Jackie Goldschneider’s Tan Striped Knit Dress

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While Jackie Goldschneider’s opinions made Teresa Giudice as red as John Fuda’s chest on last night’s Real Housewives of New Jersey, her tan striped knit dress made me green with envy. Especially when I clocked that it was sold out. But don’t worry, these Style Stealers will leave you waxing poetic.

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Intermix Shelley Striped Dress

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Lisa Barlow’s Black Sunglasses on Her Instastories

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Lisa Barlow has been giving us allllll the sunglasses inspo lately on her IG stories. Now we have another pair of black cat eye/square sunglasses seen below. This means that we clearly can never have enough pairs of sunglasses. But, you don’t need any further justification on that other than you will look baby gorgeous in these.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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In music there are stronger beats and weaker beats. In 4/4 time (4 beats per measure), beat 1 is generally the strongest beat and beat 3 is the second strongest. This point is well illustrated in this video. When conductor Gustavo Dudamel turns around to face the audience you can see him pulsing his left hand on beats 1 and 3, and the audience is clapping on beats 1 and 3. Beats 2 and 4 are counted in between, but not felt as strongly.

Sometimes music doesn’t start on the strong beat 1! The Godfather theme Speak Softly Love starts with what we call a “pickup” – it starts with beats 2-3-4 (“Speak soft-ly”) followed by beat 1 (“love”), the strong beat. Count along with this performance of Speak Softly Love starting with “2-3-4, 1-2-3-4” etc.

Today you will learn about pickups as we work through p.27 in Upper Hands Piano, BOOK 1.

[NOTE: If you are just joining us for the first time, you will find the list of my previous Sixty and Me Free Piano Lessons at the bottom of this post.]

6.1 What Is a Pickup in Music?

Pickups are incomplete measures that don’t start with beat 1. When a piece has an incomplete measure at the beginning, the missing beat(s) must be in the last measure of the piece; the number of beats in the first measure plus the number of beats in the last measure added together equal the top number of the time signature.

For example, if a piece is in 3/4 time, with a one beat pickup, the missing two beats will be in the final measure. Watch the video below for more information about pickups!

6.2 The Quarter Rest

French composer Claude Debussy famously said that music is in the silence between the notes. We have symbols for those silences, and they are called rests! On p.27 you see that a QUARTER REST is equal in length to a QUARTER NOTE; it indicates 1 beat of silence.

After you watch video 6.2, try the MUSICAL MATH exercise. You will count a QUARTER REST the same as a QUARTER NOTE: 1 beat. The first musical math problem shows a quarter rest plus a quarter note. That is 1 + 1 = 2. To check your answers, go to my website: UpperHandsPiano.com, click on ANSWERS at the top, then click on p.27 under “BOOK 1 ANSWERS.”

6.3 When the Saints Go Marching In, p.28

As I demonstrated When the Saints Go Marching In on p.28, I counted “1-2-3-4, 1” then I started playing on beat 2. That’s because the song has a pickup that starts on beat 2. Notice that there is a QUARTER REST in the last measure of the song. This 1-beat rest plus the 3 beats in the first (incomplete) measure together equal 4 beats. All measures in 4/4 time must contain 4 beats, with the exception of the first and last measures, which together must add up to 4 beats if the first measure contains a pickup.

6.4 Eighth Notes, p.29

Eighth Notes are a little tricky. 2 eighth notes are equal in time length to 1 quarter note. So now, instead of counting a piece “1-2-3-4,” we count “1 and 2 and 3 and 4 and” so that we can be sure of playing the eighth notes exactly twice as fast as quarter notes.

In this video I explain more about eighth notes, and I demonstrate the exercise at the top of p.29, twice. In the second demonstration I am using a metronome. You may have a cool old metronome from years past, but today most people just use a metronome app on their phone or tablet. There are many free metronome apps available, just choose one that looks good to you, and you will be able to use it after a short download to your device.

Press and hold the center knob pushing it up to make it slower and down to make it faster. I set mine to 58 (beats per minute or BPM). I don’t use metronomes all the time, but they are helpful when you are first learning a new rhythm. They keep you honest when you start to veer from the beat. If playing with the metronome confuses you too much, don’t worry about it. You can try using it again later in your studies.

6.5 The Half Rest and Hallelujah, p.29

Rests are very common in music, so I introduce a HALF REST at the bottom of p.29. A HALF REST indicates 2 beats of silence and is equal in length to a HALF NOTE. In the second measure of Hallelujah, you see a HALF REST. That measure therefore contains 2 notes and 2 beats of silence.

Here’s how to remember what a HALF REST looks like. This is important because they look a lot like a WHOLE REST which you will learn about on p.37. “A HALF REST sits like a HAT on a table” is the little saying we used to use when I was first learning to play the piano.

6.6 Oranges and Lemons + the Value of Reviewing, p.30

In this video I demonstrate Oranges and Lemons on p.30. Be sure that your EIGHTH NOTES are exactly twice as fast as your QUARTER NOTES. Students tend to rush them, thinking that they are very fast, but they are exactly 2 for 1; 2 EIGHTH NOTES played evenly in the time of 1 QUARTER NOTE.

OK! I’ve presented many new musical concepts in Lessons 5 and 6! This is what we call music theory, and it can be a bit tricky when you are first learning it. In the coming weeks we will focus more on the songs and less on introducing new terminology and rhythms. I’ve just had to show you a lot to get you started, so stick with me and I promise you will have fun in Lesson 7! Here are our past lessons:

INTRODUCTION: Getting Started

LESSON 2: Reading and Playing Our First Notes

LESSON 3: Health Issues and Playing the Piano

LESSON 4: Feel the Beat

LESSON 5: Bass G

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you find that it is easier to play songs and pieces that you have heard before? If so, you probably have a good ear that helps you play the notes and rhythms more easily. Have you been practicing consistently? Try to schedule your practice 3-5 days per week in your calendar for steady progress. What have been your greatest obstacles in learning to play the piano? What have been your triumphs?

Ariana Madix’s NASA Patch Jacket on Instagram

Vanderpump Rules 2023 Instagram Fashion

These strip mall interviews have had the world in a chokehold. Now we have Ariana Madix giving one while wearing a very chic NASA patch jacket. Which makes sense because she is currently the center of the Bravo universe after all. But if you’re not into space exploring at least explore the space below that has the deets on her stellar bomber jacket below.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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In my previous article, I wrote about the lack of reading habits – or lack of love toward reading – in the younger generations. Our grandchildren don’t seem to have a healthy exposure and/or regard toward books which, in turn, inhibits the development of their critical thinking capabilities. Naturally, the whole society will suffer in future years.

If you haven’t read my previous article, you can find it here: THE LOVE OF READING IS ON LIFE SUPPORT – CAN WE SAVE IT?

I spoke with a children’s librarian, Susan Clark. She, like many others, would love to see us inject our grandkids with our own sense of delight and wonder we receive from reading. As well as sharing some of her thoughts and reading tips, Mrs. Clark also suggested some great book choices.

Read to a Child

Regardless of whether you have grandchildren or you read to a non-related child, here are a few examples of “grandparent” books that would be fun to share.

• How to Read to a Grandma or Grandpa by Jean Reagan
• All Grandparents Love Their Grandbabies by Zoe Michal
• The Truth About Grandparents by Elina Ellis
• Llama Llama Gran and Grandpa by Anna Dewdney
• Just Grandma and Me by Mercer Mayer

Let the Child Choose the Book

“Research shows that providing encouragement for children of all ages to enjoy books they choose to read will help them discover the power and joy of reading,” said Scholastic’s chief academic officer Francie Alexander. “These tactics will also help to motivate kids to read more books, which will improve their skills and open a world of possibilities for them in the future.”

Let the Adult Choose a Book

Share your favorite childhood book and talk about what the book meant to you. I’d love to see grandparents reading their old favorites, often overlooked, which may or may not include titles like:

• The Little Engine That Could by Watty Piper
• Mike Mulligan and His Steam Shovel by Virginia Burton
• The Story of Ferdinand by Munro Leaf
• The Ugly Duckling by Jerry Pinkney
• The Digging-est Dog by Al Perkins
• Heidi by Johanna Spyri
• Treasure Island by Robert Louis Stevenson
• Pippi Longstocking by Astrid Lindgren
• Little House on the Prairie by Laura Ingols Wilder
• The Incredible Journey by Sheila Branford

You’re never too old, too wacky, too wild, to pick up a book and read to a child.

—Dr. Seuss

Let the Child Choose a Place

Ask the child where they want to read with you. Cozy up on the sofa, lay on the bed, prop up pillows on the floor, squeeze in the rocking chair together, bask in the sun in lawn chairs, crawl under a table, in a tent or huddle in a closet with a flashlight, climb up in the tree house or go to the local park.

Let the Child Choose the Way

Solo reading (child reads the entire story), partner reading (child reads, then adult reads) or adult reading (adult only reads). Taking turns with your grandkids reading a page at a time is a fun and helpful idea to encourage reading.

It can be done with any book, but here is a series just for that:

• You Read to Me, I’ll Read to You by Mary Ann Hoberman

Read Books About the Child’s Interests

Kids love to read about books that allow them to learn more about what they are already excited about:

• The Amazing Spider-Man by Thomas Macri
• Pinkalicious The Fairy House by Victoria Kann
• Dinosaur Hunters by Kate McMullan
• My Pony by Susan Jeffers
• Backyard Bug Book for Kids by Lauren Davidson

Read Books Where Grandparents Can Share Their Own Interests

• Birds in My Backyard by Lisa Donovan
• The Tiny Seed by Eric Carle
• Do Princesses Wear Hiking Boots by Carmela Coyle
• Let’s Go Fishing by Joshua Mutters
• Who Was Jacki Robinson by Gail Herman

Bring a Book Back as a Souvenir from Your Travels

What a great tradition for your grandchild to look forward to each time you take a trip.

• Here’s an example: Good Night Australia

You’ll never be bored when you try something new. There’s really no limit to what you can do. 

—Dr. Seuss

Make It a Discovery Day

Celebrate with a trip to the library or bookstore together and discover books that are relevant, fun and magical for your grandchild.

Help your grandchild find a book that helps them understand more about where they live and where they come from. Find a book that helps the little reader learn more about the community they live in:

• What’s Great About Arizona by Rebecca Hirsch
• The Seed and the Giant Saguaro by Jennifer Ward
• If You Were a Kid in the Wild West by Tracey Baptiste

Start a Book Club with a Child 

Get each of you a copy of a book to read. Discuss what you learned from it. You can use Face Time, or Skype if need be.

My granddaughter (on the East Coast) and I (on the West Coast) are doing just that. She chose the book The Wicked Fate by Kalynn Bayron.

How About a Career Day?

Reading is deeply formative experience that shows your child the kind of person he or she wants to be. What does he/she want to be when he/she grows up? Reading helps them to discover more about their opportunities.

• I Want to Be a Veterinarian by Laura Driscoll
• Fly High, John Glenn by Kathleen Krull
• Ada Twist, Scientist by Andrea Beaty

The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.

—Dr. Seuss

Take a Field Trip

You and your child could check out Alex Rodriguez’s book Out of the Ballpark and then spend the afternoon together at a local baseball game.

Or take a trip to the ballet after reading Degas and the Little Dancer from Edgar Degas series, Anholt’s Artists Books.

This could also be a great opportunity for the child to bring a friend along… then you are inspiring more kids!

Give the Gift of a Book

What better present for Christmas, birthdays or ‘just cuz’ days.

A monthly subscription that comes in the mail can be a real treat for a child. Why not purchase a gift that ‘keeps on giving’?

Be a Role Model for Your Child

Let the children see you reading often and hear you talking about the books you read.

Listen to Audio Books While Traveling

Here are some ideas for audio books that the entire family might enjoy:

• How To Train Your Dragon by Cressida Cowell
• The Wind in the Willows by Kenneth Grahame
• Mystery in Rocky Mountain National Park by Aaron Johnson
• Inkheart by Cornelia Funk

Read a Book Together, Then Watch the Movie

Two of my granddaughters, their mother and I just read Wonder by R.J. Palacio. We then followed it up with a movie night (and yes… popcorn included!)

Start Your Own Neighborhood Reading Group

Team up with other Grannies that support your mission. Find a good meeting spot, talk to some parents and send out some flyers with date and time.

Spread Books Throughout Your Home

Fill your house with books, in all the crannies and all the nooks.

—Dr. Seuss

When grandkids come to visit let them find books by their bed side, car, bathroom, back porch. Start pursuing the garage sales, library sales and discounted book shops in your area.

Read All Kinds of Books

Pick a variety of books: fiction, non-fiction, poetry, plays, comic books, puzzle books and fun fact books.

Create Your Own Little Free Library Box

Build a creative library box for the children in your neighborhood that will entice them and encourage them to share books with one another.

Let’s work together to breathe life back into this dying pleasure and past-time.

Although if can feel like a mountain in front of us, what better gift to leave the children, and their children, and their children a legacy of the love of reading.

You’re off to Great Places! Today is your day! Your mountain is waiting, So… get on your way!

—Dr. Seuss

Here’s a great website for finding other age-appropriate books for kids: http://childrensbooks.about.com/

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you actively involved in helping a child to read? Would you share some creative ideas to add to our list for those of us that want to re-ignite a love of reading in our children’s lives?