Month: January 2024

Tropical Fruits: Variety Is the Spice of Nutrition

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They say that “variety is the spice of life” since without it, we would probably find life to be a little dull and boring, to say the least. In my opinion, the same can be said of getting the nutrition we need from the foods we eat. Imagine if you had a diet that was indeed healthy but consisted of only one or two foods? How long would you stick to eating just brown rice, kale, and grilled chicken, for example, before you started to explore other – and probably less healthy and nutritious – options? My guess is not long.

I love fruits. Fruits, along with veggies, are, in fact, the cornerstone of my diet. They are unprocessed and very rich in nutrients and are key to our overall health and wellbeing. Unfortunately, some diets do not place enough emphasis on how important natural, nutrient-dense foods are. 

But I will admit that there are days when I look at my fruit bowl and think, “I just can’t eat another apple.” So, to avoid getting bored and reaching for some chocolate ice cream instead of a healthier alternative, I incorporate a variety of tropical fruits into my diet.

I am pleased to report that these fruits all enjoy a place of honor next to my apples, bananas, and oranges! In no specific order, the ones I suggest you try are:

Papaya

Papaya is a smooth-skinned fruit that is usually orange and green in color. Originally from Central America and the southern region of Mexico, this sweet fruit is now grown in many tropical and subtropical countries around the world. Papaya is a nutritional powerhouse since it is full of antioxidants, vitamins (particularly A, C and E), potassium, magnesium, and fiber.

This fruit, which is in season in late summer and fall, has many health benefits, including possibly helping to manage blood pressure, reducing the risk of heart disease and stroke, and lowering cholesterol. It also may help fight cancer, boost our immune system, soothe our tummy issues, prevent Alzheimer’s disease, reduce inflammation, better manage diabetes, and even be good for our eyes by possibly reducing our risk for macular degeneration and cataracts (the risk for which increases as we get older).

It’s not an accident that papaya is one of the healthiest fruits in the world!

Cherimoya

While you may have never heard of this tropical fruit, none other than Mark Twain called it “the most delicious fruit known to man.” Also known as “the custard apple” due to the creamy texture of the flesh of the fruit, cherimoyas are native to southern Ecuador and northern Peru. The fruit resembles a cross between an artichoke and strawberry, but tastes like banana, papaya, and pineapple. Do not eat the seeds or skin, they are both toxic.

What is impressive about cherimoyas is that in addition to having no cholesterol or saturated fat, this fruit contains many important nutrients including phosphorus, magnesium, iron, manganese, potassium, folate, and vitamin C. Because of these nutrients, cherimoyas may help you better manage your blood pressure, reduce the risk of cancer, support your immune system, reduce inflammation, support eye health, and reduce cholesterol.

Guava

Guava, which originated in Central America, is a tropical fruit with light green or yellow skin, and a tasty inside that ranges in color from white or yellow to its infamous bright coral pink. If you’re wondering what guava tastes like, it’s been described as a mix of pear and strawberry – but nothing quite compares to trying this fruit for yourself. I personally am a big fan!

This fruit is a great source of a variety of nutrients, including vitamins A and C, folate, potassium, copper, manganese, antioxidants, and dietary fiber. Among its health benefits are helping to better manage diabetes, supporting heart and immune system health, and maintaining a healthy weight. Guava tea may help lower your cholesterol and the fruit’s leaves may help treat diarrhea as well as possibly reduce your risk for cancer.

Mango

Mangoes are one of the most widely consumed fruits worldwide. A common nickname for this stone fruit, native to South Asia, is “The King of Fruits.” In India, a basket of mangoes represents a gesture of friendship. Mangoes offer a variety of nutrients, including folate, vitamin A and vitamin C, phosphorus, protein, antioxidants, riboflavin, dietary fiber, iron, magnesium, niacin, manganese, and calcium.

Its many health benefits may include lowering blood pressure, strengthening our immune systems, protecting heart health, keeping us hydrated, and managing constipation and blood glucose levels. Mangoes may also help reduce our risk for macular degeneration.

Jackfruit

Jackfruit is the largest tree borne fruit in the world. An individual jackfruit can grow up to 100 pounds! Another fun fact about jackfruit is it is the national fruit of Bangladesh. It is a tropical fruit that generally grows in South and Southeast Asia as well as the Caribbean. It is part of the plant family that includes figs, breadfruits, and mulberries.

With its prickly green exterior and pungent odor, jackfruit can be intimidating, but it’s an incredibly versatile, delicious, and nutritious fruit. Think of them like avocados, which are certainly not pretty on the outside either but are full with green, creamy goodness and beneficial fat. When jackfruit is ripe, it tastes like a delicious combination of mango and pineapple. Unlike cherimoyas, the seeds of the jackfruit are safe to roast and eat.

This admittedly intimidating looking fruit is a great source of calcium, copper, manganese, magnesium, phosphorus, and potassium. It also has antioxidants, fiber, vitamins A and C, and riboflavin. One one-cup serving of jackfruit also provides more than 3 grams of protein. Among its health benefits are possibly helping with blood sugar control, protecting heart health, and supporting the immune system.

All these tropical fruits are very versatile foods, so you can enjoy them alone, in fruit salads, in smoothies, and as ingredients in your favorite dishes (especially vegan recipes). The only limit is your culinary imagination, so enjoy experimenting!

Finally, it is always a good idea to consult with a qualified medical professional before you incorporate new foods in your diet – especially if you are taking medications.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you ever tried any tropical fruits? If so, what were they? Did you enjoy them and have you incorporated them into your healthy diet? If so, in what way? If not, can you share why? How easy are they to find where you live?

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Nicole Martin’s Black Prada Turtleneck

Nicole Martin’s Black Prada Turtleneck / Real Housewives of Miami Instagram Fashion January 2023

Nicole Martin’s New York City 24-hour hustle outfit on Instagram was simply gave us plenty of fashion inspo! She rocked an all-black ensemble, complete with a Prada turtle neck, that served up serious style inspiration. As someone who is addicted to black attire myself, I can’t help but rave about this classic and timeless look. Whether you’re out and about in the city or elsewhere, it’s a fashion statement that will never go out of style.

If you missed out on her second look for the day then click here!

Best in Blonde,

Amanda


Nicole Martin's Black Prada Turtleneck

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Tamra Judge’s Black One Shoulder Top

Tamra Judge’s Black One Shoulder Top / Real Housewives of Orange County Instagram Fashion January 2023

Tamra Judge recently posted a picture on Instagram from Traitors, which I haven’t had a chance to watch but people are raving about, asking her followers to “caption this”. While we know better than anyone that captions can be difficult to come up with, Tamra’s black one-shoulder top was easy to find. And you can find this top in your closet for under $100 below.

Best In Blonde,

Amanda


Tamra Judge's Black One Shoulder Top

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Online Dating: Why Haven’t They Responded to My Text Message?

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So, you’ve been browsing this dating site and found someone that you liked. You sent a lovely and uniquely crafted message a few days ago, but it feels like it fell into a black hole. Where is he and why hasn’t he responded?

This question comes up daily; as a dating coach I sometimes receive it 5-6 times per day when I am online with a client on a dating site.

Now, the first thing you need to remember is to avoid negative thoughts. Yes, it feels like a personal slight. But really, think about this: Is every man going to respond with a message to you? Are YOU going to respond to every man?

Second, don’t get defensive and send another angst-driven message. Yes, I have seen that. How would you feel if you were on the receiving end of a second message that asks, “Why haven’t you messaged me back?” Personally, I’d think stalker material (perhaps with anger issues) and hit Block.

Third, don’t put all your eggs in one basket. From looking at one man online and texting him, you cannot possibly know that he’s the “one.” Spread the love – there are plenty of men who fall in the realm of what you are looking for so text them too.

But, how do you improve your odds of getting that response, and ultimately, that date?

You Send a Short, Specific and Quirky Message

You have no idea how many template-ready messages I have seen. Please don’t do that.

Craft a message of no more than 3 sentences. Be specific, use information you’ve read in the person’s profile or seen in their photos. And make sure to include something quirky about yourself – I don’t mean weird, but unique. When I am working with clients online, they often ask me, “Are we really sending this message you just typed… isn’t it too strange/bold (insert your word)?” and I say, “You bet we are!”

Try Using a New Photo

If you never get replies, there’s an issue, right? The first place I’d look is your primary photo – the first photo he sees. Change it! Sometimes this is all it takes to get an explosion of messages!

Analyze Your Profile

Put your profile through spell check, especially if English isn’t your strong suit or not your native language). Get rid of any “u” for “you” or any other 20-something-year-old’s texting style. Yes, you may use those again when you are in a relationship – but initially, you want to put your best foot (and grammar) forward.

Dry Texting

Did you just say “huh”? Dry texting refers to people who reply with one word – you sent a message and closed with a question. They answered only “yes.” They are not carrying their side of the conversation and it’s frustrating.

So, I’d suggest approaching this person one more time – with humor: “Thanks for the yes! Ok, my next question is much more carefully crafted to get at least two words from you – hopefully, a full sentence as I am interested in you!!!” Then ask the question.

If he responds with an appropriate message, game on. If he does not, move on!

You Go on an Online Quorum and Ask What’s Wrong with Your Messages

No, no, no – please do not do this! When I was researching this article for hard-core stats, of course, I bumped into these. While I had some good laughs, don’t ask strange people about your messages. Ask a pro.

You Are on the Wrong Site

Here’s the thing – if you simply google “the best dating sites for a 60-year-old woman,” you know what you get? Thinly disguised sites like Dating Consumer Reports or something similar which offer a list of 3-5 best sites for you. If you go all the way to the bottom, you’ll notice it was written by one of the dating site groups like Dating.com or Match.com. Don’t get me wrong. I like some of their sites, but they have no idea where you live (even if you put it in google), what you are looking for, and the demographic you’d like to meet.

Some of My Examples

So, let me share what my clients, who have high response rates, have in common.

Jemma, 63, New Jersey

Her messages to people are so off the cuff and funny. Not a formal bone in her body! She messages men as if they are already friends. And I think that makes all sorts of men respond quickly – from the shy ones to extroverts. While funny, believe me, she is serious about finding a long-term relationship in NYC. Jemma’s been a member for almost one month and here are her stats: 7 first dates, 4 second dates, 2 third dates, and I don’t know what happened over this past weekend yet.

Elle, 69, Laguna Beach, Ca

She’s an ENT doc and a big surfer. Her messages tend to be directed toward men who paddleboard, kayak and surf. I get a kick out of reading her messages – she’ll talk about the waves, her favorite paddleboard, where she surfed over the weekend – she knows what she wants, and she is targeting the men with the right messaging. Her stats over 6 weeks: 9 first dates, 5 second dates, 3 third dates, and one fourth date with Greg, a scuba diver/businessman she likes. Fingers crossed.

So, Let’s Wrap Up

It’s important to have a strategy with messaging. Remember, this is not a quick, abrupt text to your BFF asking a simple question. Also, remember this is a message and they cannot see your facial expression! Make it light, fun and specific – and you’ll be meeting many new people quickly.

And if you need help, I’d love assist you in writing a great message!

Further read, 3 QUICK TIPS FOR ONLINE DATERS THAT WILL SAVE YOU TIME.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Do you think the messages you send online are interesting? Be honest: How many new messages do you send out each week? Are you just sending hearts and likes without messages?

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