up past shoulder height simply due to underuse.

So,
keep this skill by practicing daily. Just as mentioned above, start by noticing
your normal habits. You might be surprised at how many times throughout your
day you intentionally avoid lifting your arms up.

Next,
notice how quickly your shoulders get tired when you do this. Then start to
incorporate more shoulder range in your daily activities. This could be as
simple as hanging your clothes on a clothesline or slowly putting dishes away
in an overhead cupboard.

Start Crawling and Hanging from Trees

Crawling
and tree pull-ups? These are the most unconventional suggestions on this list
by far but are vital to the health, strength, and function of your upper body.

Just
as healthy shoulder joints should have a large range of motion, they should
also be strong enough to allow you to hang from a tree and do a pull-up.

In
fact, your shoulder joint won’t have fully developed strength until you can
perform these tasks. But due to our modern environment, most of us haven’t
performed either of these activities for a very long time, so we are likely to
injure ourselves if we try.

Start
with crawling to practice loading your shoulder joints. This is also a great
way to strengthen your core and prevent osteoporosis of the wrists. As you
start to gain stability in your shoulder joints with crawling, start to explore
hanging from your hands.

Laugh, Find Others to Move with, and Make It a Game

And
last but not least, one of the most important ways you can train well for aging
is to find a group of people you enjoy being with and laugh every day.

Find
others with similar interests and habits to keep yourself around like-minded
individuals. Make a habit out of being spontaneous and enjoying yourself. Take
walks with your family or groups of friends.

And
find books, podcasts, blogs – any resource with positive aging voices – to be
part of your community as well. Social isolation is actually considered a risk
factor for frailty in older adults and earlier risk of death. Combat isolation
by continuing to expose yourself to new experiences and people.

Above
are just a few suggestions to become an older adult in training, but the
possibilities are endless. Continue to live your life as you want to live it as
you age, day in and day out. No excuses.

Where
can you get started training well today? Which of the above suggestions do you
do every day? Which of them have you not done for quite some time? Are you
willing to start training for old age? Please share your thoughts with our
community and let’s age well together!

Rachael Kirkconnell’s Dress on After the Final Rose

The Bachelor Season 25 Finale Fashion

While we’ll have to wait and see Rachael Kirkconnell address the scandal she went through off-camera on tonight’s After the Final Rose special, we wouldn’t be doing our jobs without addressing the red velvet one shoulder dress she’s seen wearing. And of course linking it for you to shop down below as your possible final rose credit card transaction of the season.

Fashionably,

Faryn

Click Here to Shop Her Monse Dress on Sale

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The Bachelor: After the Final Rose Airs MONDAY, MARCH 15 (10:00-11:03 p.m. EST), on ABC. (ABC/Craig Sjodin)

Originally posted at: Rachael Kirkconnell’s Dress on After the Final Rose

Michelle Young’s Dress on After the Final Rose

The Bachelor Season 25 Finale Fashion

Sure we may not be Reality Steve here, however we’ve still decided to provide you with a little fashion spoiler of the dress you’ll be seeing Michelle Young wear on tonight’s episode of The Bachelor: After the Final Rose. And although it’s usually Ms. Young giving out the grades, needless to say we’re totally giving this glittering lewk a very deserving A+. 

Fashionably,

Faryn

Click Here to Shop Her Alexandre Vauthier Dress

The Bachelor: After the Final Rose Airs MONDAY, MARCH 15 (10:00-11:03 p.m. EST), on ABC. (ABC/Craig Sjodin)

Originally posted at: Michelle Young’s Dress on After the Final Rose

It happened every time I went to a senior assisted living facility to do a workshop on telling life stories. I would enter a room filled with seniors in varying degrees of ability…

Some are in wheelchairs, some have caregivers, some clearly can’t hear or see very well.

They are in their 80s and 90s – sometimes they’re close to 100. They could be my parents. They could be yours.

It’s easy to dismiss this group as a room full of old people. It’s even easier for each person in that room to make light of their life stories and insist that no one wants to hear what they have to say.

But I know better.

The Story Behind a Life Well Lived

I have been listening to the life stories of seniors for a long time.

I know that at first, each of the seniors will, in their own way, minimize the history of their life. “Eh,” said one elderly woman, a former nurse. “My life is so boring.”

But then I start asking questions and the room begins to buzz. “Tell me about a historical moment that happened in your life,” I ask, “and how it impacted you.” They all start furiously writing or they dictate breathlessly to a caregiver. Then we start sharing the stories out loud.

Turns out, everyone in that room had experienced the same club fire that happened in the 1940s in this city, but in different ways.

One woman lost her mother in that fire and described how much her life changed after that. Another woman lost two friends, another remembers hearing about it and being frightened.

It also turns out that my ‘boring’ nurse, who is black, went to nursing school in a city and in an era when black women struggled to be treated equally. She faced down constant racism in her determination to become a nurse. Why? With a shrug, she explains that she really wanted to be a nurse.

So Very Ordinary – or Maybe Not

These are ordinary men and women with extraordinary stories.

All life stories are.

I love hearing them. And these seniors love telling them. As they recount their stories, they rediscover their younger selves and start to see their life as the journey – and the adventure – that it was.

But life stories also have the power to resonate throughout the generations. They let us and our children understand upon whose shoulders we stand.

They provide the string that winds throughout a family, explaining so much – from how one child has a seemingly inexplicable musical gift to the sudden appearance of a redhead to the religious traditions that were handed down.

That is why it is imperative that we ask the right questions and then listen.

So many of us visit with our elderly parents – bringing along our kids – and we sit around and talk. We talk about the latest sports scores, about our children’s latest triumphs, about what is going on in the world. Sometimes we look for things to talk about.

Ask and Write Down

Why not ask your father what it was like to grow up in his neighborhood? Ask him to describe his house or a typical evening when he was young.

Ask your mother who her best friend was when she was 10. Ask her about her favorite recipes. Ask her how she met your father and when she knew she was in love.

Better yet, have your children ask these questions.

And make sure they record the answers or write them down. At first, you can tell them what to ask. Pretty soon, they’ll come up with their own questions.

And they’ll get the opportunity to see their grandparents as the unique, interesting people that they are.

That is an opportunity that doesn’t last forever, and these days you can do it over Zoom.

How much do your children know about their heritage? What do you know about your family history? Let’s talk about it. Please start the conversation below.