Month: May 2026

Back Pain That Comes Out of Nowhere? Here’s What’s Really Going On

Back Pain That Comes Out of Nowhere Here’s What’s Really Going On

“I bent over to pick up a pen and my back went out!” was a lament I heard many times from clients during my years as a personal trainer.

Here’s the thing: sudden back pain has most likely been simmering under the surface for months – maybe years – before it makes itself known. Like any “overnight success,” it’s almost never sudden.

You just never paid attention until now.

While weak back and core muscles seem like the obvious culprits behind your pain, it might instead stem from other, surprising causes.

It makes more sense when you consider that our bodies are composed of a kinetic chain – meaning all body segments are interconnected. Bones, joints, muscles, and nerves are linked together. One joint’s movements influences another, like pulling on a single thread in a piece of fabric.

Any disruption in one part creates a ripple effect through the rest.

Your spine isn’t acting on its own. It has accomplices.

When you acknowledge this, you’ll see how pain from picking up a pencil was actually backstage waiting for its spotlight.

It Starts at Your Feet

Back pain often starts from the ground up. Your spine compensates for foot instability all day long. Keeping in the kinetic chain concept in mind, it’s easy to see how, if your shoes lack support and cause your foot to pronate (roll inward) or supinate (roll outward), you’re more likely to feel it in your back.

The culprit: Wearing old shoes with compressed soles – or minimalistic shoes your body hasn’t adapted to can put your spine at risk with every step. Replace them every 300 to 500 miles or when they show signs of wear or unevenness.

Old Injuries

Injuries from spraining your ankle while playing sports or stepping off a curb in your 30s may be haunting you in your 60s. It may have unknowingly changed your gait to compensate. That compensation pattern could carry over into your 60s and cause back pain.

An appointment with a physical therapist may help correct imbalances with targeted exercises.

Weak Glutes

Long hours spent sitting can result in a syndrome known as (I am not kidding) dead butt syndrome – also known as gluteal amnesia. Too much time sitting can cause your glute muscles to stop firing on time, so hamstrings and your lower back pick up the slack. This common runner’s injury often causes pain during walking or standing.

Try this simple test to see if it may be behind your discomfort.

Overdoing Core Bracing

Bracing your core through exercises like planks helps protect your back. That’s a good thing. But like any healthy habit taken too far, it can backfire. Constantly pulling in your belly button and tightening your core muscles can be like over-tightening a screw – eventually it wears out.

Maintaining low-grade tension throughout the day can reduce the natural movement of your spine. It becomes fatigued, not stronger. Give it a rest, just as you would any other muscle group.

Poor Posture

Modern technology – sitting in front of computers and looking down at phones – has created a population of people with C-shaped spines. It’s worse if you wear progressive lenses that require you to constantly change your head position to see the screen.

Over time, this can cause back pain (and shoulder pain as well, which is a topic for another time). The Occupational Safety and Health Administration (OSHA) suggests placing your monitor directly in front of you, at least 20 inches away, with the top of the screen at or slightly below eye level and perpendicular to a window.

This changes your sitting posture and can ease back pain.

Your pain may be relieved with a simple walking shoe upgrade, an adjustment of your computer height, or easing up on core bracing.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What can you share about the state of your back? Do you think the pain culprit is elsewhere in your body? What solution have you discovered?

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Bailey Taylor’s Black Floral Long Sleeve Dress

Bailey Taylor’s Black Floral Long Sleeve Dress / Summer House Season 10 Episode 14 Fashion

Is it just me or have Bailey Taylor’s looks on Summer House stepped up?! I have been obsessed with them recently (so has Carl Radke apparently) and that also goes for the black floral long sleeve dress she wears on tonight’s episode. And thankfully you don’t have to Wonder where to get something similar because we have that for you below, obvi. 

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


Bailey Taylor's Black Floral Long Sleeve Dress

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Alicia Carmody’s Pink Striped Satin Bow Pajamas

Alicia Carmody’s Pink Striped Satin Bow Pajamas / Real Housewives of Rhode Island Season 1 Episode 6 Fashion

Alicia Carmody strolled into the drama the other night on #RHORI wearing this cute set of pink striped bow pajamas and it really felt right. I just wouldn’t expect any other print than this one because it really sums up her vibe perfectly. And I am very pleased that we found them in stock and at a very affordable price. 🎀

Sincerely Stylish,

Jess


Alicia Carmody's Pink Striped Satin Bow Pajamas

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Vigor, Resonance and Radiance – The Art of Living at Every Age

Vigor, Resonance and Radiance – The Art of Living at Every Age

Virginia once raced through the world like a woman with a personal vendetta against gravity.

Go-Go at Full Speed

In her Go-Go years, she was a force of high-stakes motion. Whether she was organizing a midnight rescue for a stray llama in the Andes or perfecting the art of “extreme gardening” by planting two hundred tulip bulbs in a single afternoon, Virginia lived at a relentless pace.

She believed a vacation was only successful if she returned with a passport stamp, a tan from a desert she couldn’t pronounce, and at least three new hobbies she intended to master by Tuesday. These were her years of full throttle, characterized by a seemingly inexhaustible vigor.

Slow-Go Downshifting

She then began to recognize the subtle change into what has been called the Slow-Go years, arriving as a natural downshift in her internal rhythm. It started with an exuberant appreciation for her new velvet ottoman. Soon, other small revelations followed.

She realized she preferred the rhythmic clicking of her knitting needles to the tactical nightmare of the annual block party, which she now recognized as a sport for the limber and the chronically caffeinated. She found herself opting for the audio tour (from a shaded bench) rather than the guided trek through the ruins. This stage felt like gentle coasting, the drive to excel outwardly loosening its grip.

She took up the leisurely art of the two-hour lunch. She traded her underwater camera for a set of professional watercolors, finding she could savor the curve of a single petal for longer than she used to spend navigating Paris’ Charles de Gaulle airport. She might still travel to a remote village in Provence, but instead of hiking to the castle at the top of the hill, she’d spend the afternoon interviewing a local baker about the existential properties of fougasse, the region’s sculpted sourdough. She was aging well by having invited time to settle into a humming resonance rather than trying to redline it.

No-Go Stillness

Eventually, the vibrant saunter of the slow years evolved into the No-Go stage. For Virginia, this was the most exotic chapter of all because it required the one thing she had spent a lifetime avoiding: stillness. She approached it with the same resolve she once brought to the peaks of Peru, and found it no less expansive.

She knew she had arrived when the perimeter of her world yielded to the size of her sunroom and back garden, yet felt larger than the Sierra Nevadas ever had. On the side table, a small woven textile from her Machu Picchu days sat near her tea, an endearing reminder of her earlier velocity. Aside from her beloved writing, music, cinema, and reading, an internal radiance would often grace her days, arising spontaneously or from reflections or memories. The stillness she had once feared had become her most faithful companion, a peaceful country she had finally learned to inhabit.

The Wisdom Carrier

Her spoken words and stories were becoming heirlooms now. Decades of family ritual lived inside her: the secret pinch of cardamom that saved the Sunday roast; the reasons behind the traditions no one else could quite explain; the long view of who her people were and where they had come from.

And it wasn’t only family who sought her out. Neighbors, friends, the younger people whose lives had brushed against hers over the years found their way to her home, drawn by something they couldn’t quite name. Virginia knew how to listen. When life presented them with its harder passages – the crossroads, the losses, the moments of doubt – she offered something steadier than advice: context. The assurance that things had been weathered before, that lives had bent and re-formed, that meaning often arrived after the fact.

She felt a curious anticipation for what lay beyond, and took heart in the wisdom of Italian film director Federico Fellini, who understood the surreal and beautiful flow of existence:

“There is no end. There is no beginning.

There is only the infinite passion of life.”

Virginia knew she would simply be moving through a gateway into the next mystery – and, characteristically, she was already tuned and ready for the ride.

Let’s Reflect Together:

Can you sum up your three stages: Go-Go, Slow-Go and No-Go? Which stage are you at right now and what do you love most about it? What is the reason to transition from one stage to another?

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Stop Using Concealer Like This After 60 (Instead, Do It Like This!)

Stop Using Concealer Like This After 60 (Instead, Do It Like This!)

Watching Instagram makeovers makes anyone think that applying 10 layers of product to your face turns you instantly into an ageless celebrity like JLo, Michelle Pheiffer, or, dare I say, Cher? Included in that process, are a few layers of under-eye concealer, powder, highlighter, and maybe a few other tricks to disintegrate any notion that you are human and have circles under your eyes.

As an over 60 makeup artist I can safely say this is hogwash. No matter what you do, you will have some circles under your eyes, unless you go in for eye surgery or injectables and even then you will probably have something under your eyes because it’s normal.

Having said that, most of us learned how to apply concealer years ago and are probably putting on way too much in the wrong place. The good news? A few small adjustments can make a remarkable difference for any mature woman who wants to look good but hide the darkness and puffiness we all have.

The Problem with Traditional Concealer Techniques

The biggest mistake I see is over-application.

It’s natural to think that more product will give better coverage, but on mature skin the opposite is true. Heavy layers of concealer tend to settle into fine lines, highlight texture, and create a dry, cakey appearance.

Another common issue is placement. Applying concealer across the entire under-eye area, especially over puffiness, can make the area look heavier rather than brighter.

A Better Way: A Simple 3-Step Method

Step 1: Use Less Product, and Place It Strategically

Here is my idea; instead of covering the entire under-eye, apply a small amount of concealer to the inner corner, where darkness is typically most noticeable. Then add only to dark bits on the outer edges and over the eye, but not as a glump under the entire area.

Lastly, avoid placing product directly on areas of puffiness if possible. This helps maintain a lighter, more natural look.

Step 2: Choose a Hydrating, Flexible Formula

As skin matures, hydration becomes essential in nearly every product you use. For example, cream eye shadows, blush, and bronzers blend well and hold up beautifully.

As far as concealers go, look for something that feels lightweight and moves with the skin. I’ve recently been testing a formula from Prime Prometics that offers a more flexible, hydrating finish, which can be especially helpful for minimizing creasing.

In general, it’s best to avoid overly matte or thick formulas, as they can accentuate dryness and fine lines, even when you have very hydrated skin.

Step 3: Blend Gently and Intentionally

Blending technique matters just as much as the product itself and only takes a little practice to get it right.

Instead of rubbing or over-blending, gently tap the concealer into the skin using your fingertip or a soft brush. Focus on diffusing the edges while keeping coverage where it’s needed most.

Remember, the goal isn’t to completely erase the under-eye; it’s to soften and brighten it.

The Result: A More Natural, Youthful Look

With this simplified approach, the under-eye area appears smoother, fresher, and more natural.

In many cases, using less product, and using it more strategically, can deliver better results than layering multiple products.

You’re Already Beautiful

In my humble opinion, we are not on this planet to look 12 years old our entire life. That’s completely insane. We are here to be ourselves and give our gifts to the world in the best way possible! Within that, it’s good to know how to cover up circles, age spots, and all the bits we’d rather not notice throughout our day. Remember that less is more and only add concealer where you need it.

Use the code THEBEAUTYSHAMAN for 10% off at PrimePrometics.

Let’s Have a Conversation:

What do you think about overly made-up celebrities? Do you use concealer in your makeup routine? Where do you place it and what result are you after?

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