Janice retired to Ecuador a few years ago along with her two twin brothers. A happy bunch that I had the good fortune to meet and become friends with. Janice reminds me of a gleeful faery spreading joy-dust wherever she goes which, thankfully, included my film studio.

All her life, Janice has lived by the motto “if it’s not fun, don’t do it.” Couple that mindset with a smokey eye, silver glitter shadow, lip gloss, and fluffed-up curly hair, and you have our video tutorial for today! With that in mind, these five steps to glamour are so easy to implement as well as to shave off a few years (always an encouraging thought). Let’s get glamorous!

Top 3 Skin Care Items

You don’t need 10 skincare products to have beautiful skin, you really only need three. The active ingredients that have the greatest effect on your skin are oil soluble vitamin C (not water soluble like l-ascorbic acid), retinol or vitamin A, and hyaluronic acid.

In a nutshell, vitamin C is a nourishing antioxidant, brightener, and hydrator, while retinol causes cell turnover which leads to reducing lines and wrinkles and ultimately greater skin health. Lastly, Hyaluronic Acid is a natural plumping agent that adds a youthful glow if used consistently.

For Janice, I used vitamin C, hyaluronic acid, and fulvic acid as a transducer of the other ingredients. In the video, you can see the instant impact of these products on her skin.

Cover Discoloration Around Your Eyes

One of the biggest aging mechanisms is discoloration around the eye area. Having said that, if you use a concealer with a heavy consistency, it will set in fine lines and age you (never a good thing)!

In the video, I used a peachy MAC concealer that does a wonderful job of neutralizing Janice’s discoloration around her eyes, and I also used it to cover redness around her nose and over her eyelid. This does an excellent job of brightening up the entire area and magically making her look more awake and youthful. As an aside, concealer sits better on nourished and hydrated skin which is why I was careful to add vitamin C to her eye area.

Diffuse Heavy Eyeliner

Using black liquid liner around your eyes if you are over 60 means you teeter between looking like an overdone street-walker or a magnificently glamorous movie star without much wiggle room in between the two (always tricky). Unless the street-walker look is what you’re going for, learning a few diffusion tricks is needed.

In Janice’s case, I applied a charcoal eyeshadow with a thin brush along her eyeline first, and then the liquid (or gel in this case) liner on top of it. This softens the edges of the liner and gives a smokey look to the area. You can also do the liner and then the shadow which works as well with less color density.

Brighten the Eye Area

With a heavy liner on the top lashes, it helps to use highlighter under the eyes and on the brow bones to show contrast. Be careful to use highlight that is about one to two shades lighter than your skin, but no more than that. Too large of a contrast to your skin tone and you look, well, weird. I’m not a fan of weird (always a good mentality if you’re a makeup artist), so be sure you are using the right shade.

Another wonderful trick to brighten the eye area is to add either false lashes, or individual lashes placed at the outer edge of each eye. On Janice, I popped 3 individual lashes on each eye, which gave them a lovely lift and opened them up even more.

Add a Pop of Color

Janice’s inner faery loved the wide array of color options on the eyeshadow palette! I ended up picking a vibrant turquoise and adding it under her lower lash line for a splash of color that is so pretty. Be sure to blend it and work with it so it doesn’t take over your face. In this case, it really added a playfulness that worked with Janice’s personality.

Glamorous makeup doesn’t need to be heavy, overdone, or date you. It can be youthful, beautiful, and bring out your brightest and most youthful look! And, if you are a faery sprinkling glitter everywhere, try adding a pop of color and some silver glitter to help you on your way. Will you give it a try?

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you tried a glamorous transformation? Was it for a specific occasion or just for fun? What products make a woman look the most glamorous?

When contemplating the termination of your marriage, the choice between legal separation and divorce can be perplexing. Although both options involve a legal procedure to dissolve the marriage, it is essential to understand their distinct characteristics before arriving at a decision. This article aims to outline the advantages and disadvantages of legal separation and divorce, offering guidance to assist you in making an informed decision.

What Are the Advantages and Disadvantages of Legal Separation?

Legal separation permits spouses to live apart while retaining their married status. This option appeals to couples who are not yet prepared for a divorce but seek to establish legal boundaries and financial agreements. Here are some pros of legal separation:

• Retaining access to specific benefits, like health insurance, that may be lost in a divorce.
• Allowing time for marriage improvement without the pressures of divorce proceedings.
• Enabling the establishment of legal arrangements for child custody, visitation, and support without finalizing a divorce.

However, legal separation also presents certain drawbacks:

• Continuation of legal marriage, which can impact tax obligations, estate planning, and other legal matters.
• Ongoing liability for your spouse’s debts and responsibilities.
• The potential need to renegotiate the terms of legal separation if you opt for divorce in the future.

What Are the Advantages and Disadvantages of Divorce?

Divorce is a legal process that officially terminates a marriage, granting both parties the freedom to remarry. While divorce can be emotionally challenging, it can also signify a fresh start and a sense of closure. Consider the following benefits of divorce:

• The ability to legally conclude the marriage and embark on a new chapter in life.
• Establishing clear legal boundaries and financial arrangements.
• The possibility of remarriage, should you choose to pursue it.

Nevertheless, divorce comes with potential downsides:

• Emotional and financial strain during the process.
• The loss of certain benefits, such as health insurance coverage provided through your spouse’s employer.
• The necessity of co-parenting and navigating intricate child support arrangements.

What Option Is Right for You?

Deciding between legal separation and divorce can be an arduous task. Here are some guidelines to assist you in making a well-informed decision:

• Seek support from a divorce coach who can help you through the pros and cons, as well as the emotional, logistical, financial side of these alternatives. They can also help you to understand the processes and evaluate your decision.
• Consider your emotional and financial needs. Assess whether you are prepared to move forward or if you require time to work on your marriage.
• If you have children, reflect on their best interests. Determine suitable custody and support arrangements that prioritize their well-being if they’re not yet adults.
• Seek advice from a family law attorney specializing in these matters. An experienced professional can offer legal guidance and support throughout the process.

So What Should You Do?

The decision between legal separation and divorce is a deeply personal one that requires careful consideration of various factors. It is something only you and your spouse can decide. While legal separation offers the opportunity to establish boundaries and work on the marriage, divorce provides a definitive end and the possibility of a fresh start.

Ultimately, consulting with a divorce coach and a family law attorney can help you navigate the complexities of both options and guide you towards the choice that aligns with your emotional well-being, financial stability, and the best interests of any children involved. Remember, it’s crucial to take the time to make an informed decision that suits your unique circumstances and future goals.Top of Form

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Would you consider legal separation instead of divorce? Why or why not? Do you think there are other benefits from legal separation that make it a choice worth considering? Or perhaps you like clean endings?