Month: October 2023

Navigating Late-Life Divorce: Insights for Business-Owning Couples

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In the realm of divorce, where most states follow the principle of equitable distribution of property, older individuals facing the complexities of gray divorce often find themselves grappling with fear and confusion. This uncertainty primarily stems from the intricate nature of their shared business ventures.

As couples who have jointly nurtured and grown their businesses over the years contemplate separation, the prospect of dividing these assets can be daunting. In such cases, it becomes essential to navigate not only the emotional intricacies of divorce but also the legal intricacies surrounding the equitable distribution of their business interests.

Couples can invest decades of dedication and hard work into building a business they can take pride in. Consequently, when they reach the difficult decision to divorce later in life, they want to ensure that their life’s work doesn’t go to waste. Here’s what you need to know about navigating the intricate process of dividing a business during a gray divorce.

Is the Business Separate or Marital Property?

In most states, the process of asset division in the context of divorce primarily revolves around the classification of property as either marital or separate, with the latter typically excluded from the equitable distribution process.

An initial and pivotal step in this process is to ascertain whether a particular business qualifies as marital property and, if so, to delineate the proportion of it that falls under this classification.

It’s important to underscore that the regulations governing marital property can diverge significantly from one state to another. Consequently, it becomes imperative to engage the services of a qualified legal professional who can provide precise guidance tailored to the specific legal framework governing your jurisdiction.

Broadly speaking, marital property encompasses assets acquired during the duration of the marriage. This includes instances where a business was initiated or shares in a company were acquired after the marriage took place, which typically renders them eligible for classification as marital property.

Even in cases where a business was established prior to the marriage, certain factors can lead to a portion of its value being categorized as marital property.

Consider, for example, a scenario in which a small manufacturing company was founded in 2000, pre-dating a marriage that occurred in 2002. Over nearly two decades of marital union, the business’s value has appreciated significantly. In such instances, this increase in value can be deemed marital property subject to division.

Nevertheless, exceptions exist within this framework. If the business was inherited, whether before or after the marriage, it may be treated as separate property, irrespective of when the inheritance occurred. A similar principle applies if business assets were received as a gift.

How to Determine Separate and Marital Assets

The determination of whether a business falls under the classification of marital or separate property can vary among states, but a common framework is applied in most cases. Typically, a business is regarded as separate property if one spouse initiated or acquired it before entering into the marriage.

Conversely, if the business was established or invested in after the couple’s marriage, it generally qualifies as marital property. However, the neat division between separate and marital property can become blurred in certain scenarios.

For instance, a business may possess a dual classification when one spouse initiated or acquired it before marriage but maintained an interest in the business after the marriage, with the other spouse contributing to its operation or using joint funds for investment.

In cases where a business is either solely classified as marital property or a combination of marital and separate assets, the majority of it is typically subject to division during divorce proceedings. But the question remains: how does this division occur?

Separate property is fundamentally distinct from marital property and is exclusively owned by one spouse. It encompasses various categories, such as:

  • Property acquired through inheritance,
  • Assets obtained prior to the marriage,
  • Passive income and appreciation from separate property during the marriage,
  • Property acquired post-legal separation,
  • Assets excluded by a valid prenuptial agreement,
  • Compensation for personal injury (excluding loss of earnings during marriage and expenses paid from marital assets),
  • Gifts made after the marriage’s commencement, which are supported by clear and convincing evidence demonstrating their sole ownership by one spouse.

Importantly, the separate property maintains its distinct status even if it becomes intertwined with other property types, such as marital property, unless it is no longer traceable to its original source.

What Is a Fair Division of a Business in a Gray Divorce?

In the context of a gray divorce where a business is considered marital property, the fair division of this asset is a critical aspect of the proceedings. This division is deemed necessary because both spouses are typically recognized as having contributed to the business’s growth and operation during their marriage, entitling them to a share of its value.

To initiate the process of equitable distribution, it is essential to determine the percentage of the business that qualifies as marital property, as this is the portion that can be subject to division. Often, the assistance of a financial expert is enlisted to conduct a thorough analysis of the business and delineate the marital portion accurately.

Once the marital share of the business is identified, the next step involves determining its overall value, which can be assessed using various valuation methods. These methods include the asset approach, which calculates the business’s worth by estimating the remaining value after selling assets and settling liabilities; the market approach, which assesses the business’s value by comparing it to recent sales of similar companies; and the income approach, which evaluates the business’s worth based on its capacity to generate profits.

It’s important to acknowledge that the value of businesses can fluctuate significantly, and their division in a divorce is contingent upon the unique circumstances of each case. Consequently, the approach to handling and dividing a business during a gray divorce is highly situational, with the aim of achieving an equitable outcome for both spouses involved.

Ways to Divide a Business During a Gray Divorce

It’s a common misconception among individuals navigating a late-life divorce that their only recourse when it comes to the shared business is to sell it and divide the proceeds with their former spouse. While selling the business is one option, it’s far from the only avenue available. In fact, there are several alternative approaches that can be explored to address the complexities of dividing a business during a gray divorce.

The key lies in open communication, negotiation, and, often, the guidance of legal and financial professionals to help couples make informed decisions that align with their individual and collective goals as they embark on this new chapter in their lives.

Dividing the Business Up

In the context of a gray divorce, one option that business owners should consider is dividing the business if both spouses actively participate in its operations, whether as partners or in distinct roles within the company (such as one being the owner of a medical practice and the other serving as a bookkeeper).

While this approach may seem practical on the surface, it does come with its unique set of challenges. Dividing the business would require careful negotiation and a clear division of responsibilities, and both spouses would likely need to continue working together post-divorce. This scenario can potentially introduce added complexities and interpersonal challenges, as the dynamics of running a business together after a divorce may create an awkward environment.

Therefore, while dividing the business is an option, it’s essential for couples to carefully weigh the potential advantages and disadvantages before pursuing this path during a gray divorce.

Buy Out Your Ex-Spouse

When there are limited or no other marital assets to consider, one potential solution for business owners going through a gray divorce is to buy out their spouse’s share of the business. While not always the most ideal choice, it may be preferable to maintain a joint business partnership with an ex-spouse.

However, this route often entails securing a loan to cover the buyout, which can add financial complexity to an already challenging situation. Despite the potential need for a loan, many individuals opt for this path to gain full control of their business and avoid ongoing co-ownership with an ex-spouse, aiming for a clean break and a fresh start in their post-divorce life.

Trade an Asset for the Business

Rather than parting with a stake in the business, it’s possible to propose an equitable exchange with a different asset of comparable value. To illustrate, if the business’s estimated worth stands at $400,000, entailing a $200,000 share for your spouse, you can explore the option of satisfying this obligation through alternative means, such as investments, cash, or another asset of equivalent value.

This approach might entail selling other assets to accumulate the required sum, but it often presents a more favorable solution compared to relinquishing half of the business itself.

Sell the Business and Split the Proceeds

While selling your business is not the preferred route, it does remain a viable option for business owners facing the challenges of a late-life divorce. If your business is experiencing financial difficulties, with dwindling clientele and declining performance, selling it may indeed be the most practical choice. In such cases, both spouses can divide the proceeds and potentially use the funds to embark on new endeavors.

However, if your business is on an upward trajectory and showing signs of growth, it’s advisable to explore alternative solutions to avoid a sale whenever possible, as this can help preserve the value you’ve worked hard to build over the years.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What do you find the hardest when going through divorce in your later years? Is the emotional or the financial cost higher? Have you had to split a business because of divorce?

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Real Housewives of Orange County Season 17 Best Sellers

Tonight marks the 17th Real Housewives of Orange County Reunion, how unbelievable is that?! And staying true to years past we saw plenty of cute dresses, bold colors and signature So Cal style. So we’ve rounded up the top 10 still in stock best sellers to share with you, whether you’re looking for a Fall ‘fit or something to shop and save for your next vacation.

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Real Housewives of Orange County Season 17 Reunion Looks

Real Housewives of Orange County Season 17 Reunion Looks

Last week marked the season finale, and this week brings the Real Housewives of Orange County Season 17 reunion! And most importantly, their dresses. Most of these fabulous Housewives are returning from last season, so it’s not their first rodeo (and hang on tight Jennifer Pedranti!). Which reminds me of their trip Montana, and how quickly this season passed.

We actually shared these fantastic reunion dresses a few weeks back when they were released, but ICMYI, we’ve rounded them up all in one place for you to check out! This time the theme seems to be “Beach” (Ken voice), with a golden hour sunset backdrop. And thankfully many dresses are off-the-rack and you can scoop them up for your next special events before the sun sets on their stock.

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Gina Kirschenheiter’s Real Housewives of Orange County Season 17 Reunion Dress

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Taylor Armstrong’s Real Housewives of Orange County Season 17 Reunion Dress

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Shannon Beador’s Real Housewives of Orange County Season 17 Reunion Dress

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Fall 2023 Beauty Trends: 5 Looks You Can Do!

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Remember when you looked cute with blue eyeshadow plastered all over your eyelid? Or when you wore that bright red lipstick and about a pound of glitter and everybody loved it? My 20-year-old daughter can get off scot-free with nearly every trend, but the same cannot be said of me. (See cropped shirts, mini-skirts, massive black winged eyeliner, etc.)

I always liken makeup to either making us look swank or unhinged, and today’s video will hopefully help you reflect the latter. Yes, ladies, it’s fall 2023 and the beauty trends are out!

In this article and video, I will go over the top five wearable fall looks and then demo them in succession arriving at one of the most popular looks, latte monochromatic beauty. We will touch on how to have glowy skin, statement brows, smoldering eye, simple cat-eye, and holographic lipstick.

Let’s get trendy!

Glowy Skin

Glowy skin in the winter is an oxymoron. In many climates, attempting to have anything resembling a plump, shiny complexion might be met with eyerolls and jokes about how the oily skin left the building a looooonnnngggg time ago.

That being said, you can cheat the clock by taking essential fatty acids like omega-3 and -6 in gel tablet form to replenish the necessary oils lost not only to time, but to external factors like dry and cold temperatures.

Plus, by using active ingredients in your topical skincare, like oil soluble vitamin C, retinol (yes, you can use retinol with dry skin and it won’t make it drier) and hyaluronic acid, you can support your skin’s hydration and strong skin barrier to protect against the harsh climate.

In the video, I use a mixture of three products: vitamin C, hyaluronic acid, and fulvic mist to bring on the glow. Also, by using a light to medium coverage foundation and as little facial powder as possible, you can achieve the lovely glow trend that we are looking for.

Statement Brows

This trend, to me, is borderline dreadful. If you get it right, and do your makeup in a way that balances out a heavier brow, it can look spectacular. If you don’t, your friends and family might give you a sidelong glance that says, “whhhhaaaatttttt……?” (You know, that look?)

Taking an eyebrow pencil, use small strokes going in the same direction as the natural brow hair to make your brows look thicker and more arched, and then extend the outer tip so that it gives you a larger eye area to maximize. If you feel like it, you can use either a clear or colored eyebrow gel to shift your brow hairs in a more lifted way. If you don’t have the brow hairs to pull it off, don’t worry about it! A thicker brow will suffice.

A word on balancing out your facial structure. Some of you will be able to pull this look off better if you use a stronger lip color or a heavier eyeliner. The idea here is to balance out your face so that the only thing standing out is not the Groucho Marx type eyebrow! If you’re unsure, experiment with different looks to find what works.

Smoldering Eye

I’m a big Lauren Becall fan and she had smolder down to an art. Maybe it was her hooded eye lids, or maybe it was her ability to be smart and sexy all at once, but she had it. That being said, I am definitely not Lauren Bacall. If I attempted to smolder, I’m pretty sure my best friend would dash off hollering, “nooooooooooooooooo!” That being said, the smolder eye look is crazy pretty and not that hard to manage.

Using only two colors, apply a shade about two to three shades darker than your skin tone all over your eyelid and work it into your crease. Taking one shade darker than that, add it in the outer crease to help open up your eyes even more. Then take a dark eyeliner pencil and apply it between your lashes on the top and bottom, blending it in so that it looks smoky and soft without being heavy. Add mascara and voila! You are smoldering.

Simple Cat-Eye

Many of you feel that the words “simple” and “cat-eye” should not be used in the same sentence. Truth be told, cat-eye is a not-so-easy look and takes practice. What’s great about this season is that as far as cat-eyes go, it’s relatively simple.

Just apply a gel or pencil liner to the inner corner and outer edge of your upper eyeline, drawing the line out just a smidge on the edge. If you use a pencil, you can then blend it out a bit so that it’s softer or, if you like, keep the gel liner in place and go for the drama.

Holographic Lips

Because I incessantly chew my lips, any efforts I make with lipstick are quickly eaten off, but the momentary satisfaction is sometimes worth it. Having a holographic lip is the idea that the outer edges of your lips are about one to two shades darker than your lipstick or lip color, and that you can then make the center of your lower lip several shades lighter than your facial skin!

It’s the trickery of light and dark to give a more dramatic, pouty lip. How can that not be delicious and fun? Once you’re fabulous, grab the person nearest to you and give them a huge kiss and smear lipstick all over their face.

In my opinion, you are neeeevvvvvveeeeerrrr out of bounds for trying new looks, and this season all five looks are very do-able! In the end, I arrived at the monochromatic makeup look that is so lovely. The difference with applying monochromatic makeup to mature skin is to have enough punch with the colors so that you don’t look washed out. Have fun trying these and please let me know what you think!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How open are you to trying new makeup trends? Which type of trend would you never try? Have you tried a trend that you thought would look hideous but turned out pretty good on you? What was it?

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Whitney Rose’s Black Mesh Panel Bodysuit

Whitney Rose’s Black Mesh Panel Bodysuit / Real Housewives of Salt Lake City Season 4 Episode 5 Fashion

I’ve never been great with eyeliner, so I usually avoid it. But Whitney Rose’s green eyeliner on last night’s #RHOSLC episode was so cute that I’m thinking of giving it a shot. And while I search for the shade and do some practicing, an easier way to steal Whitney’s style is by scooping up her black mesh panel bodysuit! It is the perfect party top and an absolute go-to for a night out. You can easily style it with leather leggings or jeans and a cute bootie or heel. So, if you’ve got a special event coming up, snag this beauty for your fall or winter wardrobe. It’s a must-have! 💁‍♀️🖤✨

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