Month: March 2025

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The drama continues!

The drama continues!

So the truth comes out!

Love isn’t a one-size-fits-all deal – if it were, every couple would be blissfully in sync, and therapists would be out of business. Enter the theory of Love Languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Physical Touch, Acts of Service, and Receiving Gifts.

Supposedly, cracking this code will lead to eternal relationship harmony. Sounds legit… or is it just astrology for couples?

Let’s be real – what makes our hearts race at 50+ isn’t the same as the rollercoaster crushes of our 20s. But one thing remains true: knowing and speaking your partner’s love language is a game-changer.

Why Do Love Languages Matter?

Here is a list of love languages you will encounter online:

• Better Communication: When you speak their love language, they actually feel the love.
• More Intimacy: Deeper emotional bonds? Yes, please!
• Less Conflict: Understanding love languages = fewer “you don’t appreciate me” arguments.
• Personal Growth: Learning to love the way your partner needs fosters empathy and attentiveness.

Now, let’s dive into some real-life love language wins! (Yes, these are real, and I have gathered them in my long years as a dating coach.)

#1. Acts of Service: The MVP of Thoughtful Gestures

Paul, 60, is raising the bar high. Every morning, he brings his partner coffee in bed (she’s NOT a morning person). He also gases up her car, takes it to the car wash, and asks, “How can I make your day easier?” (OMG, can we clone him?) Meanwhile, Mellie picks up his 14-year-old twins three times a week while he’s out playing tennis. Now that’s teamwork!

#2. Receiving Gifts: It’s the Thought That Counts

Anna, 66, adores gifts, but it’s not about diamonds and designer bags. Her partner, Mike, gives her gorgeous Papyrus cards with heartfelt messages, and she proudly pins them up in her office. He also has a Trader Joe’s ritual: groceries + a plant or flowers = instant joy.

#3. Words of Affirmation: Flattery Gets You Everywhere

Jeff, 51, hits the gym four days a week, and when he gets home, Audrey greets him with, “Wow, I love feeling your arms – you have the best biceps and triceps!” Instant smile. And when he returns from visiting his kids in NYC, she welcomes him with, “It’s just not home without you – I missed you so much.” Heart. Melted.

#4. Quality Time: Uninterrupted Connection

Susan, 61, and Tim, 64, have a Friday tradition: nine holes of golf, no cell phones, just fun. Sunday mornings? Bike rides. Twice a week, they cook together – Susan picks the recipes, and Tim, the world’s best sous chef, handles the chopping, grating, and cleanup. (Let’s hear it for the real MVP!)

#5. Words of Affirmation (Again, Because It’s That Important!)

Christopher, 69, makes sure Marta knows she’s appreciated: “Wow, you are the best cook!” and “I love your design ideas – our home has never looked so bright and modern.” Affirmation = love fuel.

Bottom Line:

It’s not about grand gestures – it’s the little daily acts of love that make relationships thrive. So, are love languages legit?

You tell me.

(Spoiler: The answer is YES!)

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Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you taken the love language test? What did you learn? Which love language do you think would be your favorite to date?