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Ciara Miller’s Gold and Green Earrings

Posted by Admin01 | May 8, 2026 | Uncategorised |

Ciara Miller’s Gold and Green Earrings / Summer House Fashion Season 10 Episode 14

Ciara Miller lifts a huge weight off our shoulders when it comes to summer shopping. Whether it be an outfit or a stunning accessory, like her gold and green earrings on last night’s episode of Summer House. We found this style at a few places, but what we haven’t lost here is our ability to snag a similar pair of statement-making earrings below.

Best in Blonde,

Amanda

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*We just aren’t exactly sure where she got hers since we found similar a few places!

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Dara Levitan’s White Cutout Swimsuit

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Dara Levitan’s White Cutout Swimsuit / Summer House Season 10 Episode 14 Fashion

As I’ve stated before I now have a pool at my new house so def need to up my swimsuit game. And I am a sucker for one pieces so I of course loved the white cutout one that Dara Levitan wore on Summer House last night. It’s both modest and sexy which is always a good combo and I double dog Dara you to shop something similar for yourself.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Lindsay Hubbard’s Leopard Print Maxi Dress

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Lindsay Hubbard’s Leopard Print Maxi Dress / Summer House Season 10 Episode 14 Fashion

I agree with the chef on Summer House last night, Lindsay Hubbard does clean up nice! She looked stunning in her leopard print maxi dress for the Freedom Dinner Round 2. And we actually found it along with Style Stealers and thankfully so because we’d be lost if we didn’t have a dress like this ourselves.

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess

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Losing Confidence After 60? It’s Not What You Think

Posted by Admin01 | May 8, 2026 | Uncategorised |

Losing Confidence After 60 It’s Not What You Think

Somewhere after 60, the same moments start meaning different things.

A forgotten name becomes a warning sign. A tired afternoon becomes evidence. A pause becomes proof. A no becomes a limit.

Nothing about the moments has changed. The interpretation has.

A younger person misses a deadline and thinks, I messed up. A woman over 60 misses the same deadline and thinks, Maybe I’m slipping.

Same event. Different conclusion. And often, the conclusion is doing most of the damage.

Confidence Is Not the Absence of Doubt

We tend to think confidence means feeling certain. It doesn’t. Certainty is a feeling. Confidence is steadier than that. It’s the ability to trust your judgment, your perception, and your capacity – even when discomfort shows up.

Most of us weren’t more confident at 30. We were simply less bruised, less self-conscious, and living in a culture that still reflected possibility back to us.

What changes after 60 is not usually capability. It’s interpretation.

The same nervousness that once meant I’m learning now becomes I’m losing it. The same pause that once meant I’m thinking now whispers I’m slowing down.

The event hasn’t changed. The meaning attached to it has.

An Important Distinction

Not every loss of confidence after 60 is a distortion. Some changes are real. Processing speed can shift. Physical stamina can change. Ageism exists. Health concerns deserve attention, not denial. Persistent memory or cognitive changes should be discussed with a physician, not dismissed as “negative thinking.”

But much of the daily erosion in confidence I see has less to do with actual decline than with the interpretation of ordinary human moments.

After 60, normal experiences often get filtered through a narrative of decline.

Fatigue becomes weakness.
Uncertainty becomes incompetence.
Needing support becomes dependency.
One forgotten detail becomes evidence.

That lens changes everything.

The Distortions That Quietly Undermine Confidence

Psychologists have names for the mental shortcuts that distort perception. A few appear repeatedly in women over 60:

Catastrophizing

You forget why you walked into a room and immediately wonder if it’s dementia. One moment becomes a diagnosis.

Mind-Reading

A younger colleague seems distracted, and you assume she sees you as outdated. No evidence – just interpretation filling in the blanks.

All-or-Nothing Thinking

You can’t do something the way you once did, so you conclude you shouldn’t do it at all. The middle ground – differently, not less – disappears.

Emotional reasoning

You feel invisible at a dinner party, so you assume you are invisible. The feeling becomes the fact.

If any of these sound familiar, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re human – with a brain trying to protect you by predicting worst-case scenarios.

(For readers who want the science behind why interpretation shapes health this powerfully – across pain, diagnosis, and aging – I’ve written more about that in Beyond Positive Thinking: The Science of How Interpretation Shapes Health.)

The Body Speaks Before the Mind Explains

Uncertainty has a physical signature: a tight chest, tense shoulders, a flutter in the stomach before entering a room full of strangers.

Earlier in life, we often interpreted those sensations as I’m nervous or This matters. Later in life, many people start interpreting the same sensations as I can’t handle this anymore.

The sensation is the same. The interpretation changes.

The next time discomfort rises in your body, pause before naming it. Ask yourself:

Is this danger – or just discomfort?

Most of the time, it’s discomfort. And discomfort is not evidence of decline. It’s often evidence that something matters to you.

Feelings are messages. Actions are choices. Those two things are not the same.

What Actually Builds Confidence

Real confidence at this stage of life is not built through forced positivity or pretending fear away. It’s built through accurate seeing.

When something shakes your confidence, pause and ask:

What actually happened?
What evidence supports this fear?
What evidence contradicts it?
Am I reacting to reality – or to interpretation?
Is this decline, or simply discomfort?

These questions create space between the event and the story attached to it. And in that space, you regain perspective.

I’ve watched women in their 70s and 80s become calmer, clearer, and more grounded – not because doubt disappeared, but because they stopped treating every fearful thought as truth.

A Different Definition of Confidence

Confidence after 60 is not about becoming fearless. It’s about becoming less distorted.

Less ruled by catastrophic interpretation. Less controlled by old narratives. Less willing to mistake one uncomfortable moment for evidence of personal decline.

You have not necessarily lost confidence. More often, you’ve lost the habit of seeing yourself clearly beneath years of messaging, comparison, and accumulated fear.

That habit can be rebuilt. Not through reinvention. Through accurate seeing.

The woman you fear you are becoming is rarely the woman standing in the mirror.

The woman in the mirror has raised people, ended things, started things, buried people, kept going. She has been underestimated and overlooked, and she is still here – still deciding, still choosing what to do next.

That is not the résumé of someone in decline. That is the résumé of someone who has been quietly accumulating evidence her whole life – and forgot to read it back to herself.

Start there.

Let’s Talk:

What’s a moment you initially read as “I’m slipping” that turned out to be something else entirely — tiredness, distraction, or just being human? Share your story in the comments below.

The Valley Season 3 Episode 6 Fashion

Posted by Admin01 | May 8, 2026 | Uncategorised |

The Valley Season 3 Episode 6 Fashion

Last night The Valley gang left the valley for San Diego! The theme of the night seemed to be rollercoasters whether that be an emotional one or an actual rollercoaster- either way it looked like a time! And of course we tracked down some of the need-to-know looks from the episode so take a ride below to shop!