Month: February 2025

Want to Lose Weight After 60? Ignore This Commonly Accepted Advice!

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Despite about one-third of Americans being overweight, there’s no shortage of diet advice available, especially on the Internet. Some of it is just plain bad. Some of it is completely outrageous.

On Pinterest, I saw a “Lose 30 pounds in one month” diet, which I’m pretty sure must involve something like amputating a limb. If people didn’t still fall for that stuff, it wouldn’t be out there.

I’m a questioner with no tendency to believe anything I read. Others tend to trust what they see in print. Wherever you fall along that spectrum, here is a list of diet advice that you should definitely not take!

Eat Before You Go to a Party to Curb Your Appetite

Seriously? Assuming the party is going to have tantalizing foods, this is a terrible idea. Most people are overweight because they eat too much. Walking into a party with lots of yummy things is no less tempting because you’ve already eaten and makes it more likely that you’ll end up overeating.

Instead: Go to a party with a good appetite, but not so hungry that you aren’t discerning about what you eat. Find what looks good, and take a reasonable amount of those foods. Balance unhealthy choices with healthier ones. Read more about how to enjoy parties without gaining weight here.

Eat Breakfast Every Day

A good breakfast is wonderful – if you’re hungry. Our bodies have this amazing ability to tell us when to eat and when to stop, but only if we listen. We only need food when we are hungry, so if you aren’t hungry at breakfast time and you eat anyway, your body will store those calories as fat.

Instead: Eat breakfast if and when you’re hungry in the morning. If you aren’t hungry, don’t eat until you are. If you think you’ll become hungry at a time when you won’t have access to a meal, bring a healthy snack, like nuts or cheese.

Eat as Much as You Want of Low Calorie Foods

Someone once told me that we burn more calories eating celery than the celery has so it is okay to eat as much as you want. So how much celery do you actually want to eat? It is never a good idea to eat an unlimited amount of anything. You should always respect your body’s signals and stop eating before your stomach is distended by food.

Instead: Your body will tell you how much food it needs. Stop eating before you feel full. Eat a variety of foods.

Don’t Eat Gluten

Some say you’ll lose weight and be healthier if you don’t eat gluten. However, the Celiac Center at Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital in Boston has said that unless you are one of a very small percentage of the population who is sensitive to gluten, you will derive no benefit from giving it up, and you may actually end up consuming a less healthy diet.

There is no medical evidence that omitting gluten from your diet will help you lose weight. Because whole grains are a major source of fiber, some people become constipated upon giving up gluten. Others develop dietary deficiencies because so many gluten-free foods are heavily processed and comprised of things with low or no nutritional value, like xanthan gum, tapioca and white rice flour.

Instead: Seek the advice of your doctor before deciding to omit nutritious whole grains like wheat, rye and oats from your diet.

Eating Fat Makes You Fat

Fifty years ago, the sugar industry funded research and bribed scientists to downplay the risks of sugar and highlight the hazards of eating fat. This actually contributed to obesity and heart disease. When people eat less fat, they tend to get hungry sooner and eat more sugar and simple starches to compensate, which actually increases LDL cholesterol, and the risk of heart disease and diabetes.

Instead: Eat a diet with about one-third of your calories from good quality fat, while eating a very small amount of refined carbohydrates and sugar. Foods like nuts, seeds, avocados, extra virgin olive oil and fish with omega-3 fats actually keep you full longer and reduce your risk of heart attack.

In conclusion, it is a good idea to eat a variety of foods when your body is hungry and to stop before you have eaten too much and feel full. People who do this generally don’t have to worry about their weight or all of the food rules floating around the Internet.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What bad diet advice have you seen and ignored? What healthy eating habits do you incorporate into your life? What conversations do you have with yourself and friends about healthy aging? Please join the conversation here in the comments section.

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How Senior Living Communities Can Harness the Power of Music Through Social Prescribing

How Senior Living Communities Can Harness the Power of Music Through Social Prescribing

My last article for Sixty and Me covered the topic of social prescribing – connecting individuals to non-medical interventions to improve health and well-being. As I highlighted, music is one of the most powerful tools in this approach, offering a unique way to combat isolation, enhance emotional well-being, and even improve cognitive function.

For senior living communities, integrating music into social prescribing programs can be transformative. But how can these communities effectively implement such initiatives? And further, how can you, as a family caregiver, bring this approach to a place where your loved one is living? Let’s explore.

The Science Behind Music and Well-Being

Research has long shown that music has a profound impact on the brain. It can reduce stress, lower blood pressure, and even stimulate memories in individuals with dementia. For seniors, music can serve as a bridge to social connection, helping to alleviate feelings of loneliness and isolation. Group music activities, such as choir singing or drum circles, foster a sense of belonging and purpose, which are critical for mental health.

Building a Music-Based Social Prescribing Program

Implementing a music-focused social prescribing program requires thoughtful planning and collaboration. Here are some key steps senior living communities can take:

Assess Resident Needs and Preferences

Before launching a program, it’s essential to understand the musical tastes and interests of residents. Conduct surveys or hold focus groups to identify preferred genres, activities (e.g., listening, singing, playing instruments), and accessibility needs. Tailoring programs to residents’ preferences increases engagement and participation.

There are many solutions in the marketplace that help you arrive at the ideal playlist. Start by reading Connie Tomaino’s book – Music Has Power. Connie is the executive director and co-founder (with Oliver Sacks) of the Institute for Music and Neurologic Function.

Partner with Local Musicians and Organizations

Collaborating with local musicians, music therapists, or community organizations can bring expertise and creativity to the program. Many musicians are eager to share their talents with seniors, and partnerships can reduce costs while fostering community ties.

Incorporate Technology

Technology can expand access to music-based interventions. For example, virtual concerts, music streaming playlists, or apps designed for seniors can provide opportunities for engagement, especially for those with mobility challenges. Virtual reality (VR) experiences that simulate live performances are also emerging as a powerful tool. Consider our solution – Sage Stream – live, stream, interactive music concerts.

Create Diverse Musical Activities

A successful program should offer a variety of activities to cater to different interests and abilities. Examples include:

  • Group Singing Sessions: Choirs or sing-alongs can boost mood and social connection.
  • Music Therapy: Licensed therapists can use music to address specific emotional or cognitive needs.
  • Instrumental Workshops: Hands-on activities like drumming or piano lessons can be both fun and therapeutic.
  • Music and Movement: Combining music with gentle exercise, such as dancing or chair yoga, promotes physical health.

Measure Outcomes and Adjust

Regularly evaluate the program’s impact on residents’ well-being. Use surveys, interviews, or observational data to assess changes in mood, social engagement, and overall satisfaction. Feedback from participants can help refine and improve the program over time.

The Broader Benefits of Music in Senior Living

Beyond individual well-being, music-based social prescribing can strengthen the sense of community within senior living facilities. Shared musical experiences create opportunities for intergenerational connections, whether through partnerships with local schools or family involvement in events. Additionally, these programs can enhance the facility’s reputation, attracting residents and families seeking innovative approaches to care.

Overcoming Challenges

While the benefits are clear, implementing a music-based social prescribing program is not without challenges. Funding, staffing, and accessibility are common barriers. However, grants, donations, and volunteer programs can help offset costs. Training staff to facilitate music activities or leveraging technology can also make programs more sustainable.

A Call to Action

Senior living communities have a unique opportunity to lead the way in social prescribing by embracing the power of music. By creating programs that are inclusive, engaging, and evidence-based, they can significantly enhance the quality of life for their residents. As the evidence continues to grow, it’s clear that music is not just a form of entertainment – it’s a vital tool for health and happiness.

Let’s make music a cornerstone of senior care, one note at a time.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How is social connection fostered in your (or your loved one’s) senior living community? Are there arts, crafts or music sessions that serve the purpose?

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Solo and Sizzling? How to Make Valentine’s Day All About You!

Solo and Sizzling How to Make Valentine’s Day All About You!

Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples – it’s a celebration of love in all its forms, including self-love! If you’re a woman over 60 flying solo this Valentine’s, ditch the idea that this day is only for romance and turn it into a fabulous celebration of YOU. Whether you want to pamper yourself, indulge in a little luxury, or dance the night away in your living room, there are endless ways to make this Valentine’s Day unforgettable.

Here are some fresh and fun ideas to help you embrace the joy of solo celebrations.

1. Host a “Me, Myself, and I” Party

Who says you need a crowd to party? Put on your favorite playlist and have a dance party in your living room. Create a theme (think “Romantic Movie Icon” or “Glam Night In”), dress up for the occasion, and toast to your fabulousness with a sparkling drink.

2. Try a Virtual Experience

Get adventurous from the comfort of your couch! Sign up for a virtual wine or chocolate tasting, learn to mix fancy cocktails, or take an online art class. Feeling bold? Book a virtual tarot card reading or astrology session to explore your year ahead.

3. Indulge in a Unique Feast

Think beyond the usual dinner. Try a DIY sushi night, build a gourmet charcuterie board, or order exotic takeout you’ve never tried before. For dessert, make heart-shaped cookies or splurge on a luxury chocolate sampler.

4. Plan an At-Home Adventure

Transform your space for an evening of escapism. Set up a cozy indoor picnic with fairy lights, blankets, and your favorite treats. Or “travel” to your dream destination: watch a movie or documentary set in that location, cook its cuisine, and daydream about your future trip there.

5. Have a Self-Love Cinema Night

Ditch the clichés and opt for empowering films featuring strong female leads. Some ideas: Eat Pray Love, The First Wives Club, or Little Women. Or go for timeless romantic classics like Casablanca, An Affair to Remember, or Notting Hill. If you love drama, The Notebook or Titanic will tug at your heartstrings, while When Harry Met Sally and You’ve Got Mail to bring humor and charm to the evening. Bonus points if you pair the movie with themed snacks or drinks.

6. Splurge on Something Luxurious

Gift yourself something that makes you smile. It could be a gorgeous bouquet, a new piece of jewelry, or a cozy weighted blanket. For a smaller splurge, try a fancy bath bomb, artisan candles, or a subscription box to treat yourself monthly.

7. Get Creative

Tap into your artistic side! Write a short story or poem, paint your vision of self-love, or make a vision board for the year ahead. Valentine’s isn’t just about romance – it’s about envisioning your best life.

8. Turn Up the Pampering

Take the spa night up a notch with hot stone massage tools, a scalp massager, or a luxurious foot soak. Then, wrap yourself in the fluffiest robe and enjoy a blissful meditation session.

9. Write Yourself a Love Song or Poem

Channel your inner diva or poet and craft a song or poem celebrating your awesomeness. Don’t hold back – sing it out loud or frame it as a daily reminder of your worth.

10. Make It a Night of Nostalgia

Revisit your favorite things from years past. Play music from your youth, flip through old photo albums, or read love letters (even if they’re from yourself!). This trip down memory lane can be both comforting and fun.

11. Connect with Others (If You Want to)

If you’re in the mood for connection, plan a virtual happy hour with friends, join an online Valentine’s event, or simply call someone you love for a heartfelt conversation.

12. End the Evening with Gratitude

Wrap up your solo Valentine’s celebration by journaling about what made the night special. Practicing gratitude before bed will leave you feeling content, fulfilled, and loved.

Celebrate YOU This Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s is the perfect time to focus on the most important relationship you’ll ever have – the one with yourself. So go ahead and plan a night that’s unapologetically all about you. Because love doesn’t just come from others – it starts within.

Need some help? You can download a free worksheet that has some fun ideas for you! A Spotify playlist, a recipe for a fantastic dinner, a foot soak, and many more! Download your worksheet and share in the comments which idea you liked the best!

Let’s Have a Conversation:

How are you spending Valentine’s Day? Are you on your own? What does this day mean to you? Have you thought about spending it on your own?

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