Month: June 2025

Second Chapters. Third Acts. Call it what you will, your 60s are a time to recreate, reclaim and often reinvent yourself. You may be retired or partially so. You did a good job with the kids and they are carving out their own lives now. Maybe you’ve left a marriage and find yourself single again.

Whatever the circumstances, the true confession that I hear so many times is, “I have always wanted to write.” And now is your time to do so.

Becoming a Writer After 60 Is Easier Than You Think

At 60-something you have far more experience and cred under your belt than you did when you were in your twenties. You’ve had time and cause to think about life, reflect upon its meaning and chances are, have hard-won wisdom to share.

Maybe you want to tell your life story or maybe you want to tell stories about the life around you.

I am a fiction writer. I study, experiment with and work the long-form format. I have published three books so far and feel I have accomplished my dream.

But, there is more than one way to be a writer – and more than one way to tell a story.

If you want to write, it’s likely because you already know how. You were “that” kid in English who excelled at description and nuance when it came to short stories or essay. Or you made it through the heartbreak of unrequited love in your teens by penning poetry.

Whatever kind of writer you are, your sixties provide you with a somewhat quieter lifestyle – and that makes the perfect environment for being a writer.

So, where do you start if you haven’t done much in the way of writing since high school? Here are 7 ways to reinvent yourself as a writer:

Read Writing Down the Bones by Natalie Goldberg

This 20-plus-year-old writing classic has provided inspiration to thousands of aspiring writers. By following Goldberg’s free-writing exercises and prompts, you’ll start to discover not only your voice, but what’s important to you.

What is it that you want to write about? What lights you up? Makes your heart sing? These are always great starting points for creating a writing project that matters to you.

If you are really into this writing thing and want to go the novel route, the resources I recommend are: Story Engineering, by Larry Brooks, and Robert McKee’s Story.

Create a Writing Corner

Find space in a room where you can have a writer’s desk or comfy chair. Put out the symbols of writing on your desk and shelves. I have a few reference books on my desk and a stack of yellow legal pads, along with a precious cup of writing pens. The cup was made by my nephew David in a pottery class and gifted to my husband and I one Christmas. I absconded with the cup!

Even though I write on a computer, I do all of my preparation on yellow legal pads. Some people prefer to write in notebooks or nicely bound journals. If you are going to share your writing, however, you may want to enter it into a computer for posterity’s sake.

Decide on a Writing Schedule and Stick to It

I write from 6 a.m. to 9 a.m. every day. It’s important to note that I worked up to that. For heaven’s sake don’t start with three hours a day! You will most likely set yourself up for failure.

Instead start with 20 minutes a day and let it ride. Once you’ve done that for awhile and feel comfortable with your voice and are discovering what you like to write about, then start to increase your time.

Start a Blog

It’s a little like the family dog, messy and joyful. Blogs are a great way to put your writing into the world. Invite your friends and family to follow it so you can have some readers right away.

You can post as frequently or as infrequently as you like.

Maybe your thing is grandchildren and you write about yours a couple of times a week, or your garden, your kitchen or your volunteer work. This is a good first foray into the world of writing. My personal preference is WordPress for creating and maintaining a blog.

Create a Family Newsletter

You can sign up for a newsletter account through MailChimp, Campaign Monitor or a wide variety of others. These free accounts will allow you to send mass emails up to 2,000 recipients before you have to change to a paid account.

A monthly family and friends newsletter, replete with personal pictures, is a great way to document life for the ones you love.

Write a Book

There are all different kinds of books, fiction, nonfiction, short story collection, memoir, just to name a few. If you want to write a book, work your way up to it first by writing short stories or short essays. It’s a lot to take on an entire book when you’re first getting started.

If memoir speaks to you, I suggest reading Jennifer Lauck’s memoir, Black Bird to see how she did it. I wish I had my grandmother’s memoir or my mother’s. There are so many questions I had yet to ask.

Keep a Journal

Personal journals that reflect your thoughts, feeling and observations of the world are a great place to build your writing chops. Commit to writing daily and carry a journal in your purse, so that when you are sitting in a park or having a cup of coffee somewhere, you can pull out your journal and write about the world around you. I like to think of this as “contemplative writing.”

No matter what kind of writing you choose to do, whether you pick one or dabble in several, know that the world will be a better place with your words and stories in it.

Also read, 3 Powerful Ways to Write Your Life Story.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Are you interested in becoming a writer? Which one of the seven writing ideas are you going to try first? Tell us in the comments.

“This is my greatest dream come true.”

Free? Say no more.

What exactly happened now?

Are you thinking about hosting a clothing swap party with your friends or neighbors? Having created clothing swaps in Montréal and Mexico, I’ve learned a thing or two on ways to bring people together for a lively, eco-conscious event that revamps your wardrobe on a budget. 

Read on and you’ll get easy-to-follow planning tips, simple guidelines, and age-friendly advice perfect for women over 50 who want a relaxed, fun-filled gathering.

What Exactly Is a Clothing Swap Party?

A clothing swap party is more than a simple exchange of garments; it’s a social event where friends bring gently worn items from their closets and trade them with one another. 

Imagine turning your living room into a mini-boutique, racks and tables filled with dresses, blouses, scarves, and accessories. 

Read more: “New” Old Fashion Trends.

Why Should Women Over 50 Consider a Swap Event?

A swap party lets you pass on pieces that no longer suit your style or fit, while discovering items that feel fresh and flattering. This approach supports sustainable fashion by extending the life of clothing, which helps reduce waste. 

Leaving with those “new-to-me” finds gives everyone a sense of having brand new items to create daily outfits.

How to Choose the Right Guests

Aim for a diverse group of 8–12 women in a similar age bracket whose styles overlap just enough to offer appealing options, but not so much that everything looks the same. If you invite too few, the selection feels limited; too many, and it can become overwhelming. In Montréal, I blended longtime friends with a handful of acquaintances. The result was lively conversation as they compared sizes, shared styling tips, and encouraged each other to try bold new colors and styles. 

Send digital invites via email or private social media group – to set the tone and request RSVPs so you know exactly who’s coming. I typically create a Facebook event and invite women who I think would be interested in participating, and I ask them to share with friends who would also enjoy contributing to the event. That way, discussions start well before the swap party day, and you can keep guests informed on the procedures and rules. 

Also, from this event invite, I ask for a few volunteers to help out on the day of the event. 

What Venue Works Best for a Swap?

Your home’s living room or a spacious dining area usually works well, as you need room for racks and tables, a mirror station, and seating. I’ve used community center rooms and local meeting spaces in Mexico when hosting larger swap meets. Summer swaps can be outside in the yard.

No matter where you host, ensure there’s good lighting so guests can see colors accurately and enough elbow room to browse without bumping into each other.

How to Set Swap Guidelines

Clear rules keep the event fair and fun. Common guidelines include:

• Item condition: Everything should be freshly laundered, free of stains, holes, or excessive wear.
• Item limit: Ask guests to bring no more than 7–10 items each, to prevent overflow.
• Tagging: Provide tags or stickers where guests write size, brand, and condition (“like new,” “good,” “needs minor repair”).

Having everyone follow the same guidelines means each find feels like a fair trade, and spirits stay high.

What Essential Supplies do You Need?

• Garment racks or sturdy folding tables for display
• Full-length and tabletop mirrors for quick try-ons
• Size/brand tags with pens and safety pins
• Reusable shopping bags so guests can carry home their finds
• Seating (a few chairs or a small sofa) for comfort
• Refreshment area (water, juice, coffee, tea, biscuits, or whatever else you want to offer) with napkins and serving dishes

Having everything in place before guests arrive means you can focus on visiting rather than fussing with setup.

How to Keep the Mood Lively

• Curated playlist: Assemble a mix of light jazz, classic pop hits, or French café tunes to create a relaxed atmosphere.
• Icebreaker prompts: Provide cards with fun prompts like “What’s the story behind your favorite piece?” or “Name a style icon you admire.”
• Swap challenges: Invite guests to style a swap find on someone else, snapping photos for instant style inspiration.

How Can I Personalize the Experience?

Add touches that reflect your life and travels:

• Seasonal themes: Host a summer swap with floral decor or a cozy fall swap with pumpkin-spiced refreshments.
• Style station: Partner with a local stylist or fashion student for mini consultations – five-minute makeovers can add a professional touch.

Event Procedures

Guest Arrival & Check-In

• Welcome each guest at the door and direct them to the check-in table.
• Have everyone hand over their tagged items (clean, gently worn, labeled with size and condition) to a helper or yourself.

Display & Organize

• Sort garments by category: tops, bottoms, dresses, accessories, and arrange them on racks or tables.
• Place shoes and small accessories on a separate table or shelf.
• Ensure there’s a clear pathway for browsing.

First Browsing Round & Swap Turns

• Announce the start of the swap and invite guests to take a round to check available items.
• Encourage a steady pace so everyone gets a chance to see the first picks.

• Call out swap turns in order of arrival or by drawing numbers.
• On each turn, a guest may select one item.
• Keep a visible swap board or list to track turns and avoid repeats.

Final Swap Round

• Resume swapping until each guest has taken their full quota of items.
• Offer a “wild card” second pick if extra items remain.

How to Handle Leftovers

I’ve found a three-pile system works best:

• Bonus round: A final unlimited swap for any remaining items.
• Donation: Good-quality pieces go to a local women’s shelter or charity shop.
• Recycling: Worn-out fabrics can be dropped at textile recycling bins or upcycle workshops.

I supply labeled bags for each category, so cleanup takes minutes. A final group photo of leftover items destined for charity is always a feel-good moment.

My Top Tips for a Successful Swap Party

• Communicate clearly: Send reminders about item limits and condition standards a week before.
• Encourage quality over quantity: Fewer, well-chosen items make for better discoveries.
• Allow extra time: If guests arrive late, extend the swap by 15–20 minutes rather than rushing.
• Document the fun: Create a simple backdrop (like a decorative sheet or hanging scarves) and take outfit photos to share in a follow-up communication.
• Follow up: Send a thank-you message with highlights – list what went to charity and include group photos to build excitement for the next event.

Leaving with “new-to-me” clothing and accessories is the best part. You get that fresh-wardrobe feeling without the price tag, and you’re giving preloved items a second life. 

Whether you’re in downtown Seattle or mixing it up abroad, hosting your own swap party turns closet cleaning into a festive affair, perfect for women over 50 who want to refresh their style, connect with friends, and support eco-friendly fashion. 

Read more: Finding Fashion Deals After 60: When Is a Bargain Not a Bargain.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

Have you ever hosted or attended a clothing swap? Do you have any other tips for hosting a successful clothing swap? I would love to hear all about it in the comments below.