Month: September 2023

If you’re like me, you want to look your best whenever you leave the house. That principle applies to travel, whether for business or leisure. The right accessories can transform a limited wardrobe into a myriad of outfits.

So how do you decide what jewelry to take on a trip? Let me give you some tips on traveling with jewelry and share lessons I’ve learned from my own mistakes.

Leave the Best at Home

The last thing you need when traveling is to worry about theft. As someone whose hotel room was robbed many years ago, I can tell you how frightening that experience was. As a result, I make every effort to avoid calling attention to myself when I’m at an airport or on the street in a foreign place.

In other words, I leave my most expensive and flashy jewels at home or in a safety deposit box at my bank. So, for example, if you typically wear a large diamond ring, take something less conspicuous instead.

In addition, I never travel with jewelry that is irreplaceable. For me, pieces that have great sentimental value as well as the rare costume pieces from my collection fall into this category.

Take What Can Handle the Trip

Always be sure that the jewelry you plan to pack is in good repair. For example, clasps should be in good working order. The stringing of beaded necklaces should be strong.

When I arrived at my favorite nephew’s wedding, I looked down at my prized pearl sautoir to see that it had broken. Luckily, the necklace didn’t fall off and the beads were knotted, so I didn’t lose any. Had I checked the piece in advance, I would have taken something else.

Store Your Jewels with Care

Never pack jewelry in luggage you intend to check at the airport or train station. Instead, put your jewels in your carry-on bag or purse, in a jewelry roll or other travel case with compartments designed to hold jewelry. These types of containers have padding and separation that will protect your pieces from damage.

Keep that bag with you when you arrive at your hotel. While it’s tempting to unload your luggage to the care of hotel staff or leave it in the trunk of your rental car, you need to know your jewelry is safe at all times.

When staying in a hotel or other accommodation, always put your jewelry in your room’s safe when you leave the hotel. If no safe is provided, carry the jewelry in your handbag or money belt. (Yes, I use a money belt that I wear inside my pants when I need to carry my passport and other valuables on the street.)

Keep It Simple When Traveling with Jewelry

When I choose shoes and handbags to take on a trip, I avoid packing any that I plan to wear with only one outfit, excluding formal wear. I apply that same principle to jewelry.

I’m not suggesting that you take only pearls (not your grandmother’s, of course) or a simple gold or silver chain. Here are some suggestions for pieces that are interesting and versatile.

One of my favorites in my personal collection is a necklace I purchased several years ago. It’s a long, white-gold chain with semi-precious stones. Although it isn’t a vintage piece, I like to travel with it for many reasons.

It’s lightweight, and it doesn’t take up much space. I can wear it long or doubled, for different looks. I can add colored crystal earrings and a bracelet to match the yellow, aqua, red, or purple stones in the necklace, depending on my outfit. Finally, the style is classic and mixes well with other contemporary and vintage jewels.

An alternative to a “necklace of many colors” is one of colorless crystal, because it goes with everything. Whether you prefer beads or flat stones, vintage crystal necklaces and earrings are versatile, becoming and a great alternative to diamonds when traveling.

A Few Examples

The necklace on the left has faceted, square-cut crystals mounted in sterling silver frames that are linked – what has become known as a “chicklet necklace.” Although that style originated during the Art Deco era, I think this particular necklace was made in the late 1940s to early 1950s.

At 17 ½” long, it is longer than most in this style. For that reason, you could wear this piece with a scoop-neck in addition to a crew-neck or strapless top.

The faceted round beads in the French necklace on the right alternate with crystal and rondelle spacers. At 15 ½” in length, this piece is more suited to a crew-neck or strapless top. This necklace was made in the 1920s to early 1930s.

Diamond studs (whether real or faux) are the universal accessory, in my opinion. They travel well because they go with everything. If you want to think outside the box, here are two examples in crystal.

Both are pendant earrings in the Art Deco style from the 1920s. The screw-backs on the left can be modified for pierced ears.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What jewelry do you like to take when you travel? How do you decide what to pack? Do you have any tips to share for choosing jeweled accessories and/or keeping them safe? Do you love to wear vintage costume jewelry? Do you mix old and new pieces? Please share in the comments section.

Originally posted at: Jenna Lyons’ White Sequin Fringe Crop Top

Jane Fonda said, “When I was about to turn 60, I realized that I was approaching my 3rd act – my final act – and that it wasn’t a dress rehearsal.”

Entering your 70s, your 3^rd act, is a milestone worth celebrating. It’s a time to reflect on a life well-lived and embrace the joys of aging. To make the most of this chapter of your life, it’s important to cultivate a positive mindset. Just turning 70 myself, I am definitely embracing this chapter.

Here we will explore valuable tips to help you navigate your 70s with grace, purpose, and fulfillment.

1. Embrace Change, a.k.a. Adaptability

Life is full of changes, and your 70s are no exception. Embrace the inevitability of change and practice adaptability. Be open to new experiences, explore hobbies or interests you’ve always wanted to pursue, and embrace technology – it is easier than you think to stay connected with loved ones and engage in lifelong learning.

2. Prioritize Self-Care

Taking care of your physical and mental well-being becomes even more crucial in your 70s. Prioritize self-care by adopting healthy habits such as regular exercise within your physical capabilities, a balanced diet, and sufficient sleep.

Engage in activities that bring you joy, practice mindfulness, and nurture your relationships to maintain a positive outlook. Maintaining good health becomes increasingly crucial in your 70s. Focus on a nutritious diet, stay hydrated, and schedule regular check-ups with your healthcare provider. Stay active; walking is a great way to keep everything circulating.

4. Cultivate a Gratitude Attitude

Gratitude has the power to transform your perspective in your 70s. Take time each day to reflect on the things you are grateful for. Express appreciation to the people who have supported you throughout your life. Keep a journal which you can re-read and remember all the things you are grateful for. An attitude of gratitude can bring immense joy and contentment to your daily life.

5. Stay Curious and Learn Continuously

Never stop learning! Your 70s provide an excellent opportunity to explore new interests and expand your knowledge. I recently took up crocheting again and find it relaxing especially, on train journeys or long bus rides.  Enroll in classes, read books, join discussion groups, or engage in online courses. A curious mindset keeps your brain active which is essential, fosters personal growth, and enhances your overall well-being.

6. Embrace the Wisdom of Experience

At 70, you have accumulated a wealth of life experience whether it is negative or positive. Embrace this wisdom and experience, recognize the value of your insights. Share your stories, mentor others, and contribute to your community. Embracing the role of a wise elder can bring a deep sense of purpose and fulfillment to your life. Record your life story to leave to the younger generation family members.

7. Nurture Social Connections

Maintaining strong social connections is vital for your mental and emotional well-being. Spend time with family and friends, participate in social activities, book clubs, walking clubs, games clubs and seek out new friendships. Joining community organizations or volunteering can provide a sense of purpose and create meaningful connections with others.

8. Practice Mindfulness and Inner Peace

As you navigate your 70s, it’s essential to cultivate inner peace and practice mindfulness. If you have never done this before it is worth a try. Activity such as meditation, yoga, or deep breathing exercises help to promote relaxation and reduce stress. Even spending 5 mins a couple of times a day is beneficial. Being present in the moment allows you to appreciate life’s simple pleasures and find tranquility amidst the busyness.

9. Set Realistic Goals

“Really,” you might say. “At 70 you want me to set goals?” Goals help you stay motivated and give your life purpose. Like your bucket list or visiting friends or growing things from seeds. The goals do not have to be too big, However, it’s important to set realistic goals that align with your current abilities and interests.

10. Embracing a Positive Mindset

Your 70s can lead to a fulfilling and joyful life. By embracing wisdom, nurturing social connections, staying curious, and prioritizing self-care, you can navigate this chapter with grace and purpose. Embrace the opportunities that come your way and make the most of this incredible stage of life. There is still plenty of life to live and age is just a number.

Your 70s are a time to savor life’s joys and reflect on your journey. Take the time to appreciate the beauty around you, whether it’s spending time in nature, enjoying hobbies, or creating art. Embrace the opportunity to reflect on your accomplishments and the legacy you want to leave behind. Personally, I have decided to travel and live my bucket list. How are you going to live the rest of your 3rd Act?

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What do you consider your 3^rd Act? Have you started on it? What’s on your bucket list? Have you scratched off some things already?